Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1.  @ifeawosika966  I have pics of my kids when they were little, before their mom took off with them and they were 4 and 7. Now they are 26 and 29. I have more pictures of my cars than I do of people, GTOs don't take your home and most of your income on a whim.
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  2. The donuts are terrified and cakes are seeking a restraining order...
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  3.  @FracturedReality777  yes, there is something huge for men in marriage. Risk.
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  4. My first ex filed for divorce trying to get me to obey her and hand over my entire paycheck. I came home on leave she wanted to give it another chance. She stayed the night at my parents house, I slept well away from her. The next morning she started another irrational fight with me, and I told her there was no damn way she could ever come back to me. She made my life hell for 8 years living with her, and kept me impoverished for another 15 years. She was horrible to me and my kids, but was rewarded for it with 71% of my gross pay.
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  5. I'm happy, not lonely, debt free, build muscle cars, and own some land I can live off if I want or need to. I discovered that women were the source of my stress, debt, and anxiety. How to do all of it, and then she tries to jump to someone she thinks is better.. they never have yet. On dad's side, my grandpa was born in 1910, grandma in 1915, they married in 1932. She never drove, raised chickens, had a huge garden, canned food she grew every year, did laundry, quilting, kept the house spotless and she had 4 kids who survived. They both made it to the 1990s, she went first. Grandpa never had to worry about the house, food, and laundry, she handled that for him, and he handled EVERYTHING else, the farm, finances, transportation, the lot of it. She was like 5'1" and tough as nails, a hardcore first generation born in the US German. My mom got a job in the late 70s, because the farm economy was terrible thanks to a grain embargo. She was the cook at my school, then a custodian at my high school a while later. Dad farmed then got jobs at farm equipment dealerships selling parts and equipment, he was a lot better at that than he was at farming. When I left for the military in 1989, dad sold the land to my cousin, his sister's kid, and did the sales thing. He didn't have someone around to do all the work, he also got a furnace because I kept the house warm with firewood from age 8 to 18. Mom kept on at the school and retired there in 2012, but mom also cooked, did laundry, kept the house up.. The garden went away when I enlisted and my older brother got an in town job. These people that think wives just sat around and watched TV have no idea, grandma almost never turned the TV on. She liked the quiet. I miss her cooking. I was always looking for a woman like her, dedicated, honorable, trustworthy, capable despite being tiny... I never found one. I stopped looking ten years ago, now they are a means to an o face. Nothing more. Its sad what has become of women, I think their lives are too soft and they are given too much without earning it.
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  6.  @randysavage1  they aren't very effective in logistics, e.g. moving the cargo needed for a military to function. My USAF job was logistics, and they did NONE of the heavy lifting, caused the most vehicle mishaps, and became petty capricious tyrants when they made rank. They are useful in services, running the gym and chow hall, finance and other paper pushing jobs, and in medical its a mixed bag of how well they can do the job. Mostly they are a whistle sack that gets reamed out by the tallest and best looking guys on base. I was the safety and vehicle NCO for my unit, as an extra duty my primary job was cargo/logistics. I know how many accidents and bad ideas were perpetrated by everyone. In all my years on active duty, I found ONE that was able to operate equipment without running into things. Several of them put holes in aircraft, drove forklifts off docks, ran over cargo, and one was most thrilled about driving fork tines through 55 gallon drums of oil, hydraulic fluid, or whatever else was in it.. then when they make a huge mistake like that, they are protected when one of us who does it twice gets 'corrective measured' heaped upon them and discharged if they mess up three times. Air cargo guys go into hot spots, do the job under fire, and nobody realizes its USAF guys doing it. Look at the videos of Khe Sanh and you will USAF cargo troops going out to pick up the airdropped cargo and loading/unloading planes with mortars falling around them. On my deployments we did all the heavy lifting out in the heat, they stayed in the passenger terminal with the AC and rarely came outside when a plane was being loaded with passengers. They did NONE of the baggage, because they simply cannot lift a 90lb bag, let alone 900 of them in a row.
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  7.  @terryrodbourn2793  remove default custody going to mom, stop financially ruining fathers when the mother does everything wrong, and like you said, end frivolous divorces. They have been punishing men for 50 years and now they can't understand why we aren't signing up for it.
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  8. As an NCO in the USAF I got all the screw ups. The kids who had issues, like they didn't want to take a shower or do laundry, got DUIs, or couldn't show up on time. Only one didn't get his act together, and he was returned to the civilian world. Takes some time and effort, but its achievable to fix them.
