Comments by "Bobby Loo" (@BobbyLoo-jr8ys) on "China Unvarnished" channel.

  1. Marriage and having kids are for the rich in China.
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  2. The woman that demands 10k rmb per month and dont so sh**. Hmm, l think going to the street 2/week to get some release cost only a couple to a few thousand rmb and the rest the guy can keep. I think that is much better deal. 999rmb just to have s8X daily with this 33 yr old. Men can find better deals.
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  3. These companies are right. These women should focus on repopulating China, and not chase dreams. Im sure the BIgs are telling these company, do not hire women, so women have no choice to become wive and give man the job. Make sense! If these daughters want to make their parents proud, they should find a partner with min. standards. Find a man that will love her and support her. This will make her parents proud, and not chasing the dream of a career women.
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  4. She divorced woman with children are selfish, they only want a man to raise her child. She has no value.
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  5.  @101ineke  Base on your logic, she will never see her mom and dad again, even during CNY. Even if she married a foreigner, she will never go back home? And when the couple has kids, the mother and father in law will never see their grand children? In CHina, family is very important. I married a Chinese woman and have been earning tons of money in CHina. ANd every yr, before CNY, her parents will come and live with us for a few months and l welcome them, as her dad loves me. Because I can provide. ANd they love their only grandson. So your arguements/staements are NOT a convincing and shows you do NOT understand Chinese culture. Your thoughts make no sense. And have no knowledge or understanding of family and CHinese culture.
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  6. Even if the man pays a dowry, she will see her parents again. I understand, dwory is nonsense, and IT IS selling their daugther. I do hate the idea and this tradition is out of date and those parents will their daugther, use this tradition to exploit men.
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  7. If I had to pay a dowry, then yes, i understand. I will NOT allow my wife/property to visit. But if there was no exchange of money for another human, then, there will be more respect.
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  8. Keep hold on to your dreams lady. See what happens in a few yrs.
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  9. SHe choose to divorce, she choose the consequences. ANd now, she will suffer long term. This shows, women need men. She said, life is unfair. Well...she choose this life. SHe choose to divorce. SHe choose to be happy, she choose to be free. All those dreams shatter when reality hit. HA. She deserve a life of suffering, and now, the child has to suffer with her. She choose this life without thinking long term. This is another proof that women can't think long term only thinking short term selfish goals.
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  10. bc, Chinese girls has fuking insane demands, thinking they are 10/10
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  11.  @JosephineBovain-wu5le  well stated.
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  12.  @stephenvoss6092  Sure, but it isn't as common.
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  13. These woman say, men are stingy, yet will they give him a release (blue balls), if men spend money on them, when going out on blind/dates? HELL no! Why spend so much on bline date, when he gets NOTHING in return (not even establish a bf/gf relationship). He gets NOTHING, while these biches get FREE meal. Any woman order TONS of dishes, is NOT to get to know the guy, she is getting free meals and leftovers to take HOME to share with her family. Women are using MEN and MEN are fighting back! This is why there is a NEW marriage law. Whoever paid for the property gets it, no more 50/50. This is to give MEN power and rights back. If the guy and the guy's parents paid for the property, she gets ZERO, whether he or she initiate divorces. With his, men can control the woman (as IT SHOULD BE). If doesn't like the man (citing abused, ok) she can go back to her parents, BUT can't take any of HIS wealth or property, if it proven that HE bought the house, car and etc.
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  14. Those women who are angry, cant do shit. THe law is the law. If women do NOT want to be wife duties such as housewife, then be single. Live a complete independent life. No one is forcing them. BUt if these Chinese women want a partner to love them, financially support them, take care of them when she is sick, then do her wife duties of cratering to the man's needs of cook and clean, raise the children. Let him be the income earner for the family and the women be the housewife. Chinese women who dont want to do their women duty is bc they beleive their education degree and pride does not allow them to do these chores. THey think with their educaiton, they should NOT do these household physical labor of cooking and cleaning. Even if she is independent, she still cooks and cleans. WTF
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  15. Since the women wants the man to provide a decent and comfortable life, the woman should follow tradition, be a homemarker, not a career maker.
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  16. The lady that demands 800k and nearly 40 and will not compromise. I wish i can ask her directly: What value do you bring to the table? And no, your economic value is NOT important to him, as he does not care about her money. Since she will NOT compromise and still demand a high dowry, she will continue to be a leftover. She just said it: She is selling herself, selling her aged body and soul for money because as she stated, her parents rise her and demands that money back from the man! = Modern day prostitution.
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  17. Women say, they are high quality left over. They are left over because we dont want finanically, high educated women. The lower the better
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  18. so the man sum up women perfectly, high confident, arrogant, subborn, and worst, look down on others, both men and women.
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  19. Before these Mature/Luxury Chinese women are complaining that men are not wooing them, not they will say: "Foreign women are taking our Chinese men." Hahaha. I hope so. Never do these leftover women consider why men don't woo them, always thinking their standard of a man is not high. Yet, Chinese men and match making agency ALSO told these mature women, their standards are too high and as they age, they bring little to the table. Yet, they are mules, stubborn, only listen to themselves, thinking their degrees are so valuable in the dating world. Im glad more foreigner women are coming to Chinese men, as their demands are low. They are looking for love, NOT ATM.
