Comments by "Thump Er the Sweaty Fat Guy" (@SweatyFatGuy) on "Legion Of Men"
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I'm happy, not lonely, debt free, build muscle cars, and own some land I can live off if I want or need to. I discovered that women were the source of my stress, debt, and anxiety. How to do all of it, and then she tries to jump to someone she thinks is better.. they never have yet.
On dad's side, my grandpa was born in 1910, grandma in 1915, they married in 1932. She never drove, raised chickens, had a huge garden, canned food she grew every year, did laundry, quilting, kept the house spotless and she had 4 kids who survived. They both made it to the 1990s, she went first. Grandpa never had to worry about the house, food, and laundry, she handled that for him, and he handled EVERYTHING else, the farm, finances, transportation, the lot of it. She was like 5'1" and tough as nails, a hardcore first generation born in the US German.
My mom got a job in the late 70s, because the farm economy was terrible thanks to a grain embargo. She was the cook at my school, then a custodian at my high school a while later. Dad farmed then got jobs at farm equipment dealerships selling parts and equipment, he was a lot better at that than he was at farming. When I left for the military in 1989, dad sold the land to my cousin, his sister's kid, and did the sales thing. He didn't have someone around to do all the work, he also got a furnace because I kept the house warm with firewood from age 8 to 18. Mom kept on at the school and retired there in 2012, but mom also cooked, did laundry, kept the house up.. The garden went away when I enlisted and my older brother got an in town job.
These people that think wives just sat around and watched TV have no idea, grandma almost never turned the TV on. She liked the quiet. I miss her cooking. I was always looking for a woman like her, dedicated, honorable, trustworthy, capable despite being tiny... I never found one.
I stopped looking ten years ago, now they are a means to an o face. Nothing more. Its sad what has become of women, I think their lives are too soft and they are given too much without earning it.
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@randysavage1 they aren't very effective in logistics, e.g. moving the cargo needed for a military to function. My USAF job was logistics, and they did NONE of the heavy lifting, caused the most vehicle mishaps, and became petty capricious tyrants when they made rank. They are useful in services, running the gym and chow hall, finance and other paper pushing jobs, and in medical its a mixed bag of how well they can do the job. Mostly they are a whistle sack that gets reamed out by the tallest and best looking guys on base.
I was the safety and vehicle NCO for my unit, as an extra duty my primary job was cargo/logistics. I know how many accidents and bad ideas were perpetrated by everyone. In all my years on active duty, I found ONE that was able to operate equipment without running into things. Several of them put holes in aircraft, drove forklifts off docks, ran over cargo, and one was most thrilled about driving fork tines through 55 gallon drums of oil, hydraulic fluid, or whatever else was in it.. then when they make a huge mistake like that, they are protected when one of us who does it twice gets 'corrective measured' heaped upon them and discharged if they mess up three times.
Air cargo guys go into hot spots, do the job under fire, and nobody realizes its USAF guys doing it. Look at the videos of Khe Sanh and you will USAF cargo troops going out to pick up the airdropped cargo and loading/unloading planes with mortars falling around them.
On my deployments we did all the heavy lifting out in the heat, they stayed in the passenger terminal with the AC and rarely came outside when a plane was being loaded with passengers. They did NONE of the baggage, because they simply cannot lift a 90lb bag, let alone 900 of them in a row.
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@FarmingUnclear its been interesting watching women go from hottys 35 years ago to rotund hags now. I am 54, and the young ones really like me. I get hit on by a 16 year old checker at my grocery store. Its amusing, but yeah nothing is going to happen there. Right up until they are 28, they like to have fun with me. They get to ride in cool old cars, and do fun things.
At 29 they decide they want someone to rescue them, and let them not work anymore as he funds their endless shopping spree. If they don't have kids they want one immediately, like you said. If they have kids they want to get resources from us without putting anything into us and that goes right up to 40.
