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  1. “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” ― Fyodor Dostoevsky
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  2. The cat analogy makes for a good story and there are lots of people with a sort of laissez faire attitude in their dealings. They are not good for anything other than casual talk. Important matters in life require strong commitment and determination because life is often difficult and there is rarely a quick fix to the problems we face. I have been married to the same woman for almost 46 years. It ain’t always been easy but we both were always willing to put the needs of the kids and our family's long term stability ahead of short term gratification. My wife and I both knew where our priorities had to be. Everyone has the right to the pursuit of happiness and to be left alone by the unwarranted intrusions of the state. However marriage is a rare case (if taken seriously) where devotion and duty require a higher standard than many people are willing to live up to.
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  3. The perception by women that they must pursue a “career” as a hedge against economic difficulties would not be near as powerful if it were not for the fact that once a country establishes a fiat banking cartel, the wealth is being systematically transferred to the top insiders by the process of debt monetization. This massive hidden tax not only eliminates the middle class but has gradually caused all workers to become basically like a Roman slave who ends up with little more than a place to sleep and food while still held accountable by the boss.
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  4. If she’s initially attracted to you, not much selling is needed to get your foot in the door. If she’s not, then your sales pitch is most likely going to be an exercise in futility.,
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  5. First you believe in Santa, next you don’t believe in Santa and finally you are Santa.
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  6. They weren’t really friends then just acquaintances.
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  7. You’ve been doing this for almost 20 years with no resolution? Don’t know about intoxication but you probably got a reputation.
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  8.  @annatalig2565  Just note who files 80% of divorces and you will see who benefits 90% of the time. Its not the man.
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  9. Whatever the mind focuses on will control the person. They did a study where many people demanded knee surgery for intense pain. The doctors at the knee clinic (after ten years trying to get legal approval) sedated the patients then just put a small incision in the skin with a couple of stitches but did nothing to the knee. The patients would wake up and exclaim that their knee now feels great and they need to do the other one. Same thing with lots of back pain, headache and stomach issues. Once all the “useless eaters” are installed in their urban high rise s**t holes of austerity and deprivation of agenda 21, they will no longer need to create a fake medical issue to fixate on.
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  10. You set yourself up to be monkey branched. Once her career got on track, you can be traded in for a higher value simp.
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  11. Women will not be fazed by this in the slightest. They know that they have you by the balls in court
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  12. Once she perceives that your trajectory has peaked, she may decide its time to pull the plug and just collect the cash and prizes and then monkey branch on to the next target.
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  13. Thats another reason why the court system makes it too expensive for the man to separate.
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  14. And if it were not for the “family court” system making sure the women came out on top, lots of men would dump her and move on.
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  15.  @sonofthesOUth77  Yeah, they know how to put up a good image until the contract with the state is signed.
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  16. Physical fitness is a diminishing return. Too much is count productive. Strength fades away over time. If you depend on that for self satisfaction you will end up disappointed.
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  17.  @freezymuchroom  You are just the mule pulling the wagon of money and prizes.
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  18. This revelation about the true nature of love also explains why people can’t remain happy unless they can be happy when alone and not dependent upon someone else’s gratification.
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  19.  @croissants1280  40-45 are the best age for men. If the man is in the bottom 60% in attractiveness it doesn’t help them just to be young. Women are only after the top 10-15%.
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  20. And if you’re not that physically attractive or have lots of status, the financial cost will be very high.
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  21. “My needs aren’t being met.” Great line for her to hand the judge at the “family court” for simps.
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  22.  @timizo691  It all goes back to Briffalts Law. What you did is in the past makes no difference. All that matters is what can you do for her now.
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  23. You just dodged some bullets without even knowing it, or costing you.
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  24.  @deepanjan.sengupta  Briffault states this law decades ago. Most men are just not aware of it in the gynocentric culture they grew up in.
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  25. There has been awful lot of socialization and the nuclear family is the most critical element of society. However between, second wave feminism, Disney princesses, gynocentric culture and the court system, lots of men have decided to just focus on other areas.
