Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Alexander Grace" channel.

  1. She did SIGN (Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be right) & DARVO (Deny, Accuse, Reverse Victim and Offender) like all at once. As a brother to six sisters that's pretty impressive.
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  2. Yep, 6 sisters, it's why I'm 40 and single. I see all the tricks, I know all the ways and attempts. If I didn't id have never survived to manhood. The tears are always fake, and they're always lying.
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  3. Stop dating cheap women, then be sure to define cheap as not worth having kids with. "You're cute, but I'm not interested because you seem like you'd be a bad MOTHER" is the best/worst response to a woman.
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  4. I mentioned that stat to my younger sister, actuary, CPA, financial planner, and HER insight was if 80% of spending is by women, ADVERTISING is the problem, they're not effectively capturing that 80% market of men who are not spending! Not even her thought of women overspending, nope, has to be men f-ing up by not shopping as much lol
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  5. You experienced the reality of accurate feelings, that HATE is actually the most extreme form of LOVE, because to hate you have to CARE so much. Indifference is the opposite of love. I don't hate thing, I don't regard it at all.
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  6. It's DARVO and SIGN all at once. Deny, Accuse, Reverse victim and Offender, plus Shame, Insult, Guilt, Need to be right, and throw in some minimization and invalidation for fun, on top of the tears.
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  7. I've said that exact thing to myself quite a bit, "Just because I'm traumatized is not an excuse for me to traumatize others"
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  8. It's like a con man, if you can't dupe your mark, you hate them for not letting you scam them, and if you do succeed in duping them, wow what a dupe loser to fall for that scam.
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  9. My mom gave me away to adoptive parents, is another woman leaving me something I need?
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  10. Nah, I don't want to be controlling or presumptuous, I don't want to mansplain. A real man gives you space to solve your problems your own way. That's leadership.
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  11. IF she put in some WORK and simply ASKED any of those men, 100% chance at least one of them would say "Oh, sorry about that, here have my seat, I'm off at the next station anyway..." BUT if she EXPECTS him to just DO that, because of her presence, NO, F that. I keep saying it to women, use your words, closed mouths CAN'T be fed.
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  12. Does she not realize the ONLY reason for her man to go out and drink with the friends IS TO FIND A BETTER WOMAN. It's why women need to understand we feel that when they want to go out with their single friends. The only reason we do that is to get laid, so when they do it we assume they're trying to get laid be someone other than us.
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  13. I just realized, not once, not ever, have I heard a single woman reply to the 'What do you bring to the table?" question with the ONLY good answer... That answer is "What do YOU WANT me to bring to the table?". THAT would be hot as hell, not her griping about the question, not getting offended, but straight up asking what are you looking for me to bring to the table.
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  14. I'm leaving the date right now because I'm looking for a good mother above all, and you're not it. Sorry, you just got outcompeted by my imagination
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  15. I told you I'd mow the lawn, you told me you'd put out all the time, there's disappointment all around.
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  16. Just like as a man I'm too busy leading to deal with her problems. I'm looking ahead. If she wants to be a follower, it's on her to keep up.
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  17. The woman has ended every relationship I've had, including my mom when she abandoned me to adoption at birth. I expect to be left by default. It's my reality women created. Thanks!
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  18. The advice I give everyone I know and work with is the same advice I got in college from professors: Never put anything in writing you won't be comfortable reading to a jury from the witness stand in open court.
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  19. I have heard women complain about their in shape man spending all his time selfishly in the gym, because that's all time that could have been spent on HER.
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  20. I love telling them you want a leader, then you have to KEEP UP. I'm LEADING, that means NOT LOOKING BACK or caring who is FOLLOWING ME, I'm leading not following. If you're not following that's YOUR problem, do better or get left behind.
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  21. I'm open and honest with women about what men want. Makes sense I'm long-term single lol.
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  22. Would he let a stranger talk to him like that? No? Then why TF would you let a loved one talk to you like that? Is always my thought process.
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  23. I was, but I have all sisters, so ...
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  24. I'm 40 and realizing I have NO CLUE what I want in a woman. What I DO have is a several page long front and back small print list built up over a lifetime of what I DON'T want in a woman. That makes me sad. I'd much rather have a positive trait list. But I can't because the list has to reflect objective reality.
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  25. Never faced physical violence from women, never NOT faced emotional abuse from women...
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  26. " " how can they have fun and talk all day and not get bored" is the question every man is always wondering about women lol. How can they have so much fun just talking all day and not accomplishing anything?
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  27. That's why step one, suffer. Like me, I think back I was a virgin until 19, so I know I can go 19 whole years without sex if I want. Can she?
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  28. He doesn't need ambition, he's already achieved massive success. He's living the dream. I'm wealthy, and when I tell people who are not that I'm jealous of them, because he has a son, they don't get it. MONEY IS WORTHLESS if it can't buy what you WANT. ALL the things I want have to be GIVEN, they can't be bought. And those people are truly wealthy.
