Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Jordan Green" channel.

I am also a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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@Missunseen I mainly asked because I am worried whether girls will find it a turn off or not. I prefer girls in the 18 to 26 age range because I prefer someone within 3-4 years my age. Honestly after getting ghosted and rejected by girls, I am thinking about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend. She was friend when we both were in elementary school in 2008-2011. We used to play together, study together, have sleepovers etc but since 2011, we never really talked as my parents bought a new apartment and we came to a different area. She is 21 now and only 5 months younger than me. I messaged her on Instagram recently and she still remembers me. I think I kinda fall in love with her seeing her pics on IG as she looks very cute. I really wanna go on date with her but idk how. I would love to give her a long hug too but idk when it will happen.
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They are lucky enough whereas its hard for me to get a girlfriend. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are also 21-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.
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I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and never been kissed. After having no luck on dating apps, I had been chatting with some girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds(mostly 19-22). But there is this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August whom I tried asking out for a coffee 2 days and we had been chatting for a month on insta and we were in the same school too but now in different colleges. And I can't believe that she agreed to meet me. She didn't say when but she said she will let me know when we can meet preferably in the cafe near her college as she is a medical student so she is busy. This is the first time I didn't get rejected or blocked or ghosted so I am still not able to believe it and really happy too but idk when we will meet exactly and I kinda feel worried that what if she ghosts me even though we have been chatting for a month.
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There is no pressure because you are still young. Once you hit 20, you will want a girlfriend. I was also happy being single in my teenage days but since last year when I was 20, I started feeling sad and lonely and wished I had a girlfriend. Now I am a 21 year old guy and still no girlfriend. Most girls in my age group are rude and mean to me and probably only wants gigachad type of guys. Thats why I would go for an older woman who is at least 27 or older because I want a matured woman who would treat me better and love me a lot.
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Same man too but I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after just 3 days and I never had a girlfriend so far and I only have some chat with girls in the 18-23 age range on social media and sometimes on dating apps who eventually ghosts me but I never really talk with a girl in person. Btw say honestly, is it really creepy of me to follow girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days? They are all 20-22 year olds now and I follow many of them and even chat with 2 or 3 of them and I would try my luck on one of them. Why do some people say its creepy even though I knew them high school?
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I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend and still didn't get my first kiss. I had crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but I barely get any matches at all and even if I get one, I end up getting ghosted. I did see a girl a week ago in a class I joined recently for some course and she is from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and she is really beautiful and I think I got a crush on her but I was too shy to even say her a hi that day. Now I can only see her again on 1st Nov as she is out of city for 2 weeks
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You are lucky. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. I feel like I am such a repellant to girls. 2 of my crushes in college rejected me recently. 3 days ago I heard a song which reminded me of a girl whom I knew since my school days and we were in same grade but we weren't classmates and she changed school after 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe 22 now so we are the same age. She is very beautiful and I followed her on Instagram. Her account is private so I sent her a follow request but she literally rejected my follow request and I am so down. Why did she do that? Is it because she can't recognize me or it's just I am too repellant to girls or is it because she finds me lame because I used to get bullied a lot in high school and was considered a loser by most guys in my grade? Is it fine if I send her a message?
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I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend. Honestly got rejected by my crushes in college who are 19-21 age range and tried to connect with girls whom I knew in high school by following them on IG but they didn't follow me back and they are all 21-22 year olds now. Most girls on dating apps who are 18-22 age range are also mean to me and one 19 year old girl who matched with me turned out to be very mean to me yesterday and insulted me. So I am planning to go for older women now who are 27 and older. I want a matured woman now who will treat me better and love me.
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@elbiscochogamer8095 Thanks but she still haven't followed me back on Instagram. I probably have no chance with her I guess. I remember seeing her breaking up with a guy from her class when we were in 10th grade and that guy was much smarter and popular than me whereas most guys in my grade used to pretty much consider me a loser and I used to get bullied a lot in high school so she probably still finds me lame maybe and that's why she isn't following me back but idk.
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@cadedrury No she is on Instagram so I am trying to know her by chatting with her on Instagram but she isn't even accepting my follow request.
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Hey man are you seriously 46? Did you have a gf before? I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend so think how sad I feel. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college recently(both my juniors). One is 19 and the other one is 20 or maybe 21. I confessed my feelings to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she rejected me. I use dating apps too but no luck so far and most of my matches who were in the 18-24 age range ghosted me. But yesterday I saw another girl in a class where I joined for some extra courses. She is a college student too but from a different college and she is 19 or 20 or maybe 21 and very beautiful and has a very beautiful voice and I might get a crush on her too. But I only saw her for the first time yesterday so I was too shy to initiate any convo with her. Sadly I won't be able to see her for 2 weeks because she is going out of station so she won't come for the classes until 1st Nov.