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  26. Most women will stop putting out after a while once she has the kids. That’s why the state enforces the gynocentric contract. The man has only two options and both are bad. Stay in the present situation or lose at least half of what you have worked for all those years
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  27. Once she sees that your growth possibilities are maxed out, it’s time for her to cash out with the divorce to collect the money and prizes.
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  28.  @wiltre  Not so. Women first look at physical attraction but then its wealth, status and utilitarian value. Pretty boys with no prospects will get kicked to the curb when she is ready to settle.
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  29.  @MVProfits  Religious upbringing does not have as much impact for most as it used to. Early submersion all week into the hedonistic public “school” system along with constant social media can dilute every thing else.
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  30. Probably wouldn’t sink in at a young age. Wisdom comes with age and trials
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  31.  @Mushamir  Get out now before it gets too expensive to leave.
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  32. Casinos are where fools go to have fun while losing their money.
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  33. You are lucky. A little further along or if she pressed it, you could have ended up in the “family” court for giving out money and prizes.
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  34. Women would normally not have much power over their husband until the marriage contract puts the lion’s paw of the state in the woman’s favor. Men need to be very careful about marriage.
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  35. Most people have lots of difficulty changing their character pattens that have been developed very early in life. Woman’s emotional levels tend to make the situation worse because issues are never resolved, they just get put on the back burner until she gets a chance to move them to the front burner again. Spotting these problems very early and terminating the relationship is the best course as the farther it goes the more the man will have to lose.
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  36.  @zensvlognotapro  You are correct. God has provided everything we need. It is mankind’s sinful nature that causes the problems.
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  37. Absolutely right. Too much talking will practically always just make things worse. Problems are rarely solved when dealing with a wife. She just moves them to the back burner to simmer. The next time any minor conflict occurs (no matter how trivial) she will bring up everything possible rather than focusing on the issue at hand and drag all the past to the forefront.
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  38. Women are the same everywhere. Only difference is economic conditions and that is being watered down by more choices coming in.
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  39. Ephesians 5:22:  Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church.
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  40.  @nina.cazimi  I think that because of Christian culture, western mores and tradition along with the capitalist system, most women have fared pretty good in the US until fairly recently. I remember 40-50 years ago, most women did not need or want to work but the family could make it in most places on one income and often not even a very good one. Now everyone has to work longer hours at jobs that pay no pensions and are often temporary just to get by. This is because the banking cartel has for decades depreciated (so called inflation) the currency at ap. 50% every 17 years.
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  41. And thats all before she drags you into “family court."
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  42. No matter how good a deal is, lots of people will still try to Jew you down. That’d just the way it is.
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  43. No, it’s the opposite. The women got to work lots harder to get their commitment which the big majority will never get anyway.
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  44. Wives often age physically faster than the husband and don’t hold up as well as him. Their fertility window also being lots narrower decreases their desire and sex tends to fall off the cliff after the kids are done.. These factors will often create an insurmountable hurdle. Most men just didn’t realize that at the beginning. Like trying to ignite a pile of wet oak.
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  45. 12 years! If you have not accomplished your objective as far as relationships or mating after all this time then you might better consider hanging it up.
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  46.  @detroitvcw  Thats where the gynocentric courts come in. After she files for divorce, you are still provide money and prizes. Most of them stop the sex, intimacy part after a while anyway.
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  47. Women-wives tend to let their emotions (anger) flare up whenever you need them to assist on fixing a problem.
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  48. It is normally the woman who after she has the kids, who loses interest, not the man. This is evident by the fact that women file for divorce almost 80% of the time, not the man.
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  49. Problem is that if say a construction contractor hires a carpenter and then is not satisfied with work. The contractor is only obligated to pay the carpenter for the hours that he was on the job. The state does not get to come in and take half of the company and give it to the carpenter, plus permanent wage support.
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  50. 90% of the 40% would lose too much or they would have already left.
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