Hearted Youtube comments on Cole Hastings (@ColeHastings) channel.

  1. I relate to your growth and loving yourself after my 5 year relationship ended in January. It's as if I woke up from a coma, and saw myself for the first time, and I didn't recognize myself. So I started reconnecting with friends and started swimming again which has just made me happier. I also incorrectly thought that I wasn't complete until I found the one, but its more like a bonus. I know I'm complete and happy without someone else being there.
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  2. 👍Symptoms of low testosterone depend on the age of person, and include the following: Low sex drive. Erectile dysfunction. Decreased sense of well-being. Depressed mood. Difficulties with concentration and memory. Fatigue. Moodiness and irritability. Loss of muscular strength.
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  3. Being nice and being kind are two different things, even though the terms are often used as if they are interchangeable. Being nice is doing considerate things for the approval of others. Being kind is being considerate purely for the sake of doing the right thing. So instead of being nice, be kind!
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  4. I've been on a youtube poll once that was about how trustworthy you are. The majority of people said that they don't trust anyone right away. It honestly appalled me that that many people were like that. We don't live inside of some anime where there's villains around literally every corner, we live on a planet called Earth where most people just wanna make friends and have a good time just like you.
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  5. Damn why do I only now realize how buff he is.
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  6. I think having normal conversations with strangers got more difficult rather because of social media and that people in general aren't used to face-to-face conversation anymore and that's why it feels weird.
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  7. You’ve become a pillar of the male empowerment and improvement community. You’re serving a lot of needed information to boys looking for direction. Thanks Cole.
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  8. its comforting to remind myself that everybody else is also just kind of winging it on a daily basis.
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  9. 23 years without weed. The most successful... life of my... wait how would this work?
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  10. Degree usefulness aside, the people and the connections that I have made in college will benefit me for the rest of my life. I have learned so much about myself, about relationships with women, and about the kind of person I want to be. It is truly an experience. It is what you make of it.
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  11. "Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."
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  12. Update: I've done good! Since this comment I've stayed on nofap, I journal more often, and I've been tracking my eating and trying to improve it. And I didnt mention it but I quit smoking weed a couple days before this aswell so I quit porn, weed, and unhealthy eating all at once lmao it was a rough week ngl but I'm feeling better now!
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  13. In meditation lately, I've been hearing: "Think with your feeling mind-- Feeling is all." "When it comes to passion, tomorrow does not exist." "Pay attention to your intuition, follow it always. Your path is not the same as everyone else's path-- And their's is not for you." My advice is, be patient and kind with yourself. Whatever comes, let it come. Whatever goes, let it go. Whatever stays, let it be. With enough trust and faith, you can become totally unshakable. My world is mine, but your world is yours. Blessed Be.
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  14. Needed this today. I've been having weird spurts of being highly productive/inspired to feeling drained and not wanting to do anything. About to go on a walk now to clear my mind
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  15. Most underrated YouTuber! I love your content!
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  16. Why are you just the BEST Cole? You're truly a master of approaching this discussion with as little blame and judgement as possible and its so healthy. Keep making more.
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  17. Never comment on videos. But this video sparked something in me to go and try to find clubs local to me that i'm interested in trying! From the bottom of my heart Cole, thank you for putting this content out for people like me who struggle communicating with strangers (I have autism so that's why i find it difficult to go up and approach random people in new environments XD)
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  18. It's all good brotha. You're still the man in my eyes. Well, even though I've only been watching your channel for 1 month now but I've been inspired to get my life together because of you and others. Porn is definitely causing many men not to get their life together and it's an endless cycle of instant gratification for doing nothing which is making men feel even more miserable. Good video overall man!
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  19. you’re so underrated
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  20. Youtube and cole be spying on me 💀💀
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  21. Death Note, Erased, Attack on titan followed by a close 4th naruto
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  22. this video clear my doubts i was so depressed and hard on my self trying to be completely different person. iwas so afraid if i do something wrong people will view me as a weak man . Thank you so much!
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  23. I would add that we also choose the path of least resistance because we fear the potential pressure that will come with success if we go down the path of most resistance. It's scary to think that our dreams and goals might actually come true and now everybody will be looking to us for everything, which puts a ton of pressure on us to handle that success because we actually "made it" as well as how much our life will change. It's easy to "just get by," but it's truly hard to "make it" and carry that torch of being the one to do it while everyone around you has eyes on you 24/7 seeing if or when you will drop the ball. Didn't mean for this long rant, but just something that got triggered in me when Cole mentioned the path of least resistance. Happy Easter everyone!
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  24. The funny thing about “alpha” humans is that they are exactly opposite of a real alpha. Think about wolves (because for some reason we always compare ourselves to wolves). The alpha is responsible for the welfare of the pack and if they aren’t succeeding then the real alpha steps up and kicks them out. They are the provider, not an ass. P.S. I’m trying to figure out how I got here, I was watching mountain bike videos before this...
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  25. As a former Buddhist monk there's so much in this I can relate to and I do agree that being in silence for atleast 30min every day is a great idea for anyone. There's so much more to it than just silence and learning to understand how we work is something one needs to do alone at times. Thank you for sharing this!
