Comments by "Manosij Roy" (@manosijroy8282) on "Cole Hastings" channel.

  1. Damn man that's sad and a bit scary too that you are 40 and in the same boat as me. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  2. Thats sad man. I can understand how you feel as I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  3.  @ceooflonelinessinc.267  I am from Bangalore in India. You?
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  4. I just want my first kiss for now. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  5. You are probably from the boomer generation I guess who had things easier in the past. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 8 weeks ago and never had a gf and obviously a virg. It's much harder for us Gen Z guys to get a girlfriend compared to the Gen X and boomers when they were my age.
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  6. How old are you now? I am a 22 year old guy(so a Gen Z young man) who never had a girlfriend and no first kiss yet etiher. After getting rejected by 3 girls recently, I asked out my childhood friend on 6th May 2023 via Instagram and she is 21 year old now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it on 3rd June but she replied yeah ok which is a positive one but she is again offline and didn't reply yet about when we can meet up. I also had chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school but we didn't know each other those days and now we chat daily too about everything and send each other virtual hugs too but we are in different colleges now. Her college is super near to my home tho so can I ask her out even though my childhood friend didn't reject me and would she date someone like me who isn't her college? I like both of them honestly now.
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  7. How old are you man? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon. Those 3 girls are around 22-24 year olds and very pretty and initiated convo with me saying hi and telling names and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. Today too they tried to talk with me but I am still kinda shy near girls in person so we didn't talk much but for the past 2 days I can't stop thinking about them. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also the three 22-24 year olds on whom I newly got crush.
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  8.  @GoldKingsMan  It's hard for me to initiate a convo with a girl whom I don't know in person. I need to chat with them first on social media to gain some confidence before talking with them in person. I am afraid that they would find me creepy and I may get into trouble. I used Instagram to get to know even the 2 girls in my college on whom I had crush too before confessing my feelings to them because I was shy to initiate a convo with them in person for the first time.
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  9. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After having no luck with 2 girls in my college and 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 3 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 3-4 days, the chats were decent enough. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  10.  @samgaming0626  btw what's your opinion about a 22 year old dating an 18/19 year old girl if both are in college? Like I said I turned 22 recently and I like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 next month.
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  11. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  12. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I got only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  13. Is 22 still fine for an 18 or 19 year old? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I kinda like a girl in my college who is 18 turning 19 in a couple of weeks.
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  14. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  15. I am a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend before. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 19-22 age range. Yesterday I ended up messaging another girl who is 21 and suddenly she got angry on me for randomly messaging her even though i just messaged her hey whats up and she told a guy who is also 21 and we were friends during high school. He got mad at me because she happened to be his girlfriend but I didn't know it and he called me a creep and also said me to never message any girls and he kept insulting me for that. I got angry and gave an angry reply and blocked him. Suddenly I saw 3 or 4 girls blocked me which means I lost 4 followers. I am really angry and upset. I never said anything wrong to those girls and the chats were normal about college, hobbies, music etc and I was just trying to get to know them.
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  16. How old are you? I guess you are 40+ that's why saying these. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  17. Idk I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is 1 month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?
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  18. Even dating apps aren't giving me any luck. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed so far. I had a crush on 2 girls in my college recently. One is 19 and the other one is 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I confessed to that 19 year old girl on 5th August 2022 that I liked her a lot after chatting with her on Insta for 3 weeks but she eventually rejected me. I use 3 dating apps but barely get any matches and even if I get one, I get ghosted by the girls and one 20 year old girl who matched with me on one of the dating app even rejected me because she only prefers bad guys. Btw a week ago, I did see a girl in a class where I joined recently. She is also a college student from a different college and she is definitely 19-21 age range but idk her age so she can be 18 too and I think I got a little crush on her too but I was too shy to initiate a convo with her that day. I haven't been able to see her after that as she is out of city for 2 weeks and will come for classes again on 1st Nov but idk whether she would want me as she is from a different college and also I am a bit shy.
