Comments by "Adam Kidd" (@AdamKidd1972) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. I miss the old America I grew up with where people could thrive finding their happiness. The American dream is now found within a passport. Most of your problems will disappear when moving to another country. Yes, I know overseas isn't an option for everyone for various reasons. A person should chose the best option for themself or face the consequences.
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  2. Even the unattractive women have there pick from all the desperate men. Guys step up your game.
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  3. Born in 1972, I learned to be resilient through life’s challenges. Now at 52, I’m happily married and living a peaceful life in Thailand. Life is short—focus on what matters and keep moving forward.
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  4. Playing video games should have taught us one thing. The right path will always have challenges ahead.
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  5. ​ @jaya8729  A real lion doesn't have to roar to let everyone to know he's the king !!!!!
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  6. Choosing the right location for yourself while traveling or living overseas makes all the difference in the world. A simple change location can easily change your opinion about a country. Everyone's definition of happiness varies depending the lifestyle they seek just keep an open mind. This is why its important to do your research on countries your are interested in visiting. Many wonderful countries that can make you happy in life with knowing there are plenty of options to explore in the world. The low cost of living and how well you treated will blow your mind. Every country has areas I call no my fly zones which people should avoid. Bad things can happen overseas but is the minority compared to America. The people you see in videos talking of bad things that happen them was cause they were being stupid or not doing their research. When something happens I don't like I will ask myself would it be better back home in America. The answer for me has been always no it would be much worse. You have to take control of your happiness creating a better life yourself. Everything starts with one step in the right direction setting smaller goals to obtain a bigger one in life. Always keep moving forward no matter the pace not giving up on your dreams.
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  7. The best advice I can give men is work on yourself getting your butt overseas escaping the madness.
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  8. A woman with a toxic mindset always destroys their future. Don't become part of the collateral damage ruining your life. Reality will always trump unrealistic expectations. Sadly many people are beyond the point of no return. I hope the men here wise up working on themselves creating the life they deserve. Have the courage to explore your happiness no matter where you live.
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  9. They are bad people all over the world who will try to take advantage of you so be smart staying safe. Never fall in love with the first woman you meet always exploring your options until ready to settle down with a partner. There will be plenty of people you can vibe creating new friends having a great time. Don't go looking for a companion in the darker side of countries who dab in the naughty life. People to avoid overseas is fairly easy to spot if you do your homework. Do your research never packing bags hoping for the best. Those who don't arm themselves with knowledge will get taking advantage of by others. Remember Google and YouTube can be your best friend in answering most questions. Take the time to explore at your own pace never rushing to find happiness. Remember you are a guest in another country so be respectful to the people and culture while overseas. How well you are treated in another country will blow your mind with you never wanting to leave. The biggest hurdle is having an overseas income and meeting the visa requirements. You are responsible for your own happiness living life with no regrets. Enjoy more life for less money while overseas.
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  10. I only have sympathy for those who didn't vote for these policies. I couldn't live in a place where I am afraid to walk out my door. Only the legal immigrants should be allowed. I escape the madness moving to Thailand in 2013..
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  11. Helping Family the Right Way I support my wife’s family when they truly need it—but only in situations beyond their control. In Thailand, much like the Philippines, family bonds are strong. When you marry, her family becomes part of your life. Most people would help their own family in a tough time, so it’s only natural to do the same. The key is setting personal limits and knowing when to say no. Not every situation requires help, and it's important to make sure support goes to those who truly appreciate it. I focus on assisting those who are working to improve their situation or facing unexpected challenges—not repeated issues. ⚠ Be thoughtful about financial decisions in relationships. It’s important to understand the full situation before offering help. If you choose to give, do so wisely, and only within your means. Setting healthy limits ensures a better future. In the end, build a life you’re happy with—one without regrets.
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  12. Women need to understand they are the bears. I was taught never to feed a bear.
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  13. Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come. I mainly moved overseas for a lower medical cost, and the rest was a blessing. Of course you are going to create a life living in another country its only natural. Many older men can easily go overseas not giving up on life finding happiness. Its more of a struggle for a younger man, but doable if they refocus on obtaining an overseas income. Even if you can't meet requirements yet for long term stay, you can easily bounce around the surrounding countries cheaply. In reality men have plenty of options available if they have the courage to explore their happiness. Living more life for less money is never a bad option.
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  14. Men who empower a woman's toxic behavior needs to be held accountable. Ignoring the red flags to chase the kitty will always end in your misery. In a successful relationship the heart is more important as looks fade with age. Always been easier to blame others for the problems you allowed into your life. Each new day provides opportunity to change for the better.
