Comments by "" (@NaturalDisasterObserver) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Tiffany’s persistence and faith moved me in ways I cannot describe.
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  2. If I pursue a girl for a maximum of one month, if there is no chance, I will immediately switch to another girl and not waste money.
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  3. If you compare Russian women with some Chinese women's marriage demands, the latter's expectations are almost unreasonable.
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  4. Their ideal partner sounds like a fantasy rather than something achievable.
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  5. I bet many men don’t want to get married anymore. The bride price has become their 'nightmare.
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  6. Is the stability of older men really what attracts women? It seems more like financial pressures are forcing them to be realistic.
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  7. A mature man isn't afraid of an outstanding woman, but he is afraid of an insatiable one.
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  8. Divorce rates are rising too. Does this mean people are becoming clearer about what they want?
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  9. Judging by her actions, responsibility seems to have nothing to do with her. Even in the late stages of cancer, she still wants to avoid responsibility.
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  10. Think about your health, your future, and your family before you step into a club.
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  11. The more proud you are when you're young, the more miserable you'll be when you're old.
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  12. If she can’t find a man at 43, maybe she should start looking at her own flaws.
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  13. To be honest, these matchmaking events don’t appeal to modern men. We’re looking for companionship, not a life-long transaction. Maybe that’s why fewer men show up.
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  14. These older unmarried women always say they don't want to settle, but unfortunately, they no longer have many opportunities to pick. As they get older, the pool of men to choose from shrinks.
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  15. Can true love change a person? Try making her give up luxury and nightlife, and see if she still wants to stay.
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  16. Getting married now is like gambling. It’s not about love, it’s about whether you can be scammed.
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  17. Marrying into a wealthy family isn’t just about material enjoyment; there’s also invisible pressure.
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  18. Some men stay single their entire lives and still find fulfillment. Maybe women should take a lesson from them.
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  19. If women want equality, they should also be held accountable when they deceive their husbands like this!
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  20. The man’s concerns are actually reasonable. A month of blind dating and then deciding to marry? Who wouldn’t be worried?
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  21. The scene of retaking wedding photos after 19 years is so romantic. I hope their happiness lasts forever!
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  22. You can accept a high bride price but not a premarital checkup? Is that fair?
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  23. Seeing others in debt because of high bride prices makes me hesitant about marriage.
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  24. When I went on a blind date before, I encountered the same situation. Thinking back on it now, it really was like that. At that time, a bottle of red wine cost me more than 1,000 yuan. I didn’t realize it back then, but now I see that I really met a girl who was just there for a free meal.
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  25. Why do women always use these childish tests to prove something? If you don't trust him, just break up sooner.
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  26. To put it simply, men in the matchmaking market no longer want to bear traditional responsibilities. Many feel it's better to stay single than to carry the heavy burden of marriage.
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  27. 1,000 women waiting in vain. Where are the men? They’re looking for younger and better options.
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  28. What men want isn’t the massage girl’s love, but a brief sense of satisfaction in their illusion of affection.
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  29. "I think this statement is very true: suffering in youth is not real suffering; suffering in old age is true suffering. When you grow old and have no family or children around you, what good is having money? If you end up with dementia, what can you expect from caregivers? If they don’t steal your money, you should consider yourself lucky. Older single women, wake up!"
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  30. It's so funny that the guy failed three blind dates, but fortunately he met the right girl later.
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  31. This industry demands the same of male and female drivers. Why do female drivers always bring up gender?
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  32. The groom did the right thing! You shouldn't compromise for money. If a marriage starts off with money as the foundation, will it really bring happiness?
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  33. In fact, these incidents should reflect the professionalism of the salesperson, not just blame the client’s behavior.
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  34. There’s a difference between being confident and being delusional. Sure, a 40-year-old woman can look great, but she’s still competing with younger women who haven’t been through the same life experiences.
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  35. She pursued so-called "freedom" when she was young, and now she expects others to pay for her choices? The real world isn’t a fairy tale!
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  36. Chinese women need to reflect on why so many men are leaving. Maybe it's time to reconsider the expectations placed on men.
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  37. These young people may seem aimless, but they support the foundation of society. Do we have the right to criticize them?
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  38. Marriage has never been a mandatory life goal. After 30, men should focus on their own life value.
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  39. How many families have been ruined by parents' insistence on "you must marry"? If I end up in debt, I'd rather stay single.
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  40. Do men really want to be 'bought' with money or a house? Is marriage a transaction or about love?"
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  41. What the author said is so true. I have also encountered this. When my career was not going well, my wife always looked at me with disdain and always said that I was wrong. When my income was good, my wife was much more friendly to me.
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  42. The looks and tactics of nightlife girls are indeed captivating, but it’s all just surface-level.
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  43. needed help the most, I realized my so-called friends were only there for the good times.
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  44. The man’s family is also at fault; their obsession with the bride price encouraged this imbalance.
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  45. Marriage nowadays feels more like a transaction, with women only caring about the assets and not the emotions. Prenuptial agreements are all about protecting their interests, while men’s feelings and efforts seem irrelevant.
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  46. For those still buying houses, they should think hard about this story. Buying a house is not speculation, let alone gambling.
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  47. If a guy spends hours at the gym every day, how’s he supposed to be a good partner? He’s neglecting his wife and family.
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  48. Nowadays, many Chinese men are hesitant about marriage due to the high demands of older single women, which is truly unfortunate. It's understandable that both sides want a better life, but many women’s high standards regarding material conditions often overlook the essence of genuine emotions. In reality, marriage is not just about matching conditions, but about two people facing life's ups and downs together, hand in hand. Perhaps if everyone could lower their expectations a bit and show more understanding and tolerance, happiness would be easier to find.
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  49. It’s hard to even get respect these days. No matter how much you earn, women always want more. When will it be enough?
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  50. If more women focused on building skills instead of complaining about the economy, they might not be in this mess.
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