Comments by "Zen\x27s All-in-1 Life Sharings 🧡 ( not a pro )" (@zensvlognotapro) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. I read something about life: Life is a game play with it . Though people have different opinions or understanding about play. In love or relationship some people don't want a play but they want to be serious. Play is depends on how we give meaning on it. Hahahaha! I like you when you're acting 😅. You look fresh Dr. O😅 👍 thanks for nice polo shirt .👍 There's a book written by Florence Scovel Shinn title is The game of life and how to play it . Sometimes I think im not playing but actually I'm planning but doesn't mean I'm not serious in anything i can do 😅
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  2.  @DJoseph-sp4ij  read Proverbs 27:11 . God wants us to be wise. My view on God is perfect, flawless, He's good and God is love .
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  3. Superficiality is a human's naturality also. We are visual creatures usually some ppl tend to judge immediately base on our surface. I wanna share when I graduated from college I apply in a bank we have no money to buy nice shoes, clothes that looks professionally that time I have no idea what's the impact of our looks . In short I never been hired.What the bank hired were women who are tall, who are smooth and white skin and those looks like rich. Honestly I'm not offended because I'm a kind of a person that think s there are still many companies out there. I accept that rejection. I'm not scared to try 😊. And another company it says at least 5'2 in height and me I'm 4'10. I still try to apply again I wasn't hired because of my height.Again it's okay because I'm just stubborn I'm just curious if they will stick to 5'2 requirement 😊. So physical attributes are important also in the pursuit of success.
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  4. Good morning 🌄☕ Yesterday me , my niece and nephew talked about what course to be taken in college . My son told he wants to take up psychology 😊. I told I will send some videos of JP and I'll include your contents 😊. I have question is there no one who is not wounded? The person who has no self esteem is the one who has more potential I think so. Me some ppl think I am confident , but the real is I have many insecurities in life but I try to change it. I reinvent mySelf.
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  5. Money is important for me than recognition 😀. I want finer things in life because once upon a time I'm deprived from those . Can we buy recognition if we have lots of money ? People will recognize you easily if you have money, if you are succesful. Sometimes if we have brilliant ideas but we don't know how to execute it due to lack of resources what we do is to sell it who know how to make it real or to make it available to the world.
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  6. Hi ! Dr. O and everyone on the channel 😊 SOME modern women ohh! I never sell my burning house it's insured 😅. There's a good news still_ there are still good men and women on the planet who don't focus on the material things ( I hope ) in life 😊 though they want wellness. ✋
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  7. Anger or hate is one of the gates to hell according to book of Bhagavad Gita As It Is. I read also that in Psychology heaven and hell is a state of mind heaven when you are in blissful or pleasant state and hell when in miserable state or when our life is unpleasant . I don't want to get something unpleasant will happen both on myself bec i hurt myself so much and to other it brings unfortune. Whenever i feel that anger I easily change my mind or I change my thinking into pleasant immediately asap. I remember somebody told I'm " mangkukulam" thats bad and its evil doings at first I manage to smile but later on I get mad but again I remember not to get mad or angry or hate because its not good for me and to others. The one who told me is very stressful she has skin disease that keeps on coming back she spends money for that skin problem even before we met, she always busy making money , she has a good standing in life. I told to myself maybe its because of stress that she has that skin problem. And instead of getting angry I undrstand her because of her situation later on we become close a little bit with each other. Sometimes I chose to understand ppl's situation than getting angry to them but thats not always but I try to become understanding person. Just want to share so ppl will chose not to get angry.