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  15. Most the people who ask you to contact them are scammers on Telegram, etc. Tribes of Men would probably ask to send him an email listed on this channel or make quick mention in one his videos instead. Why would a Youtuber use another channel on YouTube to contact you? Be careful if you contact them. Never give out personal information that can create problems in the future.
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  16.  Hshs Bshs  There are areas in counties I call my no fly zones for various reasons.
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  17. Do you possess the time to loiter for a couple of decades for things to come back to reality? Men ready to create a family now best options are getting their Passports moving overseas. Having the right mindset overseas your world will change beyond imagination for the better. How well the locals treat you compared to back home will blow your mind. I moved to Thailand in 2013 being married which is virtually impossible to find a good wife back home. I spend $1,200 up to $1,500 monthly to maintain my lifestyle in our village. Monthly I almost save double what I consume overseas having an extremely nice savings account. Not everyone can live in a village due the lack of amenities easier found in the cities. However shopping online can make the village life easier. Later when needing a change I will probably move to a smaller beach city like Jomtien or Hua Hin away from the holidays spots. If keep your expectations realistic within your budget you will enjoy a delightful time overseas. No matter where you live establish the life you deserve having no regrets.
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  18. All anyone can do is point you in the right direction. You have to decide to walk the path before you. Every path will have obstacles and forks in the road choosing the direction you take in life. As long your are moving forward don't concern yourself with people who walk a faster pace than you. Don't allow others to discourage your dreams. When learning to fly you must let go of things weighing you down. Success is paved with failures of those that don't give up on their dreams.
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  19. Trying to explain the hard truths of life to some people is like trying to explain color to someone who is color blind. Some are not willing to use the color blind glasses even if it would improve their quality of life. They will make excuses instead, sad but unfortunately true :)
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  20.  @jimmyjay689  Cause a candy has a pretty wrapper doesn't mean it will not taste like crap.
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  21. I see America becoming like the 2006 movie Idiocracy in the future. If you have not seen it you should watch it being shocked. :hand-orange-covering-eyes:
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  22. If I didn't have an job income overseas I would go back to school. I would use the money wasted on cave trolls, etc... Overseas you can find happiness beyond imagination if you work on yourself first. I am debt free living more life for less money overseas with my Thai wife. Have the courage to explore your happiness your future self will thankyou.
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  23. All this crap disappears with a passport moving overseas.
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  24.  @helend2790  Most people today don't understand analogies.
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  25. These simps believe this is the only option instead of working hard themselves regretting their choices later in life. I am married, retired at forty moved to Thailand living a wonderful debt free life with no regrets. Nothing was ever given to me working for everything I have. I have a life threatening blood clotting disorder but never self pitied myself no matter how rough it gets. It is a big world out their to explore if you have the courage to explore all your options. What makes a successful person is not giving up when you fail. Life is never fair with you having to work hard being responsible for your own happiness and success.
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  26. I've seen desperate men get drunk and try to pick up Ladyboys in Thailand. Even when they openly state they're men, the drunk guy refuses to believe it. Makes you wonder what the first surprise was back at the hotel room! You can also easily tell the difference between men who "rent" a girlfriend and those genuinely looking for a serious relationship. Honestly, you don’t need a dating app to find a good woman in Thailand; just take your time and choose wisely. The opportunists can spot a simp from a mile away, so focus on improving yourself first—or risk getting eaten alive.
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  27. From an early age, societal norms often condition us to seek approval from parents, teachers, and peers, leading to a reliance on external validation. This dependence can hinder personal growth and autonomy. To cultivate self-worth and resilience, it's essential to practice self-validation by acknowledging and valuing our own achievements and qualities. This shift empowers individuals to build genuine self-esteem and fosters continuous personal development, enabling a more fulfilling and independent life.
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  28. If your looking for celebrity status you may find it in a smaller city or if you lead with your wallet depending on the country. If living overseas why in the heck do you need a dating app? Women who quickly want to date you don't be surprised if she wants money for her time. Secondly if she is so easy how many other men has she been with before you? Most women in the Philippines are dating for marriage with a few exceptions. The goal is to live more life for less money without the drama in another country. Make sure to take your time finding a woman that makes you happy keeping your expectations realistic. You can get a TEFL certificate doing online courses fairly easy to teach English online. Remember we are only given so many heartbeats to create our happiness. Don't waste them on poor choices cause Father time creeps up quicker than you think. Work on yourself doing your homework preparing to move overseas. Anything worth having in life takes effort with no free handouts.
