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  1. We don’t walk away to teach people a lesson. We walk away because we have learned our lesson…. Ghost.
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  2. I agree. Around 40 is when I finally woke up to the fact that no one outside of God and my parents really care about me. It’s the truth and it’s liberating because all those years of trying to get approval of others has stopped.
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  3. When I was 20 I was concerned about what others thought of me. When I was 40 I learned not to care what people were thinking about me. When I turn 60 I realized that no one was thinking about me in the first place.
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  4. Remember my friends the system is not broken and cannot be fixed, the system is working just as intended and needs to be destroyed.
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  5. I’m 46 years old and feel like I have not lived. I have been a servant to everyone else. Working hard for their happiness. It’s time for me to find my happiness….
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  6. "Being alone is not all that bad, being with people that make you feel alone is the worst" - Robin Williams
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  7. What it took me 25+ years to learn 1. Quit selling yourself cheap and know your value. Value your time. Time is finite. Give time to things that serve you. 2. Men have to create and provide inorder to feel useful and needed. Create and provide , and build something of value. 3. Men and women need each other. 4. Learn how to take advise. 5. How you spend your time, is how you spend your life. 6. Gratitude will create true happiness.Gratitude with the act of giving creates a cycle of happiness that will grow. 7. The most productive thing you can do is nothing. Take your time to reflect, rest and relax. 8. A Perfectionist is somebody who makes excuses for procrastination. Perfection is an impossible goal, no situation will ever be perfect. Perfection is a thief of success. 9. You can only control your feelings, you are not responsible for other people's feelings. 10. You can not change someone else's mind. You can only present your perspective. Thank you Chad. I appreciate you. We need to create value.
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  8. My wife died at home in my arms when I was 36. 3 months after our second baby boy was born we also had a 1 1/2 year old boy too. I tell ya, it took quite an amount of strength to maintain and take care of our two boys . Drag myself awake after hang over and hang over . But here we are, my boys are just being boys and grandma watches them while I work. Life hasn't really moved in any expected fashion, but we're here, and their daddy is home every single night with them to always make sure they're safe. I've turned 41 now. Of all the events in life , losing her was the hardest thing, I am tough as fucking nails tho, and I will provide and care and love those two kids for as long as God allows me.
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  9. I’m old enough to remember life before the cell phone, it was better. I’m also old enough to remember life before 24 hour news, we had the nightly news at five and that was it, the rest of the day was yours and yours alone. I missed that.
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  10. 1. Nutrition 2. Employers Don’t Care About You 3. Invest Your Money Into Your Future(real estate/stocks/etc.) 4. Take Your Risks 5. Bars Are Always Going To Be Open(Say ‘NO’) 6. You Don’t Have To Prove Anything To Anyone 7. Create Good Memories(Focus Less On Stuff) 8. You’ll Notice The Benefits From Taking Risks and Facing Your Fears(Investing In Your Future) 9. Life Is About Helping/Giving To Other People 10. Be Teachable
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  11. I'm 61. I have always just wanted to help people. I feel for people. But I have no friends. No one likes me. I feel so alone. My 5 children don't even want to have anything to do with me.
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  12. Most people don't really care about you in the first place. Walking away won't make them miss you, but it will show you who doesn't care.
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  13. My grandpa lived to around 96. He said that the best 20 years of his life was from 50 to 70. That is just so amazing to know.
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  14. Being a truly good person is a sign of strength, I would rather be strong than popular
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  15. Don't make people a priority ... who make you an option...
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  16. The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book 25 Money Secrets From Donald Trump speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
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  17. " being good is an act of rebellion" .. very powerful truth!
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  18. Never give away your peace to anyone who wants to leave you in pieces.
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  19. War vet here. I didn't let combat turn me into a monster. If I can overcome that pain and anguish, I think anyone can be a good person. Never be afraid of change.
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  20. They really hate it when they see good people because they automatically think that the good person never went through any pain in life.
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  21. The food system, the medical system, the religious system, the education system…what a shame, humans.😅
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  22. Sadly this includes adult family. Very important message.
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  23. As a 2000's baby, I really am enjoying seeing more and more dudes in their 40's and 50's and older embracing what social media SHOULD be used for, and having the courage to post that first video. These videos are what our people need right now. We need good men to show the boys of our generation what they should strive for. I want to become a man that can create opportunities for the people I care about Thank you for taking the time to talk with us sir
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  24. “Time is the most valuable thing we have.” Most people never ACTUALLY learn this.
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  25. I came to realization that nobody cared about me and accepted it. It lifted the weight off my shoulders.
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  26. Less is more. The less you spend around toxic humans, the more you become
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  27. My hardest goodbye's were to people I loved. They drained me. I needed peace. I'm 60 now, and I have no time for their drama.
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  28. At 60, I have decided to become a hermit and live alone. I get a lot of peace that way.
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  29. After 40 I walked away from a 13 year relationship & marriage for my own peace. & lost friends of 30+ years when I gave up the booze & realised I was under valuing myself my whole life. Thank you so much for you time to it into these videos & also showing up you are helping myself & I’m sure lots more🤜🤛
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  30. Been introverted my entire life. People drain me and then I have to refuel. I love the outdoors and solitude. Gardening and my chickens.
