Comments by "Leahflower" (@leahflower9924) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1. I have add too but when you have trauma brain you'll have add and fatigue all the time and I'm more into staying up late and sleeping in and when I go to work early and see people jogging I want to punch them
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  2. There's a lot of daydreaming that's actually dissociating escape to fantasy magical thinking or limerence I was told this is all actually defense mechanisms for our ego so we don't fall apart
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  3. ​ @rickst3r  maybe she's using intermittent reinforcement with you and testing you to see if you'll beg for her attention
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  4. So if you take the action of working it's arrogant to expect pay as the outcome
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  5. I feel like it's how society functions too because if people never compared themselves they might also not conform or keep themselves in check to be the good sheeple they should be 🐑
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  6. You mean because they reciprocated the feelings lol
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  7. Definitely
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  8. That's how most schizoid or avoidant personalities are
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  9.  @cathleenmoyle1476  I like to be by myself but you need some type of company or even need to hear voices from TV or radio or you can start losing your mind like people do in solitary confinement
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  10. You never heard of children of God what lol guess you weren't a River Phoenix fan like I was
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  11. ​ @jsantiago1145  facts don't care about your feelings! Lol
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  12. Yeah I had met a kid like him at work and I asked simple questions and he couldn't fully answer but no clear sign of a problem so I thought maybe he's always high or something
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  13. ​ @morningcoffee2471  why have you never dated
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  14. Except every baby male or female is completely attuned to the mom until like age 2 or 3 the importance of the dad comes later
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  15. It hurts me to learn more and more about this psychological stuff and know my parents "don't believe in this stuff"
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  16. The problem I have with this is that you can become obsessed with looks and what they can do for you when you are or feel ugly so it can still be harder for so called ugly people than for pretty people if that makes sense
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  17. ​ @monmusuaficionado2132 yeah somewhat similar for me I went through some of my worst times when I was 16-17 and then I used fantasy and limerence to survive and then eventually I had no idea who the F I was
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  18. I'm no slouch I work seven days a week sometimes with pet sitting but I'm not a busy body and it bothers me that busy bodies and people pleasers act like that's the healthy way to be
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  19. Same with me and then the worse it got for me the more my parents went off on me so that didn't help
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  20. My parents were threatened by anger and sadness which was weird for me because my mom had an anger problem but she was also a people pleaser so she was excused for the anger because she was always trying to please people so if she was angry it must be other people's fault
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  21. I don't know is what I would say too as a female and I didn't know I was splitting and dissociating all the time so idk can be a sign of detachment from yourself
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  22. I was just thinking of all my body issues and how I felt ugly and inferior all these years and if I was stuck on my own with maybe just animals like jungle book I don't know if I could feel ugly I might not have a mirror and I don't know I'm ugly if I can't compare my looks
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  23. That would be funny if there was an addiction to always wearing an actual mask I guess that would go along with germaphobia
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  24. From his description I would say he's right her super hot self wants to stay in the friend zone I find it shocking lol
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  25. Looks like young Bruce Lee lol
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  26. Sounds good in theory but not really true
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  27. ​ @jamesbryson9542 I'm a female and I found your comment very validating because pretty privilege isn't just what you can get or get away with it actually does make people feel more sympathy for you and they'll put more effort into you even if you're difficult
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  28.  @kaczok1985  yup and a lot of the trauma goes into the unconscious and rules a person in adulthood
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  29.  @bobograndman  good point I'm spiraling right now
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  30. As an undiagnosed borderline I find it easier not to make a choice or settle on something because once I settle I start thinking I should've done something else
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  31. ​@Lyle E it's usually people that got normal amounts of attention and praise that don't base their worth on praise or someone wanting you try being deprived or rejected and you'll find your worth is very much wrapped up with it
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  32. ​ @mouse9831  I kinda had the same thing happen details were different but in the end same outcome, I still think about it and I feel stabbing pains and have to block it out
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  33. They do the videos based on your Google searches
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  34. Exactly I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that
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  35. What's with Asian parents wanting their kid to play piano or violin
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  36. Sometimes it's true especially with personality disorders
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  37. He made me laugh when he said you do you haters gonna hate
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  38. Is Felix a french name I only know the cat
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  39. I could be wrong but I think when people are single it depends how genuinely happy someone is about it I think the psychological issue is when someone is single because they don't think they can get someone or don't deserve someone or don't want to hurt or get hurt
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  40. I think kids have to largely develop their skills and figure out money and figure out independence before they graduate and then they easily transition but a lot of us still feel like total children senior year or we even regress because we don't want to live in the adult world kind of like the song I don't want to grow up
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  41. Your story reminds me of a Matthew McConaughey commercial I saw where he looked like he was traveling in his van or camper can't remember but I think he had bongos and at some point he was probably about to smoke and he talked like he was in dazed and confused and he's like how do you wanna start livin' and I'm a woman but I got jealous I wanted to be him lol
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  42. I related to therapy was good for feeling like you could talk to a non judgemental mom
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  43. I heard once kids had to attune to their parents and the parents mental state in order for survival but the parent doesn't need to attune to the kid for survival so usually it's the parent that's out of touch or robotic and shut off their authentic self and they think it's the kid that has the problem
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  44. Trust me bro I'm robotic therefore I'm rational all I had to do was annihilate authenticity and silence most of my humanity and I don't regret it unless maybe I'm dying lol
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  45. ​ @mindyann8903 I'm female I don't even look that different than her and I don't know why they said lower than average I think she's a cute swedish girl which isn't the point either but it's funny I think she's cute when I don't look that different and I thought and sometimes still think I'm disgusting
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  46. Just because I use a kitty face emoji doesn't mean I'm passive aggressive 😅
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  47. ​ @watertoad didn't Freud say that too or something similar I remember learning the unconscious is more important and controls us way more than the conscious mind and i thought I got that from freud
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  48. ​ @evadebruijn yeah that's why freud believed in drugs hypnosis and psychoanalysis
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  49. ​ @connornicholas8628  I had dysmorphia about every detail about myself even the way my feet looked in certain sneakers lol, but as a female I had issues over getting too tall I was close to 5'10" at 16 and I had nightmares I would keep getting taller
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  50. ​ @tirushone6446  I don't know how many people have dysmorphia over their height only but it is common I think as at least part of the dysmorphia
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