When they hit 40 things change for them somewhat, they realize nobody wants them and their prospects dwindle to nearly nothing.. what they get is dregs. If a man with some value notices them, they become teenagers again because someone noticed them. That gets worse as they age. They are willing to do anything to keep a man around, and I mean anything, not figuratively.
At 50 they get more desperate, and are often getting more delusional about what they think they deserve, but they also realize they aren't going to get it ever again.
When I was 34 I had just gotten divorced 2 years earlier, and had been having lots of fun with women from other countries, like Russia, Korea, and around the world. They all wanted a ticket to the land of the big BX (base exchange, its like wallmart on a military base). I met my second ex wife, who was 21, a virgin because she was homely, and she seemed to be different from the rest of them.
She was awesome for 8 years, then we married and the divorce was final 16 months later. I had never gotten along with someone so well before, then I got sick for a few months, she met a kid 20 years younger than me, and I kicked her out for cheating with him.
She will be 41 next month, she is alone, unwanted, and reliant on her mom since her dad died earlier this year. I saw her in the grocery store, and the last ten years have not been kind to her.
Back in 15, a couple years after the final divorce, I met another one. She was early 40s, had her own money, and she treated me wonderfully. In 2018 I saw her one time, because there is a 7 hour drive between us. We ended it after having lots of fun together, she wanted to hook up with a firefighter she met. He dumped her two weeks later.
I've had lots of them, can't remember how many exactly, I remember another one I hadn't thought about days later when I try to think of them. I don't date anymore, don't get numbers, barely speak to them, and if she shows interest its exceptionally rare that I will even offer to spend time with her.
Its not fear of anything, sure as hell not intimidation. Its that I have better things to do with my time, that aren't as much of a waste of it. Playing video games is more rewarding than dating American women.
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@nikoryu-lungma getting lots of women doesn't prove a man's value, it can make him far more attractive to other women, but usually has a negative affect on him with men.
How do I know that? I have a high number, somewhere between 150 and 200. However, I was not trying to get a high number, I was trying to find one I could trust that would build our lives together.
As it turns out, they mostly just wanted something from me, not really me. The experience of having a man who is built like a gorilla moving her internal organs round, being seen with that man, or something of monetary value. A few tried to get cars and cash out of me, but I never really had money.
My value doesn't have much to do with it, apparently my face was good looking to them, and they like muscle which I have in abundance. I have never been wealthy and never plan to be. I do fun things often, mostly with my old cars, and the vehicles are the main focus of my life.. and have been for 4 decades now. Everything else supports the vehicle thing... heh.. That is attractive to them.
If you have value to them, they will want to be with you, and man without value needs something physical. Muscle, money, stature, etc.
I could get women because I know how to talk to them, could tell which ones were interested and which were not, have infinite confidence (which comes from being tested and building myself to pass those tests), and I have muscle with a deep voice.
I am 5'8" and have been over 240lbs since 1991. Got down to 215 in 2001 on a deployment, but mostly I have been 240 or heavier. Not exactly the pinnacle of the male physique.
If you think getting lots of them means you have high value, you're doing it wrong and thinking about it wrong. They are not logical, they run on emotion and you can short or exploit those emotions so easy its like a hack in a game.
What men value in each other and themselves is very different than what women value in us. Our value lies in what we know, can do, can solve, and have accomplished. Theirs is in youth and beauty, and most of them squander it.
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I'm 54, only 5'8, but I have muscle and game, like bench 450lbs+ muscle. Seeing the % in this video made me realize why I had so many one night and less than two month things over my life. I am not long term for them. However, I still get interest from 18 year olds all the way up to 70+. My daughters are 26 and 29, and most of the interest I see for me is from women younger than my kids.
Around here its a small population, and the women are not overly attractive. That means I am not interested in them. Yet when I go to a large city, I stand out because I am so very different than the men they see every day. Still not interested because I hate being in cities, and they are not going to want to live in the woods like I do. So I live alone and amuse myself in watching women qualify themselves to me.
In my late 30s and all through my 40s it was super easy to get the young ones. In their 30s they did not want me, because they want a retirement plan, not a muscle bound gorilla that tosses them around the bedroom. Under 30 and over 40 they are very interested... but not for long term as I have no status or wealth. I am not a beta wallet for them.
