Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1.  @elgatomoscato230  I was the outcast in my family, and still am at 54 years old. Nobody ever helped me with anything, but they all demanded I help them. The only thing any of my siblings ever did for me, was my younger brother pulled my car and trailer to me from the family farm 1500 miles away, because he was stationed 300 miles from where I was stationed, and it was mostly not out of his way. I live 1000 miles from all of them for a reason, it makes it more difficult for them to demand I do this or that for them. They wonder why I don't interact with them at all, and they think its my problem and there is no reason for it.
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  2.  @joeswanson733  exactly my point. My cousin brought one back from Ukraine in 2017, he failed lots of tests, she had him on a very restrictive diet and essentially controlled him. Last year she took off, divorced him, went back to Ukraine and hooked up with a guy younger than her. She was late 30s and still looked decent when I met her in '20. Dude's name is Chad and he is a 6'7" Viking looking guy with long hair. I am 5'8" and look like a German silverback gorilla. Both of his wives, the one from the US and the Ukrainian, acted the same way when they met me. I want nothing to do with them, because I have better things to do than pass tests they conjure up. They can tell when you're a dominant male, and stature is trumped by dominance. It helps that I know some Russian from my time in Korea where I dated them. I'm not conversational, but I can get my point across. Chad can get lots of them, but they do the same thing, soak him for money, then bail. My friend Ben lives two miles away from Chad, and he went to Ukraine 8 times, spent $70k going there to find a wife. Ben is 5'6", balding, and pudgy, he never built any muscle despite living on a farm. They played him all the time while he was there, and he couldn't get any of them to do more than talk a bit. He knows zero Russian, so they could say whatever and he wouldn't know. I told him that he doesn't want one of the eastern Europeans because of the tests. He will fail every one of them if he ever managed to get one. He also only went for the hottest with the most beautiful faces. He never had a way with women, he is the quintessential nice guy. I will get with them, hit it for a while, then let them go by failing a test so she thinks its her idea. Thats all I want, warm moist snot pockets in nice looking wrappers.
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  3. $1000 is a set of tires for my 2500 truck, a very cheap two stage paint job I do myself, an 850 Holley carb, more than my monthly bills and expenses. Debasing yourself for that? Damn... I am grateful I was born male.
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  4. Take from a man older than the guy in the video. DO NOT MARRY... never trust them, because they get PAID to betray you.
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  5.  @SkizzyMarsss  so um... who have you led out of the pit of despair? What have you done to show men how its done? Where has your guidance been spent? Mine was in the military, and it appears I need to put that back in action in the civ world... if I can get people to stop complaining about what others are doing, and focus on improving themselves.
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  6. I was born at the end of the 1960s, mom says I watched Neil and Buzz walk on the moon on live TV, I was too young to remember it. Early life was good for the most part, other than my brother mistreating me severely. Physically... he tried to end me several times until I was 16. Then the grain embargo in 1979 changed everything, and that was just as I was getting on the tractors and doing farm work. Tractors at 8, grain trucks at 11. I have been driving a long time. After 1979 had the prices fall due to a massive amount of grain rotting on the ground thanks to bad ideas by bad presidents, life sucked. Dad would hit, kick, throw me into things, when he was frustrated, which was often because corn was selling for $1.50 and it cost $2.10 to grow it. Luckily we had cattle and hogs, which we butchered so we always had meat. I grew up on steak and burgers, some of which I raised with a bottle. From 4 to 14 I was on a messed up diet because my dad's smoking made it seem like I was allergic to everything. That meat and cauliflower only diet screwed me up for the rest of my life. All summer I moved irrigation pipe, pick up a 150lb to 300lb pipe that is 20ft long, and 8" to 10" in diameter, and carry it on your shoulders across a field that is 1/2 mile long. When I was a kid I could barely move one end, by the time I was a teenager I could carry two of them on my shoulders, alone, for miles. Fixing fences was a year round thing, keeping hogs and cattle in where they are safe. Carry a large spool of barbed wire, several steel fence posts, post driver, and the stretcher around the pasture perimeter mending fences. That was a three times a week job, in addition to everything else. I had to do the mowing too, in addition to rebuilding the mower and its engine sometimes, I started building engines at 8. Did my first V8 at 13, it was a 390 Ford. Between all of that we had to herd cattle/hogs, load them up to take to town to sell them, walk through bean fields cutting the weeds out of them, maintain all the farm equipment (oil changes, greasing everything, repacking wheel bearings, replacing worn parts, its no wonder I am very good at mechanical things) In winter I had to go out in the west pasture, cut up the fallen trees, drag them back to the house with the tractor, cut them up, stack it, then keep the house warm all winter. Been running chainsaws since I was 13 or 14, and I can build a fire exceptionally well. From the time dad got the woodstove for the house when I was 7 until I left for the military at 19, I was the one keeping the fire going, and getting it going when mom let it burn out. Dad got a real furnace when my younger brother enlisted in the Army