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  30. Just a random Pedagogic Worker here; It is vital to let kids have their own property, and to treat (at least a part of) their items as their property. If you do not, they will never have a sense of something being theirs and get problems sharing (because they think they'll lose it forever) have problems standing up for themselves whenever people take their stuff later on, they will overcompensate and hide their items away or get anxiety when getting their clothes dirty/ripped at adult age, even when it is théir own clothing and they no longer have to answer to their parents for it. It is similar to the problems that kids and adults experience when parents snoop in their room or take away their privacy. It gives the child the feeling that they are part of the parent and not an indidivual human being. This will not help them later in life, to say the least. It can give people severe problems. It is important that the child, as soon as possible, realises that they are not 'a part of their parents.' Children that don't develop this realisation, will have attachment issues, (and so on and so on, I can list them all.) I would also like to refer anyone here with kids or the future plans to have kids, to read the book "the Happiest Kids in the World" (bringing kids up the Dutch way) which also touches upon this subject, amongst many others. Studies have shown that, though there is ofcourse no perfect way, the Dutch way comes closest to create happy children that are responsible individuals that are not afraid to stand up for themselves, will respect people once they earn the respect and will know who they are.
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