Comments by "Violet Joy" (@VioletJoy) on "EXPLORE WITH US" channel.

  1. That's not uncommon. And to be fair, she WAS being deceptive.
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  2.  @goldmoutdog19  "Most" isn't anywhere near accurate either. You guys would find out real quick what "most" bad cops look like if your went to a third world country.
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  3.  @ria3886  "Most" isn't anywhere near accurate. Doing a ride-a-long can give an idea of what most cops are like and what they go through.
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  4.  @ria3886  You seem to be missing something here and are showing an inability to have a mature discussion. For the third time, "most" is not accurate.
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  5. Excellent interrogators. They were both calm, but the investigator who interviewed Nate was particularly "compassionate", and appeared safe to open up to.
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  6. ​@A Very ETV Special That's a silly thing to say. While his style of questioning is terrible, that's probably how he handles people he thinks know more than they are saying. To be fair, she did hold a Iot back. I don't think confronting people in that way is ever helpful, and hopefully he'll receive better training.
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  7. I didn't notice that here. They asked very appropriate questions and she came across as very believable.
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  8. While the detective was horrible, he didn't treat Kelsey any differently than many others have been. To view her as a victim can actually be seen as a bit insulting. She is an intelligent, college educated young woman. And to be fair, she was being deceptive. She heard her mother perfectly well, and never shared that she was having trouble hearing the questions, so there's no need to suggest that she was struggling due to her hearing impairment. She comes across as emotionally immature, and most likely ended up with Jeff due to her caretaker nature. While she seems like a very innocent, vulnerable young lady, she wasn't being honest.
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  9. Or better yet, just ask to talk to a different detective.
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  10. If a murder and neglected children weren't a part of this story, it would be comical. Those poor kids. It's interesting how she talks about her husband allegedly abusing her, yet she had him murdered. Wow. Her channel was so cringy. She thought she was all that and a bag of chips. JoJo talking out loud in the interrogation room was laughs. I'm sorry. And I've got to say, it sure looked like that tent was the cleanest room shown in the video footage.
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  11. Yes, but also, her mother babied her. She was likely raised to act that way. It's so disgusting and disturbing to think of her out living her life after robbing her nephew of his!!
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  12.  @elivile.  I'm disgusted to the core. That poor little guy and his parents!!! 💔
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  13.  @cressyblankenship4299  Just to clarify, I wasn't replying to your comment. I tagged the people I was replying to.
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  14. @topspot4834  I don't understand why everyone keeps replying to be specifically. I never said she was involved or anything. I don't think EWU did her wrong at all. It seemed very clear to me that she was just being assessed and was shown to be oblivious to his crimes. She did not cry the whole time on the stand, though. She remained extremely calm except for one time, but it was definitely not hysterical crying.
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  15. How did the system fail them? I'm not sure if she was even licensed, especially considering she didn't have CPR training. I'm confused.
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  16.  @pricklypear7516  Yeah, I was also confused by that comment. Where did the system fail?
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  17. While many prefer to put people like this in a box labeled "evil monsters", it's critical to understand how they get to that point. There is ALWAYS a traumatic backstory. Unless we start to recognize the complexities of the mind in situations like this, there's no chance of prevention.
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  18. That poor baby. 💔
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  19. Not necessarily. There might very well be evidence that isn't being shared publicly.
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  20. It's interesting how the one friend described Keith as "an ass". He comes across as calm, loving, understanding, sees the positive, and if nothing else, kind of having low self esteem. Sherri comes across as unhinged.
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  21. Shout out to the thousands of people who "just knew without a doubt" that he was guilty. 🙄
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  22.  @anyaisma4878  I never saw any comments like that. I was only replying to the original comment mentioning her immaturity and lack of intelligence.
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  23. @jordannietos  No, she didn't connect the dots. It actually is a big deal because society could learn from this situation. It's critical to keep your eyes open and notice red flags. It's absolutely nothing personal against her, as she's a lovely person. But keep in mind that after this, she still supported him and thought he was innocent.
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  24.  @rosamy2017  But then after this, she still supported him and believed he was innocent.
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  25.  @cozyflannel  Exactly.
