Comments by "s reed" (@sreed8570) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. One statement in this video really hit upon the problem with the thinking of these women. It stated that "a marriage isn't a one-sided proposition". That is exactly why these women are still single at advanced age, they only see a marriage from their point of view, as if it were a decision they alone make when they are ready to make it. Never once considering what a man might think or feel.
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  2. Whats next 75 year old women saying they are "High quality elderly single women"? Men can get high quality dried fish at the market, why would they go to a matchmaker for it?
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  3. The hollow empty eyes seems to be a trait they all share. Sometimes they can put on a fake smile but it never reaches those cold dead eyes.
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  4. The matchmaking is for men? Really? I guess someone forgot to tell them because the only people that show up to matchmaking events are either women or the matchmakers.
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  5. Now the men have to have helicopters just because she managed to squirrel away a few nuts for winter. This channel just gets more comical every time I watch it.
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  6. She says lets not let it kill off any chance WE might have, but what she really meant was don't let it kill off the chance I might have at getting his money and property. I've always thought western women were very selfish but the Chinese take the gold medal for it.
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  7. Women in their 20's say its their right to choose career over marriage, and everyone agrees. Then in their 30's they whine because men won't marry them. Men say its their right to stay single and not marry, everyone go's no no you must get married. Its like rights only for women.
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  8. That has got to be the saddest most pathetic thing I've seen watching this channel. If women actually wanted to be wives they would be, they would have realistic expectations and be more accepting of the men they date. They don't want husbands or to be wives for that matter they just want the wedding and security that comes from being married.
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  9. All these 35+ women and their great "conditions" meaning their high salaries are so full of it. If they make so much money why do they need a man earning twice what they earn? Its because they have no intention of continuing working either after the wedding but most certainly after the first child is born.
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  10. The only law that would even partially fix this issue would the the return of the bride price upon divorce. It would make women not divorce for frivolous reasons and alleviate some of the anxiety men have about getting married.
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  11. Every time I hear that stupid phrase "high quality woman" another blood vessel in my brain explodes. It never comes from someone describing a woman, it only comes from older bygone bitter barren women talking about themselves.
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  12. Its the same as it is in the US, men stuck in the friendzone at 20 are of course going to reject those same women when they come crawling back at 30+. Its like, now she thinks you are good enough but she is no longer good enough for him. And they get all pissy about it.
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  13. There is absolutely no reason to let these women get under your skin or piss you off, whenever it starts to happen simply remember NONE of them are going to find prince charming. Even if by some miracle they did they'd reject him for nonsensical things like a zit or the color of his shoes. We've all seen it time and time again.
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  14. Women living in dirt floor shacks demanding all this money and gifts is just mind boggling. I sure hope they like their shacks because no prince charmings coming to save them.
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  15. It's so sickening how women like to use the word "suitable", as if they meant a hard working decent honest man. They do not, suitable for them is tall handsome and wealthy and even then there are a laundry list of other things the man must bring, have and do to win their cold hearts.
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  16. I don't understand why they want to get married at all. Why don't they just live with the choice they made and be happy in the house they bought with their pets and their cubicles at work? Just leave men be.
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  17. They are so ridiculously childish. They destroy their families chasing some fantasy happiness like a child chasing a squirrel. Then when reality kicks them in the pants they want to call take-backies and have their family back. Sorry ladies that is not how being an adult works.
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  18. The only reason for a man to marry is to start a family and that requires a healthy fertile woman. In contrast the only reason most women marry is for the security, that's especially true for older woman.
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  19. China wouldn't need subsidies and encouragements for people to marry and have kids if bride-prices, dowries and other nonsensical bride remunerations didn't exist.
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  20. Pride-prices and dowries and things of that nature played important roles in society 100's of years ago, but modern society had rendered them unnecessary. They are now nothing but signs of greed that turn what should be a beautiful marriage between a man and woman into a financial transaction.
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  21. They have no desire to be housewives but at the same time they all want to be married. What possible use could a man have for a wife that is nothing but a burden?
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  22. Now women are getting jealous of call girls. Men are not "falling in love" they are simply receiving what they desire from women and are able to pay the price.
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  23.  @zebare726  The key word there is "someday". Someday I'll win the lottery, someday.
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  24. None of them would pass that's why they're so against it. Even finding a 19 y/o virgin would be like 1 in 100,000. You can bet the few women that are chaste have no issue with the checkup. The whole point of the arranged marriage and bride price was to insure the purity of the bride.
