Comments by "Zen\x27s All-in-1 Life Sharings 🧑 ( not a pro )" (@zensvlognotapro) on "PsycHacks" channel.

  1. Β @psychacksΒ  πŸ‘
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  2. Everything has a process just like in hiring and getting or entering into a relationship especially on romantic relationship. In the Philippines there's a courting stage 😊. This day and age we want fast that's why we have an instant foods, ready to eat foods, no cook foods and fastfoods .
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  3. I like the stare at the end of the video πŸ˜…. You're on fire πŸ”₯ Dr. O . I'm excited to hear your book on audio. πŸ‘
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  4. Good morning 🌞 When it comes to being adaptable thanks to Charles Darwin quote. It become my inspiration . This makes sense Dr. O . Is that reverse psychology?
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  5. In addition we will never grow if we will hear and read what we just want to hear if we are very selective. Me I grow and learn from criticisms but I become inspired also by beautiful words, validations , nuggets I received.
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  6. Also I want my family to respect me because they love me however I feel they scared of me sometimes and also sometimes they understand me if I'm on beast mode or if I'm silent.
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  7. Some spiritual guru there's no good or bad , right and wrong? How is it any explanation to this ? 7:17 thankzz πŸ‘
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  8. Demanding woman and pressuring a man that's red flags. She has a problem why involve a man on her problem the risk of not having a baby because she's already 36 year old. Your client must think how much he can sacrifice if it's worth sacricing . To a woman from Indiana you should act like a woman that a man worth sacrificing for . That's why man need how to lead however the couple need to talk and agree to what they want in a relationship not just what a woman want or what the man want. On my part in case I can have a man who can protect, provide and lead I can be a queen to my king πŸ‘‘. I'll support him on what his goals, his mission vision. 😊πŸ’ͺ
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  9. Β @JoseDiaz-rd9fhΒ  yes alligned values πŸ‘
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  10. Existence consists of indefinite desire and desire is the root of all sufferings. I found out that the less we desire the less we suffer. Be open- minded to everything but attach to nothing I heard that to Wayne Dyer and makes me think also though it says my kind of person is open minded person 😊 attachment concept I only knew it lately in life . I'm a little bit sacrificing now because of my dream 😊 however it's manageable 😊. There are certain and uncertainties and that's the nature of life . Good morning πŸŒ„β˜•πŸŒΎπŸ‡΅πŸ‡­πŸ§‘
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  11. Hi everyone on the channel and to Dr. O πŸŒ…β˜• This is spot on 99.9 percent because not everyone will agree and that's fine 😊. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion including me 😊. On men and women they're different they're like key and a lock πŸ”πŸ˜…. But I know I relate to you because it says I'm a masculine on how I think I know what weighs on you but yes it's a man's task to be a provider, protect and lead let's accept never resist because woman is created to be your partner, your other half however not every man is given a right partner amd also not all women are given their right man to lead, protect and provide them so they need to become, some women need to wear pants but they want that my answer no but it's needed . We want to relax on our feminine side ? No but if needed we become masculine. I have a question if some men don't to provide, protect and lead what's their purpose? And if some women don't want to take care of the family what's their original purpose. On my view we are not created to be alone but to some they chose to because they want peace, they want to be free and happy.
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  12. Good morning πŸŒ„β˜• I like the idea of give and take, take and give or balance in a relationship. I want to be adored and in return I can be an adorer tooπŸ™‚. I'm a scale βš–οΈ person . I'm generous to say compliments I have a PhD on that area πŸ˜ƒ . By the way your haircut and color says Dr.O is inspired and full of energy maybe because of 33k +++ subscribers πŸ™‚πŸ’ž. keep growing πŸ‘πŸ’ͺ
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  13. I have a cute story When my batch in elementary grade get together for the first time after 30 years after the meeting we need to attend one event. Most of my female classmates ride in a car of my childhood friend whose a captain of the ship. When I saw that the car is almost full I'd rather ride on tricycle of my other male classmate with one female with us. What's makes me smile was one of passengers told hmmp! Captain is asking for you πŸ˜…. Then I answered the car is full already so I chose to ride in another vehicle. At the end he brought me in my home . He's happily married and successful Christian man and I'm happy for him . I agree that some women never get attracted to a man who has yatch, Ferrari, because those man having many luxurious possessions is a headache. Why ? First they love their possessions more than their woman, they give more attention to those than to their partner maybe not all but definitely it is true.
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  14. I think they hire escort because relationship is just purely business for them. I meant no string attach, no commitment, no demands only professional fee. And escort is available in the country where they are especially if highly successful man always travelling. Just watch that in the movie 😊.
