Comments by "Sexy Beast" (@sexybeast7728) on "Charisma on Command" channel.

  1. and yet you are engaging in a small talk on youtube... don't delude yourself. You don't hate small talks, you can't hate small talks (that's like hating the fact you need food to survive), you just hate the fact you suck at small talks, that your social skills are shit. If you think you hate it then you don't understand what small talk is and what is its function in society. Stop that "new-edge" crap that you are a lost individual in this stupid world in which nobody gets you, everybody else is stupid, rules suck, adults are idiots and stuff like that. There are evolutionary reasons, written deep in your essence of being, for why small talks exist. So stop that crap and take control over your steering wheel. I recommend reading "Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. It puts your life in perspecitve.
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  2. Then you are not listening either. If they so desperately wanna tell you something, acknowledge it and then finish the topic no matter how long it takes which will result in opennings... if they keep repeating the same thing then YOU failed as a listener. If they keep ignoring what you have to say, either speak up about it, or find new people to talk to.
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  3. Joker by Heath Ledger is the single greatest villain of all time.
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  4. ww3
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  5. "Great news! I hated that son of a bitch."
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  6. there is one sleazy trick you can use.. It's sleazy because you are being arrogant a bit, but it works. Anyway the trick is to ask question, confidently (with smile perhapse), and if they don't respond or they respond in a bad way (whatever the bad way is for you) remain confident and make them feel socially awkward. Be like: "wtf dude, i am just being polite, that's what people usually do in this situation, why are you acting so weird and socially awkward?" mentality. If you can project that feeling to them, they will start investing in conversation immediately because nobody wants to be socially awkward (except for people who are socially awkward in general). To summarize.. Act like everything you do is what people should do and usually do in that particular situation and if they don't go along with you, they are just being weirdos.
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  7. he reminds me of one of the columbine killers
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  8. That's not really a great advice because that way you are just deluding yourself that things are easy to get, as in you dont need to put an extra effort to achieve whatever you want to achieve. You essentially ignore bad stuff... much better advice would be to interpret your physiological state in a positive way. For example, if you are about to have job interview and you feel nervous, dont think about it as a nervousness, think of it as if you are excited because this could be a starting point of something big, etc. Funny thing is that symptoms of feeling nervous and being excited are the same!! So it's really down to what you make of it... stay positive that way, dont delude yourself thinking only good can happen.
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  9. so in short: make yourself busy with things you love to do and everything else will come to its place.
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  10. I can give you example, yesterday i was on main square with 4 girls and 2 guys from my college class standing and waiting for tram and i started conversation asking every one of them which path they are heading. All of them answered except for one girl that was like, - "why would you ask, why would you care, it's none of your business, it's my private life..." (she was just teasing, but still), i responded to her: - "why would i not ask?, i am just making a conversation going. everyone said where they are going, what's the big deal" - i got an agreement form the group and whole focus was on her. She kept teasing for a little bit more than she stopped for the rest of the night. I also told her in joking way that i will never ask her that question ever again because he clearly is upset by it (and i mean it). She gave me smile. That also gives me fundation for future jokes. Simple line like: "I would ask you where are you going now but i said i will never do that again so..". That line will make her giggle for a bit. The point is, as long as you act confidently and assuming that you are acting the way people should act in that social situation, you have nothing to worry about.
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  11. on youtube*
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  12. because people get too obssesed with feeling that they have to apply what they have learn so they overthink everything, their every move then at the end they actually become, guess what, creppy because of incongruence. They don't act naturally, but weird.
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  13. ...tomorrow
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  14. 1. be exceptional 2. dont brag
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  15. dancing is God given way of flirting and boosting a good mood.. if only more people knew.
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  16. I've never understood those people who think they have a life figured out so they impose their beliefs on others. It's not up to you to decide whether that's a good or a bad choice, so shut up.
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  17. i wouldn't say that she doesn't have charisma at all, she does, but it seems inappropriate.. i would say that they don't have chemistry. They wouldn't make a great couple, because they are on a different wavelengths. He is obviously more into his thoughts and she is light hearted, very light hearted. Some people love that others don't. Not that any of them is right or wrong to be in that state, but they don't match, simple as that, no chemistry.
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  18. That's compeltely false. Obviously you can name people who fit the description, but as easily, i could name people who don't. No surprise there.
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  19. zidan40o0 that's lead to friendzone
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  20. how dare you to bring your arrogant ass remotely close to this nice, humble fucking comment section
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  21. confidence, confidence, confidence.. that's literally everything you have to master. Working on being confident every day and you will be able to do anything without looking like a fucking clown.
