Comments by "Robert Morgan" (@RobertMorgan) on "Alexander Grace"
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Jealousy is bad, but ENVY can be useful. I know personally it makes me feel bad seeing happy couples and families, but not in a way that I'm like "F them, why do THEY deserve that and I don't", no, that's a mistake.
Thinking damn, what can I do myself to get that because that's what I want. It's nothing to do with those strangers, they're just the example I'm comparing my situation to. I don't hate them, I hate whatever about me is keeping me from that, THAT I can probably work on and control. I can ASPIRE to that. I look up to those successful people, I ADMIRE them.
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Right? That's why I say the most valuable things have to be given, not earned. Bought love is not real. It has to be selfless to be truly there. That's seen rarely.
Being controlling and forcing people into 'loving' you, basically serving you, that's easy, you see that all the time, every day.
Being loved or beloved, people CHOOSING or even putting in effort you didn't ask for or maybe even want or expect, that's love, that's somewhat rare anymore. That's your sibling texting if you're still at work, because they realized you've been at work all day and you're probably hungry, so it just so happens they've cooked one of your favorite things and of course far too much of it, they'll be by in 5 minutes with food for you. Unexpected, unsolicited, and with no expectation of anything in return being cared for, that's WEALTH, and it's priceless.
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That only works if the man doesn't take her back. That NO at the end is crucial. Not no after we try things out again, not no after one quick blow and go where she 'happened' to 'coincidentally' run into you, NO it's who are you, I thought you died, gtfo I'll get a restraining order shouting no means no at her in crowded public.
I hear it so often, the then I took her back again, and she did it again, ran off with a felon gangbang, then I took her back for a few years, then....just on and on, over several marriages, ick. Be stronger, men.
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Maybe I'm weird because I grew up with all sisters, no brothers, middle child, tell these women NO.
You broke a nail, you want to go to Benihanna, no.
Just no. Oh, she walked out? Great, glad she left willingly.
You give POWER over yourself to those you can't say no to. MEN, did you have sex when you were 5 years old, 10 years old. NO, so you KNOW you can go without sex, you've done it before. Value peace and your self over her demands. If we're not the prize to her, YOU BE THE PRIZE TO YOU. Make HER work for it. Walk away as a FIRST option, they'll follow, or they'll get out of the way, either way not your problem.
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That's why I have a man rule for stuff like that: They're not here, I'm not thinking about them.
I'm on a 6 mile trail run, alone, so why would I think of other people? This is my time to not have to do that, just for an hour, let me be ME, not "ME in the context of how I relate to other people". As far as I'm concerned in that moment, there are no other people. It's just me and the moment, every moment, and they all count.
If women never get to feel that, I pity them, I truly do. We should all get to experience freedom inside our own head and selves now and then.
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@pugsymalone6539 I hired my first employee in my 9 year career the other week. He had almost as much expereince as me, is on track to get all the same licenses I have, and has worked at more treatment plants than I have.
My interview process was giving him a tour, describing things, answering his very knowledgeable and relevant questions, then just saying "I can see you know what you're doing, do you want to give us a try?" |
I'd basically already hired him on paper because his resume was great, so the interview was basically a formality. I need people, I'm not trying to disqualify, I'm trying to convince lol.
Luckily in my org, at the moment, I'm my own HR dept.
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