Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. This proves that those woman on the show are looking for $, not love.
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  2.  @ChinaUnvarnished  THese event see men as ATM.
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  3. A man suggesting going out of coffee and not a 5 star restaurant is normal. Why invest in the woman on the first date.
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  4. the women with glasses has NO solution. IF the women works hard and get degrees and job, her standards will rise. Once she has acheive those thigns, she is over 30+ and very few men will want her, due to faded beauty and have difficulites bearing children.
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  5. The women who is 38 with glasses is a sugar mommy, willing to support a man. That is awesome. Finally, a man being taken care of by an older woman.
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  6. How the tables has turned on these GD. She though she strike gold. But it was he, who made money. Well done! Finally, GD got scammed.
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  7. Agreed. If it is tradition, then it is also a tradition that the bride/woman is pure. If not pure, no bride price. Why would the man;s family buy a used car when they can use the same money to get an 18 yr old for their son.
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  8. The crazy lady demanding 1 M RMB in dowry can continue to wait for a man willing to give. She will be waiting for another 33 yrs.
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  9. The women, say, she wants to manage the husbands' salary and transfer the property to her name. Once that is done, she will divorce him. For her, it is her own personal lottery!
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  10. I have respect for these men. They know how to play their game and do NOT fall into THEIR trap. These men are fighting back, showing these women a mirror! The mirror is the best weapon for a man!
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  11. too much education for a women does NOT benefit man. It brings him trouble!
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  12. make bribe price illegal, is a good start.
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  13. If women judge men on their financial conditions, we men have ever right to judge on their age.
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  14. WHen women do ALL the housework, take care of the elder, raise children, men will love them! Men wants a house wife, not a career women.
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  15. Wealth and finacial stable men who is 35 wants a partner who is 25 yrs old. Why would the 35 yr old want a 38 yr old woman, who's beauty value has faded.
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  16. The guy in glasses sum up all the characteristics of a single women. Well done!
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  17. 42 yr old, it will be very difficult for her to have children. The woman in the video said, we all have issues. That may be true, but it is more who has more issues and baggage than man. Think about it, they all want men with -house and car (can be optional) -high annual salary of no less than 150k rmb -tall and handsome -similar ages as them (not divorced men with children) -can accept their emotions Men-simple -young, health and beautiful. The other woman in the car with the blue dress. Her mistake, she waited and waited. Men will take action when there are opportunities. Whereas women, are more cautious. It is fine to be cautious, but being too cautious can lose valuable opportunities. This woman lost her opportunity. So now, she is hoping the man she admire, to divorce his current life. Sounds very selfish.
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  18. Chinese were taught wrong. Univeristy degree is no longer worth much, as there are too many of them. Even master degree. These adults put too much pride in obtaining their degrees. The classes they took are out of date. All those knowledge and theories become out of date very quickly. Yet, these graduates, rarely talk about their work experience. In today's society, work experience is more valuable than just a piece of paper. And employers know this. Employer knows, nearly everyone has a pape of paper. What employers are seeking is, do they have work experience. Employers no longer want to train you, as it is a cost. On day one, the employee better start making money for the company or they are fired. Employers don't have the time, resource or energy to train. Furthermore, employers do not want textbook answers. They want those with high IQ and quality street smart, aka, common sense, problem solving skills, critical thinking. These can't be taught, only acquired through life and experiences. So, rather talk about what degree or what university he/she attends, how about talk about your skills, and working experience. Because your peice of paper is a piece of garbage!
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  19. Any women that say, they don't have high standards, it means, their standards are high. When they say, they have already lower their standard, it is still high, even though they are 35+ yr old. For example, before, they demand the guy to earn 30k RMB per month and then lower the standard to 25k. Or from 1.8m to 1.75 m or from expecting the guy that has house and car, to only a house.
