Comments by "Tom Nook" (@TomNook.) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. "if they don't want you in her prime, don't provide for her in her decline "
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  2. "My requirements are modest.... I just want everything"
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  3. You know something, I have never heard a Chinese women ask about a suitor's interests. It's always about their wealth and assets.
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  4. "everything happens for a reason" Calls 99.9% of men unsuitable Yes it does, lady.
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  5. "mY dEmAnDs ArEn'T uNrEaSoNaBlE"
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  6. Her name is Lulu....short for delulu 😭😭😭
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  7. Always check the goods before buying
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  8. First dates with.... Russian women: what are your hobbies Chinese women: how much can you give to me
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  9. I've seen loads of these videos, probably listened to hundreds of Chinese women looking for a husband.... I fully understand why China's birth rate is so low.
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  10. Why do they always make it about their gender. ALL men are constantly fighting for good jobs.
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  11. It's incredible how women call themselves high quality because she has very successful masculine traits....you're not supposed to compete with the men you want.
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  12. Take off that filter please miss, then you can talk about offering value.
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  13. "he is required to hand over all his salary....I'll give him some pocket money" Do you want a man or a child for your husband 🤣🤣🤣
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  14. That last girl is completely insane.
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  15. Women requirements of husband: 6ft guy, 6 figure salary, house, car, 6 figure bridal price, hubby has to hand over all his salary - reasonable Men requirements of wife: not delusional, wants to and able to have children - we must shame these men
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  16. Strong and independent and crying in front of social media....
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  17. When women ask for everything but offer nothing the man can't do himself. A woman offering children and being a loving mother is worth a million times more than a woman with a house, 3x Mercedes and 500 handbags.
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  18. 2:47 "and the women's choice became more complicated" If the ratio is 9 women to 1 man, you ladies aren't choosing anything. He will.
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  19. Take that filter off, miss.
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  20. 1st girl - men don't care what your job is (as long as it's not sex work). They care that you have a nice attitude and are good mother material 2nd girl - you go girl, work for a corporation rather than work for your family.
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  21. How can men afford children after paying for all the dates, buying a family house, car, paying a bridal price and handing over his entire salary to the woman? Even if she is earning, she will not share a single dollar of her own money.
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  22. Merry Christmas ladies! Enjoy your presents paid for by...you!
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  23. It's so simple. If she doesn't reciprocate what you put in on a regular basis, you leave.
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  24. Most women only wait at the finishing line, they rarely support you during the journey
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  25. I recommend Chinese women and their parents learn the word love before entering any relationship
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  26. Let's be honest, most men would have tuned out at the start when she says "my requirements are reasonable"
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  27. As reasonable as women's requirements
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  28. Women keep saying they won't compromise. They don't realise they are compromising - not having a loving father to her children, or not having children at all. Those are major compromises, far worse than settling for a non perfect man.
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  29. They always learn too late. Sad for society, but they made their choice to become strong and independent long ago. Them filters really are insane.
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  30. If you've spent your entire life saving to buy a house, car, pension, then find a girl, she's going to keep all that AND a bridal price. Once married, everything will be in her name.
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  31. What happened to strong and independent
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  32. Women selling their qualities as having multiple degrees and a high paying job is like men saying they're a nice guy.
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  33. Meanwhile in another video, a foreign guy gets a Chinese girl pregnant. No marriage, no bridal price, no house required.
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  34. This is the first video where I've sided with the girls. Not one mentioned their requirements of the guy, but they seemed more modest and reasonable than 100% of the women in past videos. And the guys mentioned here, disregarding women for their job, they need to grow up.
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  35. It's always been the case since the beginning of civilization
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  36. Remember the golden rule - there should ALWAYS be comparable reciprocation. This goes for every relationship - in business, life, not just love. The one exception - if you're a parent giving for your children
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  37. Both the Chinese bridal price and western spousal maintenance systems are flawed. The former means the woman gets the payout as soon as they marry: the latter, when they divorce. So where is the incentive for women to stay with men and build a family? They get their big payout either way.
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  38. a "good" guy from a woman's point of view is a chad, not Mr nice guy
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  39. 11:32 "I think these requirements are normal" A 3 asking for 8+ standards.
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  40. Don't let the corporations take your money
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  41. Lol simppppp
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  42. Here's the thing with family and passing on your genes... You have to be a person who is likeable enough to potential partners. It doesn't matter how "high quality"you are....if you're detestable as a person, you won't have - or deserve to have kids. Your "high quality" will die with your grave.
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  43. I have watched so many of these videos, and not once has a woman mentioned love as a key requirement
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  44. It's very simple. A woman gives a man affection, he will reciprocate in some way. We're not like women.
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  45. 2nd woman too. "He's so stingy, not buying me a designer bag for our first date!" Deluded
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  46. First girls mind has it all wrong. It's not about satisfying your parents. It's about having a family, love and a life partner. Not your own selfish needs.
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  47. Never marry. If you find a woman who wants you for your values and character, she will have children with you without the marriage contract. Pay for her, pay for your children, but only if she is aligned with your values.
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  48. Older and more financially successful women always criticise men harshly for picking younger and down to earth women...but let's be honest, who would pick the older women with unrealistic demands?
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  49. Make it equal on all aspects, men will come.
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  50. Legend. He always illustrated points in such a direct, but calm way.....yet the women who called him for advice still don't get it.
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