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  19.  @Herozonex200  Not really. I started feeling lonely since last year at 20. Now I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and 3 days ago got horrible rejected by a 19 year old girl who matched with me dating app and she called me ugly and said no girl will ever want me. But on Instagram, I saw some girls who were suggested to me. I knew them when we were in high school so I followed them but we weren't even classmates but still in the same grade. They are all 21-22 year olds. Today 2 of them did follow me back and both are 21 so the same age as me but I haven't messaged them yet and idk what to write because we never really interacted in high school days due to not being classmates.
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  20. I already feel as if I am running out of time at just 22 as I never dated and just got my first handshake with a girl on 13th July 2023. I am a 22 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. 2 months ago, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 next month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply but she did agree to meet up and we said we can meet some weekend but idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on IG. But since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes for preparing of exams to get into an MBA B school as I am about to graduate college very soon and in the classes, I got a new crush on a girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now and she even said me hi on the first day of our class and we did handshake and said our names to each other and it was the first time a girl did handshake with me. Even though 3 other girls too did the same, this girl is just too sweet as she even asks me whether I had lunch or not and yesterday she even asked me how far my home is from the classes. I answer her but I am still shy to initiate any convo with her further. I really wanna get to know her and always think about her. Idk whether it will be fine to message her on Whatsapp from our class Whatsapp group. I also had been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now. We used to be in the same school but didn't know her in school and now we are in different colleges. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I got rejected by 4 girls recently plus she still seems to see me just as a friend. I am confused as I like this 19 year old too along with my childhood friend and now I also got a new crush on this 22/23 year old in the class.
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  21.  @fredkeeler1234  I honestly got a massive crush on one of the 3 girls a lot but I am just too shy to initiate a convo with her. She is also 22 or maybe 23 and I am also 22. But she is just too pretty and cute and I cane to know from another guy on our class that she had a 7.5 year relationship and just had a breakup recently whereas I never even been on any date. I tried messaging her on Whatsapp yesterday as we have a class whatsapp group but deleted the message as I got scared thinking what if she gets angry on me for messaging her.
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  22. I am a guy who turned 22 almost 9 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend and its bothering me so much. But at 22, I wouldn't go for a woman your age as you are same age as my mom and I prefer 18-26 age range and 27 or maybe 28 is the absolute oldest i would go for now. I use dating apps but hardly any matches. I got matched with 2 girls 2 weeks ago. One is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April but no plan of first date or anything. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I do follow and chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are all 19-22 age range and I started chatting with this girl for 4 days who was my junior in my school days. Now she is 20 about to be 21 after 4 months and we only sent virtual hugs to each other but she only sees me as a friend so idk whether I have chance with her or not
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  23. Btw why am I not getting matches even on Hinge? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and have been using tinder, bumble and Hinge since June or July 2022 but pretty much no matches at all on tinder and bumble but got 15 matches so far on Hinge but most of the girls ended up ghosting and unmatching me. But Hinge is different than tinder. On tinder, its just swiping left and right whereas on Hinge, you can send likes and even comment. I comment and ask questions to the girls but still hardly any matches. Why is it that way?
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  24. ​ @christiandenault7606  Is it still bad to dm girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me? Like I said I am 22 now and never had a gf and after having no luck on dating apps, I have been following and messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 19-22 age range. I don't have to worry about fake accounts because I have seen them in school so they are all real people but many have ghosted and blocked me too because I was too shy near girls throughout my school days so never really interacted with them so many of them probably sees me as a stranger. Only 4 or 5 girls chat with me. 2 of them both 20 year olds are sweet to me and we send virtual hugs to each other and a 19 year old girl too chats regularly with me and she is single but has a male bestie so idk. I wanna try my luck on this girl who was my childhood friend in elementary and now she is 21 turning 22 after 4 months and I wanna ask her out but we haven't talked in person since 2011 and she isn't that active on Insta so idk whether she will be comfortable.
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  25.  @BLUESKY-zt1nv  wow man you are 60 and never even held a girl's hand? Why? What happened? I am in the same boat as you but much younger. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend or even my first kiss yet. After getting rejected by 2 girls in my college and no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since my high school days and also no luck on dating apps, finally 7 days ago, a girl matched with me on one of the dating apps and for the first time, I had a decent chat with a girl on dating app without getting ghosted. She is a 19 year old girl and for the past 5-6 days, the chats were decent enough but yesterday she didn't come online so we couldn't chat. We live in the same city but different college and different course too. Do you think this time I will at least get my first kiss? I also get worried thinking what if she ends up ghosting me too or wouldn't want me.
