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  1. So basically, as a gifted kid, I skipped the tutorial because it felt too easy. Then the actual game threw curveballs at me
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  2. This can be a blessing and a curse, there's a thin line between being highly reflective and constantly worrying
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  3. The world needs more healthy conversations about sex, this was a great video
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  4. To the paralysis - I’m not sure if this is a common thing - for me, say it’s 10 o’clock and I have an appointment at noon, I get stuck in this frustrated head space where I don’t know what to do with the time because it feels like not enough time to start a task but too much time to not do anything.
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  5. Brain rot has made it to healthy gamer
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  6. Thanks again Dr. K
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  7. This feels like one of those things that you've always known internally but had never heard it layed out and explained so well.
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  8. This is the first argument against weed I can actually respect as a stoner.
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  9. As a person who is on the spectrum and transgender, this is what I think about why they’re linked. Gender is very social, and if you struggle socially you can struggle with the social aspects of gender. If I never had to socialize with others, my gender would be irrelevant. In many ways my gender identity feels more like an inconvenience, at least to me. Why does my gender have to determine favorite colors, job preferences, and hobbies? For me this is how I feel.
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  10. The best analogy I ever heard about ADHD was, "Imagine that you're trying to count money, but several people are standing behind you saying numbers."
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  11. Talking to you was great Dr. K, although Id like to apologize for that brutal mana drain haha
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  12. I have never felt so attacked by a YouTube title, period.
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  13. I can't believe I just watched a psychological analysis on gooning
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  14. Shoutout to all of us with ADHD that paid attention to the entire 35 minute discussion
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  15. Mad respect for this guy for coming and talking with Dr K. Im sure this conservation helped many people.
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  16. Thank you Dr. K for the opportunity 🙏
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  17. The tech addiction has been a real struggle. These dark and cold winters definitely don’t help things.
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  18. Not to brag, but I clicked on this video instead of adding it to watch later like all the others, so I’m basically already a doer 😏
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  19. watching Dr K talk about dopamine detox is my dopamine
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  20. Thank you for being one of the few people online that tell us to learn and master our emotions instead of saying to put them away
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  21. :)
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  22. I have a theory that journaling is "Rubber Ducky Debugging" but for yourself. There's a code debugging method, called "Rubber Ducky Debugging" - when a programmer is stuck on a problem with their code, they will take a rubber ducky and start explaining what the code does to it, line by line, assuming (rightfully so) that the rubber ducky knows nothing about programming. When they see that what they say doesn't match with the code, or when they struggle to explain something, they now know that's the part they have to dig deeper into. I think this happens with journaling, too. The journal is your rubber ducky, and you're telling it your side of the story, but then you feel like maybe it doesn't know something you assume to be obvious so you clarify things to it, and you add disclaimers, and you struggle to word things that you might feel deep down are not right (like it's always being *them/people*, for example). So you start changing that. And then the code works :)
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  23. I love the interviews with “ordinary” people. Even when the experiences are wildly different, there is always something relatable. Thank you for sharing.
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  24. I feel like OP's insecurity is less about not having sex and more about social validation: i.e. the idea that no one wants to have sex with him because he's not good enough, or otherwise undesirable as a person. That feeling is FAR worse than the lack of physical pleasure.
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  25. Least expected and most appreciated crossover ever
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  26. One small thing that really changed my life is the concept of non-zero days. Meaning you do at least one thing per day towards your future goals. i.e. working out, doing school work etc. You do AT LEAST one thing a day, with NO exceptions. Over time you will develop momentum and discipline and before you know it you're unstoppable. It's all in the baby steps you take to get there.
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  27. My grandpa called it 'Tender hearted syndrome'. He told me before he passed that life is going to be hard for me because I had tender hearted syndrome. Later on I was diagnosed with BPD. You are the first person I have listened to that described it well. I had a lot of trauma growing up. Therapy really helped. I'm coming off of my meds now because I am stagnating in therapy. I need to feel them to move forward. Healing is possible. Hard. Oh it is so hard. But I believe it will be worth it.
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  28. Respect to these guys, that takes balls.
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  29. Key Takeaways: 1.) "How to get people interested in you?": You don't. You need to present yourself as who you are, and if they're interested in you then they'll let you know. Authentic you = Best version of you. To quote someone I saw in chat: "Authentic = Big Chad Energy". 2.) "How to turn small talk into free-flowing conversation": General Rule of open-ended question followed by investigative response, while making your intentions known and fully clear. Allow yourself to adjust to the flow of the conversation. If they respond well to a flirt, keep going. If they don't, then don't be afraid to back off. 3.) Actually try to get to know the person. You want to actually date them, right? Dating someone involves knowing things about them. Engage in topics you both relate to, and ask open-ended non-confrontational questions to allow the other person to show their true self (going back to Takeaway 1). 4.) Don't be afraid to be honest; Be authentic! If you want to strike a conversation with someone, but can't find a way to begin the conversation, just start talking. Don't force an introduction when you had to think about how to say it for the past 30 minutes. . 5.) Respect boundaries, but also have confidence. Going back to takeaway 1 and 4, be authentic and clear with your intentions. If they say yes, or allow you to have a second chance, take it. But if they say no and continue to say no, then respect that. 6.) Understand that even if they say no, you gave the other person the gift of feeling wanted by another human being. That's a pretty awesome gift to give. "As long as you're not cringe about it" - Dr. K
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  30. I’m 26 and feel this so hard. Never had a girlfriend, never had a “real” adult job, and I’m going to grad school now because my bachelors degree got me absolutely nothing valuable. Most of my male cousins and friends around my age are already married and/or have kids, and often I feel like an overgrown teen boy. Yet somehow, I’m optimistic for the first time in my life. I’ve finally accepted that I spent my youth being a perpetual screwup because I was too scared to face reality. Self sabotaging is an addiction that I am still training myself to overcome.
