Comments by "sharper68" (@sharper68) on "The Damage Report" channel.

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  15.  @johnkeane1419  These stupid stats are a reason for you to fail, if that is what you need have at it. Being a brooding defeatist spells like death to everyone. The idea only 20% of men are interesting is empty and incorrect unless you really focus on a tight specific young demographic. Even then it is a an optertunity to be interesting in a sea of those who do not normally get looked at. Young men are struggling more than all men are. Once getting into relationships was was the primary focus of young woman. That has changed and I see it has upsides for both men and woman. Getting married young is what we have traditionally have done but I do not see it as something we should be pushing for now. I generally see young marriages as deeply problematic for many reasons. Not the least of which is financial in this day and age. Better to get married later when you have a idea of who both partners are and what they want. Better to do it when you are not hand to mouth, with 3 roommates to help you pay for your rent. Getting married later ensures the person you marry is more likely to be who they are as they age. Marrying someone in their early 20's ensures you will go through a time when they grow up and change. Without good communication this is not always ideal for a relationship. I do not see these stats as catastrophic as some might. What does concern me is many of these guys also do not have friends. I see this issue a symptom of the real problem, it speaks to why they do not have female relationships if they can not even foster one with fellow men. Are men shallow and greedy too, is that why these guys are alone?
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  16.  @johnkeane1419  I think there is a narrative attached to your concerns which does exist, but it does not have to change or apply to your life unless you let it. Soft skills are valuable and possible to learn if you are missing them. The idea men can't do that kind of work is silly and is like saying woman can not lead because of some random and empty reason. Woman do find men attractive, that they do not find twenty something men very intersting is not a shock to me. As a group, they regularly have no idea who they yet are or what they want from life. Strait out of mom's basement you are not as good of a catch as you imagine yourself. No one wants to take on roll of mother and housekeeper in their 20's. I do not blame woman for looking at these guys who are just starting out with no relationship experience, no life experience, limited prospects and an inherited set of poorly thought out expectations as less than interesting. The key to being interesting to any modern woman is to have your own life, to be independent, comfortable and happy in your skin without needing anyone else. Loneliness and unrequited desire smells like death to everyone. Owning yourself and who you are goes a long way to being attractive to both friends and lovers. This is not just an issue with woman, these guys are apparently having issues forming any relationships. That is the root of the problem. This is not about being easy, life was rarely ever easy for anyone. In the past. it was often much much harder. This is about taking advantage of the new freedom you have to pick who you want to be and to own it. Do so and you will find people that appreciate your focus.
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  29.  @freedom-not-oppression  Your spin indicates this is a huge problem that somehow undermines all woman, this is dishonest bullshit used to attack trans people. The distinction about them being biological woman or men is empty and fucking totally stupid in this context. Some men are great at sports, some are not. Some woman are great in sports and some are not. There will always be athletes in a given sport who are better than others because of some genetic advantage, such is the nature of sport. In almost every iteration of sport it is largely irrelevant if woman and men play on the same teams. The Taliban like need to separate woman and men from playing together is a legacy of a time when woman were not allowed to play practically anything. The separation of the sexes is in sport is a cultural phenomena that has been breaking down in the last decades. This is especially true outside the professional level where most players of all genders play. The fact is woman have been playing in men's leagues and have been for a while. Your faux outrage over protecting woman is thinly veiled bullshit from a group who happily strips other fundamental rights of woman as a focus. It is a thin cover for your real hunger to be a bigot. Someone that crushes others rights over your feelings because you do not understand or like them. Your LARP as caring about them is exposed as a naked lie. Unless you are trans, this issue has literally NOTHING to do with you. Your whiney nonsense is akin to complaining you are playing in a league where there are people that are better than you in your sport; then seeking to ban them for it. You appear to love oppression ... a name change may be in order for your account
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