Comments by "Misha Skripach" (@MishaSkripach) on "Jordan B Peterson"
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@ChrisFineganTunes The fact is, parents do dictate their children's lives, whether they realise this or not. They dictate it from the moment the pregnancy starts, what the mother eats, whether the father makes her cry etc. Their decisions dictate the process of gestation and birth, so the child is already born with the baggage of limits set up by the parents. Where they live, where they work, what is their education and their pronciples, all this dictates the child. So, if they decide to let the child choose something, they actually dictate the child to do the choosing, the child has no option to be just given a carefully selected ready made choice.
I already raised three kids, two of them are fully adults, they are brilliant at making decisions and are in position of healthy dominance in their workplaces.
If I gave choices to my kids, I did understand that this was MY DECISION and they were just subjected to it. A child cannot live without adults. The child is dependant and submissive, and so it should. It is the job of the parent not to dictate unreasonable things! It is the responsibility of the parent to be wise with that "dictate" way. my kids had lots of freedom, because I DECIDED SO.
See?
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@RunninUpThatHillh 🎁I agree that school is a waste otime, however those tests are NOT real, they are down 6-7 years! If your child at age 8 does not have the reading age of 18, by those tests, things are not good, same with maths. To check the true knowledge , you need to enrol kids to an entrance exam at a popular private school, 11+. If they do 95% and get a scholarship offer, they do well. aotherwise not. If your kids are intelligent, they deserve competitive education for potentially Cambridge, Harward, etc.
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