Comments by "" (@budbas) on "Legion Of Men"
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Different experience here. I'm the type of sigma male who likes going on adventures and hacking computers with my brotherhood or studying, rather than wasting time with girls. I also never went to parties or clubs, just hung out at the workshop upgrading my cars or hacking computers. This left very few women in my circle, only my classmates. My first girl was my classmate, 10/10. We liked each other, but I was the one who offered her an open relationship; she is free to have a boyfriend if she wants. And she did, but after few times breaking up, she always came back to me.
My problem isn't that I'm simping (yes, I'm simping, but because she's whining at me, not because I'm intended to simping at her), but actually I'm not sure if I can be a romantic guy who can satisfy what girl asking for. My hobby, my brotherhood, is my ultimate joy. Her is secondary. I guess this is my mistake, but I really I like her but don't want to compromise my joy.
Until one day, my classmate introduced me to her friend. she is 7/10. Less scholar (I and my gf take master degree together). But her modesty, trust, and never hassle or whine at me, were the main factors to dating her. She is just she is the way she is. We go date for 2 months, 2 years long distance, back for 6 months, then married. We've been together for 20 years.
When I was long distance with the girl who became my wife, my first girlfriend was still expecting for me, asking me to go to her place, or study together. Once - and only once, we almost hookup. But thankfully, few honor and sanity left on me save me that night.
My life and my experiences make me wonder about today's men; Is sex so important to you guys? until you simping or compromise your and her honor to satisfy it? (except you intentionally dating 304, of course). I am not lying. Sex is very enjoyable. But I would rather hire professional sex workers to satisfy my wildest fantasies than waste time and money simping or acting dishonorably. After all, It is their job and expertise to give me satisfaction.
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Let me show it from a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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@georgedang449 I'm reading your post. Some of your stories are similar to mine, but I think they are more similar to my father's life. My father and mother are still in an extended family. My grandparents married them because my father, who lived in the city, was busy building his business after graduating from college and had no time for women, while my mother had just finished college and lived in the countryside with nothing to do but help my grandmother. Growing up in such a family allowed me to understand from a young age that "love" as Hollywood defines it is not a kind of love but more like a strong feeling that often fades with time. The love I saw in my parents lives was about care, respect and honor and a little about the feeling of a man and a woman together on a journey of shared beliefs and principles.
Since our family rarely talked about feelings, we almost always talked about thoughts. We assume that as long as we treat others with care, respect and honor, they will have positive feelings towards us. If not then we can talk and think to find the best solution. Logic based on beliefs and principles, and not feelings, is how our family operates. There must be a reason for everything and explain the reason so that other people can understand.
This makes our family a little different in our environment. We don't really care about looking good, or who leads or follows as long as it serves reasons that align with our beliefs and principles. And this is how I chose my wife two decades ago, and how my wife and I raised our family.
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Let's me view it from a different angle:
There are many similar prophets known in Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
Specifically in Islam, there are 25 prophets, but only 5 are entitled to be the highest prophets: (in order of existence) Noah, Abraham, Moses, Isaac and Muhammad.
1. Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina to save them from enemies, on God's orders.
2. Moses migrated from Egypt to Israel to save them from Pharaoh, with God's guidance
3. Isaac migrated to Gerar because of the famine, with God's guidance
4. Abraham, the father of the three religions, migrated from Ur to establish a new nation in Canaan at God's command
5. Noah is the precursor to Abraham, because Noah represents the first instance of God’s attempt to form a covenant with humanity through one person. It is only Noah that has no migrate, but ordered to built the Ark at God's command to save the rest from extinction during the Flood, which God created after regretting that the world was full of sin.
Christianity, Islam and Judaism account for more than 55% of the world's population.
From the story of the prophet we can learn that:
A. After the great flood, all the prophets had to migrate for their safety or to build the nation. Even the prophet migrated. Why don't you?
B. Abraham sent Eliezer to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Moses. Are there no women nearby? There must be. But a Woman of Quality is worth to be found faraway in a distant land.
C. Muhammad's first wife was one of the richest widows in town. She married him not for money, but treated him with respect. Their marriage lasted until she died, and during this time Muhammad was monogamous. Even after her death, Muhammad reminded his next wife to respect her, making the next wife jealous. Love based on care and respect remains in the heart and endures until the end!.
D. It doesn't take long to decide whether you should migrate or drown in the flood to wipe the world full of sin. Note: They even teach such things to children. Save Your Sanity Now!.
Anyway, the 1st in the Islamic calendar is not Muhammad's birth date. This is the day when Muhammad migrated from Mecca to Medina. The calendar itself called the Hijri calendar, derived from the Arabic word "hijra" which means migration and is celebrated by all Muslims in the world. It's first month has title ‘the month of Allah’, the most blessed in the Islamic calendar.
-- God blessed you the day you migrate. Remember to Celebrate!!! -- 🎉🎊✨
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