in 1992. I could not wait to get off the farm, away from my family that treated me like a servant/slave, and away from wearing a gas mask most of my life.. So the military fit quite well, I was worked extremely hard during the airlifts for the wars, and I wore a gas mask so freakin often it just became second nature to have it on. The work I have done in my life has been extremely physically demanding, thus I am packed with muscle and when I was 22 my arms were bigger than Arnold's, but not as well defined since his mass came from a gym and roids, mine came from being worked heavily every day, you can't imagine it really. The best way to explain it is to pick up 100lbs in each hand, hoist it to your shoulders, then run up three stories. Do that several hundred times in a 12 hour period. Then take two F150s, put them bumper to bumper, now push them from one end of a 300' parking lot to the other, and back again, for a 12 hour period. Between 21 and 35 I could do all of that alone, I was a monster who wore out every joint attached to my spine. Now I live in pain. I am kinda sugar coating my life, fyi.
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  7. The low value guys need money to get women, they are like that all over the world, not just the US. I've been around the world quite a bit in the US military, you can tell which ones want money from you. I usually had no money first because of low rank, then because my divorce took nearly all of it. Those low value guys are not going to change, they will always be around, just don't be one of them.
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  8.  @solrosenberg4529  you also need training, knowledge, and the willingness to throw down and bring more hatefulness down on them than they are willing to give you. Just because you have a boomfirestick, doesn't mean you will win. Go up against someone trained and you gotta be super lucky to not end up with a splatter pattern behind where your noggin was last.
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  9. Living overseas I learned that most people only know about where they grow up. Like a 200 mile radius, and they rarely leave that circle. The most often asked question I got when I was in Dubai 32 years ago was "Are you from LA or NYC?" I would reply I am from almost exactly between them. The paradigm for Emirates is much smaller, Abu Dhabi is quite close to the other Emirates and Saudi Arabia. They could not imagine where Nebraska is. People in Europe don't grasp the size of the US either. It is 1000 miles from my home near Marquette Michigan, to the farm where I grew up near Lincoln Nebraska. That is a 14 hour drive at 75mph. I have no problem driving that in a day, but Europeans will take two or three days to travel that far, or they will simply fly. The funniest question I got was after they asked me where I was from and I said Nebraska, they'd ask "what state is that in? That was people from the US (urban people) and from overseas. I usually know more about the country I am visiting/deployed to than the people who live there, as far as geography. I kinda study that sort of thing so I find out before I go. I know far more about the US than most of the urban people I meet, but I have been all over this country. I definitely got a different mindset than most Americans. I spent just under ten years (total with a gap in service) in the USAF, travelling the world, meeting people from other cultures, learning bits of their language, and expanding my horizons so to speak. I can tell where some people are from based on their facial characteristics, Japanese look different to me than Koreans, Laotians, Vietnamese, etc. They all look different from each other to me. Same with Russians, Spanish, Germans, Italians, and English. The Baltics look similar to me, and I didn't spend as much time with them, but often I know they are from that area. When it comes to work, I heavily value my time off. Before I retired my time off was precious to me, because in the US military you can end up working 14 hours a day for several months without a day off. I went from 10 August 1990 to some time in January or February of 1991 without a day off, I was on the flightline, working the planes every night, minimum 12 hours, sometimes 14 to 16 hours working. The result was I hoarded my leave, and once that uniform came off I tried to be unreachable. I also learned to sleep anywhere, anytime, I had the chance to get some zzz's. From June 2003 to August 2005 I worked 12s, with varied work schedules, often 4 days on, one day off. Out of my entire time in the USAF maybe 3 years were spent on 8 hour shifts. When I was an NCO there was even less time off to myself, always had to handle things for my Airmen, and since I worked nights it meant missing out on sleep during the day. I do not miss being an NCO at all. Lots of work and responsibility for nowhere near enough pay. I just passed 6600 straight days of Saturday this week. That is 570,412,800 seconds, 9,506,880 minutes. In two months I will have spent more time disabled/retired than I spent working since I graduated high school in 1987. Two separate lifetimes is how that feels. I don't miss Europe or Asia, but I want to go back to them sometime. I'd also like to go to South America for a while, maybe Columbia, Brazil, and some of the centrals like Panama. Where I live I avoid the big cities, Green Bay is the closest and its a 3 hour drive to get there. I like living rural, and having food for several years stored up, and shopping for the entire week is my norm. Can't afford to drive 25 miles into the grocery store every day. These days I am not very social, I can go weeks without speaking to another human, or even seeing them in the winter. Most people repel me, they are not good people to be around. Trust is huge for me, and if I can't depend on someone I can't trust them. If I say I will be there, then I will damn well be there unless something larger prevents me from following through. Most people aren't like that. Doesn't mean I don't like or appreciate them, just that I will limit my time around them.