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  20. Having a degree DOES NOT make the person smart. Some with PHd are dumb fuxs
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  21. I;ll tell you exactly where you went wrong (40 yr old). You believe you are the prize for men. No, Men are the prize. Your car and house means nothing to the man. We dont care about your career or success. But you women do. Why would men want you, a 40 yr old when he can get a 20 yr old, with bare min. conditions. Asian man wants to flavor their woman how HE please. Since you (40) are already set in your mind, men can't change you. Men can't flavor you, to his conditions. Whereas a 20 yr old, her mind is fresh and innocent. She will NOT argue. We dont want a woman to argue, just follow the man's lead.
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  22. How that Chinese Phd will be forced to leave the country becoming a single mother, no support. Ha, she played herself. All the while, she is now used. And the dutch man can find another woman.
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  23. False advertisment on a product. In the west, if the price was incorrect, by law, the store must honor what was advertised. This is both common sense and logic. Also, yr by yr, women's value decreaes due to age and biology. It is also common sense and fact. Yet, many stick with tradition and ignore basic biology.
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  24. Bc, women abuse their "power". They abuse their tradition. Saying, it is a Man's job to take care of the wife. YET, when we say, then it is the job of the woman to be full TIME home marker, they get upset.
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  25. What if the man cant afford to get married, does he stil need to write a reflection The reflection topic can be about, not having enough salary to get married. With the cost of -rent -food -utilities -transportation -clothing -etc, There is not enough money left to go dating and woo a lady, that is a huge cost for the guy. By writing hard facts (math and numbers), hopefully the leader will read the reflection and reflect on himself, why these employees is working just to live and survive.
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  26. Soon, Chinese women are going to bich about chinese men, saying they are no longer chinese bc Chinese men don't want Chinese men (aka trash talking about Chinese men). These Chinese left over are superb at trash talking to their own peers and the opposite sex. BUT never self evaluate themselves. These single mature women continue to believe they are princesses and they r the prize for men. They can keep their prize as continue to be single as men dont' want their bag full of emotional problems. Furthemore, they will trash talk about these foreigner women, saying have no self worth and etc. And that is what we Chinese men want. An obedient and submissive wife, not some women that only focus on their career and being part of the rat race in China. We men don't need your career mind set, or high intelligent from you master or PHd papers. They are useless to us and have no value. We want simple minded and less educated Chinese women so we men can control them. It is tradition. Foreigner women are obedient and listen to their husband and will not argue. We Chinese men will treat our women right when they are submissive and dont see us as ATM.
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  27. AT 40 -wrinkles -sagging boobs (that means, sour milk for children, if she can children) why would men with good conditions want 40 old women, when he can get 20 yr old woman
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  28. Here is a career: Be a homemarker and let the man earn money!
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  29.  @ChinaUnvarnished  They lack common sense. They do not understand their own biology. They do not understand, men in 35 dont want them. Period. Men in 35 wants 25 or younger.
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  30. totally agree! These women believe their education, job title and etc is valuable to men. The only two thing men care about is youth and beauty. We don't want nor care about women's care. We only care if they can bear children, be obedient, submissive and raise the child and take care of HIS parents. Yet these feminist woman are brainwashed by western media and do not want to follow tradition.
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  31. It is so funny that these women believe they are so much value. They advertise their education like cv. This is good for the business world, BUT not when it comes to finding a partner. Men dont care NONE of their accomplishments. Yet, they believe their feminist ideas are attractive by men. THey clearly do not know what men want. Yet, we understand what women want. Men care about -young -age -big boobs for milk production for their future children -hot body The education and economic value is secondary conditions.
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  32. Yes, we mend are "blind" We are blind because we can't see her physical beauty at age 38. Still believe her age and beauty is for 380k. If l had that money, why would l "buy" an old lady when l can use that money and "buy" an 18 yr old with reproductive value? Also, the 18 yr old might not deamnd 380, could only be 100-150, so a) not only do l get a discount but also b) young and beautiful and reproductive age Men can go shopping too! She said, 10 blind dates and say, all rejected bc of the 380 and still want others to be honest with her. Are those 10 men NOT honest? They all rejected her price! So, no matter who is telling her, she will NOT accept the truth, she can't HANDLE the truth.
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  33. The lady earning 100k a month, citing professional model, what she really means, is she works at xvideo.
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  34. These women say, they scafice alot, pure BS They did work in oil rigs, do they work in construction. We men build this world, what did women do for this world, other than reproduction. Did women go to war? Fight for country's freedom? ALL NO These feminist women do NOT know what they are talking about, just talking through their asses.
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  35. They want the best deal, but aren't willing to offer anything to the man. They are best digging for man's economics. They are good at judging others, but they cant received being judged.
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  36. Men spend money on their woman, and women spend money they earned from themselves! Men need women more than we need them. If men need a release, he can find it in an alley way. Can women find men in an alley way, if she needs a release?