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  8. Good morning 🌞☕🌾 Dr O and members of the community. To Dr .O I can't meet you I have no private plane 😂 ( jk ) Yes ! pride is the killer of most relationship . Since man is the first who created he's the one who needs to initiate, lower the pride and adore a woman😊 . The truth of the matter is if man and woman know how to give and take , take and give relationship is wonderful and only few knows how to do that . I wanna add to what you're saying: let us do what we can do for each other 🧡. I have a story about you're saying on helping a man to reach his goals and accompanying or assisting him on what he wants to accomplish called a " mission " ( maybe I need to make an upload on that to my channel soon ) . My advise to you our dear Dr. O lower your pride and get your woman 😊. Have a blessed day/ night every1 🙏
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  9. We can solve all the problems in the world or at least reduced the unnecessary sufferings on the planet by being Open minded to everything and attached with nothing. Life will be easy if we will apply that.😊 If we can't love ppl then at least let's make them friends. Friendship is the purest love we can give to people no expectations, no demands. God prosper Us All 🙏🧡
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  10. Hi! Me I have an Orange 🧡 heart 😊 . I don't know yet what's to have an Orange heart . What I know is I'm friendly. 😚 GodSpeed everyone 🙏
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  11. Dr.O ask your IT how to make a PayPal account who knows some ppl want you to send some tip😊. Me it's ok I don't ask any monetary rerurn because my channel is my gift to humanity and my legacy. There's also what the Digital creators they do buy me a coffee thing. Suggestion only. Ask your IT I'm not knowledgeable .
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  12. Is maintenance means also a commitment? Good communication is one of the keys for a good real relationship . No communication no relationship.
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  13. Men and women need to enroll in course on how to understand each other 😂. I have a quote: A man is like a rubber band they pull away, women is like a weather they're changeable 😅.
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  15. One thing is sure some man and woman sometimes never just find their match. Some women are not from hell. There are some women who became some inspiration, motivator of a some men. There are some women who moves some men into his better version. Romantic relationship is hard because the reason is the involved never understand each other. Relationship is not always about pleasures and benefits, satisfaction it has responsibilities and its progressing not immediately it has a process. It's hard for a man to find a partner maybe because of the nature that a man serves as a pursuer and provider. It's hard to change naturality that's why same sex relationship is getting rampant. Bi sexual become a trend . ( I can't blame or judge them though religious ppl don't accept that ) They found equality in that kind of relationship. My observations and views only. Be well every1 🧡☕
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  16. Is that duality or polarity thing? Just like when we a have a lot of self- respect we don't usually get what we want because sometimes what we want is against morality.
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  17. Exactly degrees doesn't mean we are better and always what we say is effective to other people's life . Sometimes what we say is what we experience and what other people who are close to us and what is written in the book we have different experiences and traumas and different coping mechanisms however sometimes with similar feelings and emotions. I like a man and woman open up to me even ihave my own issues 😊. In reality some men don't open up easily. Open up to a person who sees every sides of life the coin who is not biased my tip 😊 I'm gonna try to see Alexander Grace content I'll call him GA Joe 😊. Wow I want that book Grit I already bought The Mountain is You and The Courage to be Disliked. I have also We-Topia book by Michael Paul Stephens. Yes that's cool Dr. O never tell your personal relationship for many reasons I don't want to share here. We can learn many things by disagreeing each other but never fight 😊.
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  18. Good morning 🌅☀️🕳️ Yeah woman respect their man she loves in Christian woman we.consider our man as a leader or head of our family. However if a man can't do his duties as head a woman forcefully perform the duty of a man as head.
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  19. There are 3 or more faces or personality that we humans have according to Japanese quote . That's why I want a person who accept me if I have morning cake in the morning, if I don't comb my hair or even during my ugly version . I want a person who accept me during my downtimes but vices excluded . Because I also accept and love a person even he's not in his handsome mode as long as he's also accept me even I'm not in my beautiful version. However self- care is very important and involves by taking care of how we look .
