Comments by "Blah Smith" (@LittleMew133) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Also, 3:33. Why do people get with people they don't really like? YOU'RE NOT EVEN THAT EXTROVERTED? Is being by yourself THAT terrible?? I don't get it.
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  2. Omg that's very me. I think people with that mindsets make GREAT teachers though. Because they can see, guide and encourage people towards certain paths.
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  3.  @jwdsax  Depends on context and tone. "I have been working so hard at the office. You have been home all day? What did YOU do today?!". Totally different.
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  4. I remember petting a dog in someone's backyard while the party was going on. Random dude striked up a convo, getting weirder by the seconds. So I asked where the bathroom was and hid in there for a while. Excellent strategy, would recommend.
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  5. Idk what dark magic compells every guy that I talked to, to want to take me back their home city when their home cities suck ass?? One idiot bought a house according to his family members' tastes and recommendations, not even slightly alligned to his taste or my taste. Like he anchored our future upon some random people's frames. Zero braincell has been used. Negative IQ territory.
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  6. Have your parents ever told you that you're very stubborn? Or "I told you so" after you ran face first into the wall that they told you existed?
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  7. Did your Dad ever turn around and say "good job" at all? I mean cannot really argue with progress and results. Or are you guys still "no talk me, I angy" at each other for a couple of decades? There are mf's who tear you down on purpose, and then there are those who try to stop you from "pursuing your dreams" because they worry about your security. You cannot lump those 2 together blindly. And also, life is not that long and anything can happen at any time. Just saying.
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  8. So base on this, will you please be my friend and companion? 🥲
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  9. Aye, you cycled through all the new shirts in the pack you got.
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  10. That dude is so bad at math and logic. How did he even get into MIT? Did he use the national average probability of female math enthusiasts onto the fking MIT campus??
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  11. Confidence is overrated. That is why Silicon Valley investors keep on getting tricked by these supposedly genius start-up personalities, with nothing to show but a grandiose display of confidence. You don't need confidence to do much of anything. You just need competency and willingness to try.
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  12. Then there's me: "I like fried chicken, perhaps we can have fried chicken for dinner." I just realized that FUDGE I WAS THE VICTIM OF RELATIONSHIP CREEP. SPREAD AWARENESS EVERYONE.
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  13. The whole universal "ideal" image is BS. My Mom and grandma specifically wanted soft men, who are emotionally available and family oriented. Just imagine golden retriever puppies with good reading skills. But if my Dad and grandpa had pretended to be someone they weren't, those unions wouldn't have happened. When you are yourself, you risk not appealing to certain demographics. AND IT IS FREAKING WORTH IT 100%.
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  14. If that friend REALLY likes you, they create environments for you to hang together. Like "hey, wanna go to the bar or gym together?" Unless they just like solo time, if they invite others and not you, then you know where you stand. Humans are not rational creatures, never, not even a little. There is a study on patient who damaged the feely bit of their brain, and he was unable to make the decision to turn left or right, since left or right have the same rational weigh. So if you can still turn left or right, congratulations, you are not (completely) rational.
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  15. Yup, hence the song "Love Just Ain't Enough".
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  16. From university onwards, I was BOMBARDED with Red Pill ideology. It's the dominant view in US Northeast anyhow. I don't see such stress in inter-sex relations amongst my European friends. No true segregation between the sexes. They are much better socialized from a young age.
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  17. I don't entirely agree with your view or Red Pill as a whole, because you're saying personality does not matter whatsoever and that is just not true. You're assuming people are entirely rational beings that go for profit optimization, but in another video, you admitted to going for bat sheet crazy batches. So you disprove your own point, that in fact, you never optimized, for yourself. You just sniffed out the --- crazy (pheromones? shared experiences? who knows?). See?
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  18. Jokes on you, I basically supervised and raised myself for 2 months while I was 6 years old. Maybe that kinda explains my fudged up attachment style idk 😂
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  19. Chris, why didnt you choose the chick that flew across the world to be 5 minutes away from your workplace. You know Im just a rice farmer, metaphorically 😊
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  20. Read the fudging book recommendations 😡
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  21. BAHAHAHA I'm actually deceased, because you're mf right. Get an expressive warmth in your voice, and some twinkles in your eyes and I'M SOLD. This is very dangerous information for the public LMAO
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  22.  @MVProfits  In traditional Christianity, women are taught that they are objects belonging to men. I think in the vows state they must obey their husbands? And God has created them from men's ribs or something idk, to serve the men. So yeah, get brainwashed for a bit, and you don't have any self-worth too.
