Hearted Youtube comments on Chad Lisonbee (@ChadLisonbee) channel.

  1. 71-year-old black woman here, and this channel is a breath of fresh air. I just hope we all pay attention and wake up. šŸ’„šŸ’ÆšŸ’„
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  2. Am 58 retiring next year but the thought of retirement gives me weakness. My apologies to everyone who have retired and filing social security during this time after putting in all those years of work just to lose everything to a problem you never imagined to happen. Itā€™s so difficult for people who are retired and have no savings or loved ones to fall back on.
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  3. Buy the time they realize they want you back. You dont want to come back..
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  4. Turning 19 in a couple days. this video just confirmed for me everything I need to be doing to set up my future. Everyone around me tells me to stop working so hard and focus on the ā€œcollege experienceā€ while they get shitfaced multiple days a week. Everyone around me tells me itā€™s unrealistic and too much to try and buy a rental property in 3 or 4 years. Of course I will enjoy being young, but your advice makes me realize that those aspirations are the things that will set me apart.
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  5. Man... it's been incredibly lonely waiting for others to wake up... Thank you ā¤ļø
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  6. Someone told me during the pandemic: The good people will continue to get better and the bad people will continue to get worse.
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  7. If you arenā€™t setting boundaries because youā€™re afraid that might cause conflictā€¦ youā€™ve already lost.
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  8. I agree. I am 72 and over the last 20 years I have just quietly turned and walk away. Both with friends and relatives. I hate drama and people invent it just for thier own entertainment. So peacefull without them.
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  9. The comments are just as good as this video .
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  10. I heard someone say ā€œyouā€™re either being used or you are useless ā€œ and that really stuck with me. People are awful
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  11. The only person who cares about me is my 4yo little daughter. šŸ˜¢ Sheā€™s the best. And I know this wonā€™t last.
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  12. I live in a small town in Denmark and here itā€™s customary to smile and say hi to people you pass when walking. You never know, it might be the only friendly thing that person has seen all day. ā¤ļø
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  13. Since the pandemic, I avoid people. Learned all I needed.
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  14. True story. My terrible headaches stopped when i walked away from toxic family and friends. It was spiritual. It was needed. Not easy but do it FOR YOUā¤
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  15. Peace. I need to protect my energy. Some people are energy vampires.
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  16. I miss the good ol days when people were friendly, when family was family, when work paid decent, when rent was cheap. Now people stare at their phones to socialize, sad.
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  17. I never understood why my dad didnā€™t have really any friends. Now Iā€™m a dad and I totally get it.
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  18. Humanity is finally waking up. Hallelujah!
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  19. Peace! I'm 80 years old and I have learned to value my peace!
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  20. They hate when you leave because they donā€™t a punching bag.
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  21. I have 3 people who care about me, me, myself, and I. Nobody ever calls me to ask how im doing, and im ok with that, now. Ive just come to the realization that i just need to concentrate on my health and finances and appreciate what i have. Anyway, I hope everyone is well. Take care šŸ˜Š
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  22. Talking about manipulation, cue the upcoming Christmas season and the mindless spending on unwanted junk/gunk.
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  23. We have been lied to about history, science and religion.
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  24. There's nothing better than looking poor but being wealthy.
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  25. 90% of my family. It's pretty sad, but, it is what it is.
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  26. Yeah the 90ā€™s was a better time. These phones with social media really screwed up our country.
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  27. My son stopped talking to me. When he wouldn't answer the door, I chose to accept how he feels. I have not tried to contact him or bother him. My daughter died almost 9 years ago, so he is my only living child. (Their father also passed, 18 years ago.) It was very difficult at first, to let go of someone who I loved so deeply. One thing I have learned, you cannot make someone love you and ,often people do not love you as much as you love them. I have accepted he does not wish to be a part of my life. I have more peace now. His problems do not become my problems. I believe this was a gift to me from GOD.
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  28. I know exactly what you are saying Chad. It's self-preservation, I am a 74yo man, self-centered people will bleed you dry emotionally and financially. When you reach a certain age, it becomes damn near impossible to recoup your loses. Time is just too short to make any mistakes.
