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  1. Tap "more" under the video title. He provides the link to book a paid consultation.
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  2. & that starts within a woman. If her heart is right she will have no issue with making herself accountable to a good man in her life. Like I always say, Submission is a condition of the heart. Likewise with accountability. - April L.
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  3. I've always thought of the secretary as the natural role of a woman for her man. I also think it's why so many guys end up cheating with the secretary. A woman should be her man's sexretary. : )
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  4. Although that definitely happens, it's not always that you're imagining a future per se, they just become a subconscious or conscious "given" as someone you think of each day &/or look forward to/enjoy as a part of your life in some way that day. Your last sentence reminded me of the song lyrics: " I turned around Before I could run I found you already settled down In the back of my mind "
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  5. It has, voiced by him. He gave the link for all 3 versions.
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  6. Various reasons "why", but its always gonna be the minority of viewers who leave comments, members & non members alike. Same for your other questions, but the story of the ten lepers in Luke 17 does come to mind.
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  7.  @user-icu152  No. I was referring to ten lepers being healed, but only one, a Samaritan, coming back to say thank you.
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  8. “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” I John 1:8
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  9. I'm a woman & my answer is no. A way to handle it is Tell her she can make a request(nicely) that she wants you to consider & that you'll think about it & let her know the decision. However, if she naggs in the mean time it's an automatic "NO". Or that the "yes" you previously gave can & will turn into a "NO" if she naggs again. That should solve the problem.
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  10. Life & time tests a man, it's not your job to. If you'll only submit once you think he's "worthy," your still gonna have a hard row to hoe when you realize no man is perfect. Stick with anyone long enough & you are gonna experience some form of disappointment. Submission ultimately means saying, " if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt."
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  11. (There will be a paperback & audio version. He'll announce details in his free newsletter. If you'd like to subscribe, the link is in the description, as is the link to pre-order the digital version. It will be delivered July 10th, I believe.)
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  12.  @jn3750  No apologies necessary. You might consider telling her that you'll consider doing it if she'll compensate you monetarily for your time & effort. See how she responds. That will probably tell you a lot. From what you've said, my 2 cents is don't expect to get anything from her that you don't get up front. If you wanna do it out of the kindness of your heart that's another thing.
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  13.  @jn3750  I thought you already made your thoughts on the subject clear to her? Did you ask her why the other guys couldn't or wouldn't finish what was started? (Maybe they were angling the same way you are.) The thing is, you already told her your intentions. Now she's back, again. You could ask her out for an intimate type dinner date before giving her an answer. Then her answer to the invitation might inform yours. *Disclaimer: I don't endorse prostitution & for the record, I said "date". The rest is between yall, or not as the case may be.
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  14.  @jn3750  Sigh This is too big a convo for this thread. Not sure how you know she ignored your email, but if she did, again, sounds like you got your answer. Was she planning on getting all this free help from you online/over the phone, or was she gonna travel to you? Protecting your professional situation is what's important. Not worth potentially jeopardizing it in this type situation. If you already knew her, or she has a close mutual friend, etc, or if you were actual friends with her already it might be a different situation. (Still prostitution to do what you're proposing to her, & i'm not endorsing, just mean it'd be a different situation knowing her. ) As it stands, I'd cut bait & head the opposite direction.
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  15. Pets should always be discussed prior to getting serious since they're deal breakers for a lot of people.
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  16. This changed the connotation I had about it. It always sounded "cringy" to me, like people being fake & manipulative. Of course most anything can be abused, but now i see now it has a totally different meaning in reality. Thanks.
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  17. There are women in the same boat you are, not all of them have way more experience. My sister is older than you & has Aspergers. If you have any hobbies or interests, that's a great natural way you can meet people & make friends, some of which may be girls. There are people out there who'd love being friends with you, but you gotta give them a chance if you want them to give you a chance.
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  18. People tend to not fully comprehend life until they experienced loss up close. Two of my family members died in a car wreck from the fault of another driver on Christmas Day when i was a child. Then during my time as both a professional & a private caregiver, I've been there with hospice patients while they passed--the last one literally in my arms. (She was at peace & I saw this time a life ready to go at the end of her course.) I think no matter our prior experience or the relation to the person, have that certain feeling of introspection on life we only feel after a funeral, but it fades for most people & they, we, forget to live. Thanks for this reminder to LIVE. ~April L.
