Comments by "DavePazz" (@davepazz580) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. "RATHER SLEEP WITH YOUNGER MEN" lol... The large majority of "younger" men are getting zero play these days... most are even leaving the dating scene entirely from lack of results.
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  2. It's totally accurate regardless of what he looks like...
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  3.  @paulcashew5795  It's all the same difference in the end... When an employer looks at a potential hire's resume and it shows jumping from job to job with nothing to show for it for a long time, does the employer say to himself "Well they didn't want this particular job before, but I feel now they are ready for it"? No, they do not... They'd rather go with someone with direct experience in the position they need to be filled... and if they get other applicants that do show they have the past experience required, they will choose them instead. What you're basically saying is that it's possible for a woman to hoe around for a while, then suddenly wake up one day and be fully ready and qualified for a long-term relationship because something snapped in her head one day (who knows what)... I own a bridge in Brooklyn I'd like to sell you if you really believe this...
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  4. There are pills for that...
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  5. It's not really a "double" standard...
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  6. But still more accurate than simply "The dating scene"...
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  7. It's all one in the same any way you slice it...
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  8. Don't get mad at the messenger... he's only laying out cold, hard facts about how men are. You should be grateful he's telling you the truth point-blank, instead of whining how it doesn't fit the Disney-movie, fairy-tale narrative in your head... By the way, women are the ones that "slut-shame" other women the most but you'll never admit that...
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  9. Most people aren't like you however... unless you have tons of money to burn, most people will be somewhat mindful about how much resources they are applying to get any certain item.
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  10. Looks like you didn't get the point at all...
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  11. You went outside the box of the original analogy by introducing concepts such as things "holiday sales" and how "easy" money is to get, so nobody should be worried about any purchase anyway... Add to this the old feminist shaming formula of "If you don't get her, it's because you didn't deserve her" (which is entirely irrelevant to the original point of the analogy)... Your point only applies to actual purchases and nothing more...
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  12. My argument is your thinking that money being "easy" to get and things being on sale somehow invalidates the premise he presented here... You're introducing elements that are beside the point...
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  13. You'd be totally right in terms of attaining only sex and having no other expectation beyond that... then of course nothing else about a woman's sexual past would matter since a man got what he wanted. But in terms of who you are choosing to bring into your life on a more personal and deeper level and having a deeper, more serious relationship with, that's where all this comes into play...
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  14. There is no such thing as "promiscuous guys" because men don't control access to sex... women do.
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  15. The men didn't "take" anything... the women handed it to them.
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  16. For the older man, as long as he's getting sex there is no practical difference between the two...
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  17. You can't change or just "explain away" basic human instincts... men are hard-wired to see things and react exactly how it was explained here, just as women are hard-wired to reason positively to certain male qualities and characteristics and ignore the others. You can shout to women all day every day about how "good" or "nice" guys deserve a chance at sex from you, but it's never going to work... women will always be most attracted to the higher-status men no matter what you tell them, men are exactly the same but for judging body count.
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  18. It doesn't matter because the truth always comes out one way or another...
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  19. Strictly speaking, it isn't a "double" standard at all because for it to be so, you'd first have to establish men and women are perfectly equal... they are not. More specifically, it's a different standard which is totally appropriate given men and women have much different strengths and weakness.
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  20.  @elitecoder955  Wrong... Women control access to sex, men do not. If a woman hurls insults at a man and even gets in his face, the moment he punches her he will get the full blame for the whole situation (and will be shamed by society) because as the man, society believes he should have known better than to hit a woman... Same concept applies to women and sex, because women control access to sex.
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  21.  @elitecoder955  The comment you are responding had to do with sex specifically...
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  22.  @elitecoder955  He said the reason women have sex at all is because they are "pressured" by men into doing so... Now imagine if men could use the excuse of hitting women because the woman "pressured" him into doing that... It wouldn't fly, would it... men would still be shamed to no end for that, regardless of what the woman said or did.
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  23.  @elitecoder955  A man in a relationship shouldn't have to ask... otherwise, the relationship is pointless.
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  24. The date on a calendar changes nothing about basic human instincts... that's not how this works.
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  25. Culture and social progress aren't going to make people suddenly "rationalize" their most basic human instincts away...