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  10.  @skullviolater8835  nah, they simply do not know. Crowder is finding out the hard way right now. he was saying the same things Matt and the others were saying, just a few short years ago. Now he has been shown what really happens. She lies, takes the kids, most of your income, and is rewarded for less than honorable actions. The other guys on this panel, haven't been through it. Matt has no idea what its like for his wife to take his kids 1500 miles away, and keep you from contacting them. He can't imagine why a mom would do that, but they do it all the damn time and his imagination is not part of it. He still believes they are wonderful people, and they have only been misinformed a little bit. Coward doesn't fit, ignorant and inexperienced fit better.
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  11. Donuts, cakes, fudge rounds, twinkies, etc.
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  12. Gimme dat benefits but dont gimmie dat 'sponsibility That is the only way I can write it here and you can see it... lol. The botters got me on lockdown.
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  13. That depends on where you live, rural areas have much lower costs than cities. If you want to live in a large city, yeah its going to be exorbitant. $5k a month to rent a one room apartment? Thats a down payment on 10 acres where I live. However, all the jobs I used to do are gone now, the only one still available is construction, and with considerable education, working on cars. Very few machinist/CNC jobs, they were all sent south of the border 20 years ago. Where I live now there is no industry, the main source of revenue is tourism, snowmobilers in winter, RVs in summer. If you have internet income where you aren't going to a job, you're doing it where you live, rural areas are ripe for the taking. There is no way I could live in a city, a fixed VA income means I have to live somewhere inexpensive. I live alone because I am not giving away another house and most of my income to an unfaithful succubus. My land is paid off, I am debt free, and own 13 acres, I could easily support someone and have an enjoyable life. Not going to... because they cannot be trusted.
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  14. I'm almost 55, she thinks the hydraulics don't work? Heh, maybe she can't make anything firm, because the morning around here has hardwood. They really don't know anything about us, do they? They think we are like them, but with different plumbing.
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  15. They don't have a mental advantage, well not with 50% of us, they do with the lower 50%.. However they do have the advantage of society protecting, lauding, promoting, and encouraging them at every turn, while punishing men for the bad actions of women.
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  16.  @OrwellsHousecat  also we are wallets and status providers. Everything they say about how the top 1% of men treat them, is how they treat men. Its hilarious once you stop caring about them.
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  17.  @Gunsight-One  I got more than a truck, I got freedom. She was costing me $2000 a month just being there, and not spending money wildly like the first ex. Car insurance, gas, food, all the incidentals TWO THOUSAND FREAKIN DOLLARS. Now I have a larger shop to build cars in, with a lift and better equipment like my air compressor, welders, etc. I have 13 acres of land that I can't be kicked off of without someone paying me handsomely for it. A smaller house that is easier to heat and cool, that fits me quite well and its comfortable. I am debt free which means I can run my accounts down to nearly zero every month if I want to get something done, or I can save up to get something big like a 3 car trailer or that plasma cutter/Tig welder I want. As long as I have food, the bills are paid on the first of the month, and the dogs have chow, I can do whatever the hell i damn well please without being concerned about someone else. Currently I have my eye on a set of cylinder heads for my Pontiacs that would allow me to make around 850 maybe 900hp NA with my latest engine, and an easy 1200hp with 7psi from the blower sitting on my floor. I plan to pay my friend for them in January or February so they can be on the car by the time the snow is gone in May or June. Fast cars are infinitely more fun than a female nagging and haranguing me all day over bs while she wastes my money.
