Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Better Bachelor"
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I live alone. I have been married twice. They both complained about all the things they had to do around the house. They both left their clothes strewn about, and trails of clothes going to the shower were the norm. They let the dishes pile up and wouldn't even load or unload the dishwasher when I had one. I was in the USAF so I kept my room and housing clean, no dirty dishes or clothes piled up anywhere.
My house is 1100sqft, I built it to live alone in. I have several sets of dishes and silverware, but I have three plates, six of each utensil, and I wash it after I eat, or right before I cook something. Currently my house is trashed because I am still building it, and I haven't gotten to closets yet.
I don't have 'the place' for things at this point, so its boxes and building materials. Insulation takes up considerable space when its not in the walls, floor, or roof. Building a house, along with all the other things I have to do, takes some time. Right now its raining, my addition where I'm working is outside, and I can't put the roof on in the rain. Two more hours and the rain will be gone, and its back to work. Building the floor took three 10 hour days, with no extra hands helping me. Once I have a place for everything, my house will be tidy and clean. I have house stuff still in my shop too, so I need the house done so I can get room in the shop. The engines and transmissions are piling up on me while I build my house.
Its driving me nuts living like this, but you have to do things in a sequence of events. You can't put a roof up without walls, you can't install cylinder heads before you put the pistons and connecting rods in the bores. If you drop the lifters in the bores without a camshaft in it, you are going to have a bad day. Women want it all done for them, and they have no concept of what effort that goes into building a home, vehicle, or maintaining it. They wait at the finish line, pick the winner, and expect all of that to be done for them.
This is quite a lot of work, heavy lifting and mental work, When compared to keeping an already built house clean its laughable that they don't want to do something so incredibly easy and simple just to help us out for supporting and paying them. They want to whine about unpaid labor... they have no freakin clue.
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I'm not going my way. I am gone. No interest in having a girl around, nothing but trouble and expense. I own my house, my land, several muscle cars, I am debt free and retired. I put in the work already, now I can build muscle cars and have fun. Next year if we aren't in a large conflict, I plan to go drag racing again. I did that in my 20s and 30s, but then divorces got in the way. So yeah, muscle cars, GTOs to be specific, are more interesting and enjoyable than girlfriends.
So I just picked up a 2004 Escalade.. its black. I think it needs a big number 3 on the door.
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@n.thadddeusmcthaddeus5416 you hit the nail on the head with a hydrogen bomb. Weak minded insecure people, often with fucked up ideological afflictions, are who become tyrants. You cannot say the cheeto was at all insecure. Then you look at Trudeau, Northam, Whitmer, Obama, and the current kid sniffing Potato, and the weakness exudes from them. The first two did a cosplay of Brave Sir Robin and bravely ran away...
Their first option when manipulation and coercion fail is to get someone else to get violent for them. Police, white knights, whatever... they won't do it themselves, they get someone else to do it, because they know if they tried it they would get beaten down.
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@SeviathTheHumanDrago in my 20s I had several soft harems, two to six girls I could call up to get some, missed a three way with two seriously hot Russian girls while I was in Korea in my 30s. Long story... still had a mixed bag of 'plates' in my 30s. In my 40s right after my second divorce it got a little crazy, 3 ways, 4 ways, multiple girls on call. Now in my mid 50s I'd rather build old muscle cars and play video games.
You'd think I was some megachad or great looking guy, I am 5'8 but also a dominant power lifter looking muscle bound freak. Not rich, but I build/drive cool old cars that make more power than the tires can handle. Most of the girls were 5 to 7, a few like my second ex were homely (she was pretty awesome for 8 years, even if she was homely, and she was great in bed) and a couple approaching ten without makeup. Mostly just average looking chicks though.
I have friends who haven't had 5 girls and those guys are in their 40s and 50s. I know lots of dudes who can't get any, and lately its even the tall guys who in years past would have panties thrown at them. When a 6'4 guy with muscle can't get laid, there is something seriously wrong.
