Comments by "Elaine R" (@elainer8288) on "PsycHacks" channel.

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  47. I think chivalry should be for both sexes and it is not so rational or involves money, but it is rather a loving appreciation of the special characteristics of the opposite sex. It is that loving feeling of a special kind of admiration and respect shown through actions to the opposite sex. When a man opens the door and is specially careful with an old lady, when they admire the feminine nature in their delicate gestures, when they help a woman carry something heavy acknowledging they are physically weaker, when they say something that shows a special kind of admiration for the feminine nature. It is also when a woman behaves in a motherly way towards all men, gives a piece of cake she made to the doorman of her building after someone has been rude to him, or gives motherly advice to a young boy who is not her son, spoils her boyfriend when he has a simple cold by making soup for him and buying him a "cold basket" (a basket with vitamine C, teddy bear, fruit, small gifts to cheer him up, etc) (I thought that was so adorable and bought it for my ex) exaggerating a little bit with some unnecessary care to show her appreciation. It is also when a woman is extremelly careful with what she says to a man, making sure it serves only to improve his self confidence and well being, or is specially supportive in her comments because she knows his male friends are not as careful in their words as her female friends are with her. It is a special respecful attention paid to the opposite sex.
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