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  1. Honestly I think lots of people probably use all their sex drive on porn. We know how big the industry is. Also my theory is that as people are waiting longer to have marriages and relationships, it gives them more time to feel like they need porn or casual sex, and when people get used to that, they are less likely to be turned on by normal sex with their partner because they are too used to getting turned on by other methods and potentially cant do it without strange fetishes. This isnt just about Japan btw.
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  2. This guy is really inspirational. I like how he had to start over and prove himself. He said it wasn’t easy but her never gave up on himself. I must remember that
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  3. This moment has been on my mind for months. Thank you for your input. I appreciate your thoughts on this.
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  4. That guy from Cameroon was good at integrating with Japanese people. A lot of people who move don’t become part of that country. So I applaude him and his family
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  5. i like the video because you bring an issue forward good job Mr. Nobita!
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  6. I'm not half but full japanese going from japanese to US citizen. The immigration has double standards. Everyone who works behind the counter implement his or her own guidelines. I was told pick one or the other not both. I said US. They told me your issued gaijin card. My brother who is retired US Navy was given both. My mom just became US citizen and she was surprised to be treated like a foreigner for a visit to go home. I hope they work on this matter more effectively and quickly to help out the dual citizen japanese.
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  7. 5:00 That's so sad but unbelievably ironic. He began having mental health issues, decided to take time off to better himself but was seen as a weird outcast by doing so; Thus perpetuating the cycle of isolation. The populace treat him as an outcast, yet THEY THEMSELVES are feeling just as bad as he is on the inside! People know they could easily end up like him, but due to the culture, they just ignore. THAT'S why depression is so prevalent in Japan. No one truly gets involved in other's lives and are just seen as cogs in a machine to better the whole. Human beings don't work that way, and it's killing you! Focusing on the human condition should be Japan's top priority for the next few decades.
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  8. Honestly living in Japan I don't want to be accepted as Japanese, I want to be accepted as myself. I think a lot also has to do of the perception of why you've come to Japan. I'm here as an engineer and get treated very well despite my broken language skills. My opinion is that if you are perceived to be helping Japanese society people will treat you very well. But that could be biased by the fact the company I work for has a lot of prestige associated with it. I will always be gaijin, but I feel like most people go out of their way to treat me better because of it. To be honest as an Irish American, I never get treated as Irish in Ireland. These issues are not unique to Japanese society, but the human condition.
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  9. Absolutely important to be aware of this side of the industry. When I watch porn, I want to be able to know that everything I'm seeing is 100% consentual. It's so scary and sad to think that so many women are coerced and suffer greatly as a result. Even if there's been improvements recently, there's definitely still work to be done. (Not just in Japan, but in adult entertainment the world over.) Massive thanks and respect for spreading awareness, and especially for providing resources for anyone who needs help. You're almost certainly saving at least a few lives doing that.
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  10. Thanks for the video, Nobita. I know a guy who just moved to Tokyo recently as a Christian missionary to Japan (Joe Pliska), but he is studying under a current missionary to Japan, because he still needs to learn more of the Japanese language. But the more experienced missionary and pastor there is Mr. Steve Carter, if you want to interview him. It's Akigawa Baptist Church (akigawabc) in Tokyo, if you want to check it out later.
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  11. As someone who also suffered from bullying, I am sorry to hear that Akiko-san had to go through bullying as well. I am glad that her experience was able to turn around and improve - she seems to have greater control over the trauma that bullying caused. Good for you Akiko-san. One point I want to emphasize: I feel it is unfair that bullies don't remember what they did or how it impacted others, but we victims have to deal with it over a longer period of time. Not fair at all. Finally, I totally agree with Nobita - my experience with bullying happened in Canada, so it is not just happening in Japan or Canada - it is something that people should work together to stop for future generations of children.
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  12. Recently back from Japan, engaging these services in the Tokyo region is pretty impossible as they are generally only accepting local guys, BUT else where in J land no issues - Just near Tennoji Station in Osaka the girls were yelling out for the business, Sapporo, Fukuoka and Nagoya no problems generally cash only.
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  13. English teacher in elementary school here. We teach whole classes (30 students) and we are told to teach them english but we try to make it fun so it is a positive memory for the kids. The prefecture I am in promotes us to have fun and try and talk to kids about sports/music/anime etc so the kids feel confidence. Our goal isn’t that they learn english, it’s that they are confident in speaking English. Above elementary, there isn’t much speaking going on so I can see why there is the gap.
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  14. WOW, WHAT A POWERFUL VIDEO!!! 🙏 A topic that I never really took time to think about!! As an American, this problem has gotten completely out of hand. Destroyed so many lives. As an inspiring professor in Japan, I think I need to be more sensitive to my student's personal needs and understand more holistically what many of them are challenged with in AND OUTSIDE OF THE CLASSROOM. I think this video and channel will help me become a better teacher and mentor. THANK YOU AS ALWAYS NOBITA!! ❤🇯🇵🗾
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  15. People in the comments, please don't oversimplify psychological disorders, a disorder has never been healed just by rationalising it
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  16. I gave up drinking years ago. Much better for it. Save the money and spend it on something fun that will benefit you in the long run, like good food or a hobby. Japan needs it's people to be clear-minded and healthy now, more than ever, as do we all.