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  20. Routinary jobs esp clerical is really non ending jobs ( accounting jobs🙂). What I do sometimes i record or film how and what I do especially my enthusiastic fingers. I have my fingers vlog here in my yt channel not a pro, you can check it out 🤗. But now I'm a full time mom and my children (they are grown ups now and they're self reliant already) allow me to rest as a employee. But if a person knows to earn by themselves its not easy to just do household chores..I want to resume my business " mini grocery store " for me if you have basic needs what more you need ?. I want to provide means of living to ppl esp to my neighbors.
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  21. Congratulations our Dear Star in the galaxy 😊🎖️🎂🎉🏆. Though that's expected the first time I saw you speaking in your room with lots of certificates on the wall 😊. Now I can say I'm a psychic 😅. I'm sure your mom and dad and sis and spl some1 are delighted to your accomplishments .
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  22. Hi good morning 🌞🌄 from the Land of beauty, brains and loving and caring women 😅. Dr. O , Henry Cavill is taken and I ,we ( not all) are not attracted to him anymore 😆. I think he will be having a baby soon my assumption I heard in YT vlogs .Yes it's good if we understand how men and women operate I agree on that. I also agree that we need to invest on ourselves if we want a better life, a better relationship if we want a good romantic relationship. To women my tips choose dress, clothes that fits on you, choose also nice shoes if possible and if can can carry wear shoes with heels especially if you are not tall like me 😊. I think a little make on is also good it makes you glow 👍. To men also buy clothes and shoes that make you handsome and confident . PS include good posture also and yes read, listen to informative podcasts.
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  23. In addition there's a quote saying : Prophets are not recognized on their own hometown 😊. On a positive view point haters are blessings in disguise there's a Tagalog quote and *mabungang Puno ay may bumabalibag ' . I advise my children don't let anyone hate you it's not good I experience that I told them .
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  24.  @psychacks  yes true thanks ! and I turn to God's promises, practical teachings from the Bible, I also apply teachings of Buddha, and the stoicism 🤗. I have many gurus and I listen to this kind of teachings just like yours 🤗👍🏻
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  25. Some people don't know what they want to become especially when they still young . Me when I'm aware that we are poor during as early as during elementary grade I found out what I want . I remember when I was in the farm resting in a bamboo hut I'm crying because it's too hard working in the farm from there I told I don't want this kind of life I'm gonna pursue my studies, I'm gonna work. During school breaks I always think how to earn money I never think to have a relationship. I never think being selfish I Always think my family and that's childhood experiences and goals in life make me think love or relationship to use the mind and not the heart. However Im a ppl pleaser , I always think what's the best for other ppl . It makes me tired, now I only want a relationship with myself more I'm no longer excite when I see two ppl who have in a relationship 😊 . When only people think the meaning I Am what I choose to Become and when they think the shortness of life they strive to be better and enjoy life here on earth. The real man in order to be an empower man know the role as provider, protector and a leader . To women my tips give their man a freedom to do his own thing not what she wants only. I've seen that women want their husbands to always cling on them.
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  26. I wanna share one story about a friend when she's undergoing depression. We're trying to help during that time me and our mutual friend meet up to talk to her. Our conversation involved a question ; What do you really want now?. And I'm so sad and hurt and she said I don't know what I want 😢. That's the one of the hurtful and sad answer I I've heard . I'm also hurtful and sad when one lady told me men are trash 🗑️😢. It's not a drama but it's real story of humans feelings and circumstances.
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  27. Dr. O I'm curious about what you say on the last part " the truly important things in life in most appropriate places" .? Pls. can you discuss with us?
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  28. Good morning 🌄☕ Watching listening while having coffee at my 10-Eleven mini Store😊 I like James Bond movie too because I like men in well tailored suit 😊 . I like also those who wear V+neck tshirt match with cargo short . I'm going to see Kubrick films I'm interested 😊. Ohh Roger Moore I never watch him I'm gonna see his movie 🍿👍. Yesterday I watched The Witch Nicholas Cage as main character. I like Nicholas Cage also I like his eyes.
