Comments by "IgorTheLight" (@igorthelight) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1. 100% true! 0% understanding and 100% punishment
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  2.  @ldmtag  But you could be that just as Vlogger. It's 2021 - you don't need a diploma for some jobs at all ;-) Get a "real" job and be an automobile vlogger as a hobby. If it will pay well - drop your main job.
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  3. Try to find someone who understands you. Sadly, parents are not always those people, so you should find someone else (as sad as it's sounds) You may even post your thoughts here: some people would joke around (ignore them) but others would try to help you ;-)
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  4.  @ldmtag  Looks like you are "getting somewhere" already! :-) Great! Keep going! Give you some time to get somewhere. Every small victory is already a victory! And it brigs your happy future a little bit closer ;-)
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  5.  @Killicon93  100% agree!
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  6. Hello from another former gifted child ;-) I went to a normal school and everything was easy for me. And I wasn't prepared for real life at all. And I'm still not fully ready. So University was very hard AND boring to me. Hard - because I expected from myself to learn instantly. Boring - because University was very... weak and uninspiring (that's a norm in most ex-USSR countries). But the real problem wasn't in them - real problem was in me. Being a little bit more wise now (I hope :-) ) I could truly accept myself as I am and start BUILDING, instead of WAITING for some genius idea to come out randomly. I wish you (and myself too) luck :-)
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  7. They like to restrict everything ;-)
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  8. I hope you are doing better now! At least now you know how to NOT be a bad parent. Your kids would be much happier that you was. One small positive from all that hell :-)
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  9. I would talk to the person instead of ghosting. But that's just me ;-)
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  10. Sometimes, people DO get busy. But they would try to text you as fast as they get some free time. If someone is not texting you like a week (without some really serious reason) - forget about them.
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  11. Agree about when the ghosting is started - you are in big shit. If you send a few messages- wait for a response. If there is no response - he/she is dead (less likely) or don't want to respond to you (most likely).
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  12. So don't ;-) If you are disagree with some rules - find someone who don't like them too ;-)
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  13. Most people are the same. But not all. So you are filtering everyone without even giving the chance. Of course you will not find anyone this way. Most likely - you don't even want that anymore.
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  14.  @violetvalentine999  Agree! But answering the question why parents do that - some parents have UNWANTED children. They can't kill then after they've been born so they just d anything to shut them up and make them behave. That's really cruel.
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  15. Glad that you are free now! :-)
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  16. That's pretty normal for a good psychiatrists ;-)
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  17.  @jeremiahlarkins618  Well... Noone is ghosting me right now. But I was quite heavily ghosted with my first gf 11 years ago. She found a new guy at that time and just didn't want to explain that to me :-)
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  18.  @jeremiahlarkins618  Fair point. Those reasons were quite stupid- I agree :-)
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  19. Looks like you are not ready for it yet You will be ready "when you're ready"
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  20.  @felisasininus1784  Ha-ha true! ;-)
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  21. Avoiding the problem != solving the problem. You would still don't know how to talk to someone properly. If you don't know how to use elevators - learn that and not just avoid using them ;-)
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  22. After thinking a few minutes I have a thought... I want to EARN my privilege to be gifted again! I want to be able to use all my potential instead of waiting for it to be manifested by itself. I hope it's not too egocentric ;-)
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  23. To be successful you would have to try and fail at the start! Ask any successful person ;-)
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  24. There is a way to work from home ;-) About friends - try to get close to someone in the Internet. Than maybe have a small meeting with him/her in the cafe. I'm really like to be home but sometimes I meet with my relatives. Sometimes with a friend.
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  25. Treat your mind just like a kid ;-)
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  26. Those people are messed up. They didn't really wanted that child in the first place so they would do anything for him to shut up and behave. That's cruel.
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  27. Talk to a girl is not hard. Make her talk back to you is harder ;-)
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  28. Looks like you are in depression. Try to check that if possible. Or maybe you have too little red blood cells or iron (I'm not a doctor so those are just assumptions). Or maybe everything is good with you and you are just very introverted and you don't need too many conversations - try to find someone introverted (and say that you are not talkative to any new people). Hugs ;-)
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  29. 100% true
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  30. That mean that you REALLY want to be good at it! Just have fun! :-)
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  31. I think that this is irrelevant: you should do what you think is good for you. If there will be just 1 people or even none - that's fine. You are living your live for you - not for them. By doing something interesting for yourself someone would start top appreciate you and walk besides you ;-)
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  32. True! But you are "asking" too much from a person. He/she start feel himself trapped and wants to run away.
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  33.  @gamerdweebentertainment1616  I think that therapist didn't vibe with you - try another one ;-)
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  34. You are not meant for each other - it's ok.
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  35. *Singleplayer games
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  36. I think it is! You think that person is wrong because he does things that you think is wrong. Your internal Witness just see that other person does some things.
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  37. There could be a lot of reasons: * You want people to entertain you and when they don't - you get bored and ghost them * They are trying to start a relationship and you don't want that (maybe fear?) and ghost them * They get clingy or needy and you ghost them * They are trying to get something out of you and give nothing in return * ...
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  38. 15:25 - Dr K. is Bane CONFIRMED! xD
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  39. That's why it's called L-ego xD JK
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  40. True! And that's a good rule!
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  41. "everything you say WILL be used against you" - so true! xD
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  42. True! You still may break up tho - but you BOTH would know WHY exactly :-) In most cases you will be fine.
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  43. May that would help you: You was not ready for the relationship at that point. That ended as it should've ended. You learned something so the next one would be better and healthier ;-)
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  44.  @johnvermintide  True! Sometimes it's hard to see what's going on when you are in the middle of it ;-)
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  45.  @johnvermintide  True!
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  46. You may still apologize and say that you will understand if she don't want to talk to you anymore but she must know that you are really sorry. Don't expect a happy ending but who knows ;-) Just DON"T get angry at her if she will not respond or will say something unpleasant - she may still be mad at you.
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  47.  @goutham1662  I get that. That really may be the best choice - it's for you to decide.
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  48. You could learn something from that failure and move along ;-) To succeed you should fail a few times. Ask ANY successful person!
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  49. You may try to text her again but if she keep her attitude - you would have to leave her. If that is an anxiety - you may say that you are always here for her (if you WANT to be really here for her in the first place) and that you understand that she needs some time alone. So: helping her would be a little bit hard but you don't HAVE TO help her if you don't feel doing that.
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  50.  @Azurvix  100% agree!
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