Comments by "Brian Meen" (@brianmeen2158) on "The Diary Of A CEO" channel.

Well many guys experience the same thing but with women.. either they are nymphos that just want sex(even though they claim in their profile they don’t) or they have no idea on how to start or maintain a nice “back and forth” conversation .. most women I met on dating apps fell into one of those groups. That or they messaged a few times then disappeared .. So either most of us sane men and women are terrible at picking or connecting with compatible mates or something else is happening .. I mean, I was on dating apps for 5 months and I was shocked at the average woman’s ability to hold a decent convo .. they thought that endlessly talking about themselves was the right thing to do? Or just type 1-2 word responses .. it’s bizarre to me
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@cbflazaro great point. I bet most women end up completely Passing up the “boring” or “average looking” guys. The types of guys that would be decent providers and stable and not the type to cheat.
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@merakiansoul1111 oh boy here we go again with not understanding male or female nature. Please understand that to men, physical attraction is very important - it has to be there for us guys to be interested in the first place.. so of course, men will place high value on how a woman looks!! It’s the same as women judging men on their height or earning prowess .. i don’t care whether you like this it not - it is what it is .. we need to accept it and Move on or else we will be caught up in this forever and will get nowhere
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@agamerjourney9146 let’s not forget mentally Ill- many women on dating apps have at least 1 mental illness .
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@Sjb2077 I’m not sure but of the men and women I know that are truly living on their own(with no mate) - they aren’t doing well. Not the women or the men - they are either depressed or addicted or rapidly pursuing a partner .. the only place I read where there are supposedly these rising numbers of single people that are “happy and thriving” is online. I’m not claiming content single people don’t exist but just that they are much more rare than those online would like you to think they are
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@Christoff8188 exactly. People act like dating is harder in 2024 but it isn’t.. it’s just people are so comfortable and not willing to put effort in - they want Things quick and easy.. people in the 70s and 80s had to put a lot of work into dating and relationships and they had much less ways of communication and that made it even harder. People today just want to think they have it the hardest for whatever reason
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@fs5775 but that’s what all generations before us did - they put effort into dating because they wanted sex and companionship .. todays generation doesn’t want to put in that much effort without guaranteed success yet they will also complain about being lonely. It’s so bizarre to view this from my vantage point .. Plus younger generations today are terrified of feeling discomfort. You have a lot of young men that are afraid of approaching women as they don’t want to be called a creep .. lol this is absurd as guys in my generation knew we could get rejected or called a name if the woman was in a bad mood but we easily shrugged it off as we knew it was part of the deal
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@smokingcrab2290 . Honestly women are slut shamed quite often but it’s usually by other women
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Yeah it’s another thing that just has me wincing. I’ve opened the doors for many men over the years and they have for me as well - it was simply a nice gesture - it wasn’t some underhanded tactic to procure sex from them lol.. Feminism has injected some incredibly toxic ideas into the mainstream. At this point I’m much less likely to help women out at all and that’s very unfortunate
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@tresjolieme81 I’ve lived in the south and have opened the doors for guys and they said thanks and we both went upon our day .
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Galloway is fantastic
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“Most people are horrible” They really aren’t though .. the vast majority of people are not great or horrible but a mix of many different quirks and behaviors - many are needy, emotional and self absorbed though but I still wouldn’t go and call them horrible
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@ladybug3380 sure and if women don’t want to be the provider then they need to ask themselves what they are bringing to the table as well.. and the value should be somewhat equal .. if the woman is providing 3 metrics of value then he must be providing at least 2 and working on a third All relationships are transactional after all ..
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@Pault3788 well if you are working towards good job and physique then there are women that will find you attractive. It’s obvious from your post that you have very low self esteem But that can be improved .. I really don’t think you are fine with being a failure at all
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@Nisperoxx so you want a bold masculine man correct? You don’t want these guys that can’t make decisions and can’t take charge right? Please say it louder so your female peers can understand
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@thediydentalchairguy7269 I hear you but I know immigrants with manual labor jobs and they have a wife and kids. They make it work
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I see mostly the negative of AI though. Just the zapping of jobs is large enough to outweigh the positives . When we have self driving machines things will get messy .
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I’m sorry but excess fat on a woman is not attractive and never will be
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@michelleroberts6597 you can thank the progressive liberal for that. They wiped out religion and eliminated most of the joys of being in relationships and having kids
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@petercorinth33 you cannot expect men to have as much emotional intelligence as women just like most men can’t expect women to be less emotional or neurotic. We must understand each others nature and to try to make it work.
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Oh yes.. energy and body language are huge in terms of how others see and perceive you.. I know upbeat confident types and pessimistic low energy types and the second group struggles being accepted by peers .. what’s worse is they generally are unhappy to begin with - then that negative low energy only seems to further repel people thus making them even unhappier creating a vicious cycle
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@Iamtrinajae I’m sorry but you are very unlikely to ever meet a man that will fill your needs. I’m not saying your needs are wrong or warped but will say if our grandparents had your standards - I’d say at least 50% of us would not be here today.. that’s one of the things unique to todays generation - they want and expect someone that will fit them almost perfectly .. oh and that that person will Ben and mold and maintain that shape for the rest of their lives.. it is completely unrealistic
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@Xianne027 yes but those “equal partnerships” rarely seem to work long term from what I’ve seen. The women I’ve met that seem to want everything completely equal tend to lack femininity .. and sometimes physical fitness
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@Sarah-with-an-H yes I don’t doubt that but why are these women with men that aren’t helping them at all? Didn’t these women notice these men slacking at the beginning? Why stay with a guy like that? This is a huge problem for both men and women - they are choosing the wrong partners and valuing the wrong things and then staying with that partner with the deluded hope that that person will change. It very rarely will People need to scan for red flags and if there are enough you need to move on to the next person ..
