Hearted Youtube comments on Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu) channel.

  1. It was such an honor to sit with you and help us all to break the cycle!!! Thank you for having me Lisa! ❤
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  2. 1. Put yourself in the position of a "social saviour" 2. Mentality shift: from "begging" to "offering". I have enough interest and conversations to give 3. Power of words: don't tell yourself "fake it till you make it". Don't prime yourself to be fake. Change words like "meeting" to "creative exchange". It's ok to say NO for social occasion. Have your Pre-Performance ritual. 4. Anxiety + anxiousness is a sister emotion of excitement. Reframing anxiety into excitement! Don't view your vulnerability as liability, it is powerful! 5. Initiate likability. From "How do I get people to like me?" into "How to like more people in this occasion? How can you impress me?" 6. Talk to VIPs: what's their passion project? Same applies to dates. 7. Learn to unapologetically say No. We are allowed to say No as our boundary without explanation. Or say no and offer an alternative. 8. Get rid of "Wonder woman" complex. It's ok to be not ok, it's ok to ask for help 9. Self-asses your attachment types: anxious, avoidant, secure, anxious & avoidant. Find out our love language 10. Let others fill in their wish-list: what do they need and want? Stay silent is the worst thing to do. Send people positive emotions
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  3. I have a career, but I don’t really care about it...but I’ve never wanted kids either (and I’m almost 45). I want to live simply and just help animals.
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  4. How could someone say she's ugly!!🤯 Look at that beautiful chocolate skin and beautiful face😍 and a beautiful mind too👍🏼
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  5. 1st time I see someone who looks like me being interviewed
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  6. In conclusion. We don’t pay enough attention to our gut’s feelings.
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  7. Boundaries are not mean / it is self-respect ❤️ great interview! 🥰
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  8. Make people audition to be close to you. Powerful
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  9. I’m a man and I think some of these points are actually applicable to love in general, you need to talk about what you want in a relationship, you need to understand people aren’t perfect, and you need to put in effort. This applies to everyone and both partners need to do this.
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  10. She's authentic; focusing on being her best self and her goals, rather than what others think. There is no other way to live, in my opinion. Way to go! Excellent job by the interviewer as well!
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  11. To put it metaphorically: A boundary is a gate you place in front of another person with a written sign on it that says:" The price of passing is your change in behaviour. No change, no admittance."
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  12. we are trained from birth to feel insecure, our society needs to change.
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  13. If he doesn’t naturally respect you, dump him. Let some other woman take him to school
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  14. Insanely strong person. Her attitude is everything and it was probably 90% of her achievements and success. Great job Lisa and her team for this guest.
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  15. If Sherlock Holmes and Donatella Versace had a daughter ♥️
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  16. I love that she transformed her childhood “fighting” spirit into a career and lifestyle... there are so many young fighting spirits that unfortunately, never figure that out 💪🏽
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  17. Thank you so much for having on. And much appreciation for all who took the time to watch!
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  18. What an AMAZING woman! This is beautiful, just like whoever is reading this comment :) -Josh Otusanya
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  19. The biggest thing is to not care about what other people think about you. Confidence is everything, working on mine.
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  20. She is the goddess of Badassery. She is my absolute role model. Love the fact that we are getting one more video from her. YAYYY 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
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  21. I love hearing her speak. She’s so authentic, intelligent, beautiful, and down to earth! I love that she has a little more grit or more “real” personality then Jay. She really is vulnerable with her imperfections but strong in speaking about them. It must not be easy being under the pressure of being Jay’s wife and who “she needs to be.” But she is so beautiful, articulate, and real! I love her!
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  22. My take home lesson is that I need to trust myself to be okay if the other person does hurt me. My number one job is to look after me. I've had me through the best and rough days of my life and I owe it to myself to take care of me!
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  23. Just finished reading Evy`s book "Bulletproof". What a book and what a woman! Pure inspiration!
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  24. Don't ask, "How do I want this person to feel about me?" but rather, "What is the outcome I want from receive from this interaction?"
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  25. Radhi actually means Beauty in Tamil.. and she is such a beauty inside out!...I'm a fan of Jay Shetty but now even more of a fan of his wife...God bless this beautiful couple!
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  26. You’re Jay in female form. Hahaha perfect couple
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  27. I just love this interviewer. It's rare to find one that actually listens and let the other person TALK.
