Comments by "Genny" (@genny9026) on "Jesús Enrique Rosas"
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Thank you so much for covering this, Jesús and for your analysis. There were things I hadn’t noticed. This video is very useful advice for anyone who might have to face a similar situation, ie a person who is unexpectedly both stressed and very, angry. It’s not always, obvious. The girl’s distress seemed to make the officer’s reaction worse. I wonder if putting it in the context of animal behaviour, if the ‘ prey’ is terrified and trying to hide, not projecting strength or aggression back, that actually encourages a ‘ predator’ to get into an even more …excited is the wrong word…state ? It senses success or is determined to achieve it ? What happened in this case is so appalling, it’s almost beyond belief. Would that officer have behaved the same way if alone and facing a strong, well- built, calm and confident man ? I doubt it. It was much easier to seem dominant, backed up by large men and focusing on a small, sixteen year old autistic girl. I don’t think that officer should be in the police force or in any job in which she has to interact with the public.
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Why did he show her the text message from another woman ? Why ? “ I loved her”, ( his girlfriend) he said in the interview. That seems unlikely ! His girlfriend tried to grab the phone then ran after him. Why did he run away ? To not be accused of hitting her ? As he said though, he had a witness - the driver. He’d caused a huge, emotional upset. Why ? He could have handed her the phone or even thrown it up in the air and destroyed it. He didn’t. He could have hugged her and told her positive things. Everything he did though, escalated her emotional response. That’s the sort of thing some people do to get an ego boost and to control someone else’s self esteem negatively. They use other peoples’ emotions to boost their own egos.
When it became a struggle for the phone, he seems to have injured her hand. Again - he could have avoided that but he seems to have wanted to continue winning. He wanted her to be like Michelle Obama and a few others …because he thinks he’s a great man ? Egotistical again and off the scale.
In the interview, the same thing comes across. He “ can’t remember “ …as if it was insignificant. That makes his girlfriend seem insignificant to him too. His manner during the interview seems as if he’s acting playing a very important person giving careful responses in a political, interview. It seems like a script he learned. He speaks quite slowly, often uses a direct gaze at the interviewer. He’s talking to the interviewer in a tone of voice he might use to express sympathy that her cat had fallen off the roof but by creating that sympathetic atmosphere, he’s creating sympathy for himself. ‘ Look…I’m such a good, calm, person, it’s all very sad but c’est la vie’.
He doesn’t know why it all happened ? He created it, is why it happened. When some people are praised etc via their work, it obviously boosts their self esteem. When at home, some of them expect the same unquestioning adulation. They need the fix, so they stir up the person they’re with. Even a negative response gives them a high. They’ve got the person’s full attention. Two- timing someone, would definitely work.
He really lit up when the race card came out. Not only could he not remember what happened but whatever it was, he was sure to be convicted of it ? So - nothing, was his fault at all ? Whoever was responsible, it can’t have been him ? He’s protecting his ego. It seems that he hasn’t succeeded in protecting his career. What did he value most ? The girlfriend ? No. His career ? Seems not. His ego ? Probably. He’s had fame, money and admiration but it seems to me that he wasn’t mature enough to deal with those things. Well, he’s not alone in that, is he. Delusions of grandeur are best avoided. ( Self confidence, ambition and drive, are not in that category. )
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