Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Better Bachelor" channel.

  1. They are said to have empathy, but solipsism prevents them from having it for anyone who doesn't have a snot pocket.
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  2. The left have urban people who want more free shit, and the wealthy who realize they can enslave people by giving them free shit.
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  3. 40 to 80 is a looooong time, but they will have their boxed wine and cats. I spent a total of four years homeless, two years after each divorce because they were rewarded with everything I had for cheating, lying, and falsely accusing. Like I want to risk that again, as if I want to reward someone who acts reprehensibly with handing over everything I have built. I wear my work on car clothes in my videos, when I go into town for parts/supplies/lumber, and I really don't care what girls think about me. I'd rather build my GTOs and work on getting one of them to run low 8 second quarter mile times. I am 53, 5'8, and have had a relatively easy time getting female attention over the years. I am simply not interested anymore. I will look at them, talk to them, but I do not want a relationship with them. I will hug my tunnel ram instead of them. Tunnel rams are awesome.
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  4. Perhaps they made those guys sit to pee, take estrogen, and everyone had to wear a dress on casual friday.
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  5.  @BaconNBeer  I got out of the USAF back in 1992, the drawdown left me without a job so I didn't get to reenlist. I went to school and asked about grants and whatnot. I was asked "Are you disabled? Are you a minority? Are you female?" I answered no, and they told me I was not eligible for anything other than student loans. I made $14k that year and they said it was too much to get aid. GI Bill was behind the curve, the cost was more than my entitlement until 1997. I worked a full time job, putting in 50 to 70 hours per week, and went to school full time too. Even back then if you're a WM everyone else got gimmiedats that were not allowed to you.
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  6.  @duckpwnd  I am not a timid man, most men would never try me, two wars, wrestled in school and the military, LOTS of training and experience in altercations, I can seriously injure people easily. My first ex felt the need to do all that stuff your sister did, and more. If I wasn't there, she did it to my two daughters. In Nebraska the dad only gets custody if the mom relinquishes it, so leaving with my kids was not an option. The cops only cared if I did anything to her, they didn't care if she cut me, stabbed me, hit me with stuff, ripped my shirt and scratched the hell out of me.. So she could do what she wanted and I would get in trouble for it. Let me tell ya, I don't care who takes a swing at me now, if they connect they are going to find out the hard way. Doesn't matter if they have indoor or outdoor plumbing.
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  7. Thats essentially what I am doing, except my hobby is old cars, so I need room to store and work on them. I own 13 acres of land (400m x 200m) that I bought for $30k in 2013. I built my house and shop on it. Other than the car thing I live minimalistic and frugally. My house is made with shipping containers and the design is one I saw that was built in China.
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  8. They can't handle criticism, rejection, or indifference. Any of those, along with whatever else they find objectionable, will be called cruel.
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  9. I was the fat kid for years, due to a diet where all I could eat was meat and broccoli. The doctors in the 70s said I was allergic to everything, but really it was my dad's smoking that caused my autoimmune system to freak out. When I was 14 I was off that diet and started wrestling. I got beaten up, picked on, and no girl wanted to even look at me, also I was 4'9 until I got off that diet. imagine being a teen ager under 5' tall.. and about 130lbs. Wrestling and the end of that diet changed my life. I went from the kid everyone picked on and beat up for fun, to the 16 year old everyone was terrified of. One kid called me ghey on the gym floor when I was 15, and I broke his nose. He never said a word to me after that. Lots of kids found out the hard way, and suddenly everything stopped. MY dad and brother got a wake up call too, they had been knocking my unconscious a bit too often. By the time I was 17 and a senior I was the strongest kid in the school and at 167lbs able to beat everyone on the wrestling team easily. The 185lb guy ended up being a two time state champ and playing in the NFL as a center for Denver, Carolina and Jacksonville. Yes, really. I benched 265lbs, knocked out one kid wrestling, and broke another's arm, and cracked three ribs on another kid. I wasn't mean, but I overpowered them and was somewhat brutal, but tried to make friends with most of the other wrestlers from other schools. The guy I wrestled in the semi finals met my sister about ten years after we graduated, he told her I was the toughest match