Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Legion Of Men" channel.

  1. Wow man 62? BTW is it a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  2.  @theblackboxpodcastshow1791  ok man I will. Honestly I already feel as if I am running out of time as I am 23 year old and never had a relationship before. It feels as if I am kinda late at my age and it would be harder for me to overcome my shyness near women. Plus even if I talked with the foreigners, would they really be interested in getting to know a 23 year old student as they are in the working world now and what if they are actually in their 30s too(they can be in their 20s too tho)? I have no problem with age as long as they are adults but I see many women saying they don't want a younger man. I like my crush in the classes where I go too who is basically the same age as me but the conversations have been really brief as I am an introvert.
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  3.  @jlprescott7243  that's a bad advice. Men do all the approaching. Plus I am just 23 so I am young enough to try going for any woman I like. So I can't even like my crush who is Indian too in the classes where I go and she is also 21-23 age range so the same age as me?
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  4. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 9 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy 2 days ago. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  5. So is it still a bad idea in your opinion as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  6. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  7. BTW Is it still fine for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  8. Wow damn man. Did you have a girlfriend before? I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and still didn't get my first kiss. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but I barely get any matches at all and even if I get one, I end up getting ghosted. I did see a girl a week ago in a class I joined recently for some course and she is from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and she is really beautiful and I think I got a crush on her but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day. Now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks.
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  9. So is it still a bad idea as an Asian to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. Yesterday while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had know idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  10. ​​ @petertherock7340 I am usually more worried about the fact that I am 23 year old and never had a girlfriend before and feel running out of time. I actually like another girl too who is 19 turning 20 next month and she is Indian too and we have knowing each other for 8 months and have been chatting with each other on Instagram pretty much daily for the past 8 months. She was in the same school as me but now in a different college. Suddenly for the past 2-3 days, it looks like she is ignoring/ghosting me because she is coming online but isn't even replying to me or even seeing my messages and I don't know why. I never said anything wrong to her and made sure she was comfortable and even made a bucket list of where we will eat but now she is suddenly ignoring me for no reason and she comes online too. I am extremely upset so talking with that French woman today made my mood much better but now I am again said as that girl still hasn't replied to my message.
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  11. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  12. So I have no chance as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  13. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  14. So Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 10 days ago, I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly last week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women and not today either. The only foreigner I saw last week was a black African guy 3 days ago. I really hope I meet one this week but I just have no idea what to talk with them about. Today actually I went to eat in this Thai restaurant in our city Bangalore and one of the female staff of the restaurant wore a more traditional Thai dress and I am sure she is Thai judging by her facial features and structures and she seemed to be in her 20s too or maybe even 30s and I also saw another South East Asian looking woman with blonde hair outside the restaurant but idk whether she is Thai or just from north eastern part of India where people look South East Asian. I could have started a conversation with them asking whether they are from Thailand or not but I was shy again. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked last week briefly too. So if I go to that restaurant again, should I try to get to know that Thai woman who is the restaurant staff or that other blonde South East Asian looking woman?
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  15. Is it really a bad idea for an Indian guy like me to want to date a foreign woman who is an expat in my country? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners do come here even as expats. Today I went to this very posh area of our city and even the French Embassy is in that area so you can see foreigners there. I saw 2 foreign women there. First one was a Hispanic/Latino woman. She was definitely of Spanish origin and looked very exotic and pretty and in her 20s or maybe even 30s. But I was too shy to even say her Hi. Then the 2nd foreign woman I saw was an East Asian most definitely a Korean who too is definitely in her 20s and I was again shy to talk to her and this way I am missing my chances of talking with women. The only foreign woman I had a brief conversation with was a French woman last month whom I met near my University where I am pursuing my MBA and I am in 1st year and she was a foreign exchange student in this University which is for MBA too so she is mostly within 22-26 age range but I never saw her again as maybe she went back to France or maybe our timings never matched. I do have crush on this girl in my University who is also within 21-23 age range and an Indian too but things seem so unsure as she is also very pretty almost model like and I am not that attractive in my glasses and even though I got number, she still didn't even see my text on Whatsapp which I sent her. I am upset because I missed my chances today especially with that Hispanic woman.
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  16. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows but I wear glasses. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  17. So is it a bad idea as an Asian student to want to date a Westerner who came to my country as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 2 days ago while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses. I don't even know whether I will again be able to see either of them on Monday or not. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had conversations briefly. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners on Monday again but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them.
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  18. Wow man did you have a girlfriend before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I feel the FOMO so much. I get ghosted by girls on dating apps and got rejected by 2 girls I liked in my college few months ago. I also follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 19-22 year olds now but many of them ghosted me too and only 4 or 5 of them chats with me and only 2 of them both 20 year olds are nice to me and we send virtual hugs and they calls me sweet.
