Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Better Bachelor" channel.

  1. Saw my ex wife earlier today. She looked embarrassed. Probably because her parents are paying her bills, her boyfriend left a while back, and I am debt free, own a decent sized chunk of land, and drive lots of cool old muscle cars all summer. She chose poorly. I'm tired of girls thinking they are entitled to my wallet because they spread their legs for me.
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  2. Tell me something I don't already know... my kids did VASTLY better with me than with their mom.
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  3. I am not fixing their car, I am not fixing their house, I am not going to help them unless they have earned it. They can do it themselves, they are not my problem nor my responsibility.
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  4. Speaking of invisible women.. EXACTLY to the day ten years after I kicked my ex out for cheating, she checked into the mentalward. Yeah it was ten years ago this week, she is in there right now. Her 'soulmate' that she cheated with left her 5 or 6 years ago, and she is going to be 41 later this year. This is their future when they go spicy or do the frivolous divorce. I have no sympathy for them. Not even a little.
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  5. I wanted to drive cool cars since I was about 10 years old. Nobody was going to buy me those cool cars, I had to work and earn money to get them myself. My mom wanted me to let my sister drive the car I bought with money I busted my ass to get, because I was stationed in Germany and wasn't driving it. Like I owe my sister a damn thing. They gave her cars, and she never took care of them. Now she is pissed because my dad left me a beautiful 1970 Cuda, simply because he knows she won't take care of it and I will treat it like a museum piece that I can drive. Yeah that green Cuda on my channel came from dad, he wanted it taken care of not driven into the ground.
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  6. Me to girls: No I won't date you, I like living indoors rather than in an old car and keeping my entire check every month. You're not worth the risk. Enjoy the cats, boxed wine, and microwave cooking for one. :)
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  7. If Layah wants men to have families, then she had better get busy changing the divorce laws. Its not us causing all of this. All of us 'undesirables' are ambivalent and apathetic towards them. We are simply under 6'4 and $100k a year. Thats why we are undesirable. Let them enjoy the loneliness they are feverishly working towards.
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  8. 30 years ago my ex-wife had more zinc deposits than this one, but this dude has the advantage of the internet, whereas dial up had nothing for us. This guy eagerly wants to wait, as if that will make a difference. He deserves what is coming to him, and he shall be a beacon, a shining example of WHAT NOT TO BE AND DO.
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  9. When I got out of the USAF the first time back in 1992, I went to my local VoTech and inquired about grants, scholarships etc. The counselor asked "Are you a minority like black or native? Are you female? Are you somehow disabled?" I said no, and he said "There is nothing available to you other than student loans" and I needed a loan to start school before my GI Bill started. My second ex wife got a full scholarship for being a female from an 'economically disadvantaged area' but men do not get it here. So stunning, brave, independent, and strong getting things handed to you because you squat to piss.
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  10. The 5th friend of mine didn't wake up Christmas day, they all went the same way. Active guys, no big health problems, not smokers, three veterans two civilians. The only thing they had in common, other then being friends of mine, is the thing they were mandated to get.
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  11. I'm not conservative, not a liberal either. I am all about the bill of rights, being able to do what I want with my time and not being told I can't do something because it offends someone. I want to build my cars, spend time with my dogs, play some video games, and enjoy my remaining years doing exactly that. Why should I risk everything I have built in the last ten years since my divorce left me with nothing but some rusty old cars? There is no benefit to having a female around here, NONE. There is MASSIVE risk in having one around here. Just last week I got a call from the local sheriff in my home town because some 75+ dude did not like that I was talking to and sorta flirting with his 22 year old coworker. I'll talk to whomever I damn well please, and say whatever the hell I want. Boomers can bite me. Conservatives can do the same thing the liberals can do... which I am not allowed to write on here. Oh and ALL of them say they are not like that, which proves they are exactly like that.
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  12. Its amusing how they think we can be shamed into doing what they want... as if we are female or something. Making it worse and blaming me for something is not going to make me acquiesce to your demands, its going to make me even less complaint and more stubborn.