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  20. Finally, these match making are NO longer helping these selfish and high standard women. These agents are like real estate, matching buyers with sellers. The chances of earning commission from these 35+ mature women is NOT profitable, since they are very picky. These agent...err...match maker, would rather spend time and effort on those less 28 yr old. Im glad, these match making companies are understanding that it is mission impossible. Why are these mature/luxury women are angry at guys who don't want to chase these mature women. It MAKE NO sense. MEN have choices too, not just women. It makes TOTAL sense for handsome, successful men to chase 18 yr old. They are really angry (and self fish and stubborn) at THEMSELVES for waiting, being a career women and maintaining their high standards. Now they are blaming men! Yet, they don't blame themselves. They are playing the victim.
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  21. Dont like your supervisor, LEAVE. Leave the job, leave the bs, leave the bully. Get a job that deserve respect!
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  22.  @grgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgrgr2592  agreed. 20 yr old body are hot, sexy, smooth and all natural. Can a 39 yr old woman say the same? These women may say or think, they are young at heart. They could be. But their biology say otherwise.
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  23. To the lady in the red top (38), keep on dreaming! A guy that 100% meet all your requirement. That only happens in dreams. GL. Less than 1% chance.
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  24. Women who are homeless, would want this. No need to pay rent after marriage, LOL
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  25. THese princess will be single for their rest of their life and are disppointment in the eyes of their parents!
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  26. She is crazy! She will continue to be single.
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  27. it is simple, if the girl demands you to buy an expensive girl on a first or blind date, then the men can demand some action or 2, depending on the market price of the action. For example, if the item is worth 5k rmb, he must get 5-10 actions from the girl, or it is not worth spending on item on the girl, If these women see men as ATM, then it is fair that we men see these women as OUR pleasure toys! And these women must take the pill after the action.
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  28. Many of these women CAN"T have both. It is either career and independent single life or marry before the age of 30. Men can wait, but women can't. Day by day, women's beauty fades.
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  29. He will win in court. She will lose! Bc, they are divorced and she already got 250k and she accepted the 250. Done deal.
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  30. THese women are never satisfy with what they have. THey are always looking for a partner that is better than their previous one. Fair. We men are always looking for 20 yr olds. Successful men are the PRIZE NOT women in their 30s
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  31. smart man! When going on a blind date, if she suggest a place, to eat or drink, it is scam. Do NOT go to her suggested place!
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  32. so true, if he is wealthy, girls WILL line up for him. ANd the girl won. She gets to live an outstanding and luxury life. WHat else does she want.
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  33. if a guy ask a man's job, finances, how many houses, car, and other materalistic goods, then it is perfectly fine for the guy to ask if a women is in deed capable of being a women and NOT a career women. Cooking, cleaning, and other household chores are what Chinese men are looking for. WHat is the point of marrying a women, if she can not take care of the house and bear children. A man want these skills aka home maker while a women wants a financial supporter.
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  34. Family is number 1 in China. If the daughter who isn't married, the father/mother will lose face! Relative will criticism them, saying, how did you raise your daughter. So, the parents also feel pressure from their side of their family. When the daughter is 35 and still not married, family members will judge the mother and father, saying and thinking, you failed to raise your child well, if she is still single. SO, i totally understand the father's side. ANd he most likely wants grand children, which being single cant give to her parents. Failed!
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  35. 50 min commute is normal, as many people commute 2h+ daily.
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  36. There is a new marriage law that was past recently in 2025, in China to protect men's finances
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  37. Those university grads that can only work as sales, coffee markers, and etc, then that is your life value, with or without degrees. They have been lied to by: family, friends, society, etc that education is a ticket to a good life. This was true 20+ yrs ago, but no more. Unversities are still making money. Imagine, a graduate earning 5000rmb a month, l dont know the tution cost, but im pretty sure it will take along time to earn the money back from their tuitions (paid by their parents, most likely). Many university papers are becoming obslete and useless, especially arts degree. Those with STEM degree have a higher chance. This is also true in the west. University is an experience, it is a luxury. The return is not longer worth it. Street smart is becoming more valuable than papers received from university. We have all been lied to. Only a very few lucky ones can earn high salary. It also depends on luck, your personality, looks and street smart experience.