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  9.  @Omol_Music  HAHAHAHHAHHAAa.... keep telling yourself that. They are ALL 304s. They lie to themselves and say that hundred don't count because it wasn't a relationship and other nonsense. I know thousands of them, 304s the lot of em.
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  10.  @FarmingUnclear  its been interesting watching women go from hottys 35 years ago to rotund hags now. I am 54, and the young ones really like me. I get hit on by a 16 year old checker at my grocery store. Its amusing, but yeah nothing is going to happen there. Right up until they are 28, they like to have fun with me. They get to ride in cool old cars, and do fun things. At 29 they decide they want someone to rescue them, and let them not work anymore as he funds their endless shopping spree. If they don't have kids they want one immediately, like you said. If they have kids they want to get resources from us without putting anything into us and that goes right up to 40. When they hit 40 things change for them somewhat, they realize nobody wants them and their prospects dwindle to nearly nothing.. what they get is dregs. If a man with some value notices them, they become teenagers again because someone noticed them. That gets worse as they age. They are willing to do anything to keep a man around, and I mean anything, not figuratively. At 50 they get more desperate, and are often getting more delusional about what they think they deserve, but they also realize they aren't going to get it ever again. When I was 34 I had just gotten divorced 2 years earlier, and had been having lots of fun with women from other countries, like Russia, Korea, and around the world. They all wanted a ticket to the land of the big BX (base exchange, its like wallmart on a military base). I met my second ex wife, who was 21, a virgin because she was homely, and she seemed to be different from the rest of them. She was awesome for 8 years, then we married and the divorce was final 16 months later. I had never gotten along with someone so well before, then I got sick for a few months, she met a kid 20 years younger than me, and I kicked her out for cheating with him. She will be 41 next month, she is alone, unwanted, and reliant on her mom since her dad died earlier this year. I saw her in the grocery store, and the last ten years have not been kind to her. Back in 15, a couple years after the final divorce, I met another one. She was early 40s, had her own money, and she treated me wonderfully. In 2018 I saw her one time, because there is a 7 hour drive between us. We ended it after having lots of fun together, she wanted to hook up with a firefighter she met. He dumped her two weeks later. I've had lots of them, can't remember how many exactly, I remember another one I hadn't thought about days later when I try to think of them. I don't date anymore, don't get numbers, barely speak to them, and if she shows interest its exceptionally rare that I will even offer to spend time with her. Its not fear of anything, sure as hell not intimidation. Its that I have better things to do with my time, that aren't as much of a waste of it. Playing video games is more rewarding than dating American women.
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  11. I find it most amusing when I offer a 4 the chance to spend time with me and do something fun because she is fun to be around.... and they turn me down. As if they are getting better offers. Just ten years ago it was difficult to find one that was single, now they are all painfully single, but delude themselves into thinking they deserve Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth. No dear, you are lucky I even spoke to you.
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  12. Both my wives decided to try and do better when they hit 30. Typical woman in yellow, if they are meant to be in your life they will.. yeah, restraining orders over fabrications and falsehoods do a damn fine job of making people leave your life. Both my ex's are miserable now... 23 years and 11 years this May since the divorces. The majority of them do like these women... poorly. I hit 50 and it was just another day, because I had already done things most people never would or could. I am more concerned with what I want to do with the years I have left than trying to feel young again. I literally own/drive the same cars I drove since I was 16. I stopped driving the economy car I bought when I was 34 because people are jerks towards me in it, like its a poor man's mid life crisis car. A bright red 1998 Formula Firebird I got back in 2004. Live a life that fulfills you, even when someone else throws a wrench in it like my ex wives did.
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  13.  @bcab7955  she didn't get it as good after me, and now she doesn't get any at all. Of course she blames me for her plight, but it was her choice and her actions that brought her to where she is now.