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  17. Fantastic video. The first couple is so awesome and inspiring. I hope to have a relationship like that someday.
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  18. I’m a Japanese tho it’s not because of religions but it’s caused by Japanese personalities I mean Japanese is always avoiding the thing we’re not familiar with this is why bullying happens by the difference of the color of skin ,religions ,or life environment And I admit this is the one of bad asides of Japanese
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  19. And this, my friends, is how actually matured people handle issues relationship. I wish this kind of pragmatic open mindedness and willingness to communicate was a lot more common, not just in relationships but regarding any problematic situation. My heartfelt respect goes to these two and I wish them (and the boyfriend) the best. Thank you for making this video and keep up the great work, Nobita.
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  20. As a foreign woman living and working in Japan, it always feels like walking on eggshells when it comes to anything and everything I do. Personally, I have loved wearing makeup since my teenage years, and I would also like to experiment with makeup, but that's a big no-no here. In Japanese society, even wearing makeup feels like wearing a concrete mask. It's not something for self-expression, creative and playful ... It's only to conform and hide your imperfections. It's like a chore; it's boring, and for those who don't like wearing makeup, it might be exhausting too.
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  21. I like this lady. What wonderful takes.
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  22. A lot of good points. Having some friends working as English teachers in Japan, simply having a college degree is not enough for most positions. Especially better paying ones. Many recruiters also look for teaching certs, previous experience, conversational Japanese, and having a valid work visa. Dating is much easier in Japan than in my hometown of L.A. And I’m Latino. If you have great social skills, making friends and getting dates aren’t difficult. Working for a major Japanese trading company, knowing mannerisms is not too hard to pick up on. Most Japanese I usually interact with don’t expect me to be an expert at it either but always appreciate the efforts made. Keep producing great work Nobita! Refreshing video among the million super genki foreigner in Japan videos 🙂
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  23. "and nobita...sure these are all great-" Me: Awww he is soooo cute! Keep up the good work Nobita! :)
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  24. I went to Taiwan for the first time after years of hearing nothing but good stuff about it from friends and it truly does feel like a parallel world version of Japan dubbed in Mandarin/Hokkien. From the High Speed Rail (their 'Shinkansen') to the cities, many spots feel like Japan in the 90s, while also having lots of unique stuff too like their night markets. The people were all super nice and the food was awesome - and insanely cheap! Definitely recommend Taiwan!
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  25. It's nice to see the negative side affects of dating apps acknowledged. We also need to consider the male female ratio is going to be skewed despite only men having to pay to use it. Though maybe there isn't enough awareness and videos like this spread that awareness, so thanks for making this video 😌
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  26. While it's important to have awareness to show empathy to others and not repeat history, let's not hold children or grandchildren to the sins of their predecessors. It only helps repeat a cycle of anger and grief. We're all human beings in this world.
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  27. As someone who learn Japanese, I think it's obvious and even for native japanese speaker as well which is context. Japanese consists of words that have same pronunciations but different meanings so text really is important so people will not misunderstand by just listening which even native japanese struggle to understand by just listening. Take songs for example. Some japanese songs are too fast that it needs lyrics to be shown.
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  28. I don't tolerate cheating. Faithfulness and loyalty go both ways.
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  29. "going dutch" bursted me out laughing. I am Dutch and haven't heard this before, but it is so true haha. Maybe people won't be surprised if I say that, hopefully.
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  30. They have to remember when it comes to looks the interior beauty shines outward. Whether you’re a man or woman when you’re dating someone you might not be instantly attracted to the person, but when you learn about them and see their personality and it’s one you like what happens? He or she becomes more attractive to you.
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  31. I really recognized myself in her story !! I have ASD and I live in France. Although it might be easier to reach for help or speak about it, I have always been left out at school and have a lots difficulties fitting in. All societies needs to evolve for people being different !!
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  32. Hey!! If you wouldn't mind, I've been dying to learn more about the youth life in Japan. I know that kids typically are very independent, but I've seen pictures of kids staying out late, and I would love to know more. I'm not sure if you take video suggestions, but I would be very interested to learn more about the youth culture (middle school to high school) in Japan!
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  33. I'd imagine having similar politics and world alignment makes it easier to "trickle down" into societies and cultures. Good to see good unity between Japan and Taiwan.
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  34. I guess it all boils down to 2 points, money and freedom. Those are the 2 main concerns that give the people reasons not to have kids. But if our parents also thought the same then we wouldn't be here to say this at all 😄
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  35. I pay respect to the single dad who did everything in their power to make sure their child is happy and has a future.