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  13. I'm 52, females my age who are single have made exceptionally bad choices in life. They fucked up. Every day I meet more men over 35 who are saying 'fuck this shit I'm out' and they simply stop dating. Its the rare one that gets married, very rare. A girl in her 50s can only get picked up by men in their late 70s. I can still pull 21 year olds relatively easily, without paying them, or them knowing how much money I have. I look like a homeless guy to most of them. Why would I want to put up with a chick my age who thinks she is independent and knows best, but is single in her 50s? No fucking reason at all. So they can die alone of whatever, I don't give a fuck. They are not my problem.
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  14. Of course they will attack you for pointing out her failures, shortcomings, and limitations... it goes against the narrative that women are better than or even remotely close to being equal to men in capability.
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  15. I don't go to r anymore, it went full tardednanner marque cyst a while ago. Only 19 peg D's before 21? Yeah, right. Its a lot more than that and you are correct.
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  16. I've been to Dubai, the Arab world is not the place to act like a fool. I find this most amusing, her entitlement ends where the UAE border begins.
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  17. Open box? More like display model or scratch and dent.
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  18. A lot of what you say in this is what I am doing. As I was waiting for my divorce to be final in 2013 I bought some land, and closed on it the week after the D was final. Started building in 2015 when the child support indenture ended to the first ex. I cleared the trees and did the foundation work myself, with a borrowed Kubota and rented skid steers. Lots of work for a 46 year old crippled guy. Built my 32x48 shop first, cleared 3 acres and used the straightest trees to build the shop. I built my shop and house, hired a couple guys to help with the roof, but I was doing the work along with them, and I did everything else. I bought an Allis Chalmers One Eighty this spring, its been getting a work out moving dirt, yanking trees, moving rusty trucks, and grading the driveway. Its not a small tractor to city people, but it is to farmers. Equipment like that is a good investment when you own several acres in the middle of nowhere. I was seeing a girl from '14 to '18 who lived 7 hours away, and we did lots of fun stuff, she knew there was zero chance of getting married or any sort of commitment from me. That will probably be the last time I will date, just not worth the effort. Paid off all my debt in Feb 2021, and now I can do whatever I damn well please. So I build old muscle cars. This year I went a bit nuts on an engine for one of them, a 99% aftermarket 505 inch Pontiac that can easily handle 20psi, and it will make around 1500 to 2000hp with that much boost. Have a 6-71 supercharger sitting here to go on it next summer, just for fun and science. The front timing cover is the only factory piece on the entire engine. I don't need anyone around most of the time, having an extra set of hands to help with some things is nice, but for the most part I go weeks without speaking to other humans face to face. Two divorces and I am done, I am not losing all of this to another lying cheating harpy. I find doing this car thing, making videos of what I do, and enjoying my life driving the cars I build is the most satisfying thing I have ever done. Next summer I am going racing again. Provided we aren't in a declared war or something. The last time I made a pass down a dragstrip was 2005, right before I got out of the USAF on a medical. They broke me in 2004 on my last deployment. I decided to get debt free when the potato was 'elected' because I do not want any bank or other as****e coming and telling me I don't own it anymore. Same reason I am never letting a girl live with me again. I am having fun doing what I want to do, how I want to do it. I wish I had decided to live for me and not allow females in way back in 1992 when I got out of the USAF the first time. Would be a lot farther ahead.
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  19. They are mad because they might be held accountable for their actions and choices... at some point.
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  20. I've been assuming that since 1990 when I got my first false claim against me... for saying hello to a military chick who thought I was not tall enough to speak to her. Then three more piled on shortly after.
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  21. They can't deal with rejection, its why they are so incensed by men guarding their wallets. They're being rejected before they even get a chance, and rejected by guys they see as beneath them. They need everyone to like and admire them, otherwise their insecurity runs rampant... and they are all insecure.
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  22. Would you cross a street where 6 out of every 10 men would be hit by a truck or bus, but females rarely got hit and got all your stuff when you did?