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  29. I will never apologize for the person I have become. Label me if you want and I will wear it as a badge of honor overseas. Living more life for less money with a wonderful woman. What more could you ask for out life life? I have seen grown men cry not wanting to go back home cause of the drama. Some men will work on themselves to go live overseas and others will accept their fate back home. You have to make the changes yourself with others pointing in the right direction to find true happiness. Most viewers here already can see what is wrong in America today. The question becomes what do you plan to do about it? Have the courage to explore your happiness no matter where live. Never let anyone destroy you peace in life.
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  30. What is sad is these type of guys go overseas paying for sex. Then they marry the girl wondering why their life was completely destroyed by her losing everything.
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  31.  @imneverwrongsometimestruthlies  I took care of my mom until she passed away with cancer. I was there for both my father and mother until the end. Medical cost is just so expensive in the west these days. I am thankful my parents raised me right so you can call me old fashioned. I was a lucky child having both parents who loved and took care of me. I move to Thailand 10 years ago which was a perfect fit for me. Having ongoing health problems I always try to live today that would make yesterday jealous cause tomorrow is never guaranteed. Life isn't always easy but try make the best of each day you have. 🙂
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  32. Trash is garbage no matter where you live. Most men enjoy more life for less money without the drama overseas. The life you deserve is the one your willing to create.
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  33. Lower testosterone is also tied to the food and drinks you consume.
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  34. Women who want to escape military service will get themselves pregnant. The Island with Bear Grylls episode men vs women. The women were begging the men to help them to survive. Take away the comforts provided by men and the women will always fall apart in the end.
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  35.  @asparrow9876  I agree
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  36. Who am I to judge another person happiness? I do recommend building a new life first then seek a partner taking your time. Super young girls just out of High School are usually too immature and haven't discover who they are in life. However there are a few exceptions the to rules in very rare cases. I can't tell anyone how to live their life. I will say you can't blame others for your poor choices in life. Just be careful staying safe creating the life you deserve overseas.
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  37. Always keep the first few dates simple. A person first wanting to know your life history or an expensive restaurant should tell you to run. I don't recommend long distance relationships especially overseas. You don't want to help a girls sick grandmother who is a long distant memory. Never rush to find love taking your time to meet the right partner. Never show your desperate you will get eaten alive no matter where you live. This will limit your hook ups but increase the chances of meeting the right person.
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  38. Want to save marriages in the west? Bring back accountability. Eliminate no-fault divorce so people can’t just walk away without consequences. Require mandatory paternity tests before child support—no one should pay for a child that isn’t theirs. Alimony should only be awarded if a spouse can prove the other broke their marriage vows. No more easy outs or unfair burdens. This would make marriage more meaningful and force people to think twice before saying, “I do” or walking away.
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  39. I thank my parents who helped me to be the man I am today. I talked to both of my parents daily until they past away. My dad laid the foundation to be the man I wanted to become. My mother imparted to me love and what qualities to seek in a woman. No relationship is ideal consistently remaining a work in progress towards your happiness. Government and society in America today push us away from a traditional marriage. A depressed alone person usually has more money to waste than a person who invests in their family and children. Those in power make more profit off a persons misery than their happiness. In America it has become ridiculously expensive starting a family with a good woman if you can still find one. Men and women were naturally design to come together producing a good family. America has made it far too easy for people to destroy themselves and a marriage calling it self-empowerment. In fact it's now considerably less expensive to create a life with a lovely woman overseas. No place or person will never be perfect with you being responsible for the person you become. Every day you wake up provides a creative opportunity to become a more authentic version of yourself. Don't let people or society to destroy the happiness you deserve.
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  40. You don't have to run just walk to get your passport escaping the madness.
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  41. You have to work on yourself first which becomes better with each day. Work on your appearance how you want others to perceive you. Try to develop some social skills with talking with other people daily. Try find a career that makes you happy even if it means going back to school. Focus on yourself which takes time but also learn to enjoy yourself as you grow.. Nothing wrong with crying under the right circumstances. A man who says they have never cried is either liar or mental patient. There is no perfect formula in finding happiness with everyone having their own preferences. Meet people you vibe with cutting out the trolls in your life. Don't be afraid to ask for help when needed no is perfect even if its professional help. Family and friends should help one another in life but you have to willing to help yourself. Never take a person word at face value doing your own research. You can adapt other peoples ideals but never copy them completely. The goal is to try to do a little better each day growing into a better person. Never compare your progress to others everyone grows at a different pace. The key is to never give up on yourself taking control of your happiness. Know each new day gives you a chance to create a better life. I am sorry that in todays society there are few people to teach others what it means to be a man. You have to realize todays laws/society are against men in America. After working on yourself if you are unhappy with women in America you should look at other countries of interest. No matter how rough it gets tomorrow can be a better day. Never let another person destroy your peace. The road to happiness isn't an easy road to travel but it becomes easier with surrounding yourself with the right people who share the similar interest. Everyone deserves to be happy in life with no regrets. I know this may sound like bull crap to some but its actually the truth. I wish everyone the best of luck in life.
