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@Dharengo the fact you blame me or anyone for the fact you can’t be authentic or vulnerable shows that you need others to feel good about yourself. This is insecurity. If I don’t say nice things you think less of yourself. This is literally insecurity
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@Dharengo for you to be vulnerable means you’re open to being wounded. Weakness is your inability to withstand being wounded. There is a difference between weakness and vulnerability. Being emotionally vulnerable isn’t a weakness it is a strength because you can withstand being wounded. People with insecurities and complex trauma are afraid of vulnerability because of negative emotions that can come with it. Vulnerability is the only thing that leads to true connection with others
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@Dharengo in complex trauma vulnerability leads to pain and shame. That is why some see it as weakness. For you to say vulnerability is bad is like saying emotions are bad. It takes strength and courage to show all of yourself that is why you’re incorrect in arguing against what I’m saying. If you want to run away from the conversation idc
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@Dharengo if you avoid being vulnerable you’re still feeling the emotions, you’re just hiding them. You couldn’t be more wrong and it’s a shame that trauma has you believing vulnerability is negative
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@Dharengo best of luck healing
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@Dharengo nothing I said is random. I explained exactly why you’re incorrect in your assertion of seeing vulnerability as a weakness. I explained why it requires strength and courage to be vulnerable . Only people who have dealt with complex trauma see vulnerability as a negative because they fear what can come with it. Again if you think vulnerability is bad you think all emotions are bad. That is a sign of complex trauma. So I wish you the best in healing
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@Dharengo “every time a dude tries to open up people like you ….. make everything their own fault.” “… exemplified the reason men don’t open up” See you’re trying to blame me or others for your negative perception of vulnerability. I explained clearly why vulnerability is a strength and being afraid of vulnerability is a weakness. Nothing more nothing less
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@skorpion7132 where do you live?
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