Comments by "Tx240" (@Texas240) on "Better Bachelor"
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Years ago, I was at a club, there was a somewhat disorganized line at closing for valets and people waiting for designated driver to bring car around.
Attractive blonde girl is waiting nearby and I engage her in conversation, touching her arm as I did so. She recoiled and I can't remember now if she actually voiced it, but her meaning was clear: "eww get away."
Nonplussed, I immediately turned to her chubby, not as attractive (fat) friend and said,
"Wow. YOU are a really good friend. You hang out with HER (actually pointing at the snooty hot girl) and have to put up with all her BS. She's probably been complaining about how there's no hot guys here. Meanwhile all night, she's had lots of guys approaching her and chasing them away while you'd actually just like to meet some people and have a good time."
The friend's face was beet red and her eyes and expression said "omg, yes exactly!"
The snooty girl's jaw actually dropped that someone tele-strated her BS.
The valet pulled up with the car and me and my group left. So, there wasn't time for any awkwardness or escalation
Still hilarious to picture the juxtaposed facial expressions of the 2 girls.
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@clutchboi4038 - to be fair, time does fly. I'm early 40s and 25 feels like just a few years ago.
Fortunately, as men age, if we keep in decent shape and learned a few things along the way, we're more attractive and have a much wider pool of women to choose from than a woman of the same age.
Feminism forgot to tell women that their value is front loaded, completely without merit and decreases over time. If she wants a decent man at 39, she's gonna need to learn how to make a mean sandwich and fetch cold beer. Whatever she's "accomplished" as a single woman over the last 20 years is irrelevant to any guy who would consider being her partner.
How's she going to improve his life and what is she bringing to the table in their relationship are the important things.
I don't see her improving any man's life and she's not bringing anything to the table besides her wants, desires, and dreams.
Heck, even those bachelors that white knighted are going to dude-bro their way into much younger, more fun girls once the show is over.
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@cruiser6260 - have you ever done something that caused you frustration and you vented that frustration on somebody else?
Really, you were mad at yourself for doing the thing or setting up the situation that got you frustrated.
Also, have you ever enjoyed or liked something but didn't like that you liked it? I like eating ice cream. But, I don't like that I like it because know it makes me fat if I don't add to my workout or reduce some other normal healthier food to make up the difference.
Combine those 2 effects and that's why the girl appears genuinely mad at him; in part, she is. However, at the end of the day, she's still finding him the most attractive AND she doesn't like that fact (mind you, this probably isn't actually on her though process, it's instinctual feelings).
Besides him being strong enough to stand up to her (especially when compared with the guys who caved), he's also more of a mystery. She doesn't know what makes him tick. She's figured out how to play the other guys. Women find mystery attractive.
Again, on the face of it, she would probably agree with you. The facts I'm pointing out are what's lying under the surface.
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5:28 "Successful" women don't realize that men aren't interested in how well she can do her job. We're interested in how well she can make a sandwich.
Those women that she's competing with who she says, "have nothing going on" are actually more attractive because they have time and energy to be an attentive partner.
Tomi admits that she's bought into the feminist lie that women can do anything with no trade-off.
Most women cannot be happy when they are in a masculine frame. Thank or decry evolution for that.
Trying to be alpha, "working hard and being successful... competing with men in the workplace", puts a woman in a masculine frame.
Sure, she's successful and accomplished at work. But her caveman brain wants emotional and family accomplishment. Evolution.
Meanwhile, masculine men want a feminine woman. Evolution.
18:10 red pill doesn't need to leave a guy angry or empty. Red pill is simply understanding "the desert of the real", seeing how women really are, beyond the beta male propaganda prevelant in all forms of media and from single moms trying to rear boys.
Once a guy has taken the red pill, if he chooses to also learn how to build attraction and what the rules of the game actually are, then he can have more positive interactions with women by turning the rules around on them.
Or, he can decide that he just isn't interested in playing games at all.
Either way it puts the man in charge of his own destiny which satisfies his caveman brain desire to be in a masculine frame.
If a guy is feeling angry or empty he needs to look inside himself, just as you suggest Tomi needs to look inside herself for her entitlement, anger, and emptiness issues.
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7:35 I agree with you that 9s and 10s can be a pain to date. However, your reasons are wrong.
Most guys get complacent once we get the girl. The "extra effort" involved is actually from the guy having to make sure he doesn't get complacent.
"Jumping through hoops" is only "extra effort" things that beta male providers will do because they aren't dominant in the relationship.
This 2nd point leads back into the 1st point. The extra effort is constantly evaluating her attraction level and proactively doing things to both remain the guy she initially fell for and to continue to pass any shit tests to remain the dominant partner.
That's the extra effort that will allow her to keep acting in a femine way and chasing his validation...the man has to remain a source of potential validation instead of a source of actual validation.
Because of this, the girl may well have been sad when he officially broke it off, basically saying that he wouldn't allow her to dominate him or string him along from a distance.
At that point, she realized that he was still strong enough to walk away from her which instantly made him more attractive.
It's a nuclear thing though, the relationship can't recover from that. But, the man can move on easier because realized the situation and kept his dignity and masculinity.
Well, enough relationship science. The point is dating a 9 or 10 can be more trouble than reward if the guy isn't up for constantly checking the girl and putting her in her place.
And, you'll have to be confident enough in yourself and your value to deal with her flirting with other guys. Girls require validation. If she's not getting it from you, which she shouldn't be, she has to get the free validation from other guys. Remember, the girl won't respect or have attraction to guys who give free validation.
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