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  19. So is it also bad that I am 22 now and never dated? I am a guy who turned 22 almost 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and never had a real kiss with a girl except getting kissed on the cheek by a girl when we were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and sometimes get matched by 18-23 age girls but they ghost me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but got rejected. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now and I had the best chat with a girl for the past 6-7 days. She is 20 and I knew her in school and she was 2 years my junior. She seems so much better than other girls I have chatted with. I kinda messed up a bit today by giving her a cheesy compliment today but I apologized and said that I just wanted to make her smile and she thanked me and said it was sweet of me. Btw I have no idea whether I have any chance with her or not.
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  20.  @tarcisiasiniscalchi6641  But most girls end up ghosting me whereas she isn't. I like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we didn't talk in person since 2011 as my parents bought a new apartment back then so we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5-6 months younger than me and we chat on Instagram but she didn't reply or even see my last message for over 2 weeks. I am the most comfortable with asking her for a date because I knew her before but she isn't chatting at all with me.
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  21. Seriously man at 56? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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  22. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 5 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes and not yesterday either. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  23. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who comes to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners come here as expats too to work or maybe for conferences. I graduated college with a bachelors degree in Electronics Engineering about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes now so I am well educated, have good thick hair, thick eyebrows and have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5 but I wear glasses. The classes where I go is full of IT companies in a quite posh area of Bangalore, so I see foreigners who are usually whites, Africans and East Asians. But 9 days ago(last week Friday), I saw 3 white women separately. They can be Russians or German or from any European or white country including US but idk. They all looked to be mostly in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max. Idk whether they are expats and working in an IT company there or just came to for short duration for a conference or something. The first woman I saw that day while walking to my classes from the bus stop was a blonde but I was too shy to talk to her. The after walking a bit, I saw another white woman and once again I was shy. Then I saw the 3rd one and she was the prettiest of the 3 but as usual I was shy and nervous to talk to her and walked away and later regret it. She was having earphones in her ears tho. Sadly this week I didn't see them again or any other foreign women. The only foreigner I saw this week was a black African guy 2 days ago. As an introvert, I just had no idea how to approach those women and what to even say them and Idk whether they are even single or not. Another thing which made me hesitant is because of the negative reputation Indian men have because of some Indian men online. I was worrying what she would think of me if I tried to talk to her. BTW I also have crush on this girl in the classes where I go who is also within 21-23 age range and is also an Indian and is very pretty almost model like but idk how much chance I have with her and we talked this week briefly too. I really hope I can meet one of those women next week again or maybe a new foreign woman but idk whether I will be able to talk with her or not.
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  24. So is it really a bad idea as an Asian student like me to want to date a Westerner who came to Asia as an expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and I never had a girlfriend before except one first date 6 months ago which never worked out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and a IT hub of India, foreigners do come here as expats too. I graduated college about 7-8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and go for some classes these days. The classes where I go is in an area full of IT companies so I see foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians while going to my classes. 4 days ago(Friday) while going for classes, I saw 3 white women who are most likely from some European country or maybe even American(idk exactly). I saw them separately tho and they were alone. They all looked to be in their 20s too or maybe early 30s at max and they are probably expats too working somewhere there or maybe came for a conference. The first woman I saw was a blonde but I was too shy to initiate conversation with her. Then I saw the second one and once again I was shy and then after walking a bit, I saw the 3rd one who was the hottest of the 3 I saw. I really wanted to talk to her but I got nervous. She was walking with her earphones in her ears. I was really upset for being so shy. I have a decent height(5'9 or 5'9.5), good thick hair and thick eyebrows but wear glasses but I am also well educated with a bachelors degree in electronics engineering and will be studying MBA now. Sadly I couldn't see those foreigners today while going for classes. I just don't know how to initiate a conversation with them either and I am hesitant because of the negative stereotypes about Indian men because of some people. I had no idea what to say them plus I don't even know whether they are even single or not. I already have a crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is an Indian too and within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like too but idk how much chance I have with her either even though we had a conversation briefly again today. I really wish I can see either of those 3 foreigners or maybe some other new foreign lady again this week but I worry that what they will think of me if I tried to talk with them next time.
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  25. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but yesterday I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  26. Is it still a bad idea for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? Are French women better? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  27. Is it still bad for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as an expat or something? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 which didn't work out. I am a well educated guy with a bachelors degree in Electronics engineering and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes and have a decent height of 5'9 or 5'9.5(174-176 cm) and have good thick hair and thick eyebrows. I already have crush on a girl in the classes I go and she is an Indian too and in the 21-23 age range and is very pretty almost model like and we also talk often briefly but I am also keeping an eye on a foreigner. As I live in Bangalore which is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians(mostly Japanese) do come here as expats too. I see some foreigners in the area where our classes is. Usually i was shy to talk to the women but 4 days ago(on Tuesday), I saw this white woman walking while I was going to my classes and I eventually gained courage to strike a conversation with her. She said she is from France so she is a French woman. I was definitely being very nervous while talking with her but she was friendly too and she said she is a student too in an University nearby. I guess she is a foreign exchange student who came to Bangalore. She is definitely within the 20-25 age range or maybe more like 22-26 range if she is a masters student as that University where she is goes is mainly for MBA and other masters degree. Then we said each other it was nice to meet you and then we walked our ways as we were both getting late for our classes and said bye. 2 days ago(on Thursday), I again saw her and said her hello but this time she was having earphones in her ears so she didn't reply to my hello and didn't even look at me. Idk whether it was because of her earphones that she didn't even notice me. I forgot to ask her name that day when we had a conversation. I really would love to get to know her more but I am wondering whether I should again try talking to her on Monday if she is again without earphones. I don't even know whether she is even single or not.