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  26. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never kissed or hugged a girl in real life. After having no luck on dating apps, I started messaging girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 18-23 year olds now(mostly 19-22). 4 days ago, I tried asking out one of the girl for a coffee who is 19 turning 20 in August. We had been chatting on Instagram for a month and were in the same school too but now in different colleges. She literally agreed to meet me up and said she will let me know when we can meet. I was super happy as this was the first time a girl didn't reject or block me(I was rejected by 3 girls before that) but I could see her replies getting slower and shorter after that. Yesterday she said she was just having mood swings so I said her how to feel better if she is sad and then sent her a virtual hug and then she replied Thanks and suddenly I saw she blocked me. I was shocked because we planned to meet up one day but it can no longer happen as I have no other way of contacting her. What hurt me a lot is that she gave me false hope by not rejecting or blocking me 4 days ago itself when I asked her out and she just agreed to it. Pretty much tears came into my eyes.
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  27. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  28. Woah damn man really at 41? Its scary because I am in the same boat as you but almost 2 decades younger. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and no first kiss yet either. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  29. Yeah girls are so confusing. I am a 21 year old guy turning 22 after 8 days and its been bothering me that I still don't have a girlfriend. I am on dating apps but only got some matches. Most of these matches are 18-23 year old girls and they end up ghosting or rejecting me. Sometimes I get ghosted for no reason at all. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me as well. I follow some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 20-22 year olds now and I even chat with some of them but many times, they kinda ignore my messages too for a day or so.
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  30.  @samgaming0626  it wasn't a relationship. She rejected me horribly after I asked her out and insulted me. I turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and still no girlfriend.
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  31. Wow 50 and never had a gf? BTW I am a 21 year old guy and never had a girlfriend. Btw is it fine for me to think about trying my luck on a girl who was my childhood friend? There is a girl named Aishu who was my close friend when we were in elementary school and we were neighbors too so we used to often study together, play together, make silly drawings together etc and even fight sometimes but again become friends. But in 2011, my parents bought a new apartment so we came to a different area, so me and Aishu never really talked with each other since 2011. Now we are both 21 and I saw her on Instagram few days ago and I tried following her but she isn't even accepting my follow request and idk why and it makes me sad. I really wanna talk with her, hug her and kiss her but I feel like it won't happen.
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  32. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?
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  33. Not everyone has a social life especially the introverts. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even hugged or kissed a girl in real life. Recently I got unmatched by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) on dating app after asking them out for a coffee even though we had a good chat. I also have been chatting with a girl who is 19 turning 20 in August on Instagram for a month and she was in the same school as me but now different colleges and I asked her out too for a coffee and she even agreed to meet up one day but she suddenly blocked me last week. I also tried asking out another girl 6 days ago and she is turning 20 after a couple of weeks and she too was in the same school as me but she blocked me immediately after I asked her out. Now my last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and she is 21 now turning 22 after about 4 months. I asked her out too for coffee and I genuinely like her a lot but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to that message yet. I am honestly hoping a positive reply from her and she agrees to meet up but I am worried too that she might reject me but idk.
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  34. Is it still as much of a problem at 22? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. I got rejected by 3 girls very recently(I got rejected by 7 girls so far in total). I got blocked by 2 of them on Instagram after I asked them out and they were in the same school as me too and one of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but blocked me after few days. Today I tried asking out another girl who is 20 and she too was in the same school as me and we had been chatting on Instagram for 2-3 months but she too rejected me saying that I am nice but she isn't comfortable with meeting up with me so we can't meet up and she unfollowed me on Instagram. But there is still some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 after 3-4 months and I genuinely like her too and we used to be very close friends when we were both in elementary school but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I am still waiting for her reply and I am honestly expecting a positive reply but idk.