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  26. ​ @victoriarose8427 It's been a while since I watched the trial, but I remember thinking her behavior was a little odd. She most likely had to testify, but she didn't seem all too thrilled about it.
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  27. No, it doesn't. Each individual is unique.
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  28. I'm not sure if "wallowing in survivor's guilt" is appropriate wording. It just seems to lack compassion for those who experience it. People can't help how they feel and survivor's guilt is a very real thing.
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  29. Considering lionesses hunt fast animals like zebras, what made her think she was safe while sitting still in a car??? It's sad she died, but wow.
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  30. @user-rv7bf4nk9r  Yeah, I'm familiar with that concept. It just seems like people generally open up much more if there isn't a lot of pressure put on them. Detectives who listen, allow silent pauses, don't react harshly to what is being said, etc. tend to get much more info out of the suspect. The ones who challenge the suspect, raise their voice, tell them they're guilty, etc. can end up with the suspect shutting down the conversation. I always appreciate hearing skilled detectives.
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  31.  @tbatch1980  I like hearing skilled detectives, too. I cringe when listening to the ones who never stop talking and just basically escalate the situation.
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  32.  @theseahag6639  💯
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  33. I hear what you're saying, but he couldn't be anyone's son. He was raised by parents who thought he could do no wrong. He was coddled, rescued, and had very little expectations. By the time they finally realized he was full of it, it was too late. Of course it would be really beneficial for you to work on the relationship with your kids. Wishing you the best with that. 🤍
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  34. While it's disgusting, 99% of cases don't get media attention. They tell us where to focus our attention.
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  35.  @kateajurors8640  All of that makes sense if she was stuck between the walls. I've heard similar stories where it was impossible for the person to move. My point was that accidents happen and not to jump to murder, which was highly unlikely.
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  36.  @Nick-kw9oz  😂
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  37. I'm guessing that there is some kind of evidence that he took his own life that isn't being shared publicly. What a horrific case. My heart goes out to the women and Peyton. They were naive to his schemes.
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  38. ​ @hruthgardahne822 Aunts and grandparents are generally extremely trustworthy. This is a very unusual situation. I think it might be better advice to suggest avoiding having your mentally ill, narcissistic relatives watch your child alone.
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  39. While 99% of the comments are about the first cop (which shows what people are mostly concerned with), I haven't seen any about his girlfriend. She's not the most stellar person herself. She was well aware of his previous record, even if she didn't know the exact details. She saw MANY red flags yet chose to ignore them. She allowed her children to live with a convicted felon who was showing all of those red flags. Then, she has the nerve to say, "Why me?," and then laugh about Troy's obsession with serial killers??
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  40. ​ @chocolatequeen5953 I'm genuinely curious why you assumed he was involved. I'm always surprised to hear when people jump to conclusions without knowing the evidence.
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  41. ​@thedeepdaerk Why was a spoiler needed in your opinion? Do you mean because she said that Keith wasn't involved? If so, everyone knows not to read comments before watching the video unless they are already familiar with the case. Maybe there is another reason that I'm missing?
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  42. ​@topherh5093 If he had told Sherri that she should get a job, people would have hated on him for that, too.
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  43. 🙄 Hopefully you're just trolling.
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  44. I have to agree. Her brother has been through Hell and back, so I wouldn't wish him any harm. However, it does seem fair to point out that if you are convinced that your loved one is truly in danger, then don't take no for an answer. I know I would have insisted on filing a report. If the detective still insisted that that wasn't going to happen, then I would have spoken to someone else.
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  45. @Rochelle Tierney 🤣🤣🤣
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  46.  @maryharvey6909  Exactly.
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  47. For some reason, everyone gives the mom a free pass. It seems clear that she's always babied Tonina and did not hold her accountable for her actions. She still refers to her as the baby. She asked how Tonina was doing rather than the daughter whose son was murdered! Evidently, she agreed to take the rap for her daughter. Tonina doesn't give a rip about anyone but herself. It's so disturbing.
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  48. I'm not sure able that. Hopefully, the brother would have requested to speak to a different detective. The problem seemed to lie with that particular detective, and not the department as a whole.
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