he ever had. I nearly beat him, he got me by one point but I almost pinned him in the second round, but the ref would not give it to me. If I had the mindset I have today when I was a teenager, I would have been a multiple time state champ. Got lucky the first time when I was 17, the summer of 1986. From there it was off to the races, but no girls from my school.. until 30+ years later. Joined the military at 19, did the first gulf war, came back even bigger than I left, 15" arms and benching 300 to 22" arms and over 450 bench by the time I was 22. I can seriously injure those who intend to do me harm. :) Lots of training... Lots of girls over the years too. I went to my ten year reunion and found out something interesting. All the cute girls gathered around me and were looking through all my photos from around the world. Found out from the one chick who didn't treat me like crap, that all the popular girls wanted me to ask them out. I barely spoke to them in school, and was astounded when they all lit up and came to sit around me at the reunion. Surreal moment... I was the only guy from my class who had all his hair, and man did I get dirty looks from those guys who mostly would not talk to me. I didn't like them 30 years ago, still don't like them. Now they are afraid of me, which is most amusing. Two wars, lots of countries, lots of girls... and most of them never left our home state of Nebraska. Three of them talked to me at the 20 year, but they were the cool guys who never picked on me or anything when we were young. One of the girls said I was the smart one, because I didn't follow fads or try to make everyone like me, I just did what I wanted to do with my life. I skipped the 30, they had it in November, and I was dealing with 4 feet of snow that week already in 2017. Not driving 1000 miles just to see them. I turned my life around, and still made bad choices, like getting married. That ruined me financially. I still get hit on despite being 53 years old and I look like my name says with all the winter layers on. 18 year old girl was eyeing me at Lowes, more surreal... a 23 year old flirting with me at the grocery store and she smiled a huge smile when she saw me walk in, she is kinda heavy though. I know exactly what it means when they look at me a certain way, thats how I capitalized on that look and managed to get well over 150 girls between the sheets, or in the back seat of my muscle cars. They like muscles and a man who honestly doesn't give a F what they think or say. So many problems in my life stem from girls. If you haven't had one, don't freak out or worry about it, they are more problem than benefit, and a huge risk. Make your life what you want it to be, and do your thing. My thing is old GTOs and Firebird Formulas/Trans Ams. Living alone in the woods with my huskies, enjoying nature around me while I build the cars. For years I was like the dude in the article, I wanted revenge, wanted to inflict on others what they had done to me. You know what though? When I had the physical capability to do so, and saw how afraid of me they were, I didn't want to get retribution anymore. I saw where their lives were taking them, and it wasn't anywhere good. They did more damage to their own lives than I could have ever done... same with my ex wives, so instead I live well and make sure to take care of myself first. Dogs second. Cars third. Everyone else can pound sand.
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  10. They get one chance, only one. If she flakes, says no, or plays hard to get, she never gets another chance. There are girls out there who a willing and eager to get naked for me, why waste time chasing one that isn't? I've been this way since the early 1980s in high school
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  11. Gimme all the good stuff, but no responsibility, no consequences, and do not hold me accountable.. I am whaman hear me roar.
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  12. Joker I went through basic in 1988, mile and a half run in 10 minutes to pass. 30 pushups and sit ups in two minutes. That was it for USAF. I did all of it from the very start, didn't need to work up to it. Also pushed the DC through the runs, because he would not run. I beat everyone arm wrestling on Saturday afternoon towards the end of basic, smallest to biggest. I have some interesting stories from back then. The military doesn't like people like me, well the USAF sure didn't. Now they want the weakest, most incompetent, and incapable individuals they can find. We old guys are going to end up having to set this right again, you know that don't ya?
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  13. Yeah, because they wanted more. They always want MORE.
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  14. I grew up on a farm in the middle of nowhere Nebraska, 25 miles to town, and there were only 6000 people in that town. I enlisted in 1988 at 19 years old, and lived in cities or on bases until 2005. I have lived in the woods of northern Michigan since then, for 8 years with my second wife, and 8 years alone after the divorce. Living in a city is torture to me, I'd much rather live without running water throwing wood on the fire all winter to stay warm than in a city.