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  14.  @nikoryu-lungma  getting lots of women doesn't prove a man's value, it can make him far more attractive to other women, but usually has a negative affect on him with men. How do I know that? I have a high number, somewhere between 150 and 200. However, I was not trying to get a high number, I was trying to find one I could trust that would build our lives together. As it turns out, they mostly just wanted something from me, not really me. The experience of having a man who is built like a gorilla moving her internal organs round, being seen with that man, or something of monetary value. A few tried to get cars and cash out of me, but I never really had money. My value doesn't have much to do with it, apparently my face was good looking to them, and they like muscle which I have in abundance. I have never been wealthy and never plan to be. I do fun things often, mostly with my old cars, and the vehicles are the main focus of my life.. and have been for 4 decades now. Everything else supports the vehicle thing... heh.. That is attractive to them. If you have value to them, they will want to be with you, and man without value needs something physical. Muscle, money, stature, etc. I could get women because I know how to talk to them, could tell which ones were interested and which were not, have infinite confidence (which comes from being tested and building myself to pass those tests), and I have muscle with a deep voice. I am 5'8" and have been over 240lbs since 1991. Got down to 215 in 2001 on a deployment, but mostly I have been 240 or heavier. Not exactly the pinnacle of the male physique. If you think getting lots of them means you have high value, you're doing it wrong and thinking about it wrong. They are not logical, they run on emotion and you can short or exploit those emotions so easy its like a hack in a game. What men value in each other and themselves is very different than what women value in us. Our value lies in what we know, can do, can solve, and have accomplished. Theirs is in youth and beauty, and most of them squander it.
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  15.  @luphuong5239  you can do that, but I am only doing catch and release now. I am old, do not want anyone around all the time, and I don't have enough lifetime left to rebuild again. I would rather do things I enjoy, like building the old cars I own and driving them. The third extensive rebuild is almost ready to drive, its an insane high powered fun toy I plan to race a bit. Muscle cars > women.
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  16. Man, I am 54 and was around before the internet was available to civilians. THEY WERE THE SAME THAT THEY ARE NOW. The only difference is they can get attention from 100x more thirsty males instead of a few dozen in a small town to a million in a huge city. Bear in mind I am/was a top 20% man despite being 5'8" and not overly wealthy, its muscle, attitude, confidence, and the ability to do damage along with the willingness that attracted them to me. Its not coming from someone who rarely had a woman, I have had hundreds and have known thousands around the world. They are the same, as they have always been.
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  17.  @ericpowell4350  people would be ill advised to come where I live and try to take things. The township is over 20 miles long, and only about five or six families/people are on the obedient blue side. The rest of us, well... lets just say you have to get away with what you take, and survive the encounter. If I go to some other country where I am not allowed to own a means of defense, that puts me in a much worse situation. That makes you dependent on the regime. If you think this isn't going to be forced on those smaller countries when the US can or will no longer stop them, you're delusional. Run and hide if you want, but they will come for you all the same.
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  18. I'm 54, only 5'8, but I have muscle and game, like bench 450lbs+ muscle. Seeing the % in this video made me realize why I had so many one night and less than two month things over my life. I am not long term for them. However, I still get interest from 18 year olds all the way up to 70+. My daughters are 26 and 29, and most of the interest I see for me is from women younger than my kids. Around here its a small population, and the women are not overly attractive. That means I am not interested in them. Yet when I go to a large city, I stand out because I am so very different than the men they see every day. Still not interested because I hate being in cities, and they are not going to want to live in the woods like I do. So I live alone and amuse myself in watching women qualify themselves to me. In my late 30s and all through my 40s it was super easy to get the young ones. In their 30s they did not want me, because they want a retirement plan, not a muscle bound gorilla that tosses them around the bedroom. Under 30 and over 40 they are very interested... but not for long term as I have no status or wealth. I am not a beta wallet for them. Build muscle in your 20s, it will help you all through your life. Men respect you more if you look like and you actually can throw a hurtin to them. You can do more when you are strong than when you are weak, and we all start out weak. Don't stay that way... and don't do like I did, never get married. I was daft enough to do it twice.
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  19. STOP MAKING EXCUSES. Nobody cares, thats the first thing men need to understand, nobody cares about us. If we don't make it happen, nothing happens. You can whine and cry about the things you have to do to become a man and build your life into something worth living, or you can get started. All of those things are still going to be standing in your way after you cry about it, so skip the female emotional outbursts and get to work. At 14 I was 4'9 and 135lbs, I was a portly kid, and I had just gotten into wrestling. By the time I was 16 I was becoming somewhat of a monster and had grown to 5'7. It was a messed up diet the doctors put me on in the 70s. No female would even acknowledge I existed until I put in the work to get stronger, built confidence through competition, and changed my life the hard way. At 17 I got the first piece, which was followed by another (who was 21) two weeks later. I was off to the races and getting tail from ever increasingly good looking ones. I am only 5'8 man, and I can lift a lot of weight because of the jobs I had and the life I lived. Get off the couch, get the hell out there, get to work doing something constructive that makes you work. I mean work, lifting heavy stuff, over and over, not some paper pushing job or stocking shelves at a box store. BUILD something. Houses, cars, bridges, roads... whatever. Do that for at least two years and pay attention to the men you work with when you haven't had a dad there to teach you how to be a man. Being a man takes work, you don't just end up one like females end up being women. YOU gotta make your life happen, nobody is going to do it for you.