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  29. People will just choose between virtues or vices. My reminder to my children please if you want your mom to be happy and proud of you and if you want you to be proud of yourself : No to alcohols, drugs, cigarettes and tattoos. They can drink but on very important occasion but they must know how to respect their self . I told them choose to be better person . I want to be useful in the society. Weeds, drugs I think use only in severe physical pain especially if the person is suffering too much to pain like my grandmother when she was bed ridden. I wanna tell my story when my children and their cousins had a drink one night I saw that it becomes too long .To help them finished I drank also. To a person who never drink I'm easy to become " lasing in Tagalog". My daughter videograph me while talking and crying.They laugh at me 😁. One day I talked to them it doesn't mean you have money you can do everything you want like vices it's not like that. I shared my feelings to them . I told them what the consequences the danger when hooked up . At first you will just taste it suddenly it becomes a habit. Vices will not make you prosper or never make you a better person my view. Good morning ☕🌞🌅 Love, Peace , Joy , Wisdom and Abundance to All 🙏
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  30. Good morning 🌞🌄☕ There's a saying " I Am thankful to those who said No its because I did it MySelf " . Rejection oftentimes lead us into better direction on a positive side rejection is a big blessings. That's why prenuptial is invented when someone wants who is rich before they get married . Some is offended on prenuptial but why getting offended if someone is not interested in the material possession of the other.
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  31. Hi ! my true meaning of love to me is you give freedom to someone you love when you can't give what the other person's happiness, needs and wants. When he/she can be happy on the other person let them go . True love is other people,s happiness and well being is more important that our own desires . Open-mindedness is the key .
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  32. That's make sense however each woman or each person has different needs and wants . Good morning Dr. O ☕🌞🌿☀️🖐️. Good morning every1 . Have a great life 🖖
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  33. Good morning 🌞☕🌾 Good advise for men . Tip on women never over dress and never tell everything on a first date 😊. As much as possible show as simple as you are so you will know if a guy wants you in your simple person version. Never impress him right away😅. Never be afraid to be disliked . I like Yoda quote 🤗
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  34. What is the title of the show?
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  35. Hey! Dr . O , you're a shining Star ✨ in the galaxy of humanity 😊 . I agree on there's a Higher Being Our ultimate Creator and we are the co-creator . I call it THE SOURCE . However on my view Love is attractive and powerful force . We can moved mountains, we crossed thousands miles because of Love. Love heals. It's hard to find love if we will use our mind if we want to find love let's use our heart. If we want love we will give or fulfill what the other's wants, needs and desires.
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  37. Teach men to commit by giving less. My tip to women focus on her self betterment so we can protect, provide and lead if man don't want a comittment when a woman can do that she can be joyful. There's a saying there are many fishes in the sea.
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  38. Florence Scovel Shinn book The Game of life and How to Play it I read some pages .
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  39. Good morning 🌄🌞☕ You're going to laugh when you see my content 😅. Some creators sensationalised the title 😊. The reason why I'm into YT is I'm curious what's in there ? 😊 . Later on I wanna share my life to people hoping I can inspire some. I wanna share my photography which MySelf, nature is the subject . If money is the motivation of doing this I stop because I never boost channel I never invest to reach more ppl. However this channel become a legacy , a gift to some who appreciate. Even I'm gone it's already there just like other contents.
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  40. Good morning 🌞🌄🌾🇵🇭🧡 Anorexia is famous in celebrities like singers, models, actresses maybe because of the nature of their jobs that they need to be thin so they maintain small waist I think one of the main reason. In modeling industry they need to be " payat " thin in English. Its also due to stomach/ digestive illnesses just like if you have a problem in gallstones ohh that's disaster you can't even drink lots of water due to bloated stomach . When we are worrier, depress, full of negative emotions, when we suppressed feelings we really get sick. When we suppressed negative feelings we suppressed positive feelings too. Too much control and suppression and precautions that's dangerous too. Crazy like Us thanks for referral.
