Comments by "Scott Charney" (@scottcharney1091) on "Law&Crime Network" channel.

  1. This sort of thing really hurts the boys involved. The double standard is awful, and we need to understand that.
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  2. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  3. As others have noted, do not speak to the police without an attorney!
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  4. Here's everyone's reminder that this behavior causes substantial psychological damage to the boys involved. Men who've been through this often have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries & consent, etc. There's more harm than that. This isn't a good thing. These women are predators.
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  5. It's taken more seriously, and gets more exposure and coverage now.
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  6. For everyone who thinks that this is a good thing for the boy involved, you should know that men who went through this as boys frequently have lifelong problems forming healthy relationships, understanding boundaries, and worse. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  7. Thankfully, it's getting reported more often, and ignored/tolerated/praised less often.
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  8. It's not new. People are taking it more seriously now.
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  9. Even if they are close in age, their teacher-student relationship is very inappropriate.
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  10. So, where are all the twisted, vile comments saying that the girl was lucky, that the only damage will come from high-fives, etc.?
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  11.  @Wooley689 The data are clear. Children can't give consent to adults. It doesn't matter if it's woman-on-boy, woman-on-girl, man-on-boy, or man-on-girl.
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  12.  @ScottRox-l1j  If anything, it's less broken now that more people understand how harmful this behavior is.
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  13. I'm glad to see that nobody is commenting that the girl in question is actually lucky... you know, the way they do when boys are in such situations.
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  14.  @Paragon_Reason  Knock it off. This causes a lot of damage. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  15. It's just being ignored less often.
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  16.  @trainingmishafuller7239  That's the majority, actually.
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  17. We already have men in the comments who don't have a problem with this. Just a few minutes into the video, the guest discusses how much psychological harm this causes. Boys who go through this often have longstanding problems forming healthy relationships, boundaries, consent, trust, etc. They get older, see children of the age they were when it happened, and it's even more disturbing. This is a terrible thing. If you think that it's so great, do you think that it should be legal?
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  18.  @16watch  This is just getting ignored/tolerated less often. Anyway, being young/attractive/married has nothing to do with being attracted to minors (a pervert).
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  19. Once again: While he was over the age of consent, the teacher-student relationship makes this very inappropriate.
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  20. Melatonin is used to reset one's sleep rhythms. It's not a sedative.
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  21.  @Camerabetrapt  There's nothing lucky about being molested! This is very harmful.
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  22.  @dirtyburger7528  That's not true. Read up on this, and pay attention to the video. Do you want this to be legal?
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  23.  @NickDrinksWater  This is nothing new. Such cases are finally being taken seriously.
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  24.  @MiguelDLewis  Knock it off. You do know about clergy and minors, right?
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  25. This is just barely within WA's age of consent, but even so, their power dynamic is a serious problem. Also, again, the boys who go through this often have a difficult time forging healthy relationships in the future, understanding consent, boundaries, etc.
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  26.  @LukeVincent-xt4dz There's nothing funny about this.
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  27.  @joep6035 We can't just say "well, it's OK sometimes."
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  28. It's not new. It's reported more since it's being taken more seriously.
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  29. We're hearing about it more, thanks to better reporting.
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  30. It's just getting reported on more, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  31. This isn't new. It's just being ignored less often.
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  32.  @RobbieStacks90  Mental health professionals make it clear that you're incorrect. Do you think that this should be legal?
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  33. It gets clicks. That, and more people take this behavior more seriously these days, sweeping it under the rug less often.
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  34.  @Carl_McMelvin  It's not lunacy. It's accurate. Do you think that it should be legal?
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  35. It's nothing new. It's just getting more coverage, as it's taken more seriously.
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  36. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  37. It's nothing new. Thankfully, it's taken more seriously now.
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  38. Also, no, it's not more common. It's being swept under the rug less often. People are more aware of how harmful it is, hence the increased reporting and increased prosecutions. Men and boys are more willing to come forward these days.
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  39. Stop using those horrible sound effects!
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  40. Don't talk to the police without an attorney.
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  41. There are more than a couple, and it really bothers me.
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  42. Once again: This behavior causes a lot of psychological harm to minors, no matter the sexes involved: man-girl, man-boy, woman-girl, and yes, woman-boy. Men who've gone through this usually have long-lasting problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, trust, boundaries, etc. If you are one of those people who think that this sort of thing is so great, "nice," or anything like that, do you think that it should be legal?
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  43. I'm a guy who knows that this is terrible.
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  44.  @Babybold_yk2  Not this again... This behavior usually causes men to have longstanding problems with forming healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, trust, etc. If you think that it's so great, do you want it to be legal?
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  45.  @hydrostatic8048  Not at all. It's taken a lot of social progress to understand how awful it is for adults to do this to children. For a long time, and it's not over yet, men have been able to do this to teen girls (and younger!) with impunity. In fact, see the Magdalen Laundries; the girls were often punished! Too many people still don't understand that woman-boy cases are bad things! No, it's conservative, patriarchal elements that have held society back from acknowledging that this is not okay.
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  46. It's nothing new. Thankfully, this is getting reported on more often, and ignored/tolerated less often.
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  47.  @jond508  That's not funny. This sort of thing really harms the boys involved.
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  48.  @bnwo  Nobody needs to do this to children.
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  49.  @AndroidSlime  They were elsewhere, not doing this to you. Be glad. I've already explained how dreadful this is.
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  50.  @jonkunnu8792  How so? Mental health professionals make it clear that this is very damaging.
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