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  37. A bribe price is exactly like prostitution, buying a human being. So why doesnt the govt stop human purchase.
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  38. 38 and can still have children. SHe didn't hear or learn about risk to herself and the child?
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  39. Regret is a b****. These women spend so much time engross in books, memorizing useless facts, taking unless classes and getting useless paper. Once they get their masters/Phd, they are near 30. They may be successful in the real corporate world, but has abandon their Chinese traditions, which is fine. And now they are crying and complaining they can't find a partner. At 38+, and with high standards/expectation, very few man would be interested in her. And many men, don't even want to look at her or talk with her, as soon as the Chinese men, know their age. How can she bare children at that age? The risk is so high. Unless the man, agrees to be a DINK, then maybe she has a chance. But that is rare as parents and inlaws want grand children. Age is still a big factor for women. Imagine a 38 yr old man brings home this women at ate 38. Most likely, the son's parents will NOT approve. Again, they will say, your old. Yes, your successful with x number of degrees, but they can't get over the age. Because she choose the career path, stick with it. Continue to be successful. But finding a partner and crying about it, no one cries. She made the decision to be in the corporate world. Stick with it. Get a dog as their long life partner. Nothing wrong with that and less people will judge. But regretting not marrying at a younger age, why cry? Your choice your responsiblity. Suck it up!
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  40. The last part of the video, summarized these mature women PERFECTLy! Love the ending.
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  41. These high educated and mature woman have short term thinking. They can't see far into the future. Their future planning skills are zero. THey only see short term gains and not long terms. They are brained washed by feminist ideas and abandon their basic Chinese heritage. They believe their education degree and economic accomplishment are desirable by men. THey look down on men who have less accomplishment than them. They have forgotten what is the purpose of being a woman. They have very little understanding of men. THey don't understand what men values in a women. We men, knows exactly what they want. In the end, the die alone, gaining nothing.
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  42. A house in the county is not valuable compare to 1st tier city, which can cost 5-10 mllion rmb.
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  43. but now she will spend the rest of her life, being alone, full of regrets. Women like her, chase career, rather than train and educate themselve, of how to be good wife. Men wants a housewife, not a career women. A partner with a career women does NOT help the man.
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  44.  @Gytu  Lets hope she can find a partner that accepts her age and low reproductive value. GL
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  45. It is women's fault that so many men refuse to chase them nowadays. All these mature Chinese women know one thing: demand and more demands. They only want to receieve BUT are not willing to give. So men are fed up with their BS. They rather spend time with their buddies, spend money on themselves. And if men have an itch, they will find time with a women to satitisy his manhood by spending a few hundred rmb.
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  46. These Chinese women want Equality...Well, we men don't want to give them equality. Be a woman is all we man want from them!
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  47. Those mature women are single because they continue to look down on men who is NOT on equal level as her, in terms of social and economic status. So, they remain single. These mature women don't see the man's heart, only see their pockets and whether they have house and cars. They are gold diggers. They claim they are feminist, but want house and cars from men.
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  48.  @roythousand13  And the man can also demand if she is pure. If a dowry is a transaction then it is fair for the men to want a brand new car off the assembly line (aka uni grad) and not some new car that has been used. Now, if the women did the demand a house, car, dowry, gold and all that stuff, then we men can accept a slightly used car. Why spend the dowry on a mature women (old model car) when he can get a new model car (young and fresh out of college). If women can have insane demands and standards, we men can do the same! Only difference is, women can easily get offended and let out their emotions while men walks away!
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  49. The woman who is 38, saying, even 50 yr old woman can still have babies. yes, they can, but what this women lack is simple logical and no street smart. Those 50+ yr old woman, giving birth children, is rare and the women and the baby may have health issues. She even stated, it is high risk pregancy, but then go on, saying, there are those that can. WTF? She is 39 and says, she is "abit" older. These women can never come to reality and must sugar coat to make them feel better. So, base on her logical (as mentioned, these women lack any street smart, aka, common sense), if she is a bit order, than what age is old? 45? is old. And those 45 yr old woman say, they are still young, because they are not elderly yet. So, if she view herself as young, then why can't she find a partner to marry. Why won't men in her cohort approach her and ask her out on dates? And if a 45 yr old men as her out on a date, she will probabilty say, your too old. Yet, she being 39 is not? WTF? Keep on sugar coating your age! Don't think she will come down from cloud 9 any time soon with that mentality. If she says, she is young. Ok. Fine. She is entitled to her opinion. But if l can tell her, l'll tell her this. Men in 30-35 or 40, will NOT have the same opinion as her. Men has opened up their eyes and the only thing they see, is her age. The 39 is overdue. It is spoiled meat. Rotten and left over like cabbage. Unsold. Unwanted. But she refuse to listen to facts, just like these women refuse to lower their standards.
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  50. Men are the prize in China, especially if he is tall, successful and etc. Women are NOT the prize for men. As men age, we become more valuable economically. As women age, they lose their value in beauty and reproductivity .
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