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  29. Myself, a quote I heard was that, "Other people take it personally when they can't waste your time." Never forgot that
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  30. Ghost. I lost my wife to brain cancer a year ago. Watching her suffer as she did destroyed me. We were both always active and lived a wonderful life together. After she passed away I let myself go. Afterwards, I sat at home drinking and wishing my life would end. I was close to death a couple of times being admitted into the ER and hospitalized. This morning I found your video on YT. I feel you were sending me a message. I am thankful.
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  31. I love how you say "hello" to every stranger you see. Shows that your awesome
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  32. ā€œIf you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway.ā€ - Mother Teresa
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  33. Truth is you never really know anyoneā€™s true intentions. Empaths need to be careful
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  34. I realised that 20 years ago, it was relief, suddenly everything is clear when you know that everything is a lie.
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  35. "They argue with you, not because they're trying to understand you but because they're trying to validate their world view. They want you to believe exactly what they believe, even if it's toxic. Because a closed mind can't see beyond itself." šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘ LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!
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  36. True words. Hereā€™s an example; my daughter took a job that paid more money but took up more time. Then she realised she needed a car so took out finance for that car. Now sheā€™s basically working all those extra hours just to pay for her car AND for the next 5 years! Why? What was the point? Btw she prefers her old job and her newer car has caused her so many problems and cost her so much in repairs. Her older car was fine, solid and trouble free. Simplify our lives, not complicate further.
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  37. "the world hates good people" so truešŸ˜¢ šŸ’Æif you want to be loved by people you must be a hater, a gossiper, a liar, a manipulator. I noticed that bad people are always surrounded by people and they hate people who mind their own business.
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  38. The best things I did for myself was stop being a people pleaser, stick to my boundaries and go quiet. I donā€™t talk much any more, only when itā€™s required. I also donā€™t share anything about myself, especially with family. I like having things just to myself because itā€™s always a surprise to me how judgmental people can be and the silly things theyā€™ll be judgmental about. Iā€™m comfortable with silence and turning all the attention I used to give to others back to myself. Iā€™ve blossomed and thrived in ways I could never have imagined. I donā€™t socialize with others much but Iā€™m not lonely. I value my own time and life is peaceful because Iā€™m not around others who drain every bit of energy out of me.
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  39. "If someone has very few friends, it means that he or she has a lot of life experience." (SĆøren Kierkegaard)
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  40. To GOOD, KIND people - keep it up!
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  41. Iā€™m 52, recently divorced and starting over. Iā€™m taking action.
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  42. I am 65 I'm right there with you I've had to put strong boundaries up and toughen up. Quit being a people pleaser I protect my energy!!
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  43. My ex husband of 23 years (my kids father) passed away suddenly at the age of 56yo this July from cardiac arrest. Didnā€™t make it to the hospital. We were devastated. I donā€™t have the financial means to retire now (im 53). Im planning to retire at 62 yo. In the meantime I am paying down all my debt and mortgage so i only have living expenses to worry about. Wish me luck. Love your message.
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  44. DISCIPLINE! I'm starting a new at 66 years old. Thank you!
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  45. I moved away 400 miles away from anyone I knew and been living in my car for 3 years now and Iā€™ve never been healthier physically, mentally and spiritually. Self healing is a long and difficult process but itā€™s all worth it ā¤
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  46. Value. A wise man learns from his mistakes, but a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others. Thank you, Chad.
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  47. Oh ya. I moved 5 states away from my toxic and cruel family, changed my phone number and have not attended many funerals. It cost me too much emotionally to be around such cruel behavior. These people are bad for my very soul.
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  48. Your video showed up in my feed at the perfect time. We have a 28 year old daughter with 3 children who consistently threatens us with not seeing our grandchildren, or Facebook shaming us as parents, or lying about us when she can't weasle money, time, or attention from us with her endless drama. We have attempted to help her numerous times, only to be kicked in the proverbial teeth every time. We had to resort to recording every interaction with her to protect ourselves. It has been hell. We've finally learned we will have to love her from a distance. šŸ˜ž
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  49. It's hard to walk away from your grown kids, but do it for their sake and let them grow up!šŸŽ‰ā¤
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  50. I used to be an extrovert. At 65, Iā€™m an introvert. I have my wife and two dogs. Thatā€™s all I want, all I need. I canā€™t believe how much people have changed over my lifetime.
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