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  18. WHATEVER YOU DO.. don't be a mechanic or own an auto repair shop. Learn how to do all of it, but do something else to pay the bills. Fix vehicles on the side or for yourself. I love building old cars and trucks, but I hated working on front drive stuff, SUVs and minivans. I was a machinist and military to support my old car passion. Owning a small business means you are gonna end up working harder and longer than any wage/salary job you can get, but if you can make it work in 5 years or so you'll be ahead. You have to dedicate your life to making it work. The best thing is being able to get free... but storefronts, employees, inventory, and regulations like for food, will force you to put in even more effort with a lot more risk. You can do it, but know what you're getting into. You are going to have to work, and be consistent, persistent, and live minimally until you get ahead.
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  19. I'm 54, first divorce was in 2001, second in 2013, I gave them another chance. I know where this goes, I know the future coming for her. Also, a dependa that was faithful? On a Marine base? HA! AS IF!
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  20.  @lidiagizaw3828  well of course not, society would scream about it if any of their precious little cows ended up homeless. They get every handout, incentive, and tons of free stuff just because they have to squat to empty their bladder. She can do everything wrong, step out behind his back, mistreat him and the kids, use all manner of chemicals, even break laws and she is STILL rewarded for it. Must be nice to always be treated like a child and never ever held accountable nor required to be responsible. So yeah, not gonna happen.
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  21.  @CB12345  you're assuming there are mostly good women out there who won't drop you for a different guy if she thinks she can do better. 30 years ago, sure, now? Yeah right. Most of them do what both my ex wives did, file for divorce when they hit 30 because they think they can do better than they did at 20/21. Twenty two years after the first, and ten years after the second, they have discovered that they cannot do better than their first. This is the pattern I have seen most often, in the US military and in the civilian world. Most women divorce around 30 no matter how many kids they have or how good their man is. They are lied to and told they deserve better and are entitled to the best man out there. Couple that with the fact they are never satisfied, and you get men being screwed over en masse and people like you and the dude in this video blaming men for the actions of women.
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  22. Those women are attracted to everyone. Then you have the ones who will rack up a huge number and try to make YOU think she is chaste and innocent. Even if you are her first for everything, unless her culture keeps her acting right, she will do the same thing ALL of them CAN and most WILL do. You cannot trust them, they will eventually step out no matter how 'good' or 'high value' you think she is.
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  23.  @Eneeki  my second wife was 13 years younger than I am, she was good to me for 8 years, then we got married. She was 21 I was 34, it worked very well as I was her first for everything. 16 months later we were divorced and she was destroying her life, that was 11 years ago. Its so much easier when they make you hate them, than when they are taken from us. I rarely even speak to them anymore, the way they behave and how they think they are doing me a favor by speaking to me, is repulsive. They don't get it. My life is a lot better without them in it.
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  24. My first was hot, and a bicycle which I was unaware of. My second was very homely but thin. THEY BOTH DID THE SAME THING, meaning they thought they could do better than me. They couldn't do better, now they're both miserable and broke. You can't trust any of them.
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  25. The one who cares the least is the one who runs the show in a relationship. They are strange like that, its playing on their massive insecurities. They have a need to be wanted, we don't.
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  26. They are absolutely adept at implementing bad ideas. I don't think they have any good ideas.
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  27.  @SkizzyMarsss  I am not offended. I did not disagree with you. I asked who you have led or guided. Its a prompt to action, not a rebuke.
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  28. I saw the exact same dynamic play out, 35 years ago when stationed in West Germany. 6000 men, 300 single not men. Even the overweight 3s got tons of attention. On base they all chased after the same handful of guys, anyone else who had the audacity to speak to them was taken up on charges of untoward conduct. Back then I could go off base and do very well. In the US it was different, they had to struggle because everyone speaks the same language here. When I got to Korea in 2002 they separated us from them and we were briefed not to sleep with them on base. Every one of them would catch something, because they'd be getting with the same handful of guys. The tallest best looking guys... They told us to go out the gate and get it on with Russians, Filipinos, and willing Koreans. Sure enough, they were down with something every few weeks. Now that situation is here for everyone. Think about it, everyone on a military base is in shape, most of them take very good care of themselves, so you have men who are already top 20% in physique, no matter how tall they are. Overseas you have a language barrier, so they would all go for the top 1% of the 20% guys that were everywhere. When he would deploy, the dependent would be on base with all those very in shape single guys... Being married in the military is a detriment, because you know they are not going to be faithful while you're in the sandbox. It was wild how many dependas hit on me.