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  22. a m i feel sorry for you... i am not handsome and i barely get rejected. I am the "i don't usually date such kind of guys" guy. It's all about confidence.You will probably ask why i am here then.. well that's the problem, i know what to do and i am still eager to learn more, to see it from a different angle, improve my "game", while you are here just to tell that this doesn't work without even applying what you have learned. Because after all, this really is just a game. Attraction is essentially "chasing game". Giving positive body language then taking that positive body language away, making her feel that she doesn't have you and makes her curious about your intentions. That's literally all. i feel pitty for all of you. you don't know what you are missing.
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  23. clearly a clickbait. what a douche
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  24. quick tip that i found on my own... i practice being confident through playing a role/ being playful. Literally act like a confident guy (slightly cocky if you know what i mean, teasing around) and if anyone asks you, you are just having a fun that's all. Eventually you will find really easy to say the most wild things you have never thought you could say to a girl or anyone for that matter
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  25. Why would everybody need to like her personality? We are all different and we all like different things and that's how supposed to be. You don't have to like her, but if you hate here then you have a problem.
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  26. learn how to spell, for starters.
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  27. Tip #0 : don't ever use word date again. You are not going on a date with a girl, you are meeting with her, 'hanging out'. The word date puts too much pressure o her and on you as well,.. plus it reveals your intentions straightaway, which kills all the curiousity. Go out as a friend and escalate your realtionship by touching her and having fun. Believe me, it is 10 times less awkward if both of you have 'this is not a date' mentality.
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  28. on 'Charisma on Command' channel? That was quite ambitious.
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  29. He is just acting that way. He is clearly a showman
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  30. creatorofdragon It's very easy.. interaction just flows when you just don't care. Be yourself, and by that i mean express yourself without giving a single fuck and you will be successful with women
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  31. Man, you have some much catching up to do. Go watch his clips immidiately. He is literally life changing person. You won't regret it, believe me.
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  32. lol that makes sense, how could i not see that well then i won't waste my time.
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  33. if someone asked you a question first you look at him... but you should also invite other people in coversation by making an eye contact. But it's key to not go from eye contact with one person to an eye contact with another too fast. If you are telling the story, first 6-8 seconds look at person who asked you or who was talking right before you, then look at other person for at least 3 seconds, then other and so on... If there are like more than 5 people in conversation then you have to separate them in groups, like: one group of people in front me, people next to me from right and people next to me from left side and then give each group eye contact. in short, just invite everyone with eye contacts, but don't move your head too fast, you still want to move slowly and talk slowly because that projects confidence.
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  34. Chris Wilson obviously i am talking about when you overdo it
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  35. ***** how many times you tried to take her over? Do you understand that only difference between good looking guy and average dumb guy like you is their stance and belief that they are good looking?
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  36. 4st
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  37. you could make a charisma break down of Joker
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  38. YES, DO IT. Something that we can do daily that will overtime improve our posture. There are some very bad tips out there on that as well.
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  39. - -  , i talk from an experience. I used to say that i "hate" small talks, but as it turns out, i just wasnt good at it, and i love them now. I am an introvert, btw. After a huge party, i need 3 days for myself, to be with my thoughts only, to energize, then i am good to go again (definition of an introvertism is not that you dont like socializing, but that you get tired by it, opposed to extroverts who get energized by it). I love every bit of socializing, but not too often. You might not like small talks, but hate is too strong word. It's like saying: "I love swimming, but i hate getting wet." It makes no sense. You are lying. Small talk is just a medium to get to deeper conversation, a stage of interaction in which you build trust. You need it, i need it, everybody needs it, that's why it is there so let go off your ego and fucking get good at it. You dont hate small talks, you just hate engaging in an activity you suck at. Do something about that!
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  40. ... it's a joke
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  41. they don't lose interest if you are being engaged enough
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  42. I am honestly not sure whether that was an euphemism for your date not getting lucky that night or you were just talking about beers..
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  43. it will take more than a couple i reckon.
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  44. nothing too special about him. Humble, joyful, amazing actor.
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  45. Also if you are woman yourself, just do men population a favor and don't give advices at all, please
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  46. knowing something doesn't make you necessarly a manipulator.
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  47. Booper doop shoop da woop because you don't know how to escalate. If you know what you are doing she will immediately pick up the signs but still have doze of wondering whether you truely like her or not = curiosity Lol, and how is that going on for you?unecessarly putting pressure on her to either accept or reject you in that moment.. plus all the curiosity is gone. And makes you look like a low value (desperate) man if you do it very early in interaction. I am not saying it's impossible to do it if you ask her for a date, but it's way more comfortable and easier for you and for her. Just learn how to escalate
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  48. Alex Sanchez exactly.
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  49. what is about?
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  50. you don't have to stop surfing on facebook entirely. It's okay if you don't want to, but don't withold yourself of any kind of joy just to make things done, you will be more efficient, but believe me that will make you unhappy. The point is to not overdo it and not to entirely cut off things you love to do from your life to stop yourself from procrastination
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