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  15. I ask advise but not too many people I choose. I ask advise but in the end I follow what I think is good and beneficial. On the other side when someone asks my advise I tell my truth but I let them to decide for themselves. I lay down my thoughts but I also tell them what do you think is good for you then decide on it. Good morning Dr. O β˜•πŸŒΏπŸŒž
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  16. Good morning πŸŒ„πŸŒžβ˜•πŸŒΎπŸ–οΈ Love is very powerful force. If a person loves purely and truthfully we can make anything impossible into possible. Yes I heard if we love right it's very wonderful thing to rise in love. By the way Dr. O who's your fashion consultant I want to congratulate them 😊 . Nice one you're like the sun 🌞😁. It fits for you . Do you live like a sun too ? me I want a reciprocated love 😊, I love with conditions just like when you want to visit Philippines πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­. I will accommodate you and your spl some1 but you will share on some expenses πŸ˜… that's me 😊. Just tell me if want to visit Philippines I'm sure after ppl read this some will also invite you 😁. Dr. O is an spiritual psychologist life and relationship coach. Hows your book going we are excited on thatπŸ–οΈπŸ€— PS I can't always be sun because I'm a moon also πŸ˜… God Prosper everyOne πŸ™
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  17. Good morning Dr. O β˜•πŸŒžπŸŒΏπŸ˜ΊπŸ––. I tried it before failure is a sad term for me but now for me it is part of success. Before I told to myself that I Am a failure but now no more. God gave me more than what I deserve. More than what I asked for. We have blessings now life getting better daughter got a 100 percent in Demonstration teaching , she will be soon recognize as magna cum laude, my son graduated with honor in grade 10 and with bonus because I have an award as Outstanding Stakeholder of the school first time. Everything is fall into place now. Thanks to Omniscient God πŸ™ Life is a game play it well πŸ€—πŸ† Love, Peace, Joy and Abundance to All πŸ™
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  18. πŸ‘
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  19. This is also I wanna tell to women because some women are so clingy and attach with the man they love or they desire 😊. Some women want 24/7 communication πŸ˜…. They usually forget that their man need to work and focus because it's hard for them to multitask 😊. I agree on never share your finances until you are in commitment stage or until you get married or unless someone is trustworthy. Good morning and happy holidays to every1 from πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­ πŸŒžβ˜•
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  20. I do that if ppl don't value how I care. However thats only temporary because its in my veins to care . Its too bad for me not to care because I'm d most cold blooded specie if I don't care. I avoid people if I don't care thats so sad😒
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  21. Daniel C is my crush I like his eyes sorry Rachel W.😊 I like DC carry himself, his confidence, I like him in well tailored suit😊. I like his photo taking care of their child so cool and sexy. Is there a terminology about a person who loves beautiful eyes ?😊
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  22. Good morning πŸŒ…β˜•πŸͺ΄ Hi! Great to see you both 2 handsome men in the discussion or mental sharings 😊. So much learnings , I like Dr. Smith explaining his thoughts, knowledge and wisdom. I like his voice too very calm and low, I like he's being direct to the point never get jealous Dr. O 😁 still you are still my favourite though I don't understand and don't agree on you sometimes 😊. Me too I predict Dr. O's fame the first time I saw his channel content πŸ‘. Yes hope you can handle success 😊πŸ’ͺπŸ†πŸŽ–οΈ. If you can't go to Philippines πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­ and live simply hahahaha 😁. On depression I think why people depressed its because they lack inspiration, enthusiasm, and optimism and faith and love . Also when we think life is meaningless or without purpose .My view 😊. I have a question to Dr. O does he wants to marry at 41 and have kid or kids ? What his ideal relationship?By the way I want to read that book " Gatekeeper" . I'll wait that in audio I think not too soon I don't buy in the Amazon.
