Comments by "Smoking Crab" (@smokingcrab2290) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. They are brainwashed since birth to believe they are special little angels, princesses, innocent little doves who can do no wrong. And they're brainwashed with messages like "find a man who does everything for you and treats you like a goddess" and that men owe them everything. So not only are they worshipped merely for existing, but they are simultaneously voided of all accountability and responsibility by soceity. Whereas men are blamed for all the worlds problems. And then they are told they must create their own value, yet nobody owes them anything.
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  2. Men are being told the truth. Women are being told to destroy their own households.
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  3. @Bluesmoke4200, if I talked with your husband I guarantee he would validate the fact that 1. You are crazy 2. You're a manipulator 3. You're a liar 4. You are hopelessly dependent on him and you make terrible decisions without his leadership 5. The best you can offer him is sex I guarantee it.
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  4. They want everyone else to be the voice of certainty in their lives
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  5. The worst is how modern women think they are more capable of being men than men are. Their privilege fosters their delusions
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  6. And vice versa. If you fuck like rabbits, things will work themselves out. Sex bonds you to someone whether you think it or not. The thing that keeps you from making love is your own mental barriers. Plain and simple.
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  7. Women don't give dating advice like this though. They give extremely subjective bs answers. Or they just regurgitate mainstream gynocentric talking points they've been told to repeat. Ask 10 women dating advice and you'll get 100000 different answers.
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  8. Women DO NOT understand one another though. They don't even understand themselves. Do you know how many times women have told me "I can't understand my own feelings"? Or "I don't know what I want"? Either they are lying or they are telling the truth. Either way it shows they're a mess
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  9. So much overly analytical bullshit. Women suck at connecting emotionally.
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  10. The thing is that men basically now have to settle for 4/10's, single mom's, and psychos of they want to even get selected at all
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  11. Not to mention the fact that countless therapists have had many failed relationships and even marriages themselves. A sweeping majority of therapists are not in a position to be giving Sound Advice
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  12. I'm my experience, what vvomen want is detrimental to the relationship itself
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  13. @elainer8288, every single time a vvoman leads and doesn't submit to her man, the end result is disastrous
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  14. The man does change. He changes in the sense that he works harder and earns more. He evolves into a greater man that handles more responsiblility. The woman changes into someone worse. More stressed. More fearful. More insecure. More anxious. More jealous. And she does this to herself and takes it out on the man by constantly judging his style of leadership because she does not know how to deal with her own negative changes within herself and she demands the man compensate for all of it, but that's impossible. So the man is left wondering "where did the woman I married go" and the woman thinks "how much more respect and love can I strategically withhold to give myself more power"
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  15. @gary_dg, I'd rather have dangerous freedom than comfortable slavery
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  16. I feel like the story of the genie and the master is more akin to modern day marriage where men are the magic genies, and women are the masters. Once they give the man a good rub, the woman wants her wish and the man has to give it to her. The man wants to be free, but he can't wish himself free. He also can't make her fall in love for real with him. And if the woman disposes of the marriage (his lamp) his entire life is destroyed. Only nowadays the women want all their wishes without even rubbing the lamp.
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  17. Men and women need to be 100% of each other's emotional, sexual, physical, and loving happiness for each other. When you're dating, it's effortless. That's why people commit. But once commitment sets in, one or the other starts to stop pulling their weight. Both parties need to prioritize each others romantic, sexual, and emotional needs above all else. Meaning whatever you can give to the relationship in those areas is what you give FIRST. Then you worry about chores, family outside of the two of you, your own interests, etc and all the other shit. As long as you're doing this, it'll work. But people don't want to pull their weight or put in effort emotionally and sexually to keep the spark of romantic love going while also avoiding hurting each other. And when these needs arent met, resentment kicks in. And when communicated needs get ignored, then criticism and anger happens. And when it happens, the person who isn't pulling their weight is surprised. With men, it's typically a guy who doesn't care about the emotional side of things and thinks making money is enough to sustain the relationship. With women, it's typically a girl who doesn't care about the sexual side of things and thinks the man is a degenerate monster for desiring her, and she thinks just her willingness to be his roommate is enough to keep the relationship going. Both parties need to meet each other's needs. But when you investigate each other's needs, you gotta remember to only establish needs that can be met from the other person (sex, love, connection, communication, dates, romance, affection, etc). If you tell the other person you need things like "distance/space", "more time with family", "bigger house" etc. None of those things have anything to do with the relationship with your significant other. Those are things you are seeking outside of the other person at their expense. So those are not relationship needs, they're your own selfish "needs".
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  18. Women think that by making themselves hard to want it somehow makes them more desirable
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  19. I too did this. And it's all because whatever it is about being just me was never enough for anyone. It's so funny how women want to be treated like trash. They just love drama and they love simping for a man that makes her feel like she has something to prove. They tell us they want respect and love and all that, they call us "incels" when we call their behavior out, yet all that word does is admit that sex is the only unit of value they possess, and when you actually get experience with them you'll inevitably run out of reasons to think about them positively. Women screw everything up. And if you think they're good one minute, they inevitably change. Especially after you commit. And double after they have kids. Then it's menopause and shit. Life with women is wishing pain upon yourself. That's why lesbians are miserable
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  20. All Christians and pastors are simps and cucks. All women have to do is whine and cry and the man gets blamed for it all. Happens all the time
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  21. I would find how who her BF is and tell him
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  22. They actually actively destroy all efforts to seek improvement not just in themselves but in each other. Men will encourage other men to level up. But vvomen are like crabs in a bucket pulling each other down into sabotage because the truth is they are miserable and misery loves company
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  23. You need to define what wants and needs are bro A want is something you can live without and stay in the relationship even if you don't get it. A need is something that, if not met, you'd rather be single. Relational needs have to be met otherwise a relationship cannot happen. And relational wants are just bonuses. There have been documented to be a list of actual relational needs: 1. Sexual fulfillment 2. Intimate conversation 3. Affection 4. Recreational companionship 5. Physical appearance/attraction 6. Commitment/loyalty For example: I NEED my wife to sexually fulfill me, have open honest communication, give me recreational companionship, and to be committed to me, and sense that she is attracted to me. I need those things. If I'm not feeling her meet any of those to my liking, then she's not meeting the need and she needs to understand how to meet it. Wants are different.. I WANT my wife to dress up for me more often, but she doesn't have to. I WANT my wife to like all the same movies I like, but she doesn't have to. I WANT my wife to be as sexual as me, but she never will be. I WANT my wife to share more of my opinions and perspectives, but she doesn't. Things like that.. When I say my needs aren't being met, I am literally saying "my wife isnt even marginally giving me the baseline effort in this relationship despite all the effort I'm giving her".
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