Comments by "" (@NaturalDisasterObserver) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Her actions only reinforce the stereotype that women are gold diggers. In the future, good men might be too afraid to trust women. This hurts not only him but also the reputation of other women.
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  2. She thought she was just ordinary, but to him, she was the whole world.
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  3. If a man is honest, he’s accused of having no emotional intelligence. If he’s mysterious, he’s blamed for not being transparent. What do they really want from us?
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  4. As a man, it's okay to fail, but repeating the same mistakes over and over is pointless. Face reality with reason.
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  5. I feel this woman is really unreasonable. She’s been divorced for so many years, and now she still has the nerve to come and claim a share of the property. It’s honestly ridiculous.
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  6. Having kids just means raising future taxpayers, and marriage is just taking over society’s burden. Young people aren’t stupid.
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  7. A couple who once loved each other deeply are now like strangers. It's really speechless.
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  8. Models are like disposable goods. You use them for a short time, and once their appeal fades, they’re discarded.
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  9. I think rural banquet culture is no different from urban social media flaunting—just a different form.
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  10. Many men are already working hard, why should they be crushed by such high standards?
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  11. At the end of the day, marriage and childbirth are not things one person can bear alone. It should be a shared responsibility, but society today doesn't offer that support.
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  12. Men, make sure to sign a prenup before marriage, or you’ll lose your bride price and have no one to cry to!
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  13. What kind of social values are reflected in the tolerance for foreigners and harshness toward Chinese men?
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  14. When a man gains money and status, he becomes irresponsible. By the time he regrets it, it’s too late.
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  15. "This video makes a lot of sense. As women, being too tough can indeed create tension in a relationship. Being gentle doesn't mean being weak; it shows respect and understanding for each other. Often, a gentle attitude can win the other person's heart and lead to a more harmonious relationship. Being tough won't necessarily make the other person care more; instead, it might make them feel exhausted and distant. A relationship requires effort and care, and a bit of gentleness can help both people go further together."
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  16. The video talks about loneliness, but isn’t that a problem that starts from within, not something men can fix?
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  17. Older unmarried women want job opportunities, but why should companies bear the risk of your maternity?
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  18. This new marriage law is a double-edged sword. Women who put their lives into being housewives will now lose everything in a divorce.
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  19. It sounds like her bestie just doesn't want her to be happy with anyone. Maybe she’s jealous of their relationship?
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  20. Why should he be punished for just trying to earn a living?
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  21. Requesting a premarital health check is about securing the future, so I don’t understand why it causes resentment. Don’t men’s health and family happiness matter too?
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  22. Why didn’t they divorce earlier? Dragging it out only causes more pain.
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  23. I think marriage is a growth process for both men and women. Many women remain single in their 30s and 40s, pursuing so-called “independence” and “freedom,” but in reality, marriage can help a person become a better version of themselves. There are limits to what one can achieve alone, and the support and companionship that marriage offers are irreplaceable.
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  24. The woman who said she wants to make use of her beauty seems a bit like a gold digger to me. These women are so selfish.
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  25. These opinions are becoming more common not because being single is truly happier, but because many people can't find suitable marriages.
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  26. Keeping distance between besties and husbands is fine, but constantly doubting men is the issue.
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  27. Everyone wants to live a free life, but it depends on opportunities. If there are no opportunities, the only way to survive is to work.
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  28. Honestly, I feel bad for the guys who fall for these scams, but at the same time, I have to wonder why they don’t do more research or question these situations before going along with them. It’s 2024, we should know better by now.
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  29. The strict age limits in the programming industry are ridiculous. Does it really only have to be young, 'low-cost' programmers? If the industry is to grow, it needs to break these limits.
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  30. It’s understandable that women want financial independence and emotional freedom, but can dating a younger guy really fulfill their long-term needs?
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  31. Her bestie was a terrible influence and ruined her life."
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  32. Every family should ask themselves one question: When faced with the conflict between love and money, what should we choose?
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  33. For women, 30 is the ‘death line’ in the workplace, but for men, careers are just beginning. Have we underestimated the difficulty women face in the workplace?
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  34. Being 30 and having no friends might actually be a good thing. It means he’s focused on his career instead of wasting time on meaningless social interactions.
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  35. "Love" is increasingly like a transaction—men are the ATMs, and women are the recipients.
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  36. The development of the internet and the proliferation of social media have changed people's values. More and more people believe that showcasing themselves on online platforms is a relatively quick path to success. Particularly after seeing some successful influencers earn significant wealth through live streaming and short videos, many hope to replicate this success. However, in reality, those who can truly succeed through online platforms are very few. Most people, after investing a lot of time and effort, may not achieve the expected income and influence.
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  37. Thanks to the author for bringing such a wonderful film. My eyes were wet after watching it. It's so touching.
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  38. A drunk father, a helpless child, and a group of warm-hearted young people—what a contrast.
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  39. In modern society, women are more focused on self-fulfillment and independence, which clashes with some men's preference for "younger and softer" partners. The difference in needs is actually a result of a lack of communication and understanding. The balance in relationships lies in respecting each other's choices, rather than demanding one-sided changes.
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  40. I’m all for tradition, but when a bride price becomes an obstacle to love, that’s where I draw the line. No one should have to bankrupt themselves to prove their love.
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  41. If you have children, after divorce, you’ll realize that your ex-wife isn’t just your ex-wife, she’s more like a burden you can never escape from. If custody isn’t properly divided, many men will be stuck with their ex-wife for life. I believe the law should be more fair and not allow an irresponsible mother to use the child’s future as a pawn.
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  42. Beauty filters are just tools; the problem lies with the audience's standards.
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  43. Every job interview ends in rejection just because we’re “too old”—this is blatant age discrimination. Can’t we do the same jobs young people can?
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  44. She gave up her own world for love and came to a completely unfamiliar place—it's so moving."
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  45. Chase your dreams, no matter the job—every profession deserves respect!
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  46. This young man is so smart and brave—absolutely admirable!
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  47. Haha, thanks to the author for posting the video, it's very interesting. The way this man treats materialistic women can be used as a textbook.
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  48. I definitely won't marry an older single woman because I can't meet their income requirements. Haha, I can only look for a regular, good girl
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  49. If 36 men were fooled, is she really the only problem here?
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  50. When the family needs financial support, should women prioritize going back to work?
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