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  23. I think the whole "where am I compared to other people" is prevalent for SO dominant and secondary. If you're SO blind, like I am, it doesn't affect you in the same way. I was bottom of my class for a while because I transitioned into fully speaking English classroom and "er me Enrish wusnt gud" you see. Many others who were not SO blind expected me to feel 1 way or another, like ashamed or self-pitying, about that. But looking back, I was more blind than a bat - apathetic in every which way. All I really cared about was to learn as broadly, deeply and quickly as I could. I gave 0 care about my rank within the class or whether or not everyone else understood that paragraph and I didn't. What I notice SO dominants do is that they care a lot, like ALOT LOT about their images; it's more important for them to APPEAR admirable than BE admirable quietly, if that makes sense? They rather place themselves into a tiny pond to feel like they're the best, than venture out into the ocean and realize they aren't. Ain't me, never was me, never will be me. I am SP dominant so I do care a lot about my bodily health and security. Gladly go live in the woods like Henry David Thoreau, where there are no people or scale to measure yourself against - completely different value system.
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  24. P/S: I moved myself slowly but surely to the top of the class. And soon enough, I was on par with and bested native speakers. Got scholarship and invited into academia societies. When you focus on you and the race with yourself, you will surpass pretty much all other people who are simply trying to talk themselves up, instead of actually doing the thing.
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  25. But overall, I do agree that taking actions towards concrete external goals is the best route. Even if social recognition ain't really your jam, doesn't really hurt.
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  26. SO dominants are usually pretty obvious to me, especially compared to a nearby SO blind. SO blinds usually say these things to SO dominants "bro, nobody cares about you THAT much??" or "why do you compare everyone and everything??" or "all this drama is exhausting, don't you get exhausted??" If you have thought about or said 1 of these things to someone, congrats you are in the presence of an SO dominant while NOT being one. Sorry for your loss, truly, because you will never experience peace ever again.
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  27. This is why I make it a point to hiss even though it's not in my nature. Though, I do find the ones that actually bite (aka assholes) pretty cute.
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  28. Oh! I know a chess Master and he's a real condescending asshole lol He majored in Pscyh at uni too, and teaches chess on the side.
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  29. Stop hypnotizing people please. Where art thy morals?
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  30. "When you stand for nothing, you fall for everything" - Alexander Hamilton.
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  31. I can guarantee you no men worth dating, had ever looked at a bum-like woman with no jobs, friends and hobbies and went like "wow, she's attractive". Never happened in history. Because those women are, repeat after me, b-o-r-i-n-g.
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  32. THOUSANDS of options?! Holy sheet, I'm going to back out of that vicinity immediately, because ... social anxiety.
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  33.  @psychacks  Yo Orion, can I work with you? :D So you know that Christopher H. O'Brien guy? He thinks that I won't fall for another person no matter what. Wanna test that theory? Come to Ho Chi Minh city; we can go out for some coffee and discuss philosophy. Or are you into the cultures and the arts like I am? Did I share the story that my only relationship was with an ex that stole me from the guy I was talking to at the time? I will admit I have a precedence bias, but I'm not so stubborn to not let the universe intervene and change my mind.
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  34. Nothing is less attractive than adults who cannot think and act on their own. My college professors pretty much all said "I know you were taught up until high school to ask permission for everything, including being allowed to use the restroom. But if you're going to do that with me, I'm going to answer "idk, can you?" to the question "can I use the restroom". You're all adults now, learn to adults".
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  35. Clearly haven't met Canadian women.
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  36. Understanding is both ways. If you're an asexual with a sexual person, it's like "yeah, I understand ... but I don't like". LMAO you don't have to accept what you understand.
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  37. Stop exchange the meanings of words. Just use the Oxford dictionary definitions and many problems could be avoided.
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  38. I cannot NOT ask: did the whose child it was situation get resolved? 🥺
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  39. Apparent, genders only exist in US? ​ @marktapley7571 
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  40. I is psychologist? Woooow xD
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  41. Here's some tips for you guys: assume the worst, until they prove you wrong. Not the other way around. I assumed my love interest would never be interested in me, is an uncaring asshole, is a player, values work and everything above me, is a broke ass who cannot afford to send his potential children to university, etc etc. And I still like the bastard. But then he proved all of those assumptions wrong, so they become extra perks and not the foundation to the connection.
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  42. Oh no. Why you do dis?
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  43. Close your ears, Chris. It is not true. Everything is just a dream rofl
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  44. As a daughter of 2 pharmacists, I will not stand medicine slander. Treason! Also, take some magnesium y'all.
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  45. Truth helps people make "correct" decisions, for those who want to make decisions at all. Lies are for losers who don't wan to make decisions, and just want to pretend everything is sunshine and butterflies.
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  46. I think women or jusr anyone at all, should stop using emotions to justify their bad behaviors and to manipulate. It's not classy.
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  47. "Spend hours staring at thin strips of processed pulp covered in lines of dried ink" - thanks, I feel offended.
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  48. Idk why age matters? Confused. Just a couple of hundred years ago or even now, people marry 12-14 years old girls while being like 40-60. It is fine for the time and religion apparently. 🤷‍♀️
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  49. It's the lesson of "don't shoot the messenger" or else, he won't deliver jack sheet info anymore.
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  50. We all want good sammiches
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