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  19. That platform didn't allow for pre-order in other formats, but he will announce details on the Paperback & Audio versions via his free newsletter. If you haven't already signed up, you can do it on his website. Link in description.
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  20. ...."River, I've never seen the sea"
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  21. Nope. In his private practice he specializes in Men's mental/emotional wellbeing, & while much of this channel's content is geared towards men, he also has content geared towards women & ones that anyone may find helpful. His private consultations are open to everyone, too.
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  22. He does allow women in The Captain's Quarters as well, yes.
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  23. You misspelled "sexy."
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  24. Definitely would benefit you to find some individuals or groups who've gone through what you have. PTSD is something noone truly understands unless they have experienced it.
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  25. Small kids go to bed very early.
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  26. Agree! Need personal space & time to think, process things, & just "be". When I'm not working & the weather's decent, I'm almost always outside, just me & my dog, for example, like I am right now. Everyone needs that "happy place" where they can enjoy being by themselves. : )
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  27. & actually mean it, ha, ha
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  28. One of the little boys i used to be the nanny to was potty training, (around 2 1/2 yrs old) & would get a little embarrassed with the situation. I explained to him, "Everybody poops." Then I'd name each relative he had, & add that they poop & he'd just laugh & laugh. Such a basic fact was an enlightening revelation & his embarrassment faded. Later on he'd randomly look at me & say, "Everybody poops." & grin. ha, ha : )
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  29. What is "KS RIP"?
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  30. In a more personal relationship, attraction wanes or is lost when a woman loses respect for a man. It's probably different for women who just sleep around with guys based on their looks, cause obviously she wouldn't know enough about him to respect him. I can't speak to that dynamic.
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  31. If you haven't already, you can subscribe to his free Newsletter via his website. This way you'll be the first to hear about his book details.
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  32. He didn't invent it, it's an old saying.
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  33. ​ @GreatRetro  Yeah, it's a powerful thing that has to be handled delicately.
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  34. Great advice. Great video. - April
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  35. What did she do?
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  36. They were fun, but part of the fun was that it was a competition to find the eggs before the other kids got them. That's why everyone was in such a mad dash.
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  37. A myriad of reasons it could be depending on the girl/woman. Won't list them all, but generally its either low self esteem, inexperience, the tendency to "see the good in people"(& mostly disregard the bad, or make excuses for the bad behavior), past trauma, etc. Or a combination of these.
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  38. : )
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  39. His calling is to be a different, better kind of star, & that he is. 🌟
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  40. ​​​ @BeautiHacks  There is something like that, I heard about. (A blind dating match thing) I think it mighta been part of a study a college was doing, can't remember. Heard about while flipping channel's. If I can find it, I'll let you know. It would still come down to that "spark" that being great on paper cannot ignite. But, it might at least cut down on the paperwork time before hand, like you say, since both are important.
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  41. ​ @BeautiHacks  It'd be interesting for sure !
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  42. You don't want to loose Hope, it's where you place that Hope that matters. Don't put all the hope of your heart in a person & let it die with the relationship -- in their cold closed heart that candle goes out. That's part of what Orion is talking about: take your Hope back. That Hope is meant for a candle in your own heart & for the untrodden path forward .
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  43. To that i can hear some guys quoting Shakespeare: "I, I, I myself sometimes, leaving the fear of God on the left hand and hiding mine honour in my necessity, am fain to shuffle, to hedge and to lurch."
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  44. Cause you ain't getting that cream for free. : )
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  45. At one time there was a neighborhood cat that liked to come visit with him. He likes cats--they're easy to understand.
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  46. He does! : )
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  47. Under "examples" of the word "oxymoron" in the dictionary.
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  48. ​​​ @banished6481  The one who designed us knows what's "healthy" for His creation & what isn't.
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  49. Women like that with critical spirits hurt the good men they demoralize & hurt themselves by never being able to obtain any meaningful level of contentment & gratitude. Then on top of that, oftentimes the guy goes on to think all women are like that. They do a real disservice to everyone.
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  50. "There is no excellence without labor. One cannot dream oneself into either usefulness or happiness." Women: "As you take the normal opportunities of your daily life and create something of beauty and helpfulness, you improve not only the world around you but also the world within you."
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