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  29.  @botezsimp5808  in the open yes, trying to take a defensive position is going to be pricey, it always has been and still is. Fun with military training. :)
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  30.  @AlexanderTheGreatMan  heh... I'm a two war veteran, you could say that aspect is covered to the point even neighbors could be equipped.
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  31.  @haunted5311  100% of them would not change, why the hell would they when they have it so vastly better than men when it comes to dating? All they gotta do is show up and wait.
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  32.  @vishbinliftin2288  after a while females are too much effort, drama, and stress. I can get college age chicks easy, I'm not shredded, but they can tell its muscle on me, not pudge. I am 54 and have lost interest in them for the most part, divorce does that to you. They stop looking like a fun time, and start looking like the reason you sleep in your car and have no money. Its more fun to look at them, cheaper too. Yeah I have had 18 to 28 year olds often since my divorce ten years ago. I just don't care anymore, my cars are more fun and enjoyable. I am getting to be friends with a lesbian though, she is low drama and big into cars. She has a 67 Mustang and a Yota rock crawler, she's like a dude but with indoor plumbing.
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  33.  @gian19791  you're nothing to her as soon as she thinks she has a chance at someone who appears better in some way... only appears, and only has a chance. She will still cheat on you if a better looking or more dominant guy wants to plow her fields, but she will leave if she thinks she is jumping up the ladder at all. Its just how they are, accept it, no need to hate or dislike them over it, its just how they are.
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  34. They gotta do anything they can to feel better about their poor choices which resulted in being alone and unwanted.
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  35.  @dannyells  well its good to know that when you're 70 all those people you worked with will come over and spend the holidays with you. I still can't imagine why any of you would want to live a life even remotely like a man's.. then I remember, you want the benefits with none of the responsibilities of being a man, and it all makes sense. I hear the price of boxed wine is going up, you should stock up now.
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  36.  @Dgreen4154  yeah? You think so do ya? Living in another country, learning their language and culture, travelling to nearby countries, and seeing the world while being paid to do so, isn't as good as flying somewhere, staying in a hotel for a day or two, and moving on to another hotel? I suppose if you backpack across Europe and Asia that would be more immersive. I drove around Europe and rode the trains all over as well. Moscow and Belgrade to the east, Paris (not pleasant at all), London (nice 30 years ago) and Belfast to the west of Europe. Dubai, Cairo, Mombasa, and Kuwait City to the south, and all over Korea while I was there, even though I had almost no money in Korea. Berlin was ok, was in Frankfurt when the wall came down in 1989. Got a nice big chunk of it on my shelf. I got to know Frankfurt exceptionally well, I walked and drove all over the area, what a wonderful place it was back then. My deployments were to Kuwait and Iraq (maybe others, its hard to tell when you're flying around loading/offloading stuff) and yet I went to all those other places. If you're a low ASVAB score 11b or something, or in the Navy and you get a day or two shore liberty every few months, then yeah, you don't see much. I was USAF and I could travel just about anywhere easily. I could put myself on a cargo plane going somewhere as long as I had leave, my job was cargo so we could do that. Was going to make the South America embassy run in 2003 when I got back from Korea, but a little thing over in the desert started. We get 30 days paid leave a year, and it accumulates if we don't use it. With all my time working, I could take months off at a time when I wanted to. I came home to the US twice on leave (when I was 21 and when I was 33), but most of it was used overseas. I flew to Dubai 3 times on leave, spent 6 weeks there in total. So how do we not see the world?
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  37. Men build things. When we build and improve something, that is where we derive a lasting satisfaction. Do not chase happiness, its fleeting and is based on feelings. Accomplishment, overcoming obstacles, doing difficult things, and increasing your capability and knowledge is what builds men. We have to build ourselves, we don't achieve by simply existing, we don't have value unless we can do something valuable. Build you and your skills, then apply those skills to your environment, and if you want tail... well it will come to you. That is another skill set you have to build. If you think of life like Skyrim, where you have to improve by doing things, and there is a wide range of skills you can improve, you'll get the idea. Why do you think they make game like that? Why do you think its compelling and draws you in? Its because we are wired to build, create, and improve. Stop doing it in video games, and do it in real life. Ok you can game a couple hours here and there, AFTER you have put in the day's work on yourself.
