Comments by "Blah Smith" (@LittleMew133) on "PsycHacks"
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Here's a little biscuit of wisdom: "Type 4’s vice is envy. 4's often compare themselves to others, contributing to their sense of lack and shame. 4's tend to believe that others have what they themselves do not and they also believe that things come more easily to other people. This vice keeps Type 4' heavily focused on what they believe they’re missing. They spend considerable time yearning for something outside of themselves that they feel would benefit them—often the love and approval of others. Type 4's are sensitive, creative, and expressive people who are interested in finding and understanding their own identity. But this search for identity can be a major source of stress because Enneagram 4's want to know they have a special purpose in life, and they want other people to recognize that as well. It’s important to be yourself, even when you’re facing stressful situations. Trying to act like someone else or pretending that you’re not overwhelmed as an Enneagram type 4 is not going to help. Understanding who you are and what causes you stress, however, can help you to find the peace and fulfillment you’re looking for and avoid those situations that get your head spinning. As Type 4's move toward personal growth, they start acting like a healthy Type 1's, the Perfectionist, a serious, responsible, organized person who seeks to make the world a better place for others. Enneagram type 4 needs to feel valued and accepted for who they are and to recognize their own unique identity. By taking time out to reconnect with themselves and using their talents and drives, they can leave stress behind while they become the compassionate, creative artists they were meant to be".
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