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  15. The 'metaverse' will be like twitter. Full of easily manipulated idiots who believe its reality, and the majority of people have no use for it.
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  16. They don't want competent people, they also don't want someone who knows history. They don't want what is best for all of us, they want what is best for them.
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  17. The 49 year old single mom I was banging from 2014 to 2018, who works payroll tax HR, makes well over $150k a year, thinks the media is right calling them Not Cs. Its funny because she dated me simply because of the fact I am not a soft hands white collar type. She looks down on us, despite growing up dirt poor in New Mexico and working her ass off to get where she is. Its just how females are man, they are eager to submit to authority.
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  18. Booo hoooo.. they gotta work, isn't that what they wanted? They wanted to be like us, live like us, get paid like us... but working like us? Nah.. they can't.
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  19. I've had an ongoing conversation with a delusional chick who thinks I have no idea what I am talking about in regards to men having zero benefit from marriage and all the risk. Of course she says she is a progressive and a feminist, so she claims I am crazy and don't know what I am talking about...its amusing. Its a very bad idea to marry a chick in the US or UK, there is no upside to it.
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  20. Getting divorced taught me that no matter what I did, how much I invested, what I built... it would all be taken away and given to her when she decided to lie, cheat, and take off with my kids.
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  21. online dating hasn't worked for me, unless I get at least 7 hours away from here and bring in the big city girls who are over 40. I do far better just bumping into them in public, like the grocery store or walking my dogs in town at the park. Some girls overtly hit on me when they see the old muscle cars I drive, but they rarely get anywhere. No gold diggers. In person I can do well, but online is a waste of time for a 52 year old 5'8 white guy.
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  22.  @NeoN-PeoN  yeah if it was built for us it would be far more spartan. I am quite comfortable with the only furniture in my house being some chairs, two tables, and my bed. My house is 1/2 the size of my shop where I work on my cars. Yes, I built it for me, without a single concern for if a woman might want to live here.
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  23. I'm 52, 5'8 and I had lots of different girls. You didn't miss much, lots of BS, lots of drama, a huge expense that is just time and money wasted. They love the train wrecks and will chase them for all that delicious drama they get. I'm pretty much done too.
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  24. Also known as marxism 101. It can go no other way because marxism is feminine thinking put into capricious, vindictive, illogical, irrational, envious, resentfully lazy, abhorrent practice.
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  25. How do they think they are so damn special that they need us to jump through flaming hoops for them just to find out how bad her attitude and impulse control happens to be?
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  26. So highly skilled that they probably can't change oil or tires on a car, grow food, clean a fish, replace a light switch, or anything that doesn't involve pushing papers around and looking busy.
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  27. Yeah, she gets to keep her standard of living and he gets to live in a two story burrito bag under a bridge.
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  28. Other than the way he sees marriage, because he is old and women like his wife no longer exist, he is spot on about many things. Masculinity, he has down pretty good. How to handle yourself responsibly, he is correct. Being an adult and doing adult things he has a good way to do it. I am not religious, but he is, yet I can still get something useful out of what he says. I wish I could inform him of where he is misguided regarding women, but he's not going to listen to some crippled war vet out in the woods.
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  29. Why should I date? Why should I even talk to females? What benefit does it provide for me? What risks are involved? Yeah, I'm good with my vintage muscle cars, my woodland, the beautiful night sky on clear nights, and the lack of noise, drama, and bullshit in my life.
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  30. eschew females, build muscle cars and go drag racing. Its far less expensive and vastly more rewarding.
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  31. I am intentionally alone, and definitely not lonely. I have far too much fun to want to screw it up with a relationship.
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  32. "No fault" = its all HIS fault so punish HIM.