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  35. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get only 3 matches on tinder and 5 matches on Hinge so far after using them for almost 5 months but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  36. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  37. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and its definitely bothering me. I got rejected by 4 girls recently. I asked out my childhood friend 2 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so she took a month to reply to it but she agreed to meet up and again didn't reply for over a month about when we can meet up. I have been chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023. She is 19 now and she used to be in the same school as me but we didn't know each other in school days and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We chat daily and she shares everything to me and I do the same too and we even send each other virtual hugs but there is still no flirting yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but I am nervous especially after getting rejected 4 times recently. Is 1 month long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not?
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  38. I am a 21 year old guy who never even had a girlfriend or even his first kiss yet. I got rejected by 2 girls in my college recently and had no luck with 2 girls whom I knew since we were in high school. I get some matches on tinder and Hinge but I always end up getting ghosted so it doesn't work. But I did get matched by a girl last week on the dating app meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat for the first 5 days but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. She did come briefly online for 2 minutes yesterday and went offline again. Is she ghosting me or is there some other reason that she isn't coming online?
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  39. Wow man its scary that you are 40 and in the same boat as me who is about 2 decades younger than you. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. I had crush on 2 girls in college recently but both rejected me. I use dating apps but having no luck either. I got 2 matches recently on tinder. One of the match is 22 years old and the other match is 20 years old who matched with me today but both of them never replied to my message yet. 2 weeks ago, I did see a girl in a class I joined recently for some classes. She is from a different college tho and she is definitely 19-21 years old but she can be 18 too and I was too shy to talk with her that day. I can again see her on 1st Nov but I am scared that I might still be shy near her.
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  40.  @kingrobotnik6950  I am myself an Asian. I am an Indian living in Bangalore in India but born in West Bengal in India
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  41. Damn man. I am a guy who turned 23 over a month ago(on 22nd December) and I never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 4-5 months ago. She was 19(turned 20 a couple of weeks ago) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and got my first hug but yet to get my first kiss and I pulled her cheeks a lot but 2 weeks after the date, she turned out to be mean to me and blocked me everywhere. She basically used me for free lunch and to take pics of her which she can post on social media. I also have a big crush on this girl who is in the class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 6 months ago and planning to study MBA. She also turned 23 just 2 weeks ago and she has been my crush for 6 months. She has called me cute several times and I pulled her cheeks too and 2 days ago I even gave her a chocolate but I am shy near her and girls in general in person so she is the one who initiates convos with me and she has some male friends too so I feel worried. 5 days ago, I got a new crush on this another girl in the same institute who is also within 21-23 age range and she is one of the prettiest girl I have ever seen. We aren't in the same classrooms and I have been too shy to approach her but finally with the help of my friends and one of her classmate, I did approach her and was able to talk to her asking each other's names and which classroom we are in but I am afraid that she is probably out of my league but her classmate said she is single but idk whether my nervousness was a turnoff for her and I am still nervous about talking with her next time again. 3-4 months ago, I also went out with a female friend in the same class in that institute who is also 23 and we had a lunch in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date and we had fun and might go out again. For the past 7 months, I also have been chatting on Instagram with this another girl who is 19(turning 20 in April). She used to be in the same school as me but didn't know each other in school days. We are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs daily in the chats and plan to meet up to eat somewhere too and she is very sweet. Sadly in the end I am still single.
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  42. Idk I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I got rejected by 4 girls recently and recently I asked out my childhood friend too who is 21 turning 22 soon and she actually replied yeah ok but she isn't that active on Instagram so she gives replies after weeks or even a month. We decided tho we will meet some weekend but still idk when exactly due to her being so inactive on insta. I got crush on 3 more girls for the past 3 days in a class where I started going for exam preparation for getting into MBA as I am graduating college very soon but I just have a massive crush on one of them who is also 22 or maybe 23. She initiated convo with me saying hi and telling her name and asking mine last week Thursday(our first class there) and we did shake hand and it was the first time I shake hand with a girl. I really can't stop thinking about this girl as she is very pretty and she is very sweet as she tries to initiate convo with me asking whether I had lunch and today she also asked how far my home is from the classes but I just answer what she asks and I am too shy to initiate a convo further with her but I really wanna get to know her and idk whether it would be fine to message her on Whatsapp by seeing her number from our class whatsapp group. I also have been chatting with another girl who is 19 year old on Instagram for over a month. We both used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school and now we are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home. We share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too. I wanna ask her out too but I am scared due to my previous rejections and she still seems to see me as a friend. Now I am confused too as I like this 19 year old girl, my childhood friend and also this new 22/23 year old on whom I newly got crush.