Build muscle in your 20s, it will help you all through your life. Men respect you more if you look like and you actually can throw a hurtin to them. You can do more when you are strong than when you are weak, and we all start out weak. Don't stay that way... and don't do like I did, never get married. I was daft enough to do it twice.
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STOP MAKING EXCUSES. Nobody cares, thats the first thing men need to understand, nobody cares about us. If we don't make it happen, nothing happens. You can whine and cry about the things you have to do to become a man and build your life into something worth living, or you can get started. All of those things are still going to be standing in your way after you cry about it, so skip the female emotional outbursts and get to work.
At 14 I was 4'9 and 135lbs, I was a portly kid, and I had just gotten into wrestling. By the time I was 16 I was becoming somewhat of a monster and had grown to 5'7. It was a messed up diet the doctors put me on in the 70s. No female would even acknowledge I existed until I put in the work to get stronger, built confidence through competition, and changed my life the hard way. At 17 I got the first piece, which was followed by another (who was 21) two weeks later. I was off to the races and getting tail from ever increasingly good looking ones. I am only 5'8 man, and I can lift a lot of weight because of the jobs I had and the life I lived.
Get off the couch, get the hell out there, get to work doing something constructive that makes you work. I mean work, lifting heavy stuff, over and over, not some paper pushing job or stocking shelves at a box store. BUILD something. Houses, cars, bridges, roads... whatever. Do that for at least two years and pay attention to the men you work with when you haven't had a dad there to teach you how to be a man.
Being a man takes work, you don't just end up one like females end up being women. YOU gotta make your life happen, nobody is going to do it for you.
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I had five baseless unfounded assertions leveled against me in the USAF back in 1990-92. I am not allowed to use the typical phrase or my comment is hidden. I wasn't tall enough to say hello in passing to military females. My solution was to not talk to military females.
In 92 I had one accuse me of a struggle snuggle, because I would not give her a car I owned. She was a civilian and unaware I worked nights on base and had Tuesday Wednesday off, she claimed I did it on Friday around midnight, Saturday around 11pm, then Sunday evening. I was on duty and could prove it beyond any doubt. No spicy time transpired between us, she got my name from one of the guys who knew me and made her assertions when I would not just hand over a car to her. I had looked at her car to see if I could fix it, and I needed a lift and a shop to do it, so I declined fixing it for her.
I was restricted to base for months and it played a part in me not being able to reenlist. The off base cops wanted to haul me off, but my base said they would just keep me there. They needed me to work and having me in jail was not going to allow that. I got screwed over because some bint found out I had two cars and she wanted one.
Then I had another in the civ world because she wanted me to let her drive my car, on ice, while she was drunk and I said no. Both ex wives did the same thing during our divorce, but it wasn't spicy in nature, it was other things they claimed I did.
After all of this, it is impossible for me to trust females.
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@FullCircleTravis do you have kids? Because if you have kids, she can decide to take them from you, no reason nor justification needed. She will be rewarded for it. I was thrilled my ex finally left, the police backed her every time they showed up looking to arrest me for what she did. She did not intimidate me at all, even when she was coming at me with something or throwing things. I have lots of scars from her, maybe I needed to give a few scars back.
I am not a timid man, not a small powerless one either, but there are more police than me.
She absconded with my two daughters when they were 5 and 7, moved them 1500 miles away and I had to look for several days to find them when I came home on leave. She screened calls, threw away presents I sent or kept them for herself, and I was forced to give her all but $100 of my take home pay for nearly 3 years. I slept in my old ratty car while active duty in the US military, or on friend's couches. Lots of cheese and bologna sandwiches, except for the week where a friend's gf gave her kids my weeks worth of food one day.
For the next 7 years I got to see my kids a total of 12 days. Usually the last afternoon before I head to head back to base, and I spent the rest of the time trying to find them.