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  25. If human trafficing is illegal why not simply petition the government to add bride=pricing to those laws? For many families they're simply selling off their daughters to boost their sons.
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  26. Don't be naive and give your money to these massage girls who actually give you some return on investment, instead give it to 30+ y/o leftover women on blind dates and gifts with 0% return.
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  27. They refuse to accept that them having the freedom to demand certain standards of the men they want, means those men also have the freedom to reject them.
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  28. Resisting a health check is the same as resisting a DNA test to prove paternity. If there is nothing to hide why hide behind feelings of insult and indignation?
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  29. Men from rural areas without wealthy parents or exceptional abilities should spend their 20's living as frugally as possible and investing every cent they can so by 30 they can have a self sustaining income. It may not be a lot but removing the need to work 40+ hours a week will make for a much happier existence. They will also remove any need to be dependent on others.
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  30. The women that balk the loudest at not turning off beauty filters are no different from those that argue about signing a prenup. They give away the plot with every word.
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  31.  @Maybe-cg2tn  You're 100% correct, and the men still reserve the right to refuse.
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  32. These videos amount to nothing more than women throwing temper tantrums for not getting their way in the dating market. Exactly like children they refuse to accept that LIFE ISN'T FAIR. Your future outcomes are decided by your past choices.
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  33. Woman pushed and pushed, even as economies crash and people earning decent amounts feel the pinch they pushed and they pushed. Men have had it, women have managed to push men that 1 mm too far and they are about to deliver to women a most fitting reset. Its really good that women say they love their careers so much, because that's all they will have to hold at 40-50-60--->.......
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  34. She said it right there, they are ALWAYS looking for the better man. This perfect fantasy man doesn't exist and they will never find anyone even close. But they will sleep with one handsome moneyed man after next in an effort to find him.
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  35.  @smcdonald9991  Had to trade mine in woman wanted a 100k ring. HAHA
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  36. No man should ever take back someone who willingly packed up and left him.
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  37. No matter how many times they are told and who's telling them they just can't believe that men don't care how much money they make, especially the kind of men they really want.
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  38. If you didn't know the truth of their situations you'd almost feel sorry for them. But knowing the only reason they're single at such advanced ages is because brideprice greed and pickiness makes any sympathy impossible.
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  39. I think I understand whats going on in China, the educational system is NOT teaching women the true definition of the word "REASONABLE". They have no idea what it means.
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  40. 9 to 1 thems pretty good odds considering in the states its 900 to 1.
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  41. Its so sickening to listen to these women. Regardless of the situation or outcome its always the mens fault. If the man has too little money, his fault. If he has a lot but chooses not to marry, also his fault. Young marriage is dead thanks to women, older marriage is done thanks to men. Women need to stop waiting at the finish line for rich winners and work with men at the start to get there.
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  42. If a women Chinese or any other race wants to forgo having children and a family for her career what need doe's she have for a husband at 35+? What is all the bitching and crying about? Just enjoy your life and job as is, why do you need to get married? These are honest and reasonable questions. Men marry to create families, it seems modern women marry only to make their lives easier.
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  43. They cry he wouldn't remarry them, that sounds so insane. I've never heard of that happening before must be an Asian thing. In my country once you're divorced that's it there's is no take backsies.
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  44. When will women get it into their heads that masters degrees high wages and owning homes and cars DOE"S NOT make them more desirable to the men they want. To men with money homes and education only youth fertility and cooperativeness have value to them. They're like children, want to have it all. You get a choice when you're young, marry and have a family or college and career. You can't have both, that's why the divorce rate is over 50% and the marriage rate is 5 per 1000.
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  45. Its time for the government to step in and make the brideprice and other remuneration for marriage illegal. Its no different than parents selling their daughters and the extortion of men.
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  46. She says when they guard against each other like thieves, what she should've said was when he has to guard against her and her parents thievery. She had nothing to lose.
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  47. 20 Year old feminist=Feminism is great I don't need a man I can make my own money. 30 Year old feminist=Feminism sucks I don't want to work anymore I want to be a housewife.
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  48. They talk about the bride price and betrothal gifts as if they are some kind of absolute law that must be followed. When in fact they are nothing more than the WOMANS demands and her parents demands. These things could just as easily be forgotten and many more men would be open to looking for partners.
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  49. All it takes to identify people living in a communist country is to just listen to its women rant.
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  50. The problem comes from their feelings about money. Their money is this precious finite resource that must kept, hidden, hoarded and protected like a naked child in Siberia. Whereas a mans money is this fountain of limitless mana falling freely from his pockets to hers.
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