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  43. But it's true. I am a 21 year old guy and I am a vìrgin and I still didn't even get my first kiss yet. Tinder isn't giving me luck as I only got 3 matches so far and none of the girls replied to me. On another dating app Hinge too I got 5 matches so far and even there I get ghosted and unmatched. Finally I got matched by a girl last week on Meetme and she is 19 and we live in the same city but different college. We had a decent chat but for the past 2 days she didn't come online at all. We still chat on the dating app and haven't added each other on other social media yet. I am worried thinking why she isn't coming online.
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  44. I am turning 22 tomorrow and I never had a girlfriend before. 3 days ago, I was matched with another girl who is 18 turning 19 in Feb and she seemed quite interested in knowing me but when we shared about our hobbies and I told her about my singing which I upload on my youtube channel(not this one, another one). She said she was gonna check it and then I saw she unmatched me. I guess she found me ugly in my videos or my singing is bad. I got matched by another girl too who is 21 on that same day 3 days ago and we had a good chat too and even added each other on Instagram but she said I seem like an introvert and she didn't chat much with me. When I asked, she said she is a medical college student so she isn't that much free. Idk whether she lied or she is genuinely busy.
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  45. Dude at least you are only 15 and have plenty of time. I am a 21 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and still no first kiss either. I will be turning 22 next month just 3 days before Christmas and it has been bothering me so much. You are still a kid and shouldn't worry too much about it.
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  46. I am a guy who turned 22 just 8 weeks ago and never even had a girlfriend before and its bothering me a lot. I use dating apps and get few matches but get ghosted. Recently got 2 matches, one of them is 18 and another one is 20 turning 21 in April and they are sweet but still no plan of first date or anything. I also got rejected by 2 girls in my college few months ago. I chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in my school days and they are within 19-22 age range. I chat with 3 of those girls so far. One of them is 19 almost 20, another one is 20 and another is 22. The 19 and the 22 year old doesn't chat regularly with me whereas the 20 year old does chat with me regularly but she gets a bit uncomfortable when I compliment her or something so I am too scared to even ask her out as she definitely doesn't seem to want anything more than just friends
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  47. I am a guy who turned 22 just over 5 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and never had a real kiss with a girl either except getting kissed on the cheek by a female friend when we both were in 4th grade but we were kids. I use dating apps and rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls and they end up ghosting me. Only one girl who is 19 on dating app didn't ghost me yet and we have things in common to chat about but idk. I also had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago but both rejected me. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are 20-22 year olds now. I had the best chat with a girl who is 20 now and she was 2 years my junior in school. She is better than most of the girls I have chatted with and we had been chatting for the past 10 days. But 4 days ago I kinda messed up by giving her a cheesy compliment after only 6 days of chatting with her which made her a little uncomfortable but I apologized and said I only said it to make her smile so she forgive me and thanked me. We still chat but idk whether I can try out my luck on her or not.
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  48. I am a 22 year old guy(same age as your daughter) who never had a girlfriend before. Recently after getting rejected by 3 girls, I asked out my childhood friend for a coffee who is 21 year old now turning 22 after 2 months by messaging her on Instagram but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it and she agreed by replying yeah ok but she is offline again and didn't reply yet about when we can meet. I also have been chatting with another girl for the past 3 almost 4 weeks on Instagram who is in 1st year of college now and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other in our school days. We chat daily and share about everything and send each other virtual hugs too and I started liking her too but I like my childhood friend too and she didn't reject me either so can I ask out this other girl? It looks like she still sees me as only a friend but will it take longer for her to develop feelings for me or is 3-4 weeks already long enough? We are in different colleges but her college is very near to my home.
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  49. Why is being over 25 such a big deal even though late 20s is young too? Btw I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
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  50.  @fayelis  but I am 22 now so is it still bad? I still have 3 more years to go to be 25 so give your opinion. I am a student who will be graduating college in mid 2023 and then study MBA so I will still be a student for 2 more years.
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