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@Re1d3 Im 53, 320lbs 5'8 and I could get over it. Of course I am not typical for short 300lb guys.. USAF veteran Shield/Storm OIF/OEF and I did a crazy amount of work and got over things like that no problem before I got messed up on my 2004 deployment. I will never run again, but I have immense strength, and it came from my AF job loading cargo planes. How do I know I can get over it... because I do stuff like that around here while building my sheds, vehicles and moving trees I cut down.
I can pick up and carry 500lbs, move a 1500lb box by slamming into it, and push a plane load of 10,000lb pallets by myself.. over and over again.. well I could before 2004. Thats what I was doing when I destroyed both knees loading C5s... and my hips, ankles, shoulders, you get the idea. My back is in great shape though.
It would be hilarious watching gray haired me with my belly getting over that easily while they can't make it. I have to be careful now because I can easily pull the connective tissue from my bones by lifting too much. Age does that.
Back in 1988 I was the strongest guy in my flight in basic, and the strongest in my unit every base after that. I was bench pressing 300lbs when I was 18 and I could run five miles like it was nothing. I would physically push guys through our run, put my hands on their back and shove them around the track. I beat all 31 of them arm wrestling one Saturday afternoon near the end of basic, smallest to the biggest...
These kids are weak, pathetic, useless, and they need remedial training. Bunch of candy asses making themselves look worse than some 3rd world Army.
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I'm done with them, I can get numbers, dates, in-n-out, but the drama just isn't worth it. the expense isn't worth it. At 53 with two adult kids, I am good. Debt free, ten years ahead of Joker on the land out in the woods project, why do I need to muck it up with a female?
Kids are great, I love mine, but when they are turned into a weapon against you, and then everyone blames you and says you abandoned them... well, that is the worst pain I ever endured. Thats from a man who has been hit by cars, run over, in two wars, and had a VERY rough life.
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I am from before the internet was available to civilians, I learned how to tell when a girl was interested back in the 1980s. 2 is exactly right, if I didn't see an indicator of interest from her, I did not waste my time on talking to her.
I don't see it as the internet as killed dating, it has made it more interesting, girls get a lot more attention online, and its useless for a 50+ man like me to even bother with it, but it has not killed dating. I can get laid easily, by girls half my age without spending a dime on them. So its not like they are unwilling to fuck, or only want the absolute best men, they want me for the muscle bound gorilla fuck they get from me. Then they move on.
What has killed dating and is prompting young men to say "Fuck this shit, I'm out!" is not the simps who feed 4s massive amounts of attention, we had that 30 years ago too. Its by design.
1: tell females they deserve the best, even if they are 300lbs with a club foot and have five kids from five different men. Instill entitlement from a young age, and reinforce it daily with the media and societies preference for females.
2: give them financial and social incentives to divorce the men who are daft enough to marry them. Make those men pay for her poor choices and punish the men for being men and fathers.
3: falsely accuse them then gaslight everyone and say it never happens. You can watch it happen on TV when they show the man as an inept, violent, moron who needs a whamen to save him. Thats a false accusation on a wide scale. On the individual scale they will claim you're abusive, graped, or touched her, or made her feel uncomfortable.
4: make it so reprehensible for men to engage in relationships by enacting laws that punish them for it when they allow a female into their lives, that men say fuck this shit Im out.
5: give every incentive and advantage to females, make them feel special, tell them they are victims when they are actually the most privileged people on the planet, so everything they do is easily rationalized and justified in their minds. Ever notice how all of her ex's were abusive cheating assholes? Well, she is rationalizing her bad choices, and she wishes she could have him back, but she fucked it up.
That is what has killed dating, is causing the precipitous drop in birth rate, and has men checking out of dating and society in droves. The mainstream is just now noticing it, and they are starting to demonize independent men, not just by getting rid of people who use the going their own way acronym in their channel name.
Young men see and read about what happened to men like me, how I lost everything twice in divorces, had 71% of my gross garnished, the state broke multiple state and federal laws and nobody gave a fuck, no lawyer would take my case. Young men see that and decide not to play the game. Some will still get laid, fucking the girls along with the other top 10% men in the area, and the rest simply stop. They watch videos, play games, and do things that are fun for them.
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