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  33. They still hit on me and flirt with me. I am not a typical chad, as I am old, short, and only ok financially. The muscle they can see and the IDGAF attitude seems to attract them still. Know what though? They are only doing it for validation and attention. I have better shit to do with my time than chase them so they feel better about themselves. Better things, like taking a dump in a 5 gallon bucket, trying to get a rusty old truck started, picking up dog poo in the yard, or killing newbs online. The stuff I like to do is vastly more fun and important than salving the ego of some insecure bint.
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  34.  @darthverminates9708  I've been to Dubai, Kuwait, and Saudi Arabia. In all of those countries if you damage a vehicle you need to report it to get it repaired. Without the report, no shop will touch it. They have lots of people from other countries there, not just tourists, people who work in UAE and the other countries in the region. When they come from places where traffic laws are merely suggestions, they have a problem with people causing problems. If she damaged a vehicle, and was disrespectful to the people working there, she is going to have a REALLY bad time. When I heard Joker read it was some kind of scam, I laughed. They have VERY harsh penalties for someone who scams tourists, or anyone else for that matter. Its an islamic country, and scamming is tantamount to theft, and you really do not want to be caught stealing anything there. It is not Juarez or some 3rd world hellhole where a prince is trying to get you to send him money so he can get his $50billion out of the bank. That sort of thing does not happen there, and accusing someone of doing nefarious things falsely also ends poorly for the accuser. She gonna find out. DO NOT PLAY LIKE THAT IN AN ISLAMIC COUNTRY.
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  35. Going their own way to boxed wine and cat land.
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  36. Well yeah, democrats did not change how they think, the only thing they changed was rather than trying to prevent minorities from voting, they incentivize them to vote democrat by telling them how much they love them, and how racxist everyone else is. They are still on the plantation, but its for votes not cotton.
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  37. Despite a decade of familial abuse, daily beatings, older brother stabbing, poisoning, bludgeoning, and running me over with farm equipment, I did not know the true depths of evil until I married a bipolar female, and was divorced from her. That story will make you wonder why I ever even spoke to another female after our 2001 divorce. I know its not just the bipolar ones, because my 2nd wife was absolutely wonderful for 8 years, then we got married and just 16 months later we were divorced and I was sitting in jail on false accusations with zero evidence. Why did she do that? She felt guilty about how she cheated, lied, and treated me, so the only way she could stop feeling guilty was to make herself into the victim, so I had to do something that would justify what she did in her mind. I am missing teeth because of my brother, and I have a divot in the back of my head from a coffee mug thrown by my 1st ex, among other scars, from when I was ignoring her crazy ass and would no longer engage when provoked for hours. I am not a small weak nor timid man, two wars, lots of training, I ended up knocking out my dad when he went to hit me, and nearly killing my older brother when I was 16 to stop them. I can easily end the average human, but I do not. When the police would show up, they only asked if I touched her, they did not care if I was bleeding from something she did, they wanted to arrest me, and only me. Nobody had a second though when my final ex accused me, they took her word for it and punished me without a shred of evidence. They can do what they want with near impunity, they are protected regardless, and its rare a female bears responsibility for her actions.
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  38.  @ManageDeMaia  indeed, they are envious of men, and resentful that they are not men.
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  39. Extortion is legal when a woman does it to a man. My ex wives both did it.
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  40.  @gusgrimm7533  when I had my daughters the state was still making me pay their mom child support. She really screwed them up, and I tried hard to fix the damage she did between 2001 and 2008 when I barely got to see them. It was 12 days total during that time when I went home on leave, and spent most of the time trying to find them. She moved and kept me from seeing them as much as she could. There was a three year stretch where I didn't find them on leave. I've never had substance problems, but have had PTSD most of my life, from well before the wars. Their mom has a problem like that, and she is bipolar, so she is always broke and overdrawn at the bank. My kids realized just how messed up she is when back in 09 when both of them came to live with me for the summer. They didnt get screamed at or hit, no strange guys had their way with them, there was food in the house all month where their mother was broke by the first Monday of the month after the pay came out... and she had $6000 coming in, I had $1800. She rarely bought them clothes, but every time I had to see her over some court thing she had on a new goofy outfit. Living with me taught my daughters how to be productive adults, only took 14 months with the first and 18 months with the younger one. The default custody to moms is ruining the lives of kids.