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  28. This woman is so powerful. Her self control, her emotional maturity, capacity to communicate, social grace and even down to her knowledge of the importance of knowing yourself... she’s the entire package. This is the kind of woman I want to see more of.
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  29. I was just explaining this to my brothers! 😆 women know when something is wrong for them but they aren't taught how to believe in that instinct because they hear "you're just being emotional" so often growing up. So they second guess themselves and get caught in bad situations because they don't know how to trust themselves
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  30. "Stop fighting yourself and start fighting for yourself" - this quote had me lit up all day. So moved by this episode!
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  31. Hands down to the interviewer for letting the interviewee talk. 🙌🙌🙌
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  32. I could watch for hours these Two Friends talking together…
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  33. Be yourself and don't apologize for it all the damn time!
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  34. I also like that neither of you cut each other off while the other is speaking!
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  35. You don’t learn anything when things are going right. You learn when things are hard.
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  36. Lisa + AMAZING Women of Impact team thank you so much for having me! This was an amazing chat.
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  37. This should be put in a pre-high school programma, first mandatory for teachers and then all kids at the brink of that major coming of age! Wonderful and healing!!!
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  38. "I realized that I was so damn lazy" 😂 One of the most relatable statements! I am so glad she is back, she is so real and amazing ❤🌹
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  39. This was a great episode. All of this also holds true for manipulative women. Beware of women that want to be your instant best friend, that seem to good to be true, that make you feel instantly amazing and come on a bit too much too fast. There are no short cuts to lasting friendship. Slow it down and see if they are still the same in six months. Beware if there is zero disagreement and everything you tell them is "Oh, me too.". Let people show you who they are with their actions and not tell you who they are with their words. Grounded people don't need to tell you who they are.
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  40. My heart broke when she talked of being in the bath trying to see if her skin was lighter underneath because she felt dirty 😭 what an ugly world we live in that someone, especially a child feels like that. Look what she created herself to be... gorgeous, giving, gracious, grateful and beautiful inside and out!! Wonderful inspirational interview, thank you 💕💕
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  41. I looooove the fact that the interviewer is so professional and polite. There are some that interrupts so much that makes me uncomfortable to the point I give up watching. Thankfully, this girl has the talent. Congrats! 🇧🇷
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  42. Cheating is a lack of self-love and self-respect. We must do the inner work and continuously walk the path of self-development and spiritual growth to live a harmonious life with one another ✨🙏
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  43. I really needed to hear this (as a woman in tech). I love Evy's response : "yea! I'm the only woman. Good job me!".
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  44. "Violence is an insecure way to fight." - Evy I keep trying to put this down and listen in thr background but I can't!!!!
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  45. One thousand times yes
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  46. They need to address this with high school age students!
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  47. Also, Maya Angelou & Oprah said it first - when someone tells you who they are, believe them.
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  48. If every human , men and women, could communicate the way Matt does, this world would be such a better place. Thank you Lisa for this great interaction.
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  49. "what good is it to be a public success but a private failure" that is so so so important! amen siStar!!
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  50. omgoodness 8 mins in and I am floored. Whether you own a business or are in some or work scenario, this totally applies. 1. Humble yourself and ask for help 2. You are beautiful or handsome :) 3. Forgive yourself and forgive others 4. Wealth is not just about money and material possessions. Wealth is about well being in every area of our lives 5. Take care of your vessel. The fifth pilar - take care of your body now. Sacrifice now, go to bed early, wake up early, hit the gym, eat better 6. Support other people. Relationships are important 7. Be present 8. What good is it to be a public success but a private failure...wheeeww Nah this woman is dropping too many bombs 9. The space pillar...clutter is the physical manifestation of chaos in your mind! Get organized 10. Exercise the saving muscle regardless of how much you make or save. No more excuses 11. Words are powerful. Be mindful to use positive words for your life. Focus on what you want. Hold on, pause, this is coming too fast. rewind back to point 5 (@ 27 mins) 12. Let go of bad habits. Build good habits. Who are you becoming. Claim your goals 13. Be ready and willing to downsize or sacrifice to meet the goals you have set for your future. 14. If you are single whoo hoo, you can do this, if you are married, Communicate, communicate, communicate 15. Celebrate milestones and enjoy life as much as you can. 16. Hmmm the Brag binder - save the thank you emails, performance reviews, acknowledgements, thank you cards to read when you need a boost and for negotiations 17. Do not compromise your values and your voice for money. Please add your points or what you got from this amazing interview.
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