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  23. Exchange of energies usually a person is being paid for the service rendered by one to another . I know one couple I think they become a perfect partner because a man provide a woman and a woman serve as a wife , as a secretary, as personal assistant however since a man can pay helpers his wife has an assitant to do all the housework but the only different of that woman on other woman is freedom. The woman that I'm talking is she has no freedom to do all the things she wants because if his husband is around she needs to be with him and assist him. She can't be with her friend as long as the hubby needs her however money and other material things she's provided . Good morning πŸŒžβ˜•from Philippines πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­
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  24. Β @alex434343Β  Hi ! My view that's a solution also 😚. Godspeed πŸ™
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  25.  @cosmictreason2242  pls. explain more 😚
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  26. You're right πŸ‘.There is what we call " you " me "time. Partners are not always together on their own recreation or relaxation Esther Perrel said Space creates desire 😊 and that's true but not too long because absence also especially to women makes the heart forget. I like those books on your back what's your favourite book, do you have ? I like your home tooπŸ€—πŸ–οΈ We are not compatible when it comes to travelling because I never set my mind to that, my mindset is that : I wanna break the chain of poverty from my family , I forgot my own desires for mySelf. I'm not sure if I don't like travelling because I can travel one place by seeing their photographs 😊.Is my life boring idk I can enjoy life through photography πŸ–οΈπŸ€—πŸ“Έ Good morning Dr. O πŸŒ„β˜•. Love, Peace, Joy, Wisdom and Abundance to All πŸ™
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  27. Hi! Good morning πŸŒ„πŸŒžβ˜•πŸŒΎπŸŒΉπŸŒ· If I'm there on that time I'll give you a big hug and a pat on your shoulder and treat a coffeeβ˜•πŸ˜. No one give you a tip? Here some people give a tip to those who do good turn like what you did. I also felt that many times when there was traffic here but thanks God there are some men who did that . Some ppl don't want to get involved I read that. Concern concept lost nowadays. Most ppl want to be a boss not a leader 😁. Hi ! everyOne on Dr. It's community.
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  28. Never argue have some discussion, thoughts or mental or intellectual sharings . For me we need to talk, silence has pros and cons also . But yeah I got your point ☝️😊
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  29. Love more Love better Love Now 😚. You're getting funny Dr. OπŸ‘
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  30. Β @nathanbutcher7720Β  yeah I agree on people are scared to commit or simply they don't want. Marriage is sacred, it's long term commitment, it exclusivity between two ppl who wants to be exclusive to each other no matter what life throws at them. Thanks for sharing thoughts/mental sharings Nathan πŸ‘.
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  31. Β @nathanbutcher7720Β  yeah! you have a point there. I hear you.
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  32. Β @psychacksΒ  😊 The author of engagement of lovers/couple maybe one of them were diamond merchants😁. I like diamond most women liked itπŸ’πŸ’ŽπŸ‘
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  33. Β @psychacksΒ  and that mission is?
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  34. Depression is losing enthusiasm and inspiration in all facets of life? Me during my downdays I always want evening I just want to sleep. Now I appreciate every morning πŸŒ„ as well as every evening πŸŒ† . I appreciate whenever I saw stars lots of stars. Love for myself and others especially to my children and purpose and meaning of life saved me from depression. That life is not just to be miserable. Btw the lighting on your previous talks and sharings is much Okay πŸ‘. Just an observation.
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  35. The word being useful or allow to be used is not so pleasant words my interpretation to this on the other side is being a person with worth and value . One thing called sex or being good in bed is included in a one whole pie chart but not the whole thing. Feed men of what they really needs great s*x , encouragement, respect, service , feed or stimulate their mind too , they need also some spirituality, social life ( not all )😊. On CEO thing : I want to be a CEO of my own store and my own life 🏬 😊
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  36. Pain turn into Wisdom. Some motivational and spiritual person teach because they experienced the deepest pains . People in deep pain turn negative situation in a positive attitude . People in deep pain turn criciticms to better themselves. Sometimes pain makes us stoic, makes us a Buddha , make us a person who knows how to tolerates and sometimes knows how to rebuke or knows how to be in the neutral state 😊. Sometimes pain makes a person more compassionate and kind and more giving. Sometimes a person came from a deep pains become more appreciative and joyful.
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  37. What if questioning, sarcasm and teasing is a woman's way of love and being fun and playful ? 😁 . I have a PhD in those 3 but my apology if that's disrespecting but you're right without realizing it . Turn questioning, sarcasm and teasing into love 🧑- Zen 🌹🌷- the quote queen πŸ˜‚ Good morning 🌞 β˜•πŸŒΎfrom Philippines πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­
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  38. Human's nature . People are flawed individual, imperfect . Understanding is the key. It is true in an example about a bond paper and a small dot where the small dot is the first we see . One of the spiritual teacher said : sometimes our thought is not who we are. Only few people see the different sides of people, of situations etc. Good morning πŸŒ…β˜• from Philippines πŸ‡΅πŸ‡­ while having coffee β˜•πŸ˜
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  39. Alcoholism is too bad it ruins brain and wasting of time . Alcohol if it's becomes addiction can ruin self and family .