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  20. Its simple to make ethanol too, cattails is how I make it, but you can make ethanol from any starch or sugar.
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  21. It took me 8 years to rebuild and pay off the mortgage and building loans after the ex got everything except my old cars and tools. My ex had ZERO evidence of anything, she got the restraining order based completely on hearsay. The 'soulmate' she left for at 30 stuck around for 3 years until her dad got tired of supporting both of them. Then he left her, she has been alone ever since and her dad paid her bills until he passed last February ('23). Had to wait two more years for the first to be out of my wallet before I could start rebuilding in earnest in 2015. Now I own 13 acres of land, a bunch of old muscle cars I am rebuilding, a big shop with a lift, and I have no debt. No way in hell am I letting a woman into my life so she can take everything I have built before I even met her.
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  22. I had five baseless unfounded assertions leveled against me in the USAF back in 1990-92. I am not allowed to use the typical phrase or my comment is hidden. I wasn't tall enough to say hello in passing to military females. My solution was to not talk to military females. In 92 I had one accuse me of a struggle snuggle, because I would not give her a car I owned. She was a civilian and unaware I worked nights on base and had Tuesday Wednesday off, she claimed I did it on Friday around midnight, Saturday around 11pm, then Sunday evening. I was on duty and could prove it beyond any doubt. No spicy time transpired between us, she got my name from one of the guys who knew me and made her assertions when I would not just hand over a car to her. I had looked at her car to see if I could fix it, and I needed a lift and a shop to do it, so I declined fixing it for her. I was restricted to base for months and it played a part in me not being able to reenlist. The off base cops wanted to haul me off, but my base said they would just keep me there. They needed me to work and having me in jail was not going to allow that. I got screwed over because some bint found out I had two cars and she wanted one. Then I had another in the civ world because she wanted me to let her drive my car, on ice, while she was drunk and I said no. Both ex wives did the same thing during our divorce, but it wasn't spicy in nature, it was other things they claimed I did. After all of this, it is impossible for me to trust females.
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  23.  @FullCircleTravis  do you have kids? Because if you have kids, she can decide to take them from you, no reason nor justification needed. She will be rewarded for it. I was thrilled my ex finally left, the police backed her every time they showed up looking to arrest me for what she did. She did not intimidate me at all, even when she was coming at me with something or throwing things. I have lots of scars from her, maybe I needed to give a few scars back. I am not a timid man, not a small powerless one either, but there are more police than me. She absconded with my two daughters when they were 5 and 7, moved them 1500 miles away and I had to look for several days to find them when I came home on leave. She screened calls, threw away presents I sent or kept them for herself, and I was forced to give her all but $100 of my take home pay for nearly 3 years. I slept in my old ratty car while active duty in the US military, or on friend's couches. Lots of cheese and bologna sandwiches, except for the week where a friend's gf gave her kids my weeks worth of food one day. For the next 7 years I got to see my kids a total of 12 days. Usually the last afternoon before I head to head back to base, and I spent the rest of the time trying to find them. My bank account was seized twice as a punitive measure, so they could put me behind on payments, and punish me for the payment bouncing. They kept the money, and did not give it to her. So be as willful as you like.. when she decides to destroy you, there will be precious little you can do about it. Your choices are let it happen or take a permanent dirt nap. If you try to fight them, they will make it even worse. I lost 15 years of my life living on a tiny portion of my income because the rest was going to someone who did not deserve nor earn it.
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  24. Had one of those sno cone haired types reply "The bright colors are to warn predators" and I said "yeah, but they are still toxic to everything, and frogs are predators, brightly colored or not."
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  25. yeah she is angling for views, she wants the $$$. Eh whatever, I find things she says to be incorrect or misguided, but at least she is sorta trying.
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  26. @Sludge my last wrestling match was in 1989, in the US military stationed in Germany. I am almost 54 years old and can't run anymore since my 2004 deployment. I suppose they can try against me... but then again I have more physical strength than 99% of men.
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  27.  @beastfromtheabyss  you're right about that. I know way too many guys who have either never gotten any, or only had one or two and that was decades ago. Throughout history most men never reproduced, they either expired young, or in conflicts, disease, accidents, etc. We haven't had a major conflict in 80 years, so there are excess cannon fodder types strolling around.