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  41.  @cubingspeed6933  damn right, my life is vastly more satisfying, enjoyable, stress free, lucrative, and peaceful without a leech in my wallet.
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  42.  @agm5424  a fatchick I am friends with, because she is the only person who can/will drop what she is doing to give me a ride to the ER, thinks its easier to be male. She has a small idea of what its like because she is huge and she can't get most men, and she has never gotten free stuff just for being a girl.... but she has no clue what being one of us is like. I am a two war combat veteran, beaten almost daily growing up, so many close calls with meat suit eviction that I can't count them all, and my life experiences gave me muscle and strength to the point I benched over 500lbs back in 2003, and it did not come from gyms. You do not get that strong having an easy life. You're exactly right, they see where we are, not how we got here and they assume it was given to us... even when they watched us build it.
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  43.  @Metal_Jim_in_TX  well, we tend to get things done, many of us are not easily manipulated, and many of us have a penchant for not being obedient. We don't make good serfs.
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  44. My life has been arduous, dangerous and full of hardship.. but I do have it vastly better than women do. Why? Well, I can do things they cannot, like repair vehicles, build houses, move heavy things, and I can learn how to do things that enable me to survive when they cannot. I am capable of putting in far more work than they are, and harder work by far. So when life beats me down, I can get up and keep pushing ahead. When life beats them down, they need someone like me to help them, encourage them, and take all the difficult to impossible things they can't do away from them. Without us, they are in a world of hurt. We are built for hardship and danger. They are not. What we struggle with they simply cannot do. I would much rather be a man leading a difficult life than a woman with a soft easy life who is dependent on everyone else for everything.
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  45. I wear my work on my car clothes to get groceries, its rare I put on something that isn't stained from work. I own my land, built my house, am debt free, and have several vintage muscle cars sitting here. I have some of them on here. Sure I am 5'8 but I am a muscle bound freak, and I try to look fat and its easy with a power lifter physique. I don't want them to know I am doing well and have been retired since I turned 35. I am 53 now. I find it absolutely hilarious when they think they deserve better than me. They are lucky I am even speaking to them.
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  46. Self induced Darwin Award.
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  47. I don't care who they want, because I want vintage Pontiac parts rather than a leech in my wallet soaking up money that would otherwise go towards vintage Pontiac parts. Congrats on winning, looking forward to what you do with the land as I am into that sort of thing in addition to vintage Pontiac vehicles/parts. I had plenty of girls in my lifetime. Don't want them anymore, I'll just look like Patrice O'Neil did in the shoe store.
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  48. Ah my young friends... the other man does not have to be better than you in any way.... He only need APPEAR to be better than you in some way, which can be as simple as novelty. I've been the other man more than enough to know. They really only need the opportunity.
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  49. The funny thing is they still think they are valuable, even at 50. I am out of the gene pool, had my two kids, not having anymore because 15 years indentured to their mother after the divorce was enough. So if I could find one of these old used up girls I would keep her around a while as long as she earned her way with me. Gotta work, not so much a 9 to 5 trade hours for dollars thing, as much as its do things around here in the woods with me thing. Not gonna find that... so I am not looking. It allows me to do things I want to do when I don't have to pay for someone else to live off me. Things like building a 2000hp Pontiac V8... oh yes... that is this year's project, along with producing fuel vodka for it and my daily drivers from tree sap... as soon as it gets above freezing on a regular basis.
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  50. I work pretty hard at making sure females are not going to approach me. Gray beard, a belly, hoodies and baggy T shirts that hide the muscle, I wear cheap jeans and carpenter/work pants from Menards, a ball cap, and I stay kinda plump.. lol. I look broke and unsuccessful, though I am not. Its hilarious how their expressions change when they see me walk out and get in that shiny vintage muscle car while dressed like a bum... Good thing I can only drive one at a time... heh.. No, they can approach and I will shut them down. I am not losing everything a third time.
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