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  38.  @nwalker282  I'll be 55 in a few weeks, to find one without coital trophies is rare. Around here they have issues like weight or a messed up tude and nobody wants to get in it. As they get older it gets worse, but at least the kids are grown. Its perferable to avoid them and do something fun and rewarding with your life.
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  39.  @MFZ0dd  Back in 2015 I gave a 40 something a shot, she was real good to me, and we are still friends, ended it in 2019, but the last time I saw her was 2018. She is the oldest one I ever spent that much time on, super rare to find someone that isn't repulsive. Around here their attitudes are horrid in their early 20s. I have better things to do than waste time with them. Almost anything I do is a better use of my time.
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  40.  @efraim3364  I forgot about that one, I should go back and read more of his work. The Raven and Telltale Heart are my favorites.
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  41.  @RaptureHead1993  I am being honest here, is deadlifting 200lbs a difficult thing for most people? I figured the average would be a bit higher than that.
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  42. Office jobs.. people always whine and complain about office jobs. Ya know, there are other jobs you can do that aren't so soul sucking and confining... I find it amusing, live in a big city, pay ludicrous rent, ride the bus or train, get paid a big number but the cost of living is so high that I am doing better living alone out in the woods on less than $100k a year. You're barely squeaking by, will be in debt the rest of your life, but you seem to think you are successful. There are things I won't do. Like work for minimum wage stocking shelves, sit behind a screen and being yelled at by 5 bosses for not putting a cover sheet on my TPS report, and other busy work where you don't do anything productive, you don't make anything, you just shuffle paper around. Thats a fate worse than death to me. I'd much rather be sweating in a shop, under a vehicle on a lift, rebuilding the transmission. Or growing food in a field, making vodka fuel for my old cars from cattails, or building sheds, shops, and houses. I am debt free, own 13 acres of woodland, my house is paid off, the cars are all paid off, and I can rebuild them at my leisure. Its what I do for fun actually, take a rusty heap, and turn it into a cool looking, rather fast, daily driver, then drive it all summer. I like to see the product of my effort... I can be my own boss, I can employ others, I can work with others too... and I have useful skills, even when the world goes automated with AI. There are things the robots won't be able to do and I already do them.
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  43. Yesterday I was listening to a channel talking about the end of permanent alimony in Florida. The females were whining about what they are going to do... you know was well as I do that every damn one of them caused herself to be divorced, alone, is now unwanted. They always blame the man for their own actions, they never take responsibility.
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  44. The same ideology qadaffi was using, is the same one pushed by the cackling monster that squealed with glee when he expired. He wasn't controlled by her, so they removed him. The same ideology is behind the video you reviewed here. Expiration is not a bug of it, expiration is a feature at the core of it
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  45.  @Demial_Sparda  yeah there are lots of words I am not allowed to write on here. I've taken to calling 'not men' them or they but at some point they will just make it so nothing I write shows up... They can't handle reality.
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  46. Haven't heard the hamster wheel analogy since redditbanned a certain sub. They will fight to keep the delusion, putting in a huge amount of effort to preserve it. The more I see of them, the more of these videos, and the interactions I have in public, the less I want anything to do with them.
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  47. I'm not broke, not poor, I am doing ok, own my home free and clear, and I drive cool stuff that I build. WHY SHOULD I HELP THEM? Why should I save them? What the hell do I get from it? NOTHING... YOU GET NOTHING.
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  48. Figures... the first thing out of the 'dress' is provider stuff, always whats good for them, and nothing else matters. Then emotionally available... ugh. Always about emotions. THEY DO NOT MATTER in the real world, you do not achieve things or overcome obstacles via emotions.. ok well maybe anger if channeled correctly will, but thats it. I swear, all these people talking in videos like that have no idea what masculine behavior is.
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  49. If he can't get any where in the US, he probably isn't going to overseas either. I had no problem overseas while in the USAF, had no problem in the states either. However, the women are vastly better in Asia, Africa, and eastern Europe than they are in North America.
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  50. I get them to leave without drama, such as boiling pets and setting fire to my stuff, by being nice to them and paying a bill of hers works great for the stubborn ones. I get them to stick around by not GAF about them and making them work to be around me. If they aren't intimidated by me, they are not attracted to me.
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