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  26. Beautiful message! 💯
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  27. constantly thinking about peoples perceptions before i do or say something. trying to self-affirmate before i go to sleep of learning to shut that part me off.
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  28. I’m gonna take this as my sign from the universe-it’s time to put down the ganj,atleast for now 🙏🏿🥶 thanks cole 💪🏿🙏🏿
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  29. this confirms my belief that everyone is mostly wrong about things but also kinda right
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  30. Sometimes I feel I get in my own way by being too stubborn to seek knowledge from the older crowd, because I feel that “times are changing” and some of their advice may be irrelevant. But there’s so much advice that has standed the test of time that I can learn from older people.
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  31. I love your radical opinions Cole! They're really interesting to me because I love when people give unpopular opinions like this:
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  32. Bro I'm so fckn glad you did the research and made this video. This explains the causes of my low T and I never would have known without you.
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  33. I definitely feel so different then before. Especially around my friends. They just care about non sense they think is important like buying expensive name brand stuff and whatever else is popular. I just don’t relate anymore. They don’t care about our environment and think everything is a hoax. It’s so frustrating.
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  34. I appreciate that you take a more philosophical tone in your videos. Most self help YouTube people radiate insecurity and tend to be fairly surface. I like that you take topics to the nuanced and less ego fueled levels.
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  35. “The whole future lies in uncertainty: live immediately”. Seneca
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  36. Hey Cole! Been watching you for a few years and this might be my favorite video you made. I try to stand out in my generation and especially from what I’ve seen at college, and it’s pretty spectacular to see when you do things differently than the 99% of your college town you’re singled out as “weird” but you know what your doing is right and it’s helping you. Not many people practice self care in my town so it’s weird when someone does, but you know what your doing is only going to benefit you. Great content as always man 💪🏻
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  37. You can NOT control what happens to you, you can only control how you respond to them. There is power in your response. 🔥
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  38. Bro this helped a ton. There’s an emotionally tough kid on my sports team who I’ve been trouble communicating with as a natural empath. I think he may be struggling with this. Thanks for making me aware, Cole!
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  39. Bro if this man doesn’t get a million subs in a year 😤😤
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  40. A big reason to feeling rushed is comparing yourself to others. Which is really easy to fall far with social media and the internet all around us! A tip. Don't compare your start to someones 7 year breakthrough.
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  41. I'm slacking a ton with learning japanese. I've known hiragana and katakana for a few years now and I still haven't learned much kanji or how to spell words. Top anime: Mob Psycho 100 JoJo's Bizzare Adventure Overly Cautious Hero idk what else I can confidently recommend is worth trying. basically all anime are worth trying, but those 3 are a must watch, especially Mob Psycho 100
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  42. One thing I would add: spend time outside!!
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  43. Bro your message is fucking spot on man, been feeling really pressured about life in college, my career as well as my financial gain. It made me fear about what my life would be in the future that I have to manage every single little detail in my life to ensure success. And it really hit me my drive to go do things just drop, and I would waste my time thinking about how much my life sucked. But right now after having binged a shit ton of your stuff I am currently learning a lot, picked up no fap as well as journaling daily, I also read berserk which really changed my view in life as well as how struggle functions to keep us alive. Keep up the amazing work 🤝
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  44. Cole just wow… I can’t even begin to tell you how much I relate to this. The interactions with friends, the conviction to better yourself, the fear of success… Wow. This was truly inspirational in every sense of the word. I’m blown away. This has definitely sparked a new sense of determination in me and belief in myself. Three months into this journey, I haven’t shared my YouTube channel with any of my friends…. I think it may be time I do that. Also, all I could think about during this video was that Marianne Williamson quote - “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” Thank you for this, Cole.🙏🏽
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  45. I'm pretty sure he will probably not see this comment among all these comments but I just wanna put it out there. This video means a lot. I had a 2 weeks vacation and I spent the whole thing totally alone. I have been mainly working out to keep me occupied. But I still had moments of realization that I'm totally fucking alone. I have mainly made friends with my classmates my whole life but none of them really stuck. This year I can't relate a single bit with any of my classmates and most days I don't talk to anyone in school, which I know is my fault. I have a language barrier problem and putting that much effort into talking in different language with people that I'm not interested in is too much for me. This video has at least made me feel like I'm not alone at being alone.
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  46. "You were raised by a system that values the wrong things." Ain't that the truth!! Love ya, Cole.
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  47. Yes the hedonic treadmill is a very real thing, we want something, we get it, and after enough time we adjust and return to our default happiness. However, there are ways to increase your default level of happiness. And as Cole said, you get that by following what makes you excited and doing things that allow you to get into flow state, not by "being successful". One day you'll look back and realise you already had everything you needed to be happy.
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  48. I don't have it lol
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  49. The one “alpha” trick is to stand straight with your shoulders back. Prod jordan peterson
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  50. I sometimes feel out of nowhere that I'm in the third person perspective and that I am just watching my life (at the moment the of the weird feeling) without being the person, kinda like watching a movie.... I think I am going insane help 🙂
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