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  29. I think it was Pokemain that was making so much money she was spending $125k/year on just Starbucks delivery...
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  30. If it's in savings it's a fail anyway. That should be in dividend stocks.
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  31. Try this thought: I actually CAN'T 'value' your time, because it's not MINE. I can't out a value on something I don't own. I can only accurately assign value to MY time, because it's mine.
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  32. Learning other people are just other people is what keeps me away from other people. If the bad ones are not special, that means the bad people are NORMAL, ORDINARY. meaning anyone including me can be a bad one. So avoid them all. That's where I take that. When my fiance left me, guys told me that, she's not special, she's just a woman, and I took that as damn, so all women can act like that, I'm out. If she was special, if she was outlier bad, I could take that. But if how she acted was normal bad, I want to avoid normal.
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  33. Yep, to ME it's not savings until that trade executes and I'm earning compounding divideds.
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  34. Where as me as a man, I often relish casually throwing out obvious truths no one else is willing to say in conversations and see what happens. Hey, that's a great plan and all, but [points] what about that big fuckin' elephant over there in the corner that tanks your whole plan and sinks us all, what about that guy?
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  35. She has prison looking tats and a nose ring, looking like that is why she's staying at home alone to me lol
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  36. Or even "Thanks you! I was having a bad say and it was almost worse, thank you!"
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  37. Whatever happened to seduction? My mother told me any woman that WANTS you WILL GET YOU. She'll make it happen if she wants to. Example: my dad said he shot her down 3 times before saying yes...59 years of marriage, 2 great grandkids, she chased him because he was what she wanted. He tells me he never wanted marriage or kids buy hey, why not?
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  38. Astonishingly easy. No girls, average salary, 30-50 is LOW in that case. My own dad left the military with a $30k payout, at 22, in 1961 so it was real money. He used that $30k to buy the property he left me that I've turned down 7 figure offers on, because it's worth 8 figures.
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  39. That's more an insult to her, honestly. SHE would have married him...and she's not in fact married to him, conclusion: HE would NOT marry her. If he would, he would have.
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  40. Makes sense why my spending is so low and my stock dividends are so high, no woman of the house to fuckup my procurement protocols
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  41. Who saves when they also have debt? That's losing money! If your debt interest is higher than your savings interest then savings is costing you money. You can't save until you are debt free.
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  42. BUT it has to be actual passion, and when you have actual passion SHE WILL COME SECOND. When you have a passion, you can't have TWO passions. And guess what, she'll come and go but your passion will remain, so whatever, forget her. If she wasn't enough to overcome your first passion, she wasn't good enough. It's why you don't date single moms, passion. Her passion needs to be her kids, if she makes time for me like I deserve OVER her kids, then she's a bad mother and why would I date a bad mother? If she's a good mother worth dating, she would not be available for dating because her passion is her kids and she has no time for a second passion, you. It's a catch-22 but that's why you avoid single-motherhood, she's in a lifetime committed relationship, with her kid(s), you can never be more than a SIDE PIECE.
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  43. and the masculine man faced with that walks away, because he has better things and people to do.  @derwoodhamburger 
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  44. They're romantics WHEN THERE IS A PAYOFF FOR THAT. I'm not really looking, so my romance level is subzero. If I'm not trying to get her, there's no reason to be romantic.
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  45. Humility is the ultimate confidence. Sure, I donated a million dollars, so what. Yeah, I ran that 10K in 59 minutes, I do that all the time, big deal? Yep, I'm the supervisor at work, and I didn't even want the job, they just gave it to me, I'm pretty good. The bigger the accomplishment, the bigger the downplay of it you have to do.
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  46. RIGHT?! I thought it was just malice, now I'm seeing it's incompetence, and now I almost feel bad for those women lol. Like he said, it's not a bug, it's a FEATURE, they're supposed to be like that. I remember my big breakup, my friends telling me "Hey man, she wasn't special..." and me interpreting that as "Wait, if she's not special, that makes her normal, are you telling me ALL WOMEN are THAT BAD?! OMG" and them saying Yes, that's what we're saying, was trying to cheer you up, think we just did the opposite lol. It's not finding a good one, it's finding the least-worst one.
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  47. Ironically those are all MASSIVE assets and huge plusses. Not having negative things is a positive thing.
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  48. I love women telling me what I want, I grew up with 6 sisters so it definitely takes a woman to tell me what I want. No woman has even ever ASKED me what I want so dafuq do they know?
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  49. Well, because of women's intuition they never choose abusers.
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  50. I grew up and took over my elderly parents finances and realized my whole childhood they'd lied to me, we could easily afford all the things I begged to do as a kid, I think they just didn't want to spend the time. The excuse was always we can't afford that. Sucks to realize lol. Now as an adult I'm in the same place, I want to do things, I can afford to do anything, now I just don't have the time or drive. Made me vow never to do that when I have kids. It's why I haven't had kids, I want to be in the right place first.
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