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Come on dude you are 27 now. You are a grown adult now so you should feel like an adult. Even I am a 21 year old guy which is a grown adult too and it has been bothering me so much that I am an adult and still no girlfriend or even my first kiss yet and you are 27 and not ready?
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True especially in my case. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. Got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently. Last week, I got matched by a 19 year old girl on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all in the app. So I am worried that this might not work so I tried keeping an option by following a girl named Britney on Instagram who was my classmate when we were in 6th to 10th grade. I remember having crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or probably even 22 now so same age as me. She was the prettiest girl in our class in high school days and she is even prettier now at 21 and I tried following her on Instagram today but she didn't even accept my follow request yet.
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What age range guys do you prefer? I am a 21 year old guy and got matched with a 19 year old girl 6 days ago on one of the dating apps I use and we had a decent chat for the past 6 days. We live in the same city but different college. But I will be turning 22 this December and her birthday is in June so I will be turning 22 about 6 months before she turns 20. Is it fine for a 21-22 year old guy to date an 18 or a 19 year old girl?
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@emiemorin1540 he is so lucky for dating an older girl. I literally got rejected by a 24 year old girl recently and she said I am young for her even though I am 21. The oldest I would date would be 28 for now but most girls who are 24 and older doesn't want me and don't take me seriously. I wonder how some guys get older girls whereas I am an adult in my 20s and still 24+ girls find me young for them.
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@SphaxPlays I would date any girl within the 18 to 28 age range. I am 21 so 24 is only 3 years older than me. The oldest I would go for is 28 which is only 7 years older than me
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@Provo Beats I have been using tinder, bumble and hinge for 4 months but barely get any matches. I got few matches recently but they always end up ghosting me and idk why.
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At least you had your first kiss. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had his first kiss and I never had a girlfriend. After having no luck with like 4 girls I know in real life, finally 2 days ago I was matched with a girl on one of the dating apps who isn't ghosting me so far. She is 19 years old and we had a decent chat for the past 2 days and she too lives in my city but we are in different college and different course too. Do you think I will at least get my first kiss this time? I am scared that she might ghost me too. I will be turning 22 this December and I at least want my first kiss before 22nd December which is my 22nd birthday.
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@whatdoinamethischannel9749 BTW you are 18 now so say me what's your opinion about a 21 or 22 year old guy dating an 18 year old girl? I am a 21 year old guy and recently got crush on a girl in a class where I go for some courses. She is a college student and I think she is 19-21 age range but idk her age so there is a possibility that she can be 18 too. Should I try my luck even if she is 18? I will be turning 22 this December. She could be any age in the 18-21 age range.
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@veep0stal are you a girl? How old are you? I am a 21 year old guy btw.
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@veep0stal yeah I got crush on a girl in a class where I joined recently for some course. She is also a college student but from a different college. She is most definitely in the 19-21 age range but she can be 18 too as idk her exact age yet but I was too shy to even say her hi haha. She is really beautiful and has a cute voice too.
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@SniperFoxx420 Dude leave her alone. She is only 17 and you are 20. You are an adult so leave her alone. Go pick on someone your age.
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I am kinda unlucky too. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend. Got rejected by 3 girls who are 19-21 year olds so far(2 from my college and 1 from a dating app). I tried following few girls on Instagram too whom I knew in my high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now but only 7 of them followed me back and 2 of my high school crushes who are 21-22 now didn't even accept my follow request. Yesterday I got matched by 2 girls on dating app Hinge. One is 21 and the other one is 23. Unfortunately, the 21 year old girl stopped replying after a small chat whereas I had a decent chat with the 23 year old and she is super cute and I really wish she won't ghost me too.
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@jamespain2138 btw man tell me is 22 really too old for an 18 year old? Like I said I am 21 and will be turning 22 on 22nd December and few days ago I was also matched with an 18 year old girl and we had a nice chat. Yesterday we added each other on Instagram and I was complimenting her too but she said she won't date me because I am not her type and my personality is opposite of what she is looking for and suddenly she started saying she won't date someone 4 years older than her and said I am too old for her. How is 22 too old for 18? I am not even 22 yet. Anyways I found out, she doesn't even live in my city but still why did she match with me if my age was a problem? My age 21 is clearly written on my profile.
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