Comments by "Wakeup and Sniff the Coffee" (@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee) on "Legion Of Men"
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There is always an exception to the rule. I'm 68 and not an exception. My parents weren't the exception, both my wife's parents were not the exception.
Most of my friends parents were not the exception.
The few people that were an exception were far and few between.
Even many of those exceptions maintained a marriage and were not happy and just endured it.
I have known a few beautiful couples that stayed together and spread that down into their bloodline, but even then, somewhere down the bloodline it does strike and the exception rule falls apart.
I and many others have our hats off to you sir, but you are an exception.
I also wonder when a person loses their spouse, if their relationship was as ideal as they remember it. A loss like that makes the person focus on the good times, whereas a loss due to divorce or infidelity makes the person focus on the bad times.
In addition, you were married twice to people that passed away. My heart goes out to you, I would have had a hard time with that myself.
But, if your first spouse had lived, we don't know if you two would have made it to the end.
Culture plays a big part in how people change as individuals.
You were married a second time and again, would that marriage have been so ideal if it spanned a lifetime for you both.
Now at 70, you are in a much different frame of mind and physically your desires no doubt have waned some, like most men, so staying married at that age may be much easier.
Again, I applaud you and wished everyone was more like you, but I wanted to point out some variables in your life that don't exist in most men's lives.
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11:34 no friends, but who voted for you to become a homecoming queen?
You might have had friends, but you already had a negative self talk going on and wasn't able to see those that would have become friends.
I was always quiet and shy. Overweight when I was young and moved to Hawaii prior to 7th grade and was one of a couple other white kids. Only one was my age.
Later on after 16 alcohol made us all more friendly, but now retired and in my 60's and don't drink, it's hard again to find friends.
It can be just as hard as an elderly person. The people you click with don't reach out and you don't make an effort and that made them wonder why you were that way.
In school, it didn't matter if a guy was short, fat, the bad boy or whatever, as long as they didn't think about it and were outgoing.
As an adult, it works better if you realize that you can't worry about it and if no one likes you so be it, but you would likely be in more demand if you make the effort.
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