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  31. I was extroverted until about age 40. It was then I received shock after shock through betrayals, bullying at work, and threats of violence from persons I thought were friends. It changed me. I enjoy my own company and time with God. People horrify me
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  32. Saying “NO” gets easier as one ages. 👍❤
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  33. The lies drive me crazy . I live offgrid . Work only when I need . I try to enjoy life today . I do enjoy life today.
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  34. Ghost - Hits Home - Thank you - Wife passed, Sold everything, started traveling throughout the world, loss 15lbs - Starting a new life - Alone again naturally
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  35. Cut my cable and rarely watch TV anymore. Used to be a huge fan of football, especially the National Football League (NFL). Then I learned the NFL is just entertainment (not real football). Talk about finding out you've been lied to! Now, I realize how much free time I have and have had all along. I still work but the weekends seem longer, and I devote my free time to self-improvement, getting to know Jesus more, getting a good nap in every now and then, learning something new, cooking healthy meals at home instead of eating out, and keeping in touch more with family and friends. I cannot express how much of a positive life change this is just by eliminating cable.
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  36. I'm not normal. My parents taught me to be frugal. I retired from a great job. Home is paid. Vehicles bought with cash. Never lived above our means. I praise God every morning for clean water, food, and a home.
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  37. I'm 65, I've worked out since I was a teenager. I do a lot of things alone because I liked certain things like hunting and fishing growing up and I never stopped. My hobbies became part of my life and still are. There were times I'd hit the gym at 5am to get a workout in. Discipline is the key to staying true to yourself and happiness. I'm always learning and reinventing myself as I age. I'm confident that I can do anything I decide to persue with or without someone. Experiment in life. Never be afraid to change because it is scarey just realize it starts with you one step at a time. I've lived a great life and anyone can. Do what makes you happy and move in that direction. Take chances. As long as you believe in yourself you'll win.
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  38. I used to be depressed when I woke up to all the lies. But now, it's liberating. At least I know what's going on, and can act accordingly.
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  39. Midlife. 42. Starting to feel it too. We are in this together, brothers. 🙌🏽
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  40. Yeah. My house is my sanctuary.
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  41. In 2016 I made the decision to live the last 1/3 of my life doing what I love and being able to enjoy every summer to its fullest. I was already saving and investing. From that year, I begun saving/investing 65% of my net salary. In late 2019, I left the corporate world and moved to a beautiful Greek island and never looked back. It turned out that it was one of the two best decisions of my life. The other one, was to leave a long-term relationship where I was not appreciated and growing. Folks, our most valuable asset that we have control is our TIME. Last week I was enjoying an amazing sunset and literally broke into tears from joy and gratitude. Wishing everyone the very best!!
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  42. I'm in my mid 40s, wheelchair bound, schizophrenia diagnosis, and congestive heart failure. Yet I refuse to give up. I may not have much money and have to live with my parents in the suburbs of a metroplex. But I keep reading about crazy science, tech, and medical advances happening almost every day. It's very possible I could have something like a robot home health aide in 15 years if I keep on keeping on. After surviving 25 years of schizophrenia and 3 years of congestive heart failure and limited mobility, I've survived too much to cash out now. I'd love to stick around for a while, if for no other reason just to see what advances happen next. Heck, even my older brother owns a self-driving Tesla. I love your channel. I'm a recent new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
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  43. When you do you, the right people show up.
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  44. People seem to have forgotten how powerful they are when they united. In the uk the government raised petrol prices. The motor group of millions of people got together and stop filling up their cars only for 24 hours. There was an apology from the government and they announced they removed the extra taxes on petrol. They begged people to please carry on using petrol. Together we are stronger hence why the government is dividing us into race , sexuality, etc. They don’t want us to be one supportive group it be to dangerous for them make us uncontrollable. Stop consuming for unnecessary things and they will lose power.
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  45. 40 is when you start to really understand that you're on your own. I've learned not to overthink and its liberating.
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  46. Ghost. Just turned 70. Don't use a cell phone, don't have any payments. Small farm on the river. Cut my own firewood and process it. Hobbies are blacksmithing, which is what my Dad did. Wood carving as well. My guilty pleasure is this youtube thing. Good advice, all.
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  47. Im 24 and I swear I remember being a freshman in high school thinking it was going take forever. I graduated in 2018 it’s been over 6 years now but it’s 💯saying time goes by faster the older u get
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  48. Letting go of people who you love with all your heart but who are toxic is one of the most courageous acts we can do in the name of self-love and self-preservation.
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  49. “I don’t know what the key to success is .. but the key to failure is trying to please everyone “
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  50. I appreciate this so much. Growing up in the 70's and 80's my family went "visiting", that's what they called it, almost every weekend. We loaded up in the car and went to various relatives or family friends and stayed for hours. We ate, the adults talked around a kitchen table and the kids all played. Great memories.
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