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  41. Long time ago I read something that Life is 3/4 lies and half of it full of If's . Agree what we allow will continue. Good morning 🌄☕🌱
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  42. Love is easy it's universal. However being having a harmonious, committed relationship is hard because of many different reasons and intentions, it's many I know most of here know what are those. I like Languages of Love and if someone dont want that they're a coward 😅. May I add on the title of this content: is when a psychologist become an accountant 😊 who knows Financial Statements.👍
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  43. I read about expectations: high expectations lead to disappointment, disappointment leads to unhappiness, unhappiness leads to dissatisfaction , dissatisfaction lead to boredom, boredom leads to separation 😊etc and etc. However in reality two people who are in a relationship have expectations to each other otherwise no relationship at all. Even in ourselves we have expectations how much more if we have into relationship. Clarity in relationship is also important . But I also agree on high hopes low expectations concept.👍
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  44. I'm a punisher especially when some ppl are abusive of my kindness, my lovable me , and caring Zen 😊. I reward also for the job well done ✅ , for the kindness, generosity, cooperation, and service of people around me. Thanks God there's still ppl who love me inspite of being a punisher and a rewarder😅.
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  45. Magandang umaga from 🇵🇭 ☕ . Not everyone is meant to have their match partner . To All single here in the community we have a Bible verse 1 Corinthians 7:38 thanks for reading. Some single person they have missions in life not on their partner 😊 but on their selves, on other people and in the world. Our purpose in life is not just to have romantic love , some have big responsibilities not on their man or woman. Hopefully Dr. O will not delete this message. PS everyone of us needs respect even the small kid.
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  46. Hi! Good morning 🌄☕ 🌱 Great discussion so much learnings. On attraction I think it's not a choice it happens naturally once we see someone who's attractive. Internally and or physically. Me physically I'm attracted with nice eyes 👀 and clean nails 😊. Character is very important. God fearing and loving person . Responsible, discipline and gentleman 😊. Some women want all 😁 . I have story of when I was working we usually ride in a train and once I enter in the train full of passengers there's young man offering a seat hehehe feeling beautiful lady😅 . Maybe he offers a seat because I smiled wide when entering in a train😅 .I'm jolly person😊. Great if once a week you have this kind of collaboration with great men 👍 just a suggestion. I like the term Deep Dives 😊 Love , Peace, Joy, Wisdom and Abundance to All 🙏
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  47. Good morning 🌞☕ Spot on on before get marry man must be stable in all aspect . Also can be on a relationship while with a good real feminine woman on his side. On ultimatum it is given to those who are abusive. I have a cute quote on marriage: no matter what get marry if you find a good one then you are lucky and happy if not you become a philosopher and have purpose and useful to others.😊 Looking 4ward to your book Dr. O 😊🙌 To men look for buoyant woman but someone you can talk anything under the sun and moon and stars like quantum mechanics, religion, politics, aliens, nature etc etc 😊😅. Some men want a low maintenance woman who doesn't need fake eyelashes, fake long nails, fake hairs etc etc. so they can't grind and grind and grind to provide all those unnecessary expenses.
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  48. I still prefer a man and woman who believes that chivalry is still exist. Opening door for a woman doesn't mean disrespecting men instead it's how we feel we are a lady, a woman a girl . We feel we are in our feminine energy 😊. Be well everyOne 🙏 PS but I observed on my own experiences some men offer a seat to a woman who looks kind and cheerful 😊. Hey! Dr. O if you that to me when you're opening door for me I think I will ask you to marry me right there and there whether you like or not 😂( jk) just to make people smile especially men 😅 or I will give a unlimited killer smile 😂😂😂. Filipinas/ nos are good at smiling even they don't have good sets of teeth or toothless 😁
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  49.  @cheekymonkeygirl3378  thanks 👍🙂
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  50.  @dontreadmyname4396  many thanks 👍🙂
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