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  23. How about a chick facetiming her boyfriend, telling him how much she loves him, misses him, and can't wait to see him again... all while riding you cowgirl? Trust them if you want. I don't.
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  24. Why are Scottish men going to Thailand?
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  25. I've been the 'just a friend' so often there is no freakin way i can ever trust any of them.
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  26. I'm not really Chad, but they have turned themselves into playthings, and I treat them as such. I stopped caring about them over 20 years ago.
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  27. I have watched what females do after they cheat for the last 35 years that I have been gettin poon. So far I have not seen one over 22 that made out better after she cheated. Most of them broke up with the good man they had, and were then dumped by the guy they cheated with. Very few young ones did better, but under 22 they can still sucker a good man again... but they usually cheat on him and he simply doesn't know. Both of my ex wives realize how badly they fucked up now. All my ex girlfriends who cheated realize how bad they fucked up too. With the first ex I ignored her cheating, I knew, but I didn't care as long as she didn't get knocked up. I had two kids with her, and I stayed as long as I could to protect them from her. She ruined their lives and her own.
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  28.  @davecasey4341  they don't need us, which means they will trade us for cash and prizes at the first opportunity, our cash and prizes that we earned. They were told that having a family is lowly and beneath them, they need to have a career and earn money.. nobody tells them that all they are doing is severely limiting the men they will date. Its their preference making them unattracted to us, not our preference.
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  29. @Brandon Letzco who says everyone has a promiscuous past? I have friends in their 50s like me who have had only 3 girls their entire lives, and none for the last 25 years. Most men have less than 5 in their lifetime, very few of us have more than ten, and only the top 20% ever get even close to 100. To be honest its more about who you are than what you look like with females, and most men are simply not dominant enough to get many. However an average looking girl, even a large one, can get 100 guys in a year very easily. They 'CAN' get that many, doesn't mean they will, but they almost always lie about how many they've had.
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  30. ​ @simplelifeinfo3913 because we can definitely trust a hit piece and women never lie, certainly not about their ex's. So trustworthy, honest, and loyal they are....
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  31. They want the wedding, the big party and all the attention being slathered all over her, they don't want what comes after that.
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  32. First ex accused me of cheating all the time. I worked, spent time with my kids, and was in the garage when I wasn't sleeping. Guess who was cheating... while I was at work.
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  33.  @indianastan  Same. They stole my kid's childhoods from me, they took over a quarter million dollars from me and left me living in my car for years on active duty in the US military. They continue to lie to me and are setting me up for something else now, despite the fact I have been relieved of paying support since 2015 when my youngest kid turned 19. They cost me everything I ever cared about. So I will live alone and do what I want to do until my days end.
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  34. Talked to three late 20s chicks yesterday. They blame men for being single
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  35.  @1stLtDavis  $50k around here is doing quite well. Most people are under $30k, its called an 'economically disadvantaged area.' I drive a $500 rusted out heap shaped like an 06 Gran Prix if I go meet someone, and a severely beat 99 or 00 4x4. They don't need to know I own a bunch of muscle cars, own my land out in the woods, have no debt, and make around $80k. I want to look homeless, because otherwise I'd never get my dick out of their mouths long enough to get shit done and then they'd throw accusations at me when they don't get any commitment, not even an "I like you" out of me. I want to build my old cars, not waste money on more females. I had more than enough poon in my life.
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  36. When I bought my land ten years ago, I was looking to become as independent and self sufficient as possible, to save money. I never thought it would go down in my lifetime, yet here we are. Watching it happen in real time, and the people in those cities are asking for help from the people causing the problem. I wonder how long until I get a visit from the commissars.
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  37.  @markw999  any time she accuses you of something you're definitely not doing, yeah, she is doing exactly that.