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  31. Hey guys this is Mini! I just wanted to say thank you so much for the overwhelmingly nice comments and feedback. It's really nice to hear that my story helped people out there. Also, if Dr.K is seeing this by any miraculous chance, I wanted to thank Dr.K for having me on the interview as well. You're so cool Dr.K :D This is going to be a long comment, but I just wanted to clarify a few things that I said on stream. 1. I do have a door, and the long curtain thing is just covering a long window I have next to the door. Maybe I'll change the curtains to pink ones in the future :3 2. I don't stream, but I'm thinking about it. Maybe in the future? who knows :P 3. I was extremely nervous this interview, so if I say um or kinda a lot that's just my defense mechanisms kicking in. 5. As for what I said about my brother, all I can say is that we have a complicated relationship. I care about him and love him, but he's done some pretty terrible things to me in the past that I'm still trying to heal from. After years of villainizing him, I started to realize only this year that he's just human and didn't mean to intentionally hurt me. I'm going to try to make amends with him as much as I can, and try to move on from the hurtful past and focus on building a better relationship with him. I don't really want him gone. I just wanted the pain to be gone, and I'm glad Dr.K has helped me realize that. As for how he's doing, I can't speak in place for my brother. But I convinced my parents to get him therapy help four years ago (which he still has today) and he now has a community around him that he feels as though accepts him more. And that's all I can ask for of him. 6. I love my parents. It may not seem like it from the way I talk about them in the video, but they genuinely care about my brother and me. They genuinely care for our dreams, and does everything they can to support our passions. They helped us get mental help when I requested for it, and slowly came to realize that we really needed it. My parents have said hurtful things to both me and my brother that we are still trying to heal from. I can't deny that. But what I can do is acknowledge it, try to understand, heal from it and forgive on my own terms. I hope that you guys can see that they are not the villains. They have their own hurt and their own stories, too, and was just trying their best. That's all. Whoever's reading this, I hope that you have a wonderful and healing day :) Signed, Raid Boss Mini
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  32. Everytime Scarra smiles, a flower blooms somewhere.
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  33. Relatable for a god gamer like me.
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  34. This fucking guys uploads are always impeccably timed with my real life experiences
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  35. By transforming my awkwardness into having fun while talking, and by simply loving the people I'm interacting with, I found that being awkward tends to stop
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  36. I'm 1000% sure that the next video title will be my address.
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  37. I was crying the whole way through. It felt like the first time that (despite having a clinical diagnosis) a medical professional actually understands the struggles I deal with and actually validate those struggles. Thank you for doing what you do.
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  38. We got Dr.K Gooning before GTA 6
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  39. "Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the only antidote for shame." -Uncle Iroh
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  40. This is easily going in the top 5 HealthyGamer interviews
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  41. "People hate virgins, they used to sacrifice them to the gods" LMAO
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  42. You actually just described so much of why I am depressed. I never draw anymore because I just am too tired or unmotivated. I'm passionate about it but can never get myself to do it anymore. I do the bare minimum to get by and struggle with basic daily tasks and chores.
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  43. i am speechless, years of therapy not finding an explanation, at least 6 therapist... and in 45 mins you just explained ME to me. OMG thank you.
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  44. Dr K. Thank you. I was so close to giving up and ending my life and one day one of your videos popped up and I watched it. A little over 1.5 years later and I’m the happiest I’ve been since I was a child. My life has turned completely around and I don’t know where I’d be right now if I didn’t press on that video. Thank you
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  45. I'm analyzing the video's title and thumbnail to decide if I'll watch it now, later, or not at all. Will keep you guys updated
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  46. CodeMiko: *Gets emotional and leaves* Dr. K: *Literally T-poses* 50:05
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  47. The problem with most modern games is that they rob you of challenges that require problem-solving . When you are no longer confronted with such things, you automatically become bad at it
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  48. Like Dr. K said, I think it depends on the person. Some people need to develop self-love first because their internal shame and low value is keeping them from moving forward in life. And for others, changing their external circumstances can lead to them finding a sense of value. It’s like a chicken and egg problem.
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  49. Based on his wiki Dr. K battled video game addiction during his undergrad from 2000-2003, then overcame it in India. He later finished his undergrad in 2007. At 28, he started his medical degree in 2010, which he completed by 32-33 in 2014, marking a remarkable comeback and success story. Even mentors can be “behind in life.”
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  50. It's like your video's are coming at a time where i've been more addicted to my phone than ever.
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