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  42. Just remember in the Philippines its very difficult to get a divorce so take your time in finding a good women. Do not rush to fall in love with the first Filipino lady you meet there you will have plenty of options available. When you marry an asian women overseas you also become part of her family. A bad family or needy one can create problems in a future marriage. Nothing wrong with helping her family but learn to say no when needed. I have help my wife family never breaking my wallet. I do not recommend bringing her back to your home country to be poisoned by society. I think men should work on themselves and research first before making the move. If you are worried about your assets you can obtain a prenup which most women will agree to sign. First create a better life for yourself first then dating or love will follow without too much effort needed. I move to Thailand 10 years ago create a better life for myself being married 9 years now. An expat life is just living daily life similar to back home with less headaches for less money. If you plan to live a lavish holiday lifestyle overseas everyday plan to spend some serious cash. I personally can not tell anyone how to live their life we all have our path to follow. Just know their are plenty options available if you are willing to search for them. I believe a person must being happy with themselves or they will never find true happiness no matter where they live. No where is a perfect paradise but can live a better life keeping an open mind. Never just take some ones word but search for your truth since everyone's experiences will not be the same. :hand-orange-covering-eyes::elbowcough:
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  43. Basically instead of asking for money directly she sold herself for a place to stay for a few nights. Chads will toss away these type of women like a used condom while the Simps pickups the bill. Get yourself a passport escaping the madness creating the life you deserve. If you work on yourself you will have far better options overseas.
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  44. You can avoid the divorce courts but should have lawyer draw up a contract.
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  45. A person who isn't happy with themselves shouldn't be in a long term relationship, much less a marriage. Actions will always speak louder than words no matter who you are dealing with. Men need to realize the prettiest girl you can find to marry may not be the best one for you. Giving a woman all the keys to your heart allows her to manipulate and control you. Todays men need to look at a woman's mindset and heart over her gorgeous body. Find a women you are attracted towards that checks all your boxes without having to tell her how to act. Never rush to find love taking the time to meet your life long partner. Going overseas your chances of meeting a good traditional woman will greatly increase. However you must work yourself first before traveling. If you go overseas broken without fixing your bad habits first you will get eaten alive. You have bad people all over the world so be smart and stay safe thinking with the right head. Don't go overseas dating the same type of woman that mistreated you back home expecting a different outcome. Don't cry if you become a victim of your bad choices. Learn from them trying not to repeat the same ones over. You have to take charge of you happiness never letting anyone destroy your peace. Changing for the better isn't an easy task, however those who don't give up will reap a bountiful harvest beyond imagination. Become your own hero in life and you will never be disappointed.
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  46.  Hshs Bshs  Being kidnap by a pirate is probably better than living back home these days.
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  47. If I were you, I’d start by looking online for a training center in your area. Be sure to check their reputation using resources like the Better Business Bureau or similar organizations. You’ll also need to decide on the level of training you want, as courses can range from beginner-friendly to extremely hard.
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  48. Strangely I had rewrite this comment several times before You Tube allowed it to post.
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  49. Sustaining a family who appreciates you represents a priceless gift. If you go overseas why expect them to speak your language? Many of them are educated being able to take care of themselves without your help. Poverty can found in every country in the world, so you can try to prey on the poor if wanted. I am essentially enjoying the life overseas many men are now dreaming about. Some of you possess more resources than me and however not making the move. My advice is to listen to Legion of Men completing your own homework from all resources available. I have been traveling/living overseas for 30 years with no regrets. I can say when spending some times overseas you will kick yourself in the butt for putting up with things you didn't deserve back home. When I talk with men who complain all the time, they have done nothing to improve themselves. They rather sit in their dank cave waddling in self-pity crying to anyone willing to listen to them. Deplorably you can't support those who are unwilling to improve themselves so don't waste your time on them. People can show you a better path to traverse with you inevitably having to undertake the journey yourself. The world isn't fair with you having to take control of your own life. Work on yourself having the courage to discover you happiness no matter where you live never to let anyone destroy your peace.
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  50. There are tons of online jobs available to those willing to put in the work needed.
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