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  36. i found your channel recently, and i love your content! if more and more people like you bring attention to the problems we have in our societies/world and discuss about them, people will start to think more and the world will slowly change in the right direction. keep up your hard work! <3
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  37. declining birth-rate, growing sexual services. and i heard junior and highschool kid are already in the industry... seggs is becoming a common thing in japan. i watched a video where there's this person asking multiple different japanese people where he asked "does doing skidibi with prostitute considered cheating?" it shocked me that most of the answer even from their own partner said "it's not" but going out with other person, holding hand and kissing does considered cheating. bruh
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  38. Your content never fails to fascinate and inform. Nobita, you are a journalist of the new age!
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  39. The USA has the same problem now and governments all around the world are gonna have to change their policies completely to get people to want to have children and get into relationships and they’ll probably have to give them incentives to do so.
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  40. The main girl seemed happy and cheerful. She's also very pretty and does her make-up well. I'm surprised, but also not surprised. You can't tell what problems people have just by looking at them, and people can get very good at hiding things to the public. I know from personal experience.
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  41. Mass college attendance deforms and deranges societies to an unbelievable extent. The worst thing about it is there is very little evidence indicating that college is "worth it" in terms of knowledge outcomes. In short, college has destroyed society and we don't even get any benefits from it. Industrial pollution is a way better deal - at least we get stuff in return. A very sad situation all around, and largely preventable on top of that.
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  42. Her history is really sad she just wanted a purpose to her life and somethin to fulfill her poor life. and also Nobita THANK YOU for one more actress to search hahah lmao!
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  43. Sounds to me that yet again, there is a conflict between culture and money.
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  44. "I found its often all about lack of communication", "I got into porn and my husband doesnt know about it" Call me naive because I have no experience with relationships, but why does every video about these type of topics with relationships in Japan just sound like... people literally don't talk to each other. They just got married, had kids and then they find out they dont actually like each other and don't actually fit together. I am honestly so confused anytime I watch your videos on these topics. Do these people just like... not communicate? How do you even get into a relationship with someone where these levels of trust or communicating with the partner are just completely by the wayside? It's really really sad, cause all of these issues would be a no-go for me, whats the point of being close and together with someone as your partner, when you can't talk about issues and find a way for both sides? I just get unnecessarily angry seeing these videos with both people in these relationships not being able to talk to each other WHILE THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND SHOULD BE ABLE TO CONFIDE IN EACH OTHER. Its so frustrating to watch, I swear to god. I cant listen to all these things they list after "im done as a women, he doesnt see me as a woman anymore", this sounds like its some anime level misunderstanding plot where the whole world is against these women because neither partner is able to speak to the other. And dont even get me started on stuff like "oh I wanted to get better at dealing with women, so I became a male prostitue". Im not judging him, he can do whatever he wants - but that sounds so weird to me.... Why is it always about getting into porn/satisfaction business over there..
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  45. As a person who has autism, I also feel the same way as she has felt. Although I have not learned much about "reading the air", I sometimes get distracted very easily or I tend to think of things of outside the box without meaning to hurt others or thought about it the second time. So in that sense I was rather feeling lonely because of my disability, and I tend to be alone most of my life because of it as well. I hope I can change that loneliness because I can act normal and hopefully I could get to travel to other countries if I can able to fix whatever I need to do on their social customs.
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  46. This is SUCH an important issue ! Thank you SO much for highlighting this problem. All three of my children are half Japanese and they always feel they are treading on thin ice with the passport issue. My kids LOVE Japan, speak Japanese, and will likely be living in Japan sometime in the future. With Japan’s plummeting birth rate, I think the government must step up to the plate and make the necessary changes to allow Japanese back INTO the country if they so choose. I think they should be ENCOURAGING immigration from their OWN NATIONALITY at the very least ! There are also those who have moved overseas and become citizens of other countries for various practical reasons (not the fact that they don’t love their homeland) Many of those (especially in the USA) will be retiring soon and will WANT to move back to Japan for the safety, convenience, and lower cost of living. These retired people (often with higher pensions and financial resources) who want to return to Japan will be bringing much needed economic benefit to the economy and perhaps a different perspective on foreign cultures. There aren’t many downsides to changing the law.
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  47. that job is maybe even more chaotic than a Japanese animator.
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  48. Nobita san, I really enjoy your POV on real live in Japan. This is a great and I believe honest source of information. Keep up the good work. Thank you!
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  49. Man, it's tough having to see how Japan is taking relationships and I know it's also becoming drastic outside of other countries including where I live. I get that a rare bunch could succeed in a sexless marriage, but having intimate sex might be what makes one partner understand each other in ways that they can't do such with others. It's cheesy to say this, but I do believe it's something sacred that yes it could be done with anyone, but it's meaningful when it actually means something important between two people that only they can truly get. To have a sexless marriage may bring the worst in themselves or the spouse and as a result could either bring doubt, hatred, and/or more negative emotions, feeling more like a shell instead of a somebody to them. A lack of communication is very telling from this segment and I feel it might not get any better. Hope I'm wrong on this, but thanks for spreading this out there, Nobita.
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  50. This was so refreshing to hear their perspective. I have lived in Japan for a couple years now and I get frustrated at times. I think it can be very easy to just get defensive and assume people have ill-intent. It's very tempting to avoid addressing yourself and blaming others.
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