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  26. But following these instincts don't make people suddenly stop reproducing... all it has to do with is objectively looking at characteristics that would make some more attractive as serious partners vs. not. All this transcends religion... some people will always look more favorable than others for whatever reason regardless of anything else.
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  27. Be that as it may, if I walk into a room and everyone there knows I'm a wealthy, successful or famous man, I'm not going to be treated or regarded by people there (most especially women) as just another nobody barely scraping by in life... that's just a basic fact of life that can't be changed. Same concept applies to how women will be regarded by men, only it won't be based on her money or career success but by how much sexual "milage" she has... This instinctive reaction likewise can't be changed no matter what... no amount of rationalizing is going to make it all go away.
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  28. I didn't say it was "Ok" for such a thing to happen... only that it will happen and will always be the case whether we like it or not. Some instincts can become self-destructive, but others are very protective and following them will lead to the betterment of our lives... such as having a natural desire to eat something that seems fresh and smells/looks a certain way as opposed to rotting. You can only "manipulate" your instincts and biology so far... you could also go days without sleeping, but eventually you're going to hit that wall and your body will shut itself down no matter if you think it should or not.
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  29. Do men expect women to be virgins at any age? No man "expects" a virgin, period... But if one comes along, she will be prioritized for a serious, long-term relationship than a woman who lacked self-respect and gave away her most valuable asset for nothing inr eturn. I would never share my sexual past with a man, why would I? Nobody would expect you to with random strangers... But if you yourself wouldn't willingly share that information with a man you were getting seriously involved with, then you really don't care for him... Rather pay my own way Sounds great and empowering now... but after a few years you'll be regretting it. if men didn't have double standards, they wouldn't have any standards. "Double" standards cannot even exist between men and women because men are not women... did they not teach you biology at school or what? Glad to know this is how they think, all the time. And glad to know how women think all the time thanks to channels like this one and as how you're proving now... Also why they're so desperate No... "desperate" would be hanging onto any woman with a shoddy past and elevating her to serious relationship material through lack of better choices. That would be "desperate"... this is anything but.
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  30.  @SaystheTruth3  No, you are..
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  31. Doesn't make any difference...
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  32. People may or may not "change" but no man is going initially regard a woman with a high partner count as being "valuable" in the same manner he would regard a virgin or very low body count woman....
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  33. Because none of that changes the basic points made here which will apply to the majority of the population nonetheless...
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  34. It doesn't matter...
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  35. Right, men shouldn't ask a woman about her sexual history... because if she isn't voluntarily giving a man this very important information about her past, it simply means she isn't serious about him in the first place and/or doesn't value him at all. And it is very relevant by the way... just as a potential new hire's job history is relevant when applying for a job. You aren't "buying" a human being, but a man is definitely investing a big part of himself once he gets serious about a woman and takes her on as an official partner...
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  36. And the majority of such situations end in breakups or divorces...
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  37. So it really doesn't matter...
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  38. Nah, just accurate...
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  39. Meanwhile, the vast majority of men who are 25 aren't getting any sex and getting no good results from the dating scene in general...
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  40. And men are success objects to women... you can deny this all you want but it's the truth.
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  41. For the purposes of disposable sex partners... sure.
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  42. They don't until they do...
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  43. What about them?
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  44.  @maryamdiao1509  And likewise, that requires a good wife and mother...
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  45. Nonetheless, it's still a good measure of overall results since most people use such apps these days...
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  46. I always laugh when women say "I prefer younger men" when in reality, "young" men today are the least sought after bunch of guys by all women in general...
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  47. Men aren't women, so why would you apply a woman's standard of behavior onto a man? That's the part that really makes no sense... men have to follow a man's standard, and a woman must follow a woman's standard, don't get them confused. And no, it makes no difference whatsoever what a man does sexually... women still have to follow a woman's standard.
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  48. That's an extremely rare occurrence however...
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  49. You're taking the analogy much further than what was intended... The simple truth is men don't want to pay a single penny more than what the previous guy did just to enjoy the same benefit...
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  50. Because no man strains his neck from turning too fast to watch a woman's emotional and intelligence level walking down the street...
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