Comments by "TheDionysianFields" (@TheDionysianFields) on "The Diary Of A CEO"
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@we4r119 You could say, "Sorry, but I'm focused on other things right now." Because if you weren't focused on other things, you'd certainly give a guy a chance, right? Because surely you're not all about looks and the superficial, right?
Are you suggesting that men should approach women that they don't find appealing?
Should we be happy about being shot down and just tuck our tails and move on? Should women be able to reject at will (and without reason) without prospect of a verbal repercussion?
These are all valid questions, no matter how harsh you think they sound. Yet women will say, men just need to get over their fragile egos. But it's not about that...the reality is that there's a lot more pressure on men in regard to success with the opposite sex. Much of which we put on ourselves, but it's still there. We're ingrained with the idea that you simply can't be a man unless you score with women.
My issue is the women don't even try to understand this stuff. They seem to be in their own world.
Note: I in no way support the idea of a man trying to intimidate a woman who rejects him, and men should always strive to take things like a man. But as the OP pointed out, it takes a hell of a lot of courage, so if I react with a harsh word or two at being shot down without a hint, well, at least don't act surprised.
P.S. You have a good point about the impact of prior abuse. That's not to be overlooked.
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