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  28. So there is no chance for an Indian student like me to want to date a foreigner who came to India as expat? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India who never had a girlfriend before but been on a first date 6 months ago at the age of 22 but it didn't work out. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and the IT hub of India, many foreigners do come here as expats or for conferences. I am well educated with a bachelor's degree in Electronics engineering which I completed 8 months ago and I am a soon to be an MBA student and going for several classes, have a decent height of 5'9 or maybe 5'9.5(174-176 cm), have good thick hair and thick eyebrows too. I have seen foreigners who are whites, Africans and East Asians near the classes where I go as the area is full of IT companies. Usually I used to be shy to talk to the foreign women as I am an introvert but today I finally saw a white woman walking and I gathered some courage and striked a conversation with her. At first I was fumbling while talking due to nervousness and shyness but she was really nice and polite and eventually I introduced myself about where I go for classes and that I am a soon to be an MBA student. She said she is also a student in an University which is nearby. I guess she is most likely a foreign exchange student. Then I asked her which country she is from and then she replied she is from France so she is a French woman. She is definitely in the 20-25 age range(or more like 22-26 range if she is masters student as the University is mainly for MBA and other masters degrees) so we are around the same age too as i am 23. Then I said her it was nice to meet her and she too said it was nice to meet me too. Then we went our ways saying bye as we were both getting late for our classes. Idk whether I will meet her again or not. But idk whether she is even single or not. I forgot to even ask her name or phone number or Instagram as I was already nervous while talking with her. Plus idk whether French women really date Indian men or not. Plus I already have crush on this girl in the classes where I go and she is also Indian and is very pretty almost model like and within 21-23 age range too but we haven't met or talked for almost a week as we arent in the same classrooms. The French woman was really very pretty too tho and I am hoping to meet her again.
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  29. You are a Boomer at 63. They are born between 1946-1964 so yeah anyone in their 60s in 2024 is a Boomer. I am a 23 year old guy so I am a Gen Z.
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  30.  @williamsaloka9043  Anyways I am 23 and you are a solid 4 decades older than me. You don't know how it is for us Gen Z guy. I have crush on this girl in my University where are both pursuing MBA and in our first years and she is also within 21-23 age range. I even got her number 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my text on Whatsapp. I asked her yesterday about it and she said she had 2 exams on the same day so she was studying but even I am having exams so idk whether to believe her.
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  31. Damn man really at 45? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a gf before and barely been on 1 first date and only hugged 2 girls in person so far and never been kissed. I had always been very shy near girls due to facing severe bullying and isolation in school so I even avoided talking with girls and then studied engineering in a college which had a skewed gender ratio. Now I am studying MBA and only recently I am talking with girls and overcame my shyness so it took me till 22-23 to finally come out of my shyness. I had a crush last year during my starting of my MBA but I messed up and currently like 2 girls in my MBA. One of them (lets call her D)(22F) is my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I just entered 2nd year 3-4 weeks ago and we only talked in person for 10 days so far. She is a Punjabi girl and I am Bengali. She is an introvert similar to me and soft spoken and I got her Instagram too and we had some decent conversation in person and even sent her a funny relatable meme on Instagram too. Another one is a girl(Lets call her I)(22-24F) who is in the same year of MBA as me but different sections and we only talked in person for 5-6 days so far. She is also a North Indian from Lucknow who came to Bangalore for her MBA and I really like her confident nature while talking and she is beautiful too. We had a good conversation on our 1st interaction and she even shared her umbrella with me when it rained but our next conversations were short as she is accompanied by her friends or keeps seeing her mobile even though she smiles and says me Hi back. I even said her hope she isn't angry on me but she made a surprised expression and said "No not at all. Why?" I am overthinking a lot whether she is interested in talking to me or not. Plus I am currently in my hometown Siliguri for vacation too for a week so I am worried when D or I and even the other girls with whom I talk, will talk to me again after I return to Bangalore and go to college again as there had been an 8-9 days gap in communication because of the trip and we are all in early stages of getting to know each other. Plus as they aren't my classmates, they are in more close proximity to their male classmates than to me. I just recently came out of this shyness so completely clueless about how to make my move on girls and nervous about asking them out and feel that she might not be interested.
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