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  40. How to heal traumas in a relationship? What if some women do the effortless strategy who will make a work or effort to make a relationship work? I'm interested about your story . The moment that I saw in your YT channel I saw on your eyes that you have something there in your heart that need to deal or identify or accept and moved on. In your kind of outer personality you can easily attract and have a relationship with women efforlessly however the one that can match your expectations idk if that's easy. Anyways congratulations πŸŽ‰ your channel is growing πŸ‘πŸ†. More awakening or enlightening content. πŸ‘
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  41. @约翰·萨拉 hey ! Thanks for responding. I like that will talk to you when laundry is done πŸ€— meantime I'm inviting you to my channel not a pro πŸ€—πŸ§‘
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  42. ​​​@约翰·萨拉 I'm back, I'm interested about what you say. I think what you did is not a waste, it makes sense by the question Who Am I ? the answer is I Am or You are what we choose to Become. About Dr. O if he doesn't respond before when we're still few here he responds on us I think he's busy now and he's content is growing. I also have a thought that give without expecting any return. I give my thoughts and it's up to to Dr. O or anyone here to respond. I'm glad you respond because you share your story. I think there is no such thing as late when it comes to having a relationship. However the best relationship is between ourselves and Our Creator. Idk if efforlessly is also connected with the Law of not forcing explained by Allan Watts. Love and Piece to you πŸ™
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  43. The humans want to change what is natural. They don't want the traditional the old fashioned way of life . If a man knows how special his role on this planet he will be proud of himself. He is born as a leader and a woman his partner, his helper on all what he wants in life. Im not sure if all men and women will agree on this and that is okay. We are in a modern times where gender roles are forgetten and changed. So sad that some men and women are getting tired of each other but if they can be partner living here on 🌎 is so beautiful, happy and fulfilling.
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  44. Hi! Good morning πŸŒ…β˜• My view on that is just be glad because you touch other people's lives . Haters as I read in Facebook comments haters are blessings in disguise too, they listen of what you say though as you said ideas divide yes ideas, opinions divide people. Also I wanna share something about love : love the unlovable , understand them because for me we have different experiences in life . Sometimes we share because of our experiences and experiences of other people around us , sometimes of what we read. Have a great life every1 🧬
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  45. Happy New Year ! 🎊. This is exactly what I really want to share about being useful. Allow yourself to be used in order to be valuable πŸ˜‚. Some will disagree on this if ladies will initiate some men will take advantage on them men will think they're easy . On my view men will be the pursuer, initiator unless our world is really changing and men and women change their preferences . Myself being an iniator its easy but if there's a man who initiate first that's a bravery for me 😊 . This talk is for modern women who's not good at housekeeping but they're great in earning money or don't know how . Domesticity or service is number 1 good traits of a woman for me however women need to be self reliant also. In addition another enemy is laziness both on some men and some women. Note : masculine man pursue and a feminine woman never pursue but know to reciprocate and accept and submit.
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  46. Β @BlackLion76Β  yeah I agree . nowadays if a woman can provide, protect and lead herself and her family she never need a man who is incapable.
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  47. My desire to perfection makes me more imperfect and lead me to mistakes. I'm scared to fail, to criticism the reason why mistakes for me is not the things I did in the wrong way but the things I never take. But that's fine life is not about to live with regrets and blaming and not letting go. Life is about to enjoy the fruits of our labor, or enjoy the things/people that we have,
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  48. Dr. O it's not because you r broke or you become successful on your 30's maybe its because your perception and preferences that change. Maybe you become more picky when you reach the age of 30 .Maybe you become more focused on yourself during at the age of 30 . Just to see other sides of the coin.
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  49. This is also same when my daughter told me about investment. She said mama invest in what you can afford to loose 😊. The most courageous thought of a young woman who just starting in digital games that was year 2021 .
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  50. Hi ! Dr. O and Everyone!!! I have a story about mental illness. I know someone who in very long time we believe she had mental illness but what happened about a long time when her father died, something found on the back of her bed mattress. She never took her medicines. What happened was her father was against her husband and they separated because of father's decision to separate them. She's an accountant by the way, beautiful woman, tall means with pleasing personality and professional. One time we visited her with my mother then I talked to her because her family told us talk to her she never wants to cut her hair, she never took a bath etc etc . Meaning her enthusiasm to live is gone. Then me and my mother told her take care of yourself cut her your, take a bath and she responds to us. When we visited her again she had a new hair cut and her nails were clean in short she changed. To make a story short after her father died the family found her medicines lots of medicines found on the back of her bed mattress . And the family told she become okay . I asked myself did she intentionally made herself like an insane or had a mental illness because she was mad of her father ?. Her father is really an example of he wants his sons and daughters had a degree. He controls everything and everyone in the family. That's what I can share . I have more different stories of people with mental illness if that's what we call them but no one is violent .The other one is wherever she sees me she asked money because she wants soft drinks 😁. There was one recently she's not violent but all her thoughts were negative not just negative but super ugly thoughts. She thinks everyone was witch, everyone was against her. But before she needs to bring to the doctor she wants someone especially her family to talk to her but no one visit her to talk to her . When my store was still open we always talk to each and she shared some of her feelings, her problems on me until I decide to close the store because I feel I carry their heavy loads or their issues in life .
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