Comments by "IgorTheLight" (@igorthelight) on "HealthyGamerGG" channel.

  1. Listen again that part when he talks about anger ;-)
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  2. That's not a harassment - it's just Twitch chat being itself :-) They are just playing rough.
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  3. Dr K: That distills my 20 years of experience as a monk and a psychiatrist. Me: Nice! Tell me about your rare multiclass build! xD
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  4. You may lose motivation to improve in a game. Do you really need it tho? You want to feel good and relaxed or to know that you became 2.5% better? :-)
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  5. Agree. It's like saying to a child "Shut up or I will kill you!". Yes - they will be quiet. Yes - that works. But they would be scared for their life and traumatized. That's just top level cruelty.
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  6. I think start with confidence and spend less time with people that don't believe in you. Take one step at a time. Fix one small problem at a time and reward yourself for doing that. "Two minutes rule" is a good tool for that ;-)
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  7. With every mistake smart people became smarter Understanding your mistakes makes you wiser ;-) I wish you luck!
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  8. Isn't that a generalization? ;-) "Everyone with a red cape is gay!" or something like that xD
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  9. No-no - he is fine with that! He even does some "Indian parents" voice ;-)
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  10. That's VERY unhealthy! Please stop doing that! Find a friend or a doctor and tell what is in your mind. Even telling that here is not a bad idea ;-) (some people will try to help you).
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  11. True! Just don't detach from literally everything because it's just easier ;-)
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  12. A good thing for one person is a pretty bad thing for another one ;-)
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  13. That's a good relationship!
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  14.  @thecanadiankiwibirb4512  Do what makes you more happy! :-) Life is not about achievements: you could be a very depressed billionaire. If current life make you light and happy - don't change it! But if you feel that you could do more (and you WANT to do it) - start doing it! Maybe just on weekends. Maybe just on evenings - every little time helps ;-) It's easier said than done tho...
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  15. But now you will not do that again so lesson learned. Failed lesson teaches you more ;-)
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  16. "But in situations that had seemed at least to being going alright before, it wouldn't hurt to be polite." - I agree. Ghosting happens in those situations because it's too scary to talk properly for some people.
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  17. That's called "stream sniping" ;-)
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  18. Maybe you are being in a subculture where it's a norm. Like a nighclub culture. Kissing so soon is strange for me a little bit so maybe that's a part of this type of culture too ;-)
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  19. He explained that ex is not a good listener and talks more about male friends. About your ex - let her alone! She is gone from your life. Trying to bother her would only make things worse (from my personal experience).
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  20. Forget about her and move along. Don't try to fix this relationship or "restart it". Give yourself time to heal.
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  21. Of course!
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  22. If head is not empty by itself - try meditation ;-)
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  23. Not true. Being good and having fun is hard to have at the same time. It's time to choose :-)
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  24. Just quit competitive gaming :-)
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  25.  @captainobvious.29yearsago70  People hear what they want to hear. "So you are saying that I'm shit - I get that!" :-)
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  26. You may get ghosted if she finds someone better - that's true. But you also may be ghosted if you are too clingy, too annoying and if she has some mental problems... She may get scared for some real reason. Or for some stupid reason... A lot of things could go wring :-)
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  27. @Benjamin Allison +1
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  28. Test for you: One day just drink coffee instead f tea. Congratulations - you are ABLE to change! Not start analyzing what you are doing wrong and start changing. It will be difficult. You will fail a few times. But you could change ;-)
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  29. I think its the "power" of it.
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  30. Because you may be scared that there is nothing beyond that ;-) "There should be something beyond that!". Should it tho?
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  31. No. But watch what that person would do after he/she comes back. "Sorry, I was on a vacation for a week and could answer! Can we meet up and talk?" - good answer. Nothing or "I was on vacation - why did you bothered me?" - bad answer (if that is not your boss).
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  32. Try "two minutes rule" - it does wonders ;-)
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  33. Do just part of it ;-)
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  34. Youtube sometimes does that for stupid reasons ;-)
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  35. Feeling superior! You kill someone -> you are better than him He kills you -> you must get revenge It's just a rollercoster
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  36. He feels comfortable this way. When you explain that to him - he protects himself by hiding behind his ego even more. He is immature. Or traumatized. I may be totally wrong, of course ;-)
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  37. I really trying to help and not being rude - try to find a good psychologist. Childhood traumas could haunt you for a LONG time if you wouldn't address them. You are not weak if you want to get help - you are just a responsible person ;-)
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  38. I thing psychologists just call desires "needs" too. That's just their jargon ;-)
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  39. Some ongoing relationships may get pointless. But relationships OVERALL - don't think so. It's like saying "I crashed a car a few times - cars are shit!" ;-)
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  40. That is harsh :-( Try to analyze you and them - maybe there is a clue. Watch some more videos like that and learn. I don't think that you are SO bad ;-)
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  41. You are still trying very hard to became better. Ask yourself - do you really need this? Or you just want to have fun?
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  42.  @dmas7749  this = became better
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  43.  @dmas7749  Self-improving is a good thing overall but maybe you could just play games to relax :-)
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  44. :-)
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  45. Never. He didn't started anything so he will not end anything. But you could wait for that instead of living your life - it's your choice. I'm ex-Christian btw. I really wish you luck and understanding ;-) P.S. I'm not evil - I help my friends and relatives. I'm not worshiping satan of chtulhu or whatever - just using my brain and live a relatively happy life :-)
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  46. Nope! You just hear what you want to hear. If ghosting is started - he/she doesn't care about you or what you are saying anymore. Let him/her go. But it the new relationship you could do some things that would not want another person to ghost you.
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  47. Glad that you get over it and learned something new ;-) We always learn something new (unless you would say "I already know everything!" which would be a very dangerous lie).
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  48. Fair points! Truth hurts sometimes
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  49. In a face to face conversation you interact more "fully": body movement, smell, touch. Distance relationships could only give you text, voice and image of a person. It's a good start of a relationship but not the WHOLE relationship. I'm 31 y. o. btw ;-)
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  50. True-true!
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