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  38. Women's life is easy. WTF Stay at home do housework. And when the kids are at the age of going to school, she drop them, spend 2 hours doing housework and she has 4 hours to herself to relax and do what she wants to do. The man, has to work 8 hours for money! The women, max 5 hours (cook, clean, pick up, drop off kids, educate, them) This is why men dont want our women to work, when he has a good and stable income. ALL he wants and needs is come home and there is food on the table, house is clean, kids are quiet and etc Is that hard for a woman?
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  39. I tell them, your degree is worthless to me, both economically and personally.
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  40. Many Chinese believe their degree can secure good jobs. Everyone wants good jobs, but that is the problem. Too few good jobs, and too many people with degrees.
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  41. Finally, the women in the video understands basic biology and understand what men wants. So glade to hear, match making agency are no longer helping 35+ woman. It makes NO sense to help them because, they all want the 1% men. But those 1% men are already married and why would the 1% men want an old lady. He wants a 20 yr old. And when the match making agency can't find them a partner, they will talk down on the agency, saying their company is shit. By not taking in 35 yr women, the match making agent, they dont; need to deal with their BS.
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  42. Sadly, these rural parents with a son is very desperate, as they want their son to marry and carry on the family name, as it is a very old tradition in rural China. With dowry, it is like buying a woman for their son. Woman in rural area have a big advantage, if they choose to stay in the rural, which is rare as many want to venture out of the city to seek richer partners. For those rural women that do say in their home rural, their mother knows economics 101; supply and demand. As a result, the daugther's parents can demand high dowry and those men that are interested will find a way to pay or buy the woman.
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  43. This shows men are always smarter and powerful than women in society. We have logic, they do not. They speak with their emotions which makes not sense They are the consumers, while we men are the producers.
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  44. The women that earns 600k RMB. How can see be a mother if she is 100% devoted to her work. Also, how can she have a child at that age. Unless both parties do not want children, which is rare in China. And she still dont understand why she is single? These Chinese women, do they have any understanding of men? The 38 yr old women, say she is beautiful. Yes, to her, she is. Bc her statment is her only. Men when knowing her true age, will NOT have the same opinion as her. She will never argue with her partner. This sounds like an ad show on tv...a big juicy burger, full of fries and nice cold drink, only to find the burger looks like shit, fries are cold and cola is flat. All these women say, they are a good catch/buy, just like ads on tv.
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  45. bc, too many gold diggers, women with feminist ideas, bribe price, insane standards at 30+ yrs old and etc
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  46. Those that demand dowry, let them be single! Single men can go to neighbouring country to get a wife.
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  47. Married for $, she even said it, loud and clear.
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  48. Why are these women worry about money. That is their husband's job. If these women think their husband salary is too low, they can cut child's expensive, such as piano, dance classes etc. Women should just focus at home, being a homemarker and child raising and let the man focus on earning money. Boss firing women is normal. Also, her cost/salary is too high, so it was right for the male boss to let her go. He also think like men. Women are homemarkers not career makers.
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  49. We men don't disrespect our own mother, we disrespect mothers and daughters that disrespect man's value. These women look down on rural men because they have no money, but have good character They look down on men without good jobs So it is only fair, we look down on them, especially their high confidence, thinking they can get any rich man they want. THey forget that men are the prize, not women. A man can lift up a women's social status, and the women give face to the man, ONLY if she is young and beautiful.
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  50. Education is NOT a guaratee. Those without degree but is willing to work hard, gain real working skills (not just study and get out of date knowledge), can earn more than those with masters. By working at a young age, one can earn the real work experience, real life problem solving, critical thinking. One cannot get that buy buried in books and listening to lecture. Thumbs up to those that DID not follow the trend and started working at age 16. THey are MORE valuable than freshly grad bc freshly grad cannot apply what they learned at school. What did learn soon become out of date. BUt those without, have one thing that fresh grads don't have. They have street smart, they have made connections. THose two alone is more valuable than ANY degree. It is easy to understand, too many ppl with degree. It is no longer a worthy investment. The value has decrease to just an A4 paper. Working or studying hard is no longer a guarantee. It is who you know, your connections, luck, experience, etc all counts.
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