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I’m still So confused as to what happened at Evergreen - it is so illogical
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@MichaelAlbrecht-d7z it is quite disappointing when long term friends end up lying or stabbing you in the back or when your gf does similar. I’m 39 and I know human nature much more at this point and I’m cautious when around people. I just find most people to be too needy, emotional or self absorbed
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@nommh yes but women must also adapt and realize that they can’t expect their husband to be like their BFF .. too many women these days expect men to behave(emotionally) like a woman and this is foolish. But yes hopefully both sexes adapt
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@geebee8989 yeah way too many people today are lying to themselves by thinking they will be fine if they stay single forever. From what I’ve seen very very few men or women can live a full life without a mate or partner
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@marials9245 yes and now that the show is on the other foot, we will see very few of them women wanting to marry as the financial risks are too great ..
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@PrisSimons you are not going to get men to stop wanting easy casual sex!! I’m sorry but that isn’t going to happen - I’m not sure what feminists were thinking in wanting this type of sexual liberation. It’s almost like a few men brainwashed these women into thinking it would benefit them more than men lol
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@tompa5360 true. I’ve always said that men are much more easily satisfied than women. If a woman stays in decent shape and is fun to be around without too much drama then the guy will be fine. The woman typically needs a, b, c, d and e and all must be provided in full or else she loses interest. I don’t know how any relationships make it lol
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@waynealex8703 yeah for the life of me cannot envision how we steer this back on track. I doubt NY Times, CNN or Fox will ever switch up to doing down the middle political coverage.. the universities and even the fbi are corrupted to a certain degree. This is a mess
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@maryodonnell5760 I think Sam is aware of the problem(as he is or of very few that calls it out) but he had no clue in terms of how to fix it
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@sophiab.282 are you talking about divorce? If so, women are the ones that file for divorce in 70-80% of cases so it’s not just the man upping and leaving out of nowhere
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@cantbendknee . Yes and I’ve talked to quite a few women about this very thing and they acted borderline disgusted at the thought of being with a man that would be honest all day while they worked. Perhaps these women are the minority and the rest think differently? I doubt that’s true though
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@YaBasicMillenial . But women file for divorce in 70-80% of cases! It’s not the men that are making the decision to opt out of marriage in most cases . We need to go by the facts here ..
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@Senorzilchnzero porn, OF and videogames truly seem to have crippled many Men’s motivation .. what freak me out are the guys that pay money to watch other people play videogames 😳
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@kdsantana1 they aren’t but I doubt she’d ever admit it The only place where I find chronically single people that are “happy and thriving” is online.. I don’t know of a single man or woman in their 30s and above that is single and content or happy. That is also not looking to find a mate.
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@Eris.Tottle definitely. I see guys taking full advantage of liberal sex relations and it’s been going for so long I don’t see any way of dialing it back. Many women today are basically almost forced into having sex with certain men just to make sure they don’t lose interest in them
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Yep. I’ve always told guys that if they can get to a place where they can reject an attractive woman’s sexual advances that they will have mastered self control. People that give into sexual advances too easily are the opposite of strong . Sooo much damage and dysfunction in our society due to peoples inability to delay their sexual needs
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@Sarah-with-an-H well an increasing amount of children are growing up in single parent households so they won’t even have any parental examples to go off of.. women cannot raise boys to be men just as men cannot raise girls to be women .. this is a problem that is only getting worse . Not good
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@Systemv1 accurate. I hear more folks bring up ‘emotional abuse’ and that can literally mean anything ..
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@Alphacentauri819 oh please, if women had created as much as early man did, you’d be saying the same things about them. Fact is, no human or very few have the insight or ability to predict what will happen 50-100 years down the road after they have invented something or crafted a policy. You know better than that
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@BenetbenetLive Sam is one of very few that haven’t been captured by an echo chamber . So for that I value him
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@whawha8043 I’ve been on more than a few dates with women who pretty much right out of the gate flood me with how bad their past relationships were and how much trauma they have etc etc. this sort of thing blows my mind as it will Repel any sane man … so please ladies don’t do this!!
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@aaabbb8812 where do you get the notion that psychopaths do not suffer in solitary confinement? I’ve never heard that
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@IndigoBellyDance most intellectuals are exactly what you described
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@monicas3307 outside validation will make certain people happier .. being in good shape creates a positive feedback loop whereas being overweight or obese tends to create the opposite. And yes, our society treats “fit people” much better than unfit people. So many reasons why losing weight would tend to make one a bit happier
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@dm2836 “exchanged one suffering for another” How are you suffering now? I hope you aren’t starving yourself to keep the weight off as that’s not sustainable.
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