Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat even though i am young? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  2. Women chasing him? He is 13 which is still a child. Women are adults and shouldn't be chasing your son. Thats illegal and inappropriate. BTW I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  3. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  4.  @SweatyFatGuy  No I am not into arranged marriages at all and as a younger generation I don't want it in future. I don't believe in these caste systems and stuffs and I am from a general educated background who is almost an MBA student and live in a big metropolitan city like Bangalore. Are you telling me to get married at 23 even though I am still a student? Plus I was actually about 4-5 inches taller than those women. Would a 5'4 woman really find a 5'9 man short? Idk whether they are single or not tho but they are very pretty. Yeah I am an introvert thoughout my life and has been only coming out of shyness since the age of 21 but I am still a bit shy even at 23 now. Also did you read my comment about my crush in my class who is also an Indian? She is super pretty tho almost model like so yeah I overthink whether I have chance with her or not but we still have conversations briefly and the last time we talked was 3 days ago but as an introvert the conversations end fast.
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  5. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  6. Damn man really at 55? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  7. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something even though I am just 23? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  8. So true. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  9. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  10.  @petertherock7340  Did you even read my full comment about my conversation with the French woman? Nothing about that? Nothing about my crush in my class about whom I mentioned too?
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  11. So you are 42 and dating women half your age? Btw I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  12.  @andenixa  Damn man really at 42? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  13. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  14. Damn man really at 45? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  15. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  16. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  17. So men can't even open up their emotions? BTW I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and have always been shy near girls and only recently I am talking some girls in my University where I am studying MBA now and I have only been on 1 first date last year September, only hugged 2 girls in person and just pinched cheeks of one of my crush and still haven't been kissed. I am talking with some girls in my University but there is this girl with whom things have been a bit turbulent. She is 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year of MBA a month ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far but all our in person conversations were positive and she even smiled at times while talking. She is an introvert similar to me and an introvert too so we got along well but recently I had to go to my hometown Siliguri for 8-9 days and suddenly she unfollowed me on Instagram 5-6 days ago right after viewing my stories so I am confused what happened and sad as we only had positive conversations with her in person so far. I asked my close male friend for an advice and he suggested me to reach out to her in person and clarify any misunderstanding by keeping the conversation light at first so I will do it tomorrow when I meet her in person as I am back to Bangalore now but I am so nervous about it.
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  18. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  19. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  20. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  21. ​ @M.F.V01 why will I go to jail if I like foreign women who are adults? She is French and I am an Indian and we are around the same age especially if she is a masters student making her 22-26 range and I am 23 and soon to be an MBA student too.
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  22. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something even though I am just 23? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  23. Woah 52 dating someone 22? Btw do you think it would be fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreign woman who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India. I am a well educated guy who completed his bachelor's in electronics engineering 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes now and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5. I already have crush on a girl in the classes where I go who is also an Indian and in the 21-23 age and we have brief conversations but idk how much chance i have with her as she is very pretty almost model like. I also got ghosted very recently by another girl whom I liked too and she is 19 turning 20 in 3 weeks and an Indian too and I knew her for almost 9 months. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, I do see foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians around the classes I go. Last week I did try to initiate a conversation with this white woman who is from France. We had a brief conversation and she is a student most likely a foreign exchange student who came to this University in Bangalore. She is definitely within 20-25 age range or more like 22-26 if she is a masters student because that University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees. We also said each other it was nice to meet you. She seemed friendly and I was nice and respectful to her too but this week I didn't see that French woman again in that area. Idk whether its because of her University timing or she probably went back to France. I wanted to get to know her more. But if I meet her again, should I again try to talk to her? Also if I see another foreign woman, should I try to talk to her too and get to know her or would she find it bad?
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  24. This is how sadly our generation young men are facing. I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  25. Damn man really at 52? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  26. Is it really a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  27. So does it mean I have no chance of finding a gf? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and talking with several girls now after years of being shy near girls. Sadly one of this girl in my MBA who is 22 rejected me almost 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't wanna talk with me anymore and it left me confused as we had positive conversations before. Even with the other girls the conversations had been mostly short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe a bit more but still the girls have been friendly enough. Over a week ago, I did say a pickup line to one of my crush who is also within 21-23 age range and she was the 2nd girl I hugged 4 months ago but she just smiled and thanked me after the pickup line and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University. I still talked with some girls today in my University but I am overthinking a lot whether things will work and when to ask one of them out.
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  28.  @dianaverano7878  I would never really do long distance relationship. BTW Is it really fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  29. Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  30. Damn man. Have you been on dates? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  31. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  32. So is there any chance for an Indian student like me who want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but also I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 5 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 3 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  33. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  34. Is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  35. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  36. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  37.  @spark300c  Have you read my full comment? Are you saying I would have no chance with that French woman?
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  38. What about French women especially for an Indian student like me? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  39. Are you really 82 or lying? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, only been on 1 first date last year Sept, then hanged out with a female friend last year Oct, hugged only 2 girls in person and still didnt get my first kiss. I am studying MBA now and talking with several girls now after years of being shy near girls. Sadly one of this girl in my MBA who is 22 rejected me almost 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't wanna talk with me anymore and it left me confused as we had positive conversations before. Even with the other girls the conversations had been most short limited to just Hi and how are you and maybe a bit more but still the girls have been friendly enough. Over a week ago, I did say a pickup line to one of my crush who is also within 21-23 age range and she was the 2nd girl I hugged 4 months ago but she just smiled and thanked me after the pickup line and she is one of the prettiest girl in our University. I still talked with some girls today in my University but I am overthinking a lot whether things will work and when to ask one of them out.
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  40. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  41. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  42. Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes and some more questions about myself. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  43. ​​ @TravelLoverForLife  By weird age gaps do you also mean smaller age gaps like a 23 year old dating an 18 year old or a larger age gap like a 40 year old dating a 20 year old? I am 23 and I prefer women in the 19-28 age range.
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  44.  @TravelLoverForLife  But what about a 5 year age gap between 18 with a 23 year old? Will 18 and 23 still raise eyebrows? What about 19 and 23? Or even 20 and 23? Is 19-28 a good range for dating for a 23 year old male?
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  45. How old are you? Did you have a gf before? BTW is it still a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  46. Did I miss out a lot if I am 22 and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  47. What do you feel about Indian men? Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 8 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy yesterday. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  48. I am a 22 year old guy and I don't wanna miss out on dating 18-24 year olds when I am myself in my young 20s. I never had a girlfriend before unfortunately. Now at 22, I would still have many things in common with early 20s and even 18 and 19 year old girls as I am a college age student too which will make the dating more fun. After 24 or 25, I will be too old for 18 and 19 year olds and in my 30s and 40s I would be too old for early 20s girls so I would have nothing much in common with them. I wanna date early 20s girls when I am myself in my early 20s too which is my current age now but sadly no luck so far.
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  49. BTW Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  50. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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