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  38. I was surprised to discover that I was in the top 20% and most guys never have more than 3 girls in their lifetime. I guess I was ok looking, and I still have the muscle from when I was 21 and in my first war. The number of girlfriends and wives who have decided to get my 'Peg D' was enough that I can never trust females. I am 5'8 and for some reason most of those girls had guys over 6' and many made more money than me. They wanted the silverback gorilla bang. I am roughly the same size and strength as a medium sized silverback. Dominance and muscle, it makes panties damp. Money and status gets those guys to pay for it, while someone like me is tapping it on the side. One chick from '14 to '18 who made more than double what I get a year. She drove 7 hours one way to see me, paid for my trip to SEMA in Vegas, including the hotel. Took me to concerts in Chicago that I would never have been able to attend otherwise. Every other chick wanted me to support them, or just wanted the D. I don't get it either, why would they want a short broke bastige like me? What can I say, they can't make good life choices.
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  39. She wants to own him for the rest of his life.
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  40. I think its fun teaching people how to do things. Here's how you fix your car. This is how you make fuel to run it. Grow food this way. Build a wall following this method. Want to know how to cut down a tree? How about building a PC? How did I learn how to do all of that and more? I started doing it, and learned by doing it. If I need to to do something I learn how rather than paying someone to do it for me. Building vintage muscle cars is a hell of a lot of fun, driving them is even more fun.
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  41.  @edclevenger1169  I'm a veteran, from 1988 to 2005, Desert Storm and OIF/OEF. Five trips to the desert, five years overseas. My 2004 deployment left me barely able to walk and all kinds of messed up. With the way they treat active duty and rentals these days, you're daft if you enlist. I had four nephews in the Army in 2020, they are all either out or getting out. The oldest was in for 15 years and when they mandated the 'thing' he said no and got out. Why serve the country when they crap on us and use us as guinea pigs? Its not like it was 35 years ago when I enlisted.
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  42.  @rejectwokeness1314  well she is living up to the religion she is in.
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  43.  @pangi5460  I am 5'8 and single too.. intentionally and permanently. Two divorces and four years total living in my car was more than enough. That and I dated a lot of girls... lots of them. The only thing that changes is the wrapper to be very honest about it.
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  44.  @jeffsmith8197  I'm 52, had plenty of poon in my years, same point in life. I'm good living alone, definitely don't need a chick living here or even coming by often.
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  45. It means do not be a s i m p and have some self respect. People think that being tall, having money, acting tough, and being loud and boisterous makes you an alpha male. Apparently they have no idea what that particular term means. Its a mindset, a way of thinking, a natural dominance with confidence, and he doesn't have it. Most people don't, and aren't. Also, I bet she has nothing on my first ex wife for notches. In my defense I didn't know her at all before I met her 30 years ago, so I had no idea she was the doorknob on the bike until my life was ripped up. Found out about her after her divorce, and learned a lot about mental illness as well.
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  46. Regardless of if you adapt to her or not, she will NOT be adapting to you, and she can trade you in for cash and prizes at any time. I had no problem getting women to like and want me. I had a problem finding one that was loyal and trustworthy. I have zero desire to work for the benefit of someone who will leave when she gets tingles from some guy she met. They are not an investment, they are an expense with a severely depreciating value.
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  47. I've met three girls in the last four years that seemed interesting enough, and not overly crazy, so I got their number. Two flakes and the one last week was all excited and flirty with me, then when given the opportunity to go do something, she said she had other plans. All three of them showed heavy interest, but it seems like they just wanted validation and attention. My solution: Delete her number and the text convo and go back to building my latest drag car. I'm not even going to bother anymore.
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  48.  @dakota9821  that happened to me in the USAF, I got stuck with females on my load team, so I had to do all the work loading cargo planes. It made me HUGE muscle wise. When they can't lift a 5 gallon jug of water, what the hell are they doing in a job where they need to lift more than that? Just as tough as men? I find that laughable.
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  49.  @mrgadget7235  I had one when I enlisted.. she waited until she got home from taking me to the airport to go to basic, then she started doing the things they always do. If I had a dollar for every time someone I know had their wife play around, I could have retired long before I did.
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  50. All a girl has is her looks, her attractiveness. So if people don't want her because of how she looks, her ego is going to freak out. They need external validation, they need attention from others.
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