My bank account was seized twice as a punitive measure, so they could put me behind on payments, and punish me for the payment bouncing. They kept the money, and did not give it to her.
So be as willful as you like.. when she decides to destroy you, there will be precious little you can do about it. Your choices are let it happen or take a permanent dirt nap. If you try to fight them, they will make it even worse. I lost 15 years of my life living on a tiny portion of my income because the rest was going to someone who did not deserve nor earn it.
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@jorgelarzabal you wouldn't feel so tender hearted towards her when she has you thrown in jail for no reason other than she is off her nut, keeps you destitute no matter how much you earn so you're living in a beat up old car, and keeps you from seeing your kids out of pure vindictive capriciousness.
I have two ex's, kids with the first. They both stepped out with infidelity, lied about me to make themselves look better to everyone, took my house, my income, and had me sit in jail for things I didn't do.. evidence doesn't matter when a man is accused by his less than loyal ex. They just assume he did it, because she is sooo wonderful.
No they do not get any respect from me and I honestly would not care if space junk squished them, or they caught something serious. They earned the derision, and what the first did to my two daughters is unforgivable.
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@Something-tz2vw the lack of drama and stress induced headaches is why I dated them, Thai ladies were my favorite from that end of Asia. Russians, well, they are interesting and run a wide range of ethnicities. You have to be a strong willed man that can withstand thermonuclear S-tests if you want to get and keep a Russian speaking one around.
My days of travelling are over, last time I was out of the US was 2004, the first time was 1989. I have eschewed relationships for some time now, opting to spend my money on vintage muscle cars, my land/home, and doing the things I enjoy doing, like going drag racing.
Because of women the last pass I made down a drag strip was in 2005. This is the first year I have rebuilt my life enough to get back into it after having everything I built and invested in ripped from me.
Asian ladies are quite nice, they rarely have bad attitudes and they know how to treat a man well.
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I grew up on a farm. Lifting heavy stuff all day at certain times of the year, hay bales and irrigation pipe all summer, firewood, snow and livestock feed all winter. I wrestled in high school and later in the US military. If something needed done and we didn't know how, we learned how to do it.
There was no need for anything like this little crawling in wet dirt silliness. My entire life I have laughed at the smugness of these soft hands types looking down their nose at me, as if they are superior to me. Sure, they might make more money, but thats the only area where they're ahead of me.
I see them often, driving in the car their wife approves of, looking at my car in traffic with that look.. That look of a man behind a fence looking at the world he cannot get to. The look of a man who is told what to do by his overbearing wife, as he longs for an old muscle car like I have. I built my car, he would rather watch TV in the evenings than cut rusty panels out and weld in new ones, or rebuild transmissions and engines. He would pay someone to do all of that stuff, and his wife won't allow that.
They are Lester Burnham at the beginning of the movie "American Beauty" but think they are Colonel Fitz who lives next door. Sell the Camry, buy the Firebird and lift heavy stuff.
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@MaestroMephisto you're exactly right. I did get her best years, and the first wife's best years as well. They were 20 and 21 respectively, first went 8 years of nightmare for me, and the second was just short of ten.
The first is 49, 5'4, over 300lbs, and managed to get herself a yesboysimp who hands over his disability check to her before she became a hamplanet. 30 years ago when I met her, she was smokin hot, with a 5 face. Her ATM is creeping up on room temp, he might have a year or two left at this point. Dude is a mess. When he croaks she will drop down to $1300 a month, which is her mortgage payment for her 1100sqft house by the train tracks. Math is not her friend.
She came here to drop off stuff for one of my daughters back in 2018. She realized then just how badly she screwed up, especially when our daughter told her how much land I own. She has been trying to get me back, but after the hell she put me through, I can think of very creative methods of demise that I would prefer over taking her back.
The funny part of this is I have 20-29 year olds flirting with me and hitting on me, and I do not dye my hair or beard, so I am full on gray. I look and act younger than my 54 laps around the sun, but the gray gives me away, I earned it so I flaunt it.
Both my ex's chose poorly when they thought they could do better, especially when they were 30.
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