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  28.  @jonathanjacob5453  not always, sometimes they go with 'you're so confident' or they don't say anything verbally, but all their body language screams submission and attraction. I probably have had different experiences because I am 5'8 and muscular.
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  29.  @jorgelarzabal  you wouldn't feel so tender hearted towards her when she has you thrown in jail for no reason other than she is off her nut, keeps you destitute no matter how much you earn so you're living in a beat up old car, and keeps you from seeing your kids out of pure vindictive capriciousness. I have two ex's, kids with the first. They both stepped out with infidelity, lied about me to make themselves look better to everyone, took my house, my income, and had me sit in jail for things I didn't do.. evidence doesn't matter when a man is accused by his less than loyal ex. They just assume he did it, because she is sooo wonderful. No they do not get any respect from me and I honestly would not care if space junk squished them, or they caught something serious. They earned the derision, and what the first did to my two daughters is unforgivable.
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  30. Oh yeah, sign me up for that, move into HER house so when she finds someone else or doesn't want you anymore, she kicks you out.. and of course then you are forced to pay her for it. She is broke, I am not, if I had to support her, I would be broke too. Not gonna do it.
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  31.  @jean-louislalonde6070  it has to be a miserable life to be so insecure that they have to do things like this to feel better about their poor choices.
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  32. I hooked up with Russian speaking women when I was stationed in Korea 20 years ago. Now those were the ones who were willing to fly to Korea to work in a bar to make tips, so not the highest quality women... however, they were vastly better looking, and far more enjoyable to be around than US and western women.
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  33.  @Something-tz2vw  the lack of drama and stress induced headaches is why I dated them, Thai ladies were my favorite from that end of Asia. Russians, well, they are interesting and run a wide range of ethnicities. You have to be a strong willed man that can withstand thermonuclear S-tests if you want to get and keep a Russian speaking one around. My days of travelling are over, last time I was out of the US was 2004, the first time was 1989. I have eschewed relationships for some time now, opting to spend my money on vintage muscle cars, my land/home, and doing the things I enjoy doing, like going drag racing. Because of women the last pass I made down a drag strip was in 2005. This is the first year I have rebuilt my life enough to get back into it after having everything I built and invested in ripped from me. Asian ladies are quite nice, they rarely have bad attitudes and they know how to treat a man well.
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  34. I've seen this countless times. They burn everything to the ground at 29 to 32, thinking they can get what they had ten years before, not realizing they just relegated themselves to practice. They rarely get a better man over 30 than they could get at 20, but they think they are special and the bad things won't happen to them. Pity them...do not save them.
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  35. The swipe obsessed one... yeah, thats what they look like for the most part over 40. Ick. I wear a hat because my eyes are light gray and very sensitive to light, so I wear a hat. It limits the light getting into my eyes. I am not losing hair, and I am 54, I shave my head into a high and tight once a month. Larger and older means easier with less effort to gat an O, she thinks she is desireable, but she is seen as easy.
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  36.  @daishan1234  I can rebuild cars, wrecked, rusted, parted out.. no problem, I have the skills and knowledge. You cannot fix people, and if females are single above 35 its because they made poor choices in life.
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  37. They think we are attracted to a chick with a degree, good job, and her own house. Then they think they can do better at 30+ than they did at 18-26. Nobody tells them how alone they are going to be when they think that way.
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  38.  @mirceazaharia2094  honestly, we only need to put it back to 1912 settings. Easier said than done, but hey, a man can dream.
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  39. This is exactly the issue. The same thing happened on reddit and now its a "L" echo chamber, but they didn't get people dependent on an income stream then take it away without reason. I wonder what they will do if I make my daughter the beneficiary of anything I produce on here, since ya know, its automotive stuff and benefits a woman.
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  40.  @RR.LL.3B  ok... so when someone comes at me with something like that, I think projection. Like when my ex accused me of cheating, while I was at work... and guess what she was doing while I was at work. She was bipolar... are you bipolar too? Most females are. You write like a female, and think like one, so even if you have outdoor plumbing you are essentially a female. If you have outdoor plumbing, lift something heavy a few times each day, stop with the soy drinks, and learn a skill or two. :) If you're female, enjoy boxed wine and cat land. :)
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  41.  @l2xsniper1  I'll bet you it was some guy showing interest, that did not stick around after he got what he wanted and the papers were filed. They always have another one they plan to swing to, they don't jump without an option. Its ALWAYS another man, they never just leave because they want to.
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  42. I grew up on a farm. Lifting heavy stuff all day at certain times of the year, hay bales and irrigation pipe all summer, firewood, snow and livestock feed all winter. I wrestled in high school and later in the US military. If something needed done and we didn't know how, we learned how to do it. There was no need for anything like this little crawling in wet dirt silliness. My entire life I have laughed at the smugness of these soft hands types looking down their nose at me, as if they are superior to me. Sure, they might make more money, but thats the only area where they're ahead of me. I see them often, driving in the car their wife approves of, looking at my car in traffic with that look.. That look of a man behind a fence looking at the world he cannot get to. The look of a man who is told what to do by his overbearing wife, as he longs for an old muscle car like I have. I built my car, he would rather watch TV in the evenings than cut rusty panels out and weld in new ones, or rebuild transmissions and engines. He would pay someone to do all of that stuff, and his wife won't allow that. They are Lester Burnham at the beginning of the movie "American Beauty" but think they are Colonel Fitz who lives next door. Sell the Camry, buy the Firebird and lift heavy stuff.
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  43.  @ikaybi3  there is something I have learned through two divorces, many other LTRs, and a decade in the US military. You cannot tell others what to think and expect them to agree with you on everything. To some extent I could get my subordinates to do what I told them to do, but when it game to females in a relationship with me, no amount of any behavior is enough to keep her from making poor choices and destroying the lives of her kids and her husband. Society will do what society wants, and the mob is fickle at best. What you want is rarely what they will do.
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  44.  @BrendanSchmelter  never gonna happen. The man is always wrong, she is always innocent and never does anything wrong. This is how the courts are, family, civil, and criminal. Been through all three because of them, and I did not do nor cause ANY of it... but I paid for it.
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  45.  @williamgriffin5503  I was stationed in Korea 20 years ago, didn't get with many Koreans, lots of Russians. However there are lots of women in Korea running around with photographs of me with them from my trip to Seoul. They really liked my blue eyes, blond hair, and that I am heavily muscled.. think power lifter rather than body builder and you get the idea.. like a pale gorilla.
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  46. this guy is so freakin wrong about all of it because of how far left he is. High min wage would be a HUGE mistake and make things worse, he really has no idea.
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  47. No matter how much I put in, they never came close to matching it. They have always been an expense for me, like buying gas or getting drunk, you have nothing to show for it when they are gone.
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  48.  @MaestroMephisto  you're exactly right. I did get her best years, and the first wife's best years as well. They were 20 and 21 respectively, first went 8 years of nightmare for me, and the second was just short of ten. The first is 49, 5'4, over 300lbs, and managed to get herself a yesboysimp who hands over his disability check to her before she became a hamplanet. 30 years ago when I met her, she was smokin hot, with a 5 face. Her ATM is creeping up on room temp, he might have a year or two left at this point. Dude is a mess. When he croaks she will drop down to $1300 a month, which is her mortgage payment for her 1100sqft house by the train tracks. Math is not her friend. She came here to drop off stuff for one of my daughters back in 2018. She realized then just how badly she screwed up, especially when our daughter told her how much land I own. She has been trying to get me back, but after the hell she put me through, I can think of very creative methods of demise that I would prefer over taking her back. The funny part of this is I have 20-29 year olds flirting with me and hitting on me, and I do not dye my hair or beard, so I am full on gray. I look and act younger than my 54 laps around the sun, but the gray gives me away, I earned it so I flaunt it. Both my ex's chose poorly when they thought they could do better, especially when they were 30.
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  49. Damn right man, bring that hammer.
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  50. My first ex did that to me. I had kid with her and she 'mistreated' them, so I got her to come back so I could protect them from her. Then while she was trying to manipulate me into simply handing over my paychecks and letting her run my life, she took off and moved my kids 1500 miles away and filed for divorce. She tried to get me to come back, but there was no damn way that was happening. I was indentured to her by the state for 15 years. My kids grew up more than a thousand miles away from me, in a very nasty environment their mother created, all while she told them I didn't care or want them. The second ex could have taken everything I owned and most of my retirement, but she knew if she tried that she would get absolutely nothing, but have a huge mess to clean up. I would have set fire to everything and splattered my brains on her parents driveway. I was not going to be indentured again and she knew it. 70% of zero is still zero. Both of them are miserable now, the second is alone and unwanted, she turns 41 this week. I have been divorced from her for ten years. I am sending her a card on her birthday that says Have a nice time in Boxed Wine and Cat Land. 40 to 80 is a looooooong time.
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