Comments by "D. San" (@DSan-kl2yc) on "Aba N Preach" channel.

  1. Can't say it hasn't happened to me.
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  2. It's insane that it doesn't protect the boy in this. IX is suppose to be gender neutral now.
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  3. Everyone wants to have a problem with everything but that girl will be fine. She'll probably get married between 28-34 and have like 2-3 kids.
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  4. they're just their for the cameras ect.
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  5.  Moe Green  The glasses one was cute(in the other group). But the one the dude chose was probably the best looking girl in that group. Kinda harsh. If they actually had time to get to know each other. To be honest the experiment was a fail cause people have time to talk longer on tinder and even go on a few dates. Not even the crappiest dating site or app was as shallow as this.
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  6. It's not even humiliating. Y'all way overreacting.
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  7. There's a quote about that. That the biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it's happened.
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  8. Rappers were always the wannabes.They are the heavy metal equivalent. They pretend to be something and and maybe achieve it. Look at early rappers, they were not the gangstas. They were the people looking at them. And the people rapping a fantasy about their street cred when they didn't really do anything that dangerous. There were exceptions, and I don't know enough to know if they myth started getting actual hard people involved but it was always like that. I remmeber having that thought a long time ago.
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  9. It takes a lot time to gather that data and we're in the pandemic. No one is immune. Even the flu people get we have immunities to. Lung damage was found in autopsies. And some young people do get it bad. That's proven. As well as the fact that they could spread it to other people who might get it more badly even if it isn't too bad for them. Jesus Christ. Americans.
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  10. She can blame dudes but she's terrible to women
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  11.  @ImtheONEnotthetwo  could be more than just a jaw. The kind of accident that destroys your jaw will probably hurt the rest of your body and potentially the brain.
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  12. I agree. Women act like the kind of guys that they make fun of.
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  13. BS on most of that. She's doing young people TikTok shit. I don't see any behavioral issues. She sounds like a tex Mex casual girl who is even a bit of a lady. Her attitude isn't aggressive either. It's not atypical of her area. She's really just still young.
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  14.  @softersideofc.c.5655  Well sometimes women and men do date bad people and we should listen to the advce of our family and friends.And sometimes those same people are too prejudice and biased.Hopefully it's both coming from caring about you. Take it in and see how true it is, and how much value that truth has.
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  15. You guys are projecting so much shit on this girl over one dude, in one date. As if everyone should like him or a list. I didn't like him. So I can understand if anyone else didn't. He's the type of person I wouldn't want a converstion with cause it doesn't seem genuine. Who wants a sales pitch or a performance in a conversation.
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  16.  @HomeVidEdd  There's nothing to indicate his life wasn't in a good trajectory until his dad died except her opinion that he was childish. She gave no examples of this. So yeah he does deserve praise. He got over his dad's death, losing his job, and getting dumped. It might not be something outside of what's expected ,but it's not easy, and it takes effort. He did well.
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  17. I think a black kid would rather be a knight or Prince slaying evil like in sleeping beauty, then Cinderella. But maybe not, I don't know. I love romance but just switching the kids roles doesn't make it a boys story.
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  18.  @JT-bt6jy  no they weren't. It's common enough knowledge that it's recommended to the public. The issue was small. And they would have seen the temporary plates. Completely unnecessary. And they're getting raked over the coals for it. One of them was fired. The department disowned their actions.
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  19. I liked her, like how she came off as a person. Like she had advice. I don't think she was being mean. I don't think people should be destroyed. She was helpful and honest.
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  20. Nah I think she's probably straight up a lesbian and the other is maybe bi.
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  21. That's not bad. It's like a consolation prize.
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  22. I liked his attitude. I think cause he knows he's not serious. Maybe you aren't looking for anything big but I think plenty of people aren't that casual for some rando to do it. Compare to the people who aren't serious and seek it out. Like he's not serious. If you wanted casual sex, it honestly wouldn't be that hard. So don't take it beyond that cause most people are looking for a relationship and wouldn't care. At least towards women as far as I know. The amount that care is probably .1 or .01 in either only virgins or rejecting virgins ect.
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  23. If that was suppose to be a date, these people did not go in open minded. They destroyed each other.
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  24. She probably had issues and felt it said something bad about her looks maybe. My friend, as a joke, asked this girl if she can hook me up with someone, and she said something about my looks ect. But this girl was fat as hell. My friend said he goes for big girls cause other girls have too much ego maybe( he said they were bougie). But it's like all girls are like that. Weight or not.
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  25. Omg I was about to comment the same. She seems to like the power she has over her.
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  26.  @muscledoggs566  maybe it was something you both chose at the time. Maybe it was what made sense. Alternatively I can see the counter argument that partner already support that person through that period ect. But I think there are circumstances where it makes sense. Like if you agree to put someone through school and they were going to do the same for you but then they divorce you or cheat in you ect. I think you still owe them that promise. Or for a short period of time as that stay home person is transitioning to living independently. You can't just throw someone out on the street if they aren't guilty of anything. We need to be reasonable instead of reactionary to extremes. But payments/alimony should also be reasonable, either for time, or amount. To meet the ends of the goal.
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  27. You can see his whole life how he would be different. Don't be ridiculous.
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  28. Then why get married. A prenup has it's uses beyond keeping money. If anything, keep money is one of its lower priority ones. Everyone is assuming that they'll be much wealthier than their spouse too.
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  29. ​ @ange6950  A deadbeat is just a poor person who can't afford something. If a guy can't pay, he should just have to take care of the kid for a bit. Women aren't arrested just because they have financial problems, they usually get help. Edit: I'll add that there are bad people regardless of gender, but like the drug war, locking people up is a bad solution that makes the situation worst. And there might be legitimate reasons. And like I said, partly it's silly that guys have to pay for the privilege. And while I do think some guys should be punished for being bad parents, women both chose that person, and that person did not have the right to decline or knew about it very well. And that is unfair. There are cultures that led women abandon their children, and come back into their lives without issue. And that was praised. But these people have no sympathy for the situation of people that might really have their lives in disorder. How is that unworthy of sympathy.
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  30.  @Carlinisalive  I have a theory that the dude thought he was a stalker or something. Or maybe it was just to let him know he could leave or she didn't tell the dude who he was.
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  31.  @dawnramsey9574  he doesn't sound like a narcissist cause he had no air of self importance. Talked about and acknowledged his bad points. He didn't seem to think he deserved it or anything.
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  32. Wow. Like cheating is all the explanation she needs
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  33. A loving parent is a wonderful thing. it's like some people don't understand that dads are loving parents too. And if the parents are together, and they're loving to both themselves and their child, then that's a damn good template for that child for a future relationship and a future child that they might have.
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  34. That's not how it works. They didn't fine her features that pretty.
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  35. What you're saying is obvious. But there's always people here that think people from other countries are wrong and don't know their lived experience. They literally told a Haitian that they know more about Haiti
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  36.  @xxcrisxx3693  you're not wrong. They're just bad people that don't care about hurting people much. They have excuses. The type that doesn't feel bad till after the fact. Or selfishly when it happens to them.
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  37.  @t_papi  that's not what's wrong. Are you being dumb on purpose. At the basic level it's willfully hurting his girl. Then lying to her. Then manipulating her. And this dude in particular does that at a huge level, to multiple women, simultaneously, while being fake as hell. Imagine stringing a long and staying with someone that abuses kids just to sleep with the mom or whatever. That's psychopathic. Whatever believes you have. They're unrelated to your beliefs on how to treat people. If you're beliefs are that it's okay to do this to everyone, then you're a shit person.
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  38.  @user-pd9ju5dk5s  a rape is not sexual relations. Crazy person
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  39. If she worked that hard, that still says something. She put the time in to get that paper.
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  40.  @ILoveTheGreyScale  whatever your point was, was lost in a diatribe as you went off on a tangent. Not everyone in university is rich. That's why student debt is a problem. So most aren't. You need to realize this weird bias you have. Americans seem to go to these extreme polarized positions.
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  41. So he won a pissing contest? And that's the point? Like I don't understand viewing things that way.
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  42. That's what I always think in these things even back in the reality show, and dating show days. They want to "win". Not even clout other than thinking themselves the "best" girl, in a pagent sort of way.
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  43. There's no incel movement dude. It's a situation. And even the stereotype is them hating on women. Which isn't true either. Some have crossover with like mgtow, and the colored pills, ect and have some bitterness. But even within that stereotype.of the forum ones, a lot just act hopeless and just admit or think that they're very ugly or unattractive/undesirable in general.
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  44. This is why some girls think y'all hate women. Nothing indicates bad intentions on her part. That's just something you made up. She picked the safest and nicest girl that he has the most chance with, that won't screw him over, and that he'd get along with.
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  45. that was always her definition.
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  46.  @junkmail1111  I don't know where she says kidnapped but she put it as just missing or dead. But if the hypothetical is "you know I was kidnapped, would you wait for me or remarry" and that's a very different question. It's more about holding and waiting for someone to be returned, if you knew they were kidnapped. It would be more about waiting. But that's not how it sounded to me. If someone doesn't know if their married, we're back to thinking someone is dead.
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  47. I think she's just acting tough. If it had been in private without the camera she would have bullshitted something else. But what really sucks is how little we can do about it, especially with morally bankrupt people that can't even feel shame or sorry for their actions. Once she said that, once she tanked her relationship just to be tough on camera, there's nothing that one can do or say.
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  48. He's married tho. And that marriage rate is wrong. And the physical danger is much less.
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  49. What does yelling at customer service have to do with it. Who was on the attack there. I think filming the whole interaction was wrong. Like why attack someone for showing frustration. The lack of sympathy is insane. You can't attack someone and then blame them for getting hurt and broke. You broke it. It's on you.
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  50. Maybe you're right since you are a girl, and there is a stereotype of even broken artists getting women. But that is a really dumb idea. It's a stereotypical idea